The Secret Laws of Narcissistic Abuse

The Secret Laws of Narcissistic Abuse

Author: Avery Hayes

Publisher:

Published: 2019-07-06

Total Pages: 184

ISBN-13: 9781076710574

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If you want to find out whether your mind is being controlled by a narcissist, then keep reading...Narcissists are puppeteers aiming to turn you into a loyal and submissive pet.They are disgusted with who they really are. So, in order to tolerate themselves, they build an artificial persona, they wear a charming mask they use to seduce you. And they want you, because they need someone they can have control over in order to feel powerful and validated.At first glance, they seem like very nice and interesting people; they are kind, funny, and most of all, they appear to really understand you. All of this is just an illusion. Since they believe no one could love them for what they are, they have learned ways to memorise behavioral patterns in order to understand how the mind of their ideal prey works; to recognize it and to trap it. They plunge their hands deep inside your psyche and gain complete control over your mind.By the time they have secured you, the mask falls apart piece by piece, and you get to see what was hiding behind.They start to be unreasonably demanding and to play the victim to make you feel guilty. They are always right, your opinion has no value and everything that goes wrong is your fault. After some time, your self-esteem is drained, you would like to run but you feel damaged at the same time. After being so viciously exploited by a person that appeared to care so deeply about you, how could you ever trust again? Or maybe you just feel so deprived of your value that, even if you know you're not happy, you can't imagine a life without your narcissist: that's the foundation of codependency.In "The Laws of Narcissistic Abuse" you'll find out the key strategies narcissists implement to manipulate your psyche as well as the way to reverse the damage they have caused. In this book, you will discover: The narcissists' Achilles heel: science-based techniques to reverse engineer narcissists and hit them where it hurts the most How to build a solid shield against guilt, shame and other negative emotions How to get over post-breakup stress disorder and trust again after being the victim of a narcissist The sneaky ways your narcissistic partner tricks you into thinking he/she really cares about you The unpleasant truth behind why some people are attracted to narcissists like a magnet... and how to break this toxic cycle Will a narcissist ever really change for love? Codependency: why you will miss your narcissist even if you were the one breaking up, unless... The dirty purpose hiding behind the narcissist's lies and how to catch them Why you should be extra worried when a narcissist is being nice to you Yes, narcissists do cheat A LOT, and here's why... How narcissists manipulate your vision of the world into thinking that you need them Vengeful narcissists: how to leave when you fear the consequences Why some narcissists always talk about the huge success they will achieve in their lives... but they actually won't And more... This book is my legacy: as a survivor of narcissistic parents and multiple narcissistic relationships myself, in 2011 I decided to dedicate my life to decoding how narcissists' predatory strategies and counterstrategies really work. It's a formula that consists of the very best approaches that I've found and applied over the years, so even if you're an HSP or an Empath you will be able to recognize narcissists quickly and in every context, build impregnable boundaries, put an end to codependency and finally take your life back again.If you're ready to go down the rabbit hole and see what's inside the narcissist's mind then scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" button to get your book instantly!


Betrayal Trauma Recovery

Betrayal Trauma Recovery

Author: Anne Blythe

Publisher:

Published: 2019-05-05

Total Pages: 90

ISBN-13: 9781096317623

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A daily journal for women wondering if their husband's behavior is abusive. For women trying to determine if they should leave or stay. To help women decide if they want to divorce. A daily journal to help victims understand the reality and severity of their situation. For women who are considering separation or divorce due to their husband's lying, gaslighting, infidelity, emotional abuse, narcissistic behaviors. Visit btr.org for more information, and listen to the Betrayal Trauma Recovery podcast found on iTunes, Google Play, Spotify and other podcasting platforms.


Better Apart

Better Apart

Author: Gabrielle Hartley

Publisher: HarperCollins

Published: 2019-01-29

Total Pages: 242

ISBN-13: 0062689428

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“Potent, accessible tools for your family and your future.” —Gwyneth Paltrow Marital strife and divorce can be your chance to profoundly transform yourself, your mindset and your relationship with a more harmonious and steady vision. While many of us may be better together, some of us can actually become better apart. What if you emerged from your divorce stronger and more resilient than ever before? Better Apart is the first book to apply the life-changing, healing wisdom of meditation and yoga, combined with practical advice, to help anyone going through the painful and seemingly intractable realities of divorce. Gabrielle Hartley and Elena Brower are warm and caring guides who can help you compassionately part from your partner. Whether your separation is amicable, or your ex is combative, Better Apart can help you find peace, calm, and hope. Blending practical advice from a legal perspective together with spiritual wisdom, Gabrielle and Elena are experts and realists who have created a simple five-step process that uses original meditations, perspective-shifting exercises, and fresh suggestions to help navigate the common legal and emotional pitfalls of divorce. Don’t worry if you’ve never tried yoga or mediation; Gabrielle’s insight buttressed by Elena’s practices and exercises are accessible for all. Together, they show you how to meaningfully shift your mindset and to move forward though any—or all—parts of this emotionally fraught process. Better Apart radically reframes the way couples experience, execute, and recover from when “for better or worse” is no longer an option, and helps you find the road to a new mindset and better life.


ANTI NARCISSIST (3 in 1 Collection)

ANTI NARCISSIST (3 in 1 Collection)

Author: Avery Hayes

Publisher:

Published: 2019-12-17

Total Pages: 494

ISBN-13: 9781676489962

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Do you struggle with abusive personalities? Discover the 21 key techniques to disarm a narcissist and reclaim your control Anti-Narcissist is a 3-in-1 powerful tool specifically assembled to allow HSPs struggling with codependent relationships and narcissistic abuse to build solid foundations for a toxic-free and independent life. Book 1 The Codependency Recovery Blueprint: A practical guide to stop struggling with codependent relationships, obsessive jealousy and narcissistic abuse This book aims to provide you with a detailed account of how you can heal yourself from codependency. It offers real-life guidance, techniques, and practical exercises up-to-date with the best and most recent scientific literature. You'll discover: The key symptoms to help understand what type of codependent you are Whether you can still fix your relationship or if it is better to run away as fast as you can How to prevent codependency from sabotaging your sexual life Science-based techniques to overcome the fear of rejection and abandonment How to break up with no regrets ...and much more Book 2 The Gift of Being a Highly Sensitive Person: A practical guide to awaken the empath within, turn your sensitivity into a superpower and stop narcissistic abuse from ruining your life Here we will discover how sensitivity can be an asset if mastered; we will take the evolutionary leap and learn how it can be used to enhance extra-sensory perception, unlock spiritual gifts, and activate consciousness in order to develop both oneself and others. You'll discover: Emotional reactivity management: how to control your emotions in high-stress situations The right choice: understanding what you really want when too many options overwhelm you Intimacy: what you need to know as a HSP to build a healthy relationship that can last a lifetime The path of mastery: turn your sensitivity into a real-life superpower Things you need to know to thrive as a HSI (Highly Sensitive Introvert) ...and much more Book 3 The Secret Laws of Narcissistic Abuse: 21 psychological weapons to read the mind and counter manipulate a narcissist, even if you're an empath plagued by codependency Discover the 21 key strategies narcissists implement to manipulate your psyche and how to neutralize each and every one of them, so they won't have any power over you anymore. You'll discover: The narcissists' Achilles heel: science-based techniques to hit a narcissist where it hurts the most (use carefully) How to get over post-breakup stress disorder and trust again after being the victim of a narcissist The unpleasant truth to as to why you are attracted to narcissists like a magnet, and how to break this toxic cycle The answer to whether a narcissist would ever really change for love Why your narcissist will most likely cheat on you, and how to catch him/her Vengeful narcissists, and how to leave when you fear the consequences ...and much more My mission is to not just provide you with a set of the most effective techniques to outsmart narcissists, but to ultimately turn you into a 2.0 version of yourself. A new you: emotionally stable, confident and aware of the amazingly rare gifts you have. As a result, even though I will teach you how to spot toxic personalities in the blink of an eye, you probably won't even need that; most of them look for weak people they can exploit, and as a new, strong and confident person, they will just avoid your path. If you're ready to start this transformational journey together, then click the "buy now" button to get your copy!


The Narcissism Epidemic

The Narcissism Epidemic

Author: Jean M. Twenge

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2010-04-13

Total Pages: 356

ISBN-13: 1416575995

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Narcissism—an inflated view of the self—is everywhere. Public figures say it’s what makes them stray from their wives. Parents teach it by dressing children in T-shirts that say "Princess." Teenagers and young adults hone it on Facebook, and celebrity newsmakers have elevated it to an art form. And it’s what’s making people depressed, lonely, and buried under piles of debt. Jean Twenge’s influential first book, Generation Me, spurred a national debate with its depiction of the challenges twenty- and thirty-somethings face in today’s world—and the fallout these issues create for educators and employers. Now, Dr. Twenge turns her focus to the pernicious spread of narcissism in today’s culture, which has repercussions for every age group and class. Dr. Twenge joins forces with W. Keith Campbell, Ph.D., a nationally recognized expert on narcissism, to explore this new plague in The Narcissism Epidemic, their eye-opening exposition of the alarming rise of narcissism and its catastrophic effects at every level of society. Even the world economy has been damaged by risky, unrealistic overconfidence. Drawing on their own extensive research as well as decades of other experts’ studies, Drs. Twenge and Campbell show us how to identify narcissism, minimize the forces that sustain and transmit it, and treat it or manage it where we find it. Filled with arresting, alarming, and even amusing stories of vanity gone off the tracks (would you like to hire your own personal paparazzi?), The Narcissism Epidemic is at once a riveting window into the consequences of narcissism, a prescription to combat the widespread problems it causes, and a probing analysis of the culture at large.


The 48 Laws of Power

The 48 Laws of Power

Author: Robert Greene

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2023-10-31

Total Pages: 481

ISBN-13: 0670881465

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Amoral, cunning, ruthless, and instructive, this multi-million-copy New York Times bestseller is the definitive manual for anyone interested in gaining, observing, or defending against ultimate control – from the author of The Laws of Human Nature. In the book that People magazine proclaimed “beguiling” and “fascinating,” Robert Greene and Joost Elffers have distilled three thousand years of the history of power into 48 essential laws by drawing from the philosophies of Machiavelli, Sun Tzu, and Carl Von Clausewitz and also from the lives of figures ranging from Henry Kissinger to P.T. Barnum. Some laws teach the need for prudence (“Law 1: Never Outshine the Master”), others teach the value of confidence (“Law 28: Enter Action with Boldness”), and many recommend absolute self-preservation (“Law 15: Crush Your Enemy Totally”). Every law, though, has one thing in common: an interest in total domination. In a bold and arresting two-color package, The 48 Laws of Power is ideal whether your aim is conquest, self-defense, or simply to understand the rules of the game.


How To Kill A Narcissist

How To Kill A Narcissist

Author: J.H. Simon

Publisher: J.H. Simon

Published:

Total Pages: 144

ISBN-13:

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Narcissism is an overwhelming and confusing topic. But when you reveal its mask, you see that it is basically a lie, told to those who are vulnerable. Narcissistic abuse, by nature, is designed to keep you trapped in shame-based vertigo. It doesn’t just go away because you know it exists. Narcissism creates a set of beliefs, behaviours and paradigms in its target which must be changed from the inside. ‘How To Kill A Narcissist’ is a book with two aims: 1. To reveal the rotten core of the narcissistic personality so you can see it clearly 2. To present you with an inside-out strategy for healing, recovery and freedom Whether you are dealing with narcissistic parents, husbands, wives, friends, bosses or colleagues, the same philosophy will apply. After reading ‘How To Kill A Narcissist’, you will: - Become aware of the damage narcissistic abuse has done to your psyche and how to heal it - See how the narcissist uses shame as a weapon to fool you into feeling inferior - Understand the playing field which narcissists thrive on and how to stop playing their game - Learn how the narcissist uses mind control to break down and rebuild your identity for the purpose of subjugation - Gain tools for disarming a narcissist i.e. starving them of their narcissistic supply - Have taken a closer look beyond the label of narcissistic personality disorder ‘How To Kill A Narcissist’ takes an enlightening look at the dynamic between a narcissist and their target. It takes you on a deep journey and describes: - How we unwittingly qualify as targets of narcissists - The shame/grandiosity continuum and how the narcissist uses it to crush your self-esteem - The law of grandiosity and how it influences our relationships with the self-absorbed - The effect that narcissism has on its target including: toxic shame, a dissociated mind and a weakened ego - The obstacles which keep you trapped in a cycle of narcissistic abuse: the psychological cage, love starvation, low shame tolerance, guilt and conditioning to shamelessness Using an inside-out approach, ‘How To Kill A Narcissist’ presents the seven practices for recovery and healing: 1. Get allies: Boost self-esteem through limbic resonance 2. Give shape to your true self: Uncover disowned parts of the self and restore wholeness 3. Skill up: Empower yourself 4. Flex your muscles: Challenge the psychological cage and come out of hiding 5. Even the scale: Restore balance to your relationships 6. Boundaries: Foster a strong sense of self and firmly protect it 7. Scorched earth: Disengage from those who wish to manipulate you Each practice is designed to instil you with independence, strength, emotional resilience and awareness while allowing you to cultivate balanced, loving relationships and pursue a life of passion. This is the art of killing a narcissist.


Dangerous Normal People

Dangerous Normal People

Author: L.K. Hawksby

Publisher: Grosvenor House Publishing

Published: 2019-09-23

Total Pages: 256

ISBN-13: 1786236028

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This memoir will take you on a remarkable and sometimes dark journey through a young woman’s two (very different) domestically abusive relationships. With her experience laid out in diary form, spanning November 2013 to early June 2016, the author reveals the subtle and not so subtle “red flag behaviours” of Casanova Psychopaths, Malignant Co-Dependents and the common Narcissist. The reader will also learn about the Narcissistic Virus and discover how sometimes victims can be so broken by NPD Abuse that sometimes the only way to survive is to burn all your bridges and walk into the fire with the Devil himself. The author did not escape unscathed. She suffered the Narcissistic Virus, gained criminal convictions and still displays many C-PTSD symptoms. This is an honest and impactful insight into her journey. This book is designed to be mainly educational so will suits not only victims and survivors but also professionals interested in making judicial, social care and health systems better. L.W. Hawksby is a “Ninja Donor”. She ensures that a percentage of the profits from the sale of her books is donated to human and animal focussed charities, each year on Halloween, which is the favourite time of year for Rufus, her youngest son, who has Asperger’s Syndrome.


The Narcissist in Your Life

The Narcissist in Your Life

Author: Julie L. Hall

Publisher: Da Capo Lifelong Books

Published: 2019-12-03

Total Pages: 345

ISBN-13: 0738285781

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A highly illuminating examination of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and its insidiously traumatic impact on family members and partners. Packed with insight, compassion, and practical strategies for recovery, this is a must-read for survivors and clinicians alike. Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) has a profoundly dehumanizing effect on those subject to its distortions, manipulations, and rage. The Narcissist in Your Life illuminates the emotionally annihilating experience of narcissistic abuse in families and relationships, acknowledges the complex emotional and physical trauma that results, and assists survivors with compassionate, practical advice on the path of recovery. Whether you are just learning about NPD, managing a narcissistic parent or other family member, leaving a narcissistic relationship, or struggling with complex PTSD, you will find life-changing answers to these common questions: What are the different forms of NPD? Is my partner a narcissist? Why do I keep attracting narcissistic personalities? How can I help my kids? What happens in a narcissistic family? Why did my other parent go along with the abuse? Why am I alienated from my siblings? Why is it so hard to believe in myself and my future? What is complex PTSD and do I have it? What are the health problems associated with narcissistic abuse? Journalist, survivor, and NPD trauma coach Julie L. Hall provides a comprehensive, up-to-date, affirming, and accessible guide that will not only help you understand narcissistic abuse trauma, but will help you overcome trauma cycles and move forward with healing.


How The Secret Changed My Life

How The Secret Changed My Life

Author: Rhonda Byrne

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2016-10-04

Total Pages: 272

ISBN-13: 1501138278

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An awe-inspiring compilation of the most uplifting and powerful real-life stories from readers of the worldwide bestseller The Secret. Discover how everyday people completely transformed their lives by applying the teachings of The Secret. Since the very first publication of The Secret a decade ago, Rhonda Byrne’s bestselling book has brought forth an explosion of real people sharing real stories of how their real lives have miraculously changed for the better. How The Secret Changed My Life presents a selection of the most heartwarming and moving stories in one inspirational volume. Each story provides an authentic, real-life illustration of the pathway that leads to success in every area of life: money, health, relationships, love, family, and career. The people in How The Secret Changed My Life show time and again that no one is excluded from living the life of their dreams.