The Psychology of Love and Hate in Intimate Relationships

The Psychology of Love and Hate in Intimate Relationships

Author: Katherine Aumer

Publisher: Springer

Published: 2016-06-23

Total Pages: 183

ISBN-13: 3319392778

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Social psychology has made great advancements in understanding how our romantic relationships function and to some extent, dissolve. However, the social and behavioral sciences in much of western scholarship often focus exclusively on the more positive aspects of intimate relationships--and less so on more controversial or unconventional aspects. The goal of this volume is to explore and illuminate some of these underrepresented aspects: aspects such as non-monogamy, female orgasm, sadism, and hate, that often function alongside love in intimate relationships. Ultimately, by looking at intimate relationships in this way, the volume contributes to and advocates for a more holistic and comprehensive view of intimate relationships. Throughout the volume, contributors from social, clinical, and evolutionary psychology cover love and hate from a variety of (sometimes opposing) perspectives. The first section, covers love and the changing landscape of intimate relationships. Its chapters review the current literature and research of understudied topics like non-monogamy, female orgasm, sexual fantasies, and the viewpoint of love as something other than positive. The second section explores hate and how hate can operate in intimate relationships--for example, the appearance of sadistic behavior and debates the nature of hate as either a motivation or emotion. The volume concludes, by looking at ways in which the appearance of hate in relationships can be dealt with and overcome successfully. Taken together, these two sections reflect the full variety of experiences within intimate relationships. With the aim of exploring how love and hate can-and frequently do-work together, The Psychology of Love and Hate in Intimate Relationships is a fascinating psychological exploration of intimate relationships in modern times. It is an invaluable resource to academics and students specializing in psychology, gender, and sociology, including clinicians and therapists, and all those interested in increasing our knowledge of intimate relationships.


The New Psychology of Love

The New Psychology of Love

Author: Robert J. Sternberg

Publisher: Cambridge University Press

Published: 2019

Total Pages: 355

ISBN-13: 110847568X

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This is a much-needed update on the latest theory and research on love supplied by leading scientific experts. It is suitable for psychologists, neuroscientists, anthropologists, sociologists, and anyone with an interest in love and what has been learned from scientific studies of it.


I Love You, But I Hate Your Politics

I Love You, But I Hate Your Politics

Author: Jeanne Safer

Publisher: Macmillan + ORM

Published: 2019-06-11

Total Pages: 196

ISBN-13: 1250200407

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Do you thrust unsolicited partisan articles upon your spouse? Are you convinced that you can change your coworker’s mind, if you could only argue forcefully enough? Have you gone from befriending to “defriending” the people once closest to you? Don’t give up hope; Dr. Jeanne Safer is here to help. Since the election of Donald J. Trump, political disagreements have been ravaging our personal relationships like never before. This already widespread phenomenon will continue to grow unless we learn to fight it. From friends to relatives to lovers, no relationship is immune to this crisis. I Love You, but I Hate Your Politics draws from interviews with every type of politically mixed couple, as well as Dr. Safer’s own experiences as a die-hard liberal happily married to a stalwart conservative. The result is a practical guide to maintaining respect and intimacy in our increasingly divided world. I Love You, but I Hate Your Politics is sure to educate and entertain anyone who has felt the strain of ideological differences in their personal life. No matter which side of the fence you're on, Dr. Safer offers frank, practical advice for salvaging and strengthening your bonds with your loved ones. This book is required reading for any politically minded friend, relative, or significant other in the Trump era.


The Psychology of Love

The Psychology of Love

Author: Robert J. Sternberg

Publisher: Yale University Press

Published: 1988-01-01

Total Pages: 395

ISBN-13: 0300039506

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Essays discuss theories of love, types of love, the maintenance of love relationships, marriage, and lust


Women Who Love Too Much

Women Who Love Too Much

Author: Robin Norwood

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2008-04-08

Total Pages: 355

ISBN-13: 1416550216

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Discusses "loving too much" as a pattern of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors which certain women develop as a reponse to various problems in their family backgrounds.


The Moral Psychology of Love

The Moral Psychology of Love

Author: Arina Pismenny

Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield

Published: 2022-03-28

Total Pages: 325

ISBN-13: 1538151014

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Under what circumstances can love generate moral reasons for action? Are there morally appropriate ways to love? Can an occurrence of love or a failure to love constitute a moral failure? Is it better to love morally good people? This volume explores the moral dimensions of love through the lenses of political philosophy, psychology, and neuroscience. It attempts to discern how various social norms affect our experience and understanding of love, how love, relates to other affective states such as emotions and desires, and how love influences and is influenced by reason. What love is affects what love ought to be. Conversely, our ideas of what love ought to be partly determined by our conception of what love is.


The Oxford Handbook of Evolutionary Psychology and Romantic Relationships

The Oxford Handbook of Evolutionary Psychology and Romantic Relationships

Author: Todd Kennedy Shackelford

Publisher: Oxford University Press

Published: 2023-02-28

Total Pages: 865

ISBN-13: 0197524710

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"Evolutionary social science is having a renaissance. This volume showcases the empirical and theoretical advancements produced by the evolutionary study of romantic relationships. The editors assembled an international collection of contributors to trace how evolved psychological mechanisms shape strategic computation and behavior across the lifespan of a romantic partnership. Each chapter provides an overview of historic and contemporary research on the psychological mechanisms and processes underlying initiation, maintenance, and dissolution of romantic relationships. Contributors discuss popular and cutting-edge methods for data analysis and theory development, critically analyse the state of evolutionary relationship science, and provide discerning recommendations for future research. The handbook integrates a broad range of topics (e.g., partner preference and selection, competition and conflict, jealousy and mate guarding, parenting, partner loss and divorce, and post-relationship affiliation) that are discussed alongside major sources of strategic variation in mating behavior, such as sex and gender diversity, developmental life history, neuroendocrine processes, technological advancement, and culture. Its content promises to enrich students' and established researchers' views on the current state of the discipline and should challenge a diverse cross-section of relationship scholars and clinicians to incorporate evolutionary theorizing into their professional work"--


The Passion Paradox

The Passion Paradox

Author: Dean C. Delis

Publisher: Bantam Books

Published: 1991-12-01

Total Pages: 336

ISBN-13: 9780553295047

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The passion paradox is the catch-22 of romantic relationships: the more deeply one partner falls in love, the more distant the other becomes. Now renowned psychologist Delis shows how to change these patterns and offers powerful, proven techniques to help couples rekindle romance and discover a new equilibrium of love and desire for a lifetime of happiness.