This book has been part of me for over six years, and I started it as a research for myself and a way for me to deal with my same-sex sexual preferences and torment. I searched for a book and for help and could not find anything to guide me through my changes in my new life. This book is designed to help, to guide, and to heal anyone that likes the same sex and may not know how to go about it. I give everyone this book with all my love, hoping it will make a diff erence in their life like it did in mine. Always Remember one thing: Th e biggest role we play in Life is to be true to OURSELVES.
Develop healthy, lasting relationships!Here is a terrific dating guide for single gay and bisexual men. This insightful book provides a proven strategy for creating a satisfying dating life and finding a partner who is right for you! It integrates theory and practice to help you create and develop healthy relationships, guiding you through the process of dating and relationship formation. Finding a Lover for Life comes complete with thought-provoking worksheets that challenge myths, false beliefs, and incorrect assumptions about gay/bi men, dating, and relationships.Finding a Lover for Life will save you a great deal of time and frustration in developing dating skills. Its rational, skills-based strategic approach to dating will help you plan, organize, and focus your efforts in that part of your life. Finding a Lover for Life is the tool you need to plan and implement strategies that will: attract available dating partners eliminate problems by identifying compatible and noncompatible partners create a healthy relationship It also takes you through an individual preparation routine for dating that will help you to: challenge societal views of romance uncover self-defeating beliefs resolve past conflicts create affirming and self-enabling beliefs This book will help you learn to date in a healthy and efficient way. But more than that, Finding a Lover for Life will help you develop a more positive self-concept, create a healthy community of friends, and help you move your life in a new, more constructive direction.
You’ve done the bar thing. You’ve let your best friend set you up. You’ve even logged on to a gay dating website. But the man of your dreams is still out there, just waiting for you to find him. What’s a gay guy to do? Look no further than this book. Whether you’re new to the dating scene or just wanting a refresher course, in Boyfriend 101 you’ll find an abundance of practical tips for meeting the right man (and avoiding the wrong ones) and keeping him (and you) interested for the long term. Topics include: •Deciding what you need versus what you want in a boyfriend •Icebreakers that actually work •Expanding your social network •The best places to meet men •Writing a hot personal ad or online profile •First-date protocols (or, Waiting until after the third date to have sex) •Discussing HIV and negotiating safe sex •Maintaining a healthy body image •Overcoming fear of abandonment •Creating healthy lines of communication with your boyfriend
A guide for lesbian couples to improve their levels of intimacy, providing exercises and anecdotes, covering common issues women in same-sex couples have, and discussing the intricacies of female desire.
At last, gay love is here to stay. In the era of mobile apps, the gay dating census (aka #BaeBuffet) is literally in the palm of your hands. But how do you sift through all the digital smoke and glitter to find a heart of gold? Enter certified matchmaker and love coach, Amari Ice, and his twelve-step RELATIONSHIP Process. In Lasting Love at Last, Amari Ice, the gay relationship guru, will show you: - How to attract lasting love in as little as ten weeks - How to recognize and neutralize what's sabotaged your past relationships - The reason most relationships fail - The difference between not being ready for a relationship and being scared of commitment - What you actually need from a partner in order to be happy - How to guarantee you only invest in someone worth your time, energy, and love - And much, much more If Paul Carrick Brunson's It's Complicated (But It Doesn't Have to Be) and Patti Stanger's Become Your Own Matchmaker had a #Gayby, Lasting Love At Last is what they'd name it.
Learn How To Meet & Attract Guys You've Always Dreamed Of... From The Host Of The International Hit TV Series, The Sex Inspectors! Three things stop you from meeting the kind of guys you want to have sex with, date or get into a relationship with... 1. Fear of Rejection 2. Not Knowing What To Say. 3. Not Knowing What To Do. If you’re like a lot of gay men, you’re in a low-confidence, low-competence trap. Not knowing what to say or do lowers your confidence and the lack of confidence stops you from trying. What you need is a plan. Whether you’re looking for love, sex, or intimacy, you need something that shows you how to conquer your fear of rejection and learn powerful conversational techniques that makes you irresistible to attractive guys so that gay dating becomes fun again. Here is Mike’s 8-step plan: Step 1: CONQUER YOUR FEAR OF REJECTION Learn the formula to eliminating “approach anxiety” so you can talk to ANYBODY anywhere without sounding needy or insecure. Step 2: GET ROCK STAR CONFIDENCE With these strategies you’ll be able to walk into a room with seductive confidence and irresistible charisma. Step 3: GET GUYS TO PURSUE YOU By “Demonstrating Value,” you can literally get the hottest guy in the room to pursue YOU. All you have to do is understand a few fundamentals about human nature and apply them. Step 4: SAY SOMETHING CLEVER What can you say to somebody that won’t sound like a cheesy pick up line or an awkward, try-hard attempt to sound cool? Try these irresistible, no-rejection openers. They’ll capture the imagination, stir curiosity and set the stage for a real connection. Use them TONIGHT. Step 5: CREATE A POWERFUL FIRST IMPRESSION By combining the concepts of scarcity, rapport and ‘social proof,’ you can make an unforgettable statement. He’ll remember you the next time you meet and you’ll be drawn subconsciously into the same role that created the first impression. How to do it? It’ll all in the gay dating section, P. 31-36. Step 6: MAKE YOURSELF MORE APPEALING Every gay guy you approach has two questions: “Are you hitting on me or just being friendly?” and “How long are you going to be?” Learn how to make yourself more appealing by overcoming these roadblocks. Step 7: BUILD ATTRACTION This series of irresistible conversational strategies teach you how to think outside of yourself, consider other people’s reality, talk from a place of sincerity, understand the underlying humanity behind conversations, connect in meaningful ways, and add value to people’s lives. Step 8: KEEP IT EXCITING Learn how to prevent ‘conversation stalling” and awkward silences by using “Multiple Threads.” You’ll create energy, rapport and lots of things to talk about. MEET HOTTER GAY GUYS Will Help You… • Have More Sex • Get More Dates • Land A Boyfriend Download It Today. Use It Tonight!
Legal gay marriage is still a relatively new phenomenon. As gay men who are now able to get married, we find ourselves in a bit of a quandary: for many male couples, sex is a lot more important for us than it is for heterosexuals. Two married men often have a stronger desire for sex - wanting more of it and with a wider variety of partners - than married opposite-sex couples. How does this work within the structure of a monogamous marriage? Is an open relationship a better structure for gay marriage? Assuming that gay marriages will emulate heterosexual marriages is neither a valid nor a helpful assumption. But, as gay men, where does that leave us? There are currently no “rule books” for how a marriage between two men could or should work. While there are lots of books about how to plan your gay wedding, there are virtually none that address what to do after the honeymoon is over (literally and figuratively). This book fills that void. It offers married gay couples (and gay men considering marriage) an easy-to-follow, practical framework that they can use to help create, adjust and structure their marriages. Using helpful examples and first-hand quotes throughout, Openly-gay psychotherapist Michael Dale Kimmel offers a roadmap for gay men who want to be married but have questions and concerns about monogamy and monotony.
Same Sex Marriage 101: A Comprehensive Guide to Your Rights, The Law & Your Benefits Whether it is a sign of progress or not, same sex marriage is still a much debated issue. It is one of the most revolutionary changes that has occurred in the United States and for sure will occur in other countries in the world. In the aftermath of decades of debates, of rulings made and then declared invalid years later and of countless demonstrations and defiance, the ruling is out. With the support of 5 Justices, the United States Supreme Court has finally declared the constitutional right of every 2 individuals, of opposite or same sex, to marry. This guide shows you the implications of the Supreme Court ruling in relation to your rights and benefits as prescribed by the law governing marriages. Take note that the same way you are given access to the privileges of a legally married couple, you also take on the legal responsibilities and the full ramifications of a married person. By reading Same Sex Marriage 101, you will learn: The Road to Legalization Name & Identity Employment Leaves & Benefits Retirement, Social Security & Pension Debts, Loans & Financial Accountabilities Prosecution, Spousal Privilege & Justice Divorce & Custody FAQs & Resource Centers This guide is comprehensive to a point where the implications of the ruling are already mapped out or have been implemented. Same sex marriage laws are yet an uncharted territory. The devil is in the details on how this ruling will be fully implemented across all federal and state services.
From the founder of Seventy Thirty the first exclusive matchmaking company with relationship psychology at its core, and Lemarc Thomas psychologist and gay relationship expert, comes this intelligent and insightful book; the ultimate guide and relationship advice for the married, coupled up and singletons. From the book "Self-assuredness is something that is very attractive to most gay men. If one is stressed about their sexuality or about being gay, this can be a turn-off. Being comfortable with yourself is a sign of security and wellbeing, which is appealing." And "When there was a bone of contention, gay and lesbian couples tended to throw in a bit of humour and affection to defuse the situation."
