Ending the Cycle of Father Wounds

Ending the Cycle of Father Wounds

Author: Bob Reccord

Publisher:

Published: 2020-01-15

Total Pages: 176

ISBN-13: 9780998047928

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Wounds are serious, and often frightening challenges in our life, but perhaps even more dangerous are the infections which can result from them. This is true not only in the case of physical wounds, but perhaps even more disabling and destructive, when they result from emotional wounds. And tragically, those emotional wounds can often come from those closest to us. Society bears the heart breaking results today of what happens when those wounds come from the father--whether intentionally, or unintentionally. It has been estimated that the vast majority of people who have grown into teen or adult years carry an element of Father Wounds with them as they journey into life.When such emotional wounds occur, and are not properly responded to, cared for and healed the resulting emotional "infections" set in motion long-term consequences. And those consequences affect not only us, but the relationships and families we establish as we move through life. They don't just "take care of themselves," nor does "time simply heal all wounds." Action has to be taken to address the infections, heal the wounds, and hopefully restore the relationship..ENDING THE CYCLE OF FATHER WOUNDS addresses the causes which often contribute to Father Wounds as well as what are the practical steps to help the reader, or someone they care for, acknowledge, address and care for the infections resulting from such wounds. Repair and restoration of ruptured relationships is goal and this book has the needed steps to make it possible. Since Father Wounds often cycle through family generations, stopping the cycle depends on someone making the appropriate choices to bring it to a halt. FATHER WOUNDS clearly and forthrightly sets forth how to "draw a line in the sand," for the sake of both present and future generations.Better yet, the book offers insights for fathers, step-dads and grandfathers of how to beware and prevent Father Wounds before they ever happen, thus avoiding the pain and strain so many face in life's journey.


Overcoming Father Wounds

Overcoming Father Wounds

Author: Kia Stephens

Publisher: Baker Books

Published: 2023-03-07

Total Pages: 198

ISBN-13: 1493439847

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If you have been hurt, neglected, rejected, or abandoned by your father, it may feel like every aspect of life is affected by that broken trust. Even your relationship with God can feel tenuous, but there is hope. In this vulnerable book, author and speaker Kia Stephens shares her own story of father wounds, along with eye-opening examples from wounded women in Scripture who were transformed by the love of God. With great compassion, she helps you identify your father wounds and offers practical tools to help you overcome insecurity, low self-esteem, perfectionism, and trouble connecting with God as your loving heavenly father. Take heart. Your father wounds do not have the last word in your life; God does. With help from Kia and love from God, you can be made whole again.


Healing for the Father Wound

Healing for the Father Wound

Author: H. Norman Wright

Publisher: Baker Books

Published: 2008-06-01

Total Pages: 189

ISBN-13: 1585584339

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A trusted counselor helps readers move from heartache to joy as they overcome the wounds from a missing, abusive, or absent father.


The Father Factor

The Father Factor

Author: Stephan B. Poulter, Ph.D

Publisher: Prometheus Books

Published: 2010-12

Total Pages: 239

ISBN-13: 1615921397

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The father factor is the conscious understanding, awareness, and appreciation of the critical influence that your father had, still has, or could have in your career development and future potential. Noting that the father-son or father-daughter relationship is one of the least understood relationships in adult life, Dr. Poulter helps you become acutely aware of the immeasurable impact (negative or positive) that your father has on your ability to relate to other people. From this recognition you will also learn to move past the career roadblocks that frequently stem from the lingering effects of your father''s influence. Defining five main styles of fathering, Dr. Poulter devotes a chapter each to: The Superachiever Father The Time Bomb Father The Passive Father The Absent Father (whether physically or emotionally) The Compassionate / Mentor Father. By becoming aware of how your father related to you, particularly in a destructive relationship, you''ll understand how your career relationships in many ways mirror your degree of comfort with your father''s emotional legacy. In this way, career roadblocks-often based on interactions with people on the job-will be more easily transformed into career building blocks that will lead to advancement and success.


The Father Effect

The Father Effect

Author: John Finch

Publisher: Hachette UK

Published: 2017-10-24

Total Pages: 166

ISBN-13: 1478976888

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Based on the feature film of the same name, The Father Effect is a must-read for the millions of men and women who have lost their fathers through divorce, death, or disinterest. John Finch always struggled after his father committed suicide when he was eleven, but it wasn't until he was raising his own three daughters that he truly understood their futures relied on his coming to terms with his difficult past. To move forward, he needed to forgive both his father for choosing to leave, and himself for not being the best father he could be. This journey led to The Father Effect, a book containing practical help for anyone, man or woman, with a deep father wound from losing a dad through divorce, death, or disinterest. Through positive lessons on forgiveness and approachable advice on how to change your legacy as a parent, partner, and person, The Father Effect is the ultimate healing tool for anyone who has suffered the absence of a dad.


Experiencing Father's Embrace

Experiencing Father's Embrace

Author: Jack Frost

Publisher: Destiny Image Publishers

Published: 2006-04-28

Total Pages: 513

ISBN-13: 076849964X

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Experiencing Father's Embrace is an excellent resource for anyone interested in growing or ministering in the Father's love message. The author's style of writing makes this book easy to read, yet it is one of the most thorough and profoundly impacting books available on knowing God as a Father.


Wounds of the Father

Wounds of the Father

Author: Elizabeth Garrison

Publisher:

Published: 2015-02-06

Total Pages: 364

ISBN-13: 9780692378748

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In the bestselling tradition of "Smashed" and "Glass Castle," this raw, eye-opening memoir tells the powerful story of Elizabeth Garrison's fractured childhood, descent into teenage drug addiction, and struggle to overcome nearly insurmountable odds. Elizabeth invites the reader behind the closed doors of a picture-perfect Christian family to reveal a dark, hidden world of child abuse, domestic violence, and chilling family secrets all performed in the name of God under the tyrannical rule of her father. Like countless teenage girls, Elizabeth turns to drugs and alcohol to escape. With smack-you-in-the-face honesty, Elizabeth chronicles the dark realities and real-life horrors of teenage drug abuse, living on the streets, foster homes, and treatment centers. She paints an unsparing portrait of scratching and clawing her way out of the grips of child abuse, addiction, and betrayal to find the strength within herself to save her own life.


Making Peace with Your Parents

Making Peace with Your Parents

Author: Harold H. Bloomfield

Publisher:

Published: 1985

Total Pages: 246

ISBN-13: 9780345309044

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"No one book resolves a lifetime of hurts and misunderstandings, but it can remove the blinders from our eyes. Make an effort now." LOS ANGELES TIMES No matter how old you are and whether or not your parents are alive, you have to come to terms with them. This wise and practical book will show you how to deal with the most fundamental relationships in your life and, in the process, become the happy, creative, and fulfilled person you are meant to be.


Break the Cycle

Break the Cycle

Author: Dr. Mariel Buqué

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2024-01-02

Total Pages: 289

ISBN-13: 0593472519

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***The Instant National Bestseller*** A Next Big Idea Club must-read title for January 2024 The definitive, paradigm-shifting guide to healing intergenerational trauma—weaving together scientific research with practical exercises and stories from the therapy room—from Dr. Mariel Buqué, PhD, a Columbia University–trained trauma-informed psychologist and practitioner of holistic healing From Dr. Mariel Buqué, a leading trauma psychologist, comes this groundbreaking guide to transforming intergenerational pain into intergenerational abundance. With Break the Cycle, she delivers the definitive guide to healing inherited trauma. Weaving together scientific research with practical exercises and stories from the therapy room, Dr. Buqué teaches readers how trauma is transmitted from one generation to the next and how they can break the cycle through tangible therapeutic practices, learning to pass down strength instead of pain to future generations. When a physical wound is left unhealed, it continues to cause pain and can infect the whole body. When emotions are left unhealed, they similarly cause harm that spreads to other parts of our lives, hurting our family, friends, community members, and others. Eventually, this hurt can injure an entire lineage, metastasizing across years and generations. This is intergenerational trauma. This trauma is why some of us become estranged from our families, why some of us are people pleasers, why some of us find ourselves in codependent relationships. This trauma can be rooted in the experiences of ancestors, who may have suffered due to unhealthy family dynamics, and it can be collective, the result of a shared experience like systemic oppression, or harmful ingrained behaviors in a culture like the acceptance of physical discipline of children, or even a natural disaster like a pandemic. These wounds are complex, impacting our minds, bodies, and spirits. Healing requires a holistic approach that has so far been absent from the field of psychology. Until now.


A Good and Happy Child

A Good and Happy Child

Author: Justin Evans

Publisher: Crown

Published: 2007-05-22

Total Pages: 348

ISBN-13: 0307395138

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A young man reexamines his childhood memories of strange visions and erratic behavior to answer disturbing questions that continue to haunt him and his new family in this psychological thriller named a Washington Post best book of 2007. Thirty-year-old George Davies can’t bring himself to hold his newborn son. After months of accepting his lame excuses and strange behavior, his wife has had enough. She demands that he see a therapist, and George, desperate to save his unraveling marriage and redeem himself as a father and husband, reluctantly agrees. As he delves into his childhood memories, he begins to recall things he hasn’t thought of in twenty years. Events, people, and strange situations come rushing back. The odd, rambling letters his father sent home before he died. The jovial mother who started dating too soon after his father’s death. A boy who appeared one night when George was lonely, then told him secrets he didn’t want to know. How no one believed this new friend was real and that he was responsible for the bad things that were happening. Terrified by all that he has forgotten, George struggles to remember what really happened in the months following his father’s death. Were his ominous visions and erratic behavior the product of a grief-stricken child’s overactive imagination? Or were his father’s colleagues, who blamed a darker, more malevolent force, right to look to the supernatural as a means to end George’s suffering? Twenty years later, George still does not know. But when a mysterious murder is revealed, remembering the past becomes the only way George can protect himself--and his young family. A psychological thriller in the tradition of Donna Tartt’s The Secret History--with shades of The Exorcist--A Good and Happy Child leaves you questioning the things you remember and frightened of the things you’ve forgotten. “Beautifully written and perfectly structured. . . . This novel is much more than The Omen for the latte generation, and Evans cleverly subverts expectations at every turn.” –Washington Post “[A] satisfying, suspenseful first novel. . . . Young George’s intriguing story unbalances the reader right up to the book’s deliciously chilling end.” —People “A scary, grown-up ghost story that combines Southern gothic with more than a twist of The Exorcist. . . . Combine[s] mind-bending storytelling with excellent prose.” —Portland Tribune “Think Rosemary’s Baby—plus . . . told in the kind of prose that mesmerizes, sweeping the reader along so fast that there’s no time to ask questions.” —Hartford Courant “[A] dazzling debut . . . part psychological thriller, part horror story.” —Chicago Tribune “Relat[es] his otherworldly suspense story with the cool, calm eye of a skeptic.” —Entertainment Weekly (A—)