To Hell and Back: My Life as an Abused Husband

To Hell and Back: My Life as an Abused Husband

Author: Kimber Broughton

Publisher: iUniverse

Published: 2012-04-28

Total Pages: 236

ISBN-13: 9781475906301

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Domestic abuse at the hands of a spouse is a bitter reality that many men experience but are conditioned by society to hide. Abuse of men at the hands of women is something that does occur, but because of male pride and cultural conditioning, it often remains in the shadows. In To Hell and Back: My Life as an Abused Husband, author Kimber Broughton narrates the true story of Jonathan, a man who suffered a morass of abuse, psychological torment, and financial violation by his manipulative former wife, Stacy. This memoir describes Jonathans twelve years of abusethe hell he experienced, how he handled the cruelty, and how he was finally able to leave the marriage and overcome the after effects. This memoir tells one mans brutally honest story in order to share it with other men who are living through the nightmare of abuse. Detailing how to recognize the warning signs of abusive relationships and how to fight to get free of them, this book expresses that rebuilding pride and finding real love again after an abusive relationship is possible.


The Emotionally Abusive Relationship

The Emotionally Abusive Relationship

Author: Beverly Engel

Publisher: John Wiley & Sons

Published: 2002-11-29

Total Pages: 272

ISBN-13: 0471374474

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"Engel doesn't just describe-she shows us the way out." -Susan Forward, author of Emotional Blackmail Praise for theemotionally abusive relationship "In this book, Beverly Engel clearly and with caring offersstep-by-step strategies to stop emotional abuse. . . helping bothvictims and abusers to identify the patterns of this painful andtraumatic type of abuse. This book is a guide both for individualsand for couples stuck in the tragic patterns of emotionalabuse." -Marti Loring, Ph.D., author of Emotional Abuse and coeditor of The Journal of Emotional Abuse "This groundbreaking book succeeds in helping people stop emotionalabuse by focusing on both the abuser and the abused and showingeach party what emotional abuse is, how it affects therelationship, and how to stop it. Its unique focus on the dynamicrelationship makes it more likely that each person will grasp thetools for change and really use them." -Randi Kreger, author of The Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook and owner of BPDCentral.com The number of people who become involved with partners who abusethem emotionally and/or who are emotionally abusive themselves isphenomenal, and yet emotional abuse is the least understood form ofabuse. In this breakthrough book, Beverly Engel, one of the world'sleading experts on the subject, shows us what it is and what to doabout it. Whether you suspect you are being emotionally abused, fear that youmight be emotionally abusing your partner, or think that both youand your partner are emotionally abusing each other, this book isfor you. The Emotionally Abusive Relationship will tell you how toidentify emotional abuse and how to find the roots of yourbehavior. Combining dramatic personal stories with action steps toheal, Engel provides prescriptive strategies that will allow youand your partner to work together to stop bringing out the worst ineach other and stop the abuse. By teaching those who are being emotionally abused how to helpthemselves and those who are being emotionally abusive how to stopabusing, The Emotionally Abusive Relationship offers the expertguidance and support you need.


How He Gets Into Her Head

How He Gets Into Her Head

Author: Don Hennessy

Publisher:

Published: 2012

Total Pages: 273

ISBN-13: 9781855942202

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Working with both the perpetrators and victims of intimate partner abuse has given the author a unique insight into the tactics employed by the male abuser. He suggests that male intimate abuse and violence are driven by an entitlement to sexual priority and that the other tactics of control and violence are motivated by this entitlement. It is this motivation that distinguishes male intimate violence from other forms of `domestic violence' such as female to male violence and elder abuse --


Betrayal Trauma Recovery

Betrayal Trauma Recovery

Author: Anne Blythe

Publisher:

Published: 2019-05-05

Total Pages: 90

ISBN-13: 9781096317623

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A daily journal for women wondering if their husband's behavior is abusive. For women trying to determine if they should leave or stay. To help women decide if they want to divorce. A daily journal to help victims understand the reality and severity of their situation. For women who are considering separation or divorce due to their husband's lying, gaslighting, infidelity, emotional abuse, narcissistic behaviors. Visit btr.org for more information, and listen to the Betrayal Trauma Recovery podcast found on iTunes, Google Play, Spotify and other podcasting platforms.


Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage

Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage

Author: Natalie Hoffman

Publisher: Flying Free

Published: 2018

Total Pages: 330

ISBN-13: 9781732894303

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One out of three married women sitting in an average conservative Christian church is in a confusing and painful marriage relationship. Those women believe they are alone. I want them to know they aren't. They believe they can't find peace. I want them to know they can. They believe they don't have choices. I want them to know they do.This book isn't for the parents who raised them. It's not for the pastors who condemn them. It's not for the friends who don't understand them. And it's not for the partner who dehumanizes them. This book is for the woman in the pew who somehow, by God's divine intervention, finds it in her hand and has to catch her breath because she suddenly feels like she's free falling.I wrote this book just for you. Let's dig in.


Why Does He Do That?

Why Does He Do That?

Author: Lundy Bancroft

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2003-09-02

Total Pages: 436

ISBN-13: 9780425191651

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In this groundbreaking bestseller, Lundy Bancroft—a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men—uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognize when they are being controlled or devalued, and to find ways to get free of an abusive relationship. He says he loves you. So...why does he do that? You’ve asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men—and change your life. In Why Does He Do That? you will learn about: • The early warning signs of abuse • The nature of abusive thinking • Myths about abusers • Ten abusive personality types • The role of drugs and alcohol • What you can fix, and what you can’t • And how to get out of an abusive relationship safely “This is without a doubt the most informative and useful book yet written on the subject of abusive men. Women who are armed with the insights found in these pages will be on the road to recovering control of their lives.”—Jay G. Silverman, Ph.D., Director, Violence Prevention Programs, Harvard School of Public Health


This Road is a Detour

This Road is a Detour

Author: L.A. Ward

Publisher: Fulton Books, Inc.

Published: 2024-04-11

Total Pages: 217

ISBN-13:

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This Road is a Detour continues the story of Victoria and her quest to find her birth mother. She learns about love and must deal with her trust issues in this book. This is a fictional story; each character is fictional and does not represent any real person. The story addresses a real problem of adult bullying and how adults turn on each other to have power in the world where they live. Once again Victoria must visit Hillbilly Hell and deal with the family that raised her. This road will get Victoria closer to her goal of finding her birth mother and what happened that day so many years ago when Jack and Lucy came into Victoria's life. Adult bullying is real, and it usually happens to the vulnerable members of our society as they will not fight back. In this book you will see that the gang takes on many forms and will try to control the narrative in many ways. All situations are fictional and not representative of any real situation. Victoria once again uses her strong spirit and wit to create humorous solutions to the problems she faces. Victoria continues to find solutions for adult bullying.


But He'll Change

But He'll Change

Author: Joanna V Hunter

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2010-03-24

Total Pages: 166

ISBN-13: 159285981X

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A survivor of domestic violence offers women the tools needed to work through the excuses they tell themselves that keep them in abusive relationships - and to make positive changes in their lives. He loves me. He has a really sweet side. I am all he has. If only his boss wouldn't put him under so much stress. At least he doesn't hit me. He won't do it again. I can't do anything right. In this compassionate book, Joanna V. Hunter helps women face, head on, the excuses they tell themselves that keep them in abusive relationships. Using expert advice complemented by her story and the stories of dozens of other women who have survived and turned away from domestic violence, Hunter teaches women to identify the lies they've accepted, understand what healthy thinking sounds like, stop taking the blame for their partner's behavior, identify power and control plays, and stick up for their own needs and plans for their safety. With each self-defeating message addressed in But He'll Change, Hunter offers counter messages designed to help women build strength and hope. Readers will develop the tools to operate not as victims, but as survivors.


Eyes of Abuse

Eyes of Abuse

Author: Sarah Finley

Publisher: AuthorHouse

Published: 2018-06-23

Total Pages: 78

ISBN-13: 1546241221

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Life is not always easy. Many of us will experience obstacles and hardships, with some of us facing abuse and trauma from those closest to us. But to all the virtuous women of today: prepare yourselves! The best is on the way, and we all deserve to be happyand with prayer, God will change things for the better. In Eyes of Abuse, author Sarah Finley shares her own heartfelt and emotional story of hope amid abuse, and she offers a window into her life growing up in the South in the middle of the twentieth century. Between memories of rural life and struggling with poverty, Sarah explores some heart-wrenching experiences with abusive family members. Yet she shows us how even in the darkest of valleys, God is there to provide us with blessings and hope as we learn the power of forgiveness. Help is on the way! Freedom is just around the corner, and all is well with us when we allow Gods blessings to take over our lives. With this renewed strength and faith in God, we can begin to heal and go on to do things that we never thought possible.