Over 1,300 Al-Anon members willingly shared their stories. They tell how their views and practices of intimacy, including sexual intimacy, were affected by alcoholism, and how Al-Anon's tools and spiritual principles helped them change these views and practices. Courageous members share their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. "Intimacy in Alcoholic Relationships", is the hope that many other members can find hope and inspiration in expanding their recovery.
Al-Anon gently touches the heart of all who have been affected by another's alcoholism, & with this series, offers readers positive ways of dealing with sobriety & sex in relationships with alcoholics. Series: 0-910034-88-5, 150 pages, $7.50. Includes these booklets: 0-910034-85-0, 50 pages, $2.50; 0-910034-58-3, 50 pages, $2.50; 0-910034-87-7, 50 pages, $2.50. HOMEWARD BOUND - "I'm frightened...he's coming home for treatment," "Our relationship is a mess. Will we ever be able to put it back together again?" "Did the treatment work? What if she drinks again?" HOMEWARD BOUND guides family members into their own recovery process by responding to their basic concerns & sharing how the Al-Anon Twelve Step program offers new alternatives. ISBN 0-910034-85-0, 50 pages, $2.50. LIVING WITH SOBRIETY: ANOTHER BEGINNING - Here are the very personal experiences of individuals, who after waiting & praying for the sobriety of their loved ones, found themselves coming to terms with sobriety's joys, surprises & challenges. ISBN 0-910034-58-3, 50 pages, $2.50. SEXUAL INTIMACY & THE ALCOHOLIC RELATIONSHIP - Sexual Intimacy & alcohol? Find out how others face this personal problem--the pain & the obstacles, as well as the healing & growth possible when applying the Al-Anon program. ISBN 0-910034-87-7, 50 pages, $2.50.
Janet Woititz, mother of the recovery movement, sensitively addresses the barriers of trust and intimacy that children learn in an alcoholic family. She provides suggestions for building loving relationships with friends, partners, and spouses.
This title says it all: When You Love a Functional Alcoholic, what is one to do? With good grace, a basis in the twelve-step program, and years of experience, Dr. William F. Kraft guides the reader through this most parlous journey-and back to wholeness and holiness and happiness. The book comprises thirty-three bite-size chapters-since it presumes readers are spending much of their time caring for (or bailing out) the alcoholic they love. Specific cases are described in particular, such as parents who live with teenaged alcoholics; children who have to care for elderly alcoholics; and what to do with that sometimes dry/sometimes even sober alcoholic who always seems to ultimately fall off the wagon. Making the book unique are the many stories of former patients, clients, and members of AA in their own words (anonymously, of course). These testimonies, which do not always end in a pot of gold, make not only for compelling (and sometimes heart-rending) reading, but also add a patina of authenticity to the book: if these people can learn to help the alcoholic they love, then perhaps you can too. Ultimately this is a book of acceptance, forgiveness, and love-all of which must begin with oneself. A bibliography completes the work. Book jacket.
Here is the first major work that examines the benefits of applying social understanding to addiction. The author demonstrates how a social perspective shifts the paradigm from viewing a person in terms of "particles" to viewing a person in terms of relationships. This reorientation creates promising new opportunities for intervention. The book discusses recent advances in theories on community capacity building, resilience, and social ecology alongside their practical applications. Written in an engaging style, the book features numerous vignettes, key points, and illustrations that help you apply the material in your own practice.
Alcohemy is a proven process for anyone questioning the role of alcohol in their life. It gives you the power to succeed, revealing that alcohol doesn’t free you to be yourself, but actually limits your full potential. With Alcohemy, you can recover from the depths of despair to become the “master of your fate, and captain of your soul.” Alcohemy is a proven 13-element plan that will help you become alcohol-free based on real-life, personal experience. It will change you from the inside and deliver the outward results. You will not have to constantly resist drinking or be labeled an alcoholic for the rest of your life; the desire to drink will truly disappear. The Alcohemy process can be accomplished discreetly in the privacy of your own home. This book highlights the real cost of alcohol-related problems globally and personally and puts the power to succeed back in your hands, where it should be.
Recovering addicts are faced with many challenges, and these challenges can often extend to their romantic partners. During the recovery period, couples often struggle with overcoming feelings of betrayal and frustration, and may have a hard time rebuilding trust and closeness. While there are many resources available to recovering addicts, there are limited resources for the people who love them. In Loving Someone in Recovery, therapist Beverly Berg offers powerful tools for the partners of recovering addicts. Based in mindfulness, attachment theory, and neurobiology, this book will help readers sustain emotional stability in their relationships, increase effective communication, establish boundaries, and take real steps toward reigniting intimacy. The material in this book is drawn from the author’s successful Conscious Couples Recovery Workshop. With more than 25 years in the field, she has developed a unique set of exercises that address the issues faced by couples in recovery. This book addresses the roles that both partners play in recovery, and aims to help readers develop a new appreciation for one another and improve self-confidence and acceptance. The road to recovery is never an easy one, but by building a strong support system, the chances of success are exponentially greater. For more information on Berg’s work, visit consciouscouplesrecovery.com
"We can find hope from those who have walked this path before us. As we begin to heal from our losses, we in turn offer this same hope to others. Through our willingness to face our loss openly and honestly, we discover our strength and resilience - not despite it, but because of it"--Publisher.
