The Toybag Guide to Playing with Taboo

The Toybag Guide to Playing with Taboo

Author: Mollena Williams

Publisher: Toybag Guides

Published: 2010-03

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781890159757

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For those turned on to giving or receiving power, the hottest fantasies are often those that are the least acceptable -- those that mirror historical oppression (Nazism, plantation slavery), crime (incest, ageplay, rape), and other "unacceptable" behaviors. Because these fantasies are deeply charged, they are among the riskiest and most challenging to enact. Yet it is possible, and often very rewarding, to do so. In this guide, Mollena Williams, a Black woman who enjoys roleplaying racism and slavery with the right person, explains ways to safeguard these difficult scenes to ensure the emotional and physical safety of all concerned. With sections on playing with sexual taboos like age and rape, cultural taboos like race and identity, and physical taboos like scat play, this is a thorough and responsible guide to BDSM's furthest regions.


The Toybag Guide to Erotic Knifeplay

The Toybag Guide to Erotic Knifeplay

Author: First Last

Publisher: Greenery Press (CA)

Published: 2015-02-25

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781890159665

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A shiny blade against smooth soft skin is terrifying, of course, but for many people also highly erotic. Miranda Austin and Sam Atwood, knife play aficionados and sex educators, have dissected the sexual appeal in this handy little guide to sexy, responsible, non-invasive knife and sharps play. You'll learn about the cultural significance of knives as fetish objects, phallic symbols and power icons, how to choose the best knife for your scene, and how to look scary, but be safe. An essential guide for anyone wanting to explore this tantalising danger/pleasure.


To Deprave and Corrupt

To Deprave and Corrupt

Author: Catherine Scott

Publisher: McFarland

Published: 2019-05-27

Total Pages: 200

ISBN-13: 1476672830

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Thousands have run afoul of Britain's Obscene Publications Act--from Victorian erotica presses to 21st-century dominatrices. At a time when the internet has made sexually explicit material ubiquitous, why are British traditional media still regulated by a vaguely worded law from 1857? This comprehensive analysis of obscenity in British culture explores what is considered obscene, who gets to decide, and how class, race and gender inform laws regarding adult content. The author describes how obscenity laws disproportionately affect the BDSM subculture, the LGBT community and feminist porn performers.


Playing Well With Others

Playing Well With Others

Author: Lee Harrington

Publisher: SCB Distributors

Published: 2012-02-29

Total Pages: 200

ISBN-13: 0937609595

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Whether you're a trembling novice or a jaded expert, there's always something new to be discovered in the endlessly changing, complex and titillating world of kink. While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink *culture* -- the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community. You'll learn to: • Examine your own motivations, needs, wants and desires • Ease your way into established communities • Understand etiquette in different adventurous sex communities • Familiarize yourself with the many types of events available to you • Care for your relationships as you explore new territory • Negotiate for play and aftercare • Go back to the “world at large” without ruffling feathers • ...and, of course, answer the all-important question: What do you wear?! The team of Harrington and Williams offers 30-plus years of experience in diverse kink communities: top, bottom and switch; gay, bi and straight; female, male and trans; white and POC. Both former titleholders and international educators, they are an unbeatable pair of "sexual sherpas" with an inimitable voice and a great deal of wisdom. Playing Well With Others is an unprecedented and essential guidebook for anyone who wants to explore or understand the "community" aspect of the kink lifestyle.


50 Shades of Kink

50 Shades of Kink

Author: Tristan Taormino

Publisher: Cleis Press

Published: 2012-12-26

Total Pages: 86

ISBN-13: 1573449407

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Tristan Taormino can tell you everything you want to know about the world of kink, and more! Operating on the pleasure principle 50 Shades of Kink is a truly helpful how-to that is a perfect beginner's guide into the realm of kinky sex and can also serve as a wonderful refresher course. Whether you want to get up close and personal with blindfolds, crops and paddles or just looking for some inspiration to keep your love life fresh, 50 Shades of Kink is just the book for you and your lover(s). • techniques and creative ideas for bondage, spanking, flogging, sensation play, rough sex and more • lessons on how to eroticize power, cultivate deeper connections and incorporate kink into your sex life • role-playing fantasies from the popular to the taboo


The Toybag Guide to Age Play

The Toybag Guide to Age Play

Author: Lee Harrington

Publisher: SCB Distributors

Published: 2011-05-02

Total Pages: 200

ISBN-13: 0937609498

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Adult babies, sassy schoolgirls, bratty teens - all hold an honored place in the erotic roleplaying imagination of many adults. You'll learn how to express yourself through your ageplay role, choose a level of play that feels safe yet exciting, negotiate to be sure your needs get met, and find great props and equipment to inspire your play.


Superfreaks

Superfreaks

Author: Arielle Greenberg

Publisher: Beacon Press

Published: 2023-08-01

Total Pages: 282

ISBN-13: 0807020222

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A deliciously subversive and endlessly informative celebration of “kinky f*ckery,” as told by a lifelong student of kink and fetishism Neither a how-to guide to getting it on nor a collection of sensational erotica, Superfreaks is instead an empathetic journey into the widely misunderstood world of kink. Lifelong practitioner and student of “kinky f*ckery” Arielle Greenberg draws on her study and teaching of BDSM and fetishism to introduce kink’s history and trailblazing kinksters like Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, Mollena Williams-Haas, and Tom of Finland explain the science behind sexual fetishes delve into the psychology behind power exchange parse the politics of sexual deviance Superfreaks is an accessible, interactive. and raunchy experience that invites the reader to engage their kinky curiosity. Written with folks of all genders and sexual orientations in mind, the book features resources like quizzes readers can take with their partners to help assess sexual compatibility sidebars with lists of kinky representation in literature, film, music, and more an A-to-Z glossary of kinky gear, from collars and floggers to zentai suits and beyond Superfreaks challenges and dismantles longstanding myths about kink perpetuated by pop culture phenomena like Fifty Shades of Grey and 365 Days. In doing so, Greenberg names the systemic marginalization kinky people experience and argues that we must build a society that accepts and celebrates sexual diversity of all kinds. The book also affirms the importance of consent and not “yucking someone’s yum”—key concepts inherent to the practice of kink that are essential building blocks for safer, more inclusive sex.


The Ultimate Guide to Kink

The Ultimate Guide to Kink

Author: Tristan Taormino

Publisher: Cleis Press

Published: 2012-03-01

Total Pages: 466

ISBN-13: 157344782X

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The Ultimate Guide to Kink is the first major guide to BDSM in a generation—a bold and sexy collection of essays that run the gamut from expert how-to tutorials to provocative essays that delve into complex questions about desire, power, and pleasure. The book brings together diverse voices from the kink community in an unprecedented way: each chapter is written by a different sexuality/BDSM educator. Divided into two sections, the first section features thorough, thoughtful pieces—on everything from flogging to bondage—packed with techniques and beautifully illustrated with original images from artist Katie Diamond. The second section is dedicated to role-playing fantasies and personal manifestos. From age play to masochism, these chapters cover some of the edgiest, most taboo and controversial elements of kink in depth. The Ultimate Guide to Kink features the expertise of renowned educators writing passionately on their favorite subjects, including Patrick Califia, Midori, Laura Antoniou, Barbara Carrellas, Lee Harrington, Jack Rinella, Lolita Wolf, Madison Young, Hardy Haberman, Felice Shays, Ignacio Rivera, Sarah Sloane, Mollena Williams, FifthAngel, and Edge. It will educate, inspire, and challenge both newcomers to the world of kink and experienced BDSM players.


The Toybag Guide To Foot And Shoe Worship

The Toybag Guide To Foot And Shoe Worship

Author: Midori .

Publisher: SCB Distributors

Published: 2010-09-08

Total Pages: 200

ISBN-13: 1890159972

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This is a handy manual to the delights of feet and footwear from Fetish Diva Midori. Includes * A guide to the varieties of feet, boots and shoes, and those who love them * How to give pleasure to feet * How to enjoy being the recipient of foot and shoe worship


The Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning

The Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning

Author: Janet W. Hardy

Publisher: SCB Distributors

Published: 2011-10-27

Total Pages: 200

ISBN-13: 0937609552

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A primer on the history, glamor, technique and art of erotic caning, including sections on cane styles and materials, pacing, warmup, aftercare, positions, first aid and safety issues. Includes a special section making and maintaining your own canes from inexpensive natural materials! About the Toybag Guides. A new concept from Greenery - sturdy little 4" x 6" quick reference guides you can drop in your toybag for less than $10! Each of these books contains at least as much information as you could get from a full day's workshop on the topic taught by one of the leaders in the scene - people like Jay Wiseman, Janet Hardy, Midori and John Warren. We'll be bringing out new ones every season. Start your collection now!