Getting Over An Affair

Getting Over An Affair

Author: Rebekah Clarke

Publisher: Rebekah Clarke Books

Published: 2021-03-18

Total Pages: 54

ISBN-13:

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The pain of being cheated on is an emotional trauma that's incredibly difficult to endure, let alone heal from. The shattering realisation that your partner has strayed and given themselves to another is heartbreaking. You think your life is over, you doubt you'll ever be happy again and you just want things to go back to how they were before. Perhaps you wish you could go back in time and do something - anything - to stop the affair ever taking place. Maybe you're praying that you'll wake up one day and this is all one big horrible nightmare. The dark, painful feelings that we have to endure after discovering we've been cheated on are some of the worst days we'll ever have to make it through. I know what you're going through because I've also suffered the heartbreak of infidelity - but I also know what it feels like to come out of the other side. From suffering a breakdown and neglecting myself and those around me to now thriving and able to trust again, I know you can bounce back from this traumatic time. This book won't offer judgement - I'm not here to tell you to leave the relationship nor am I an advocate for you to stay - but it will offer you the tools you need to heal. I'll offer you my thoughts and advice based on my experiences, and I'll give you a little glimpse of the pain I endured, too. Throughout this book, I'll cover the following: • Why did your spouse cheat? • The nasty effects a cheating spouse has on us. • Coping strategies after discovering the infidelity. • Building up your sense of worth. • A non-judgemental commentary about the "should I leave the relationship or not" question you may be pondering. • How to trust a new partner. This book began as a little project for a website I was writing for, but as time went on I decided it served best as a series of books. I read a ton of books when recovering from the heartache of being cheated on, and to offer that same kind of comfort and actionable advice to someone who's in the same position as I was is amazing to me. I hope this book series serves its purpose - to help you heal and to inspire you to know your worth.


What Makes Love Last?

What Makes Love Last?

Author: John Gottman

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2013-09-10

Total Pages: 304

ISBN-13: 1451608489

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"One of the foremost relationship experts at work today applies the insights of science toward understanding the real meaning of trust between a couple. He decodes the "why" behind betrayal and shows how partners can avoid or recover from unfaithfulness and maintain a loving relationship.Dr. John Gottman, the country's pre-eminent researcher on marriage, is famous for his Love Lab at the University of Washington in Seattle where he deciphers the mysteries of human relationships through scientific research. His thirty-five years of exploration have earned him numerous major awards, including from the National Institute of Mental Health, the American Psychological Association, and the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Now, Dr. Gottman offers surprising findings and advice on the characteristic that is at the heart of all relationships: Trust. Dr. Gottman has developed a formula that precisely calculates any couple's loyalty level. The results determine a relationship's likely future, including the potential for one or both partners to stray. A Love You Can Trust shows couples how to bolster their trust level and avoid what Dr. Gottman calls the "Roach Motel for Lovers." He describes how the outcome of--"sliding door moments," small pivotal points between a couple, can lead either to more emotional connection or to discontent. He suggests a new approach to handling adultery and reveals the varied and unexpected non-sexual ways that couples often betray each other. A Love You Can Trust guides couples through an empirically tested, trust-building program that will let them repair and maintain a long-term, intimate, and romantic relationship"--


Divorce Busting

Divorce Busting

Author: Michele Weiner Davis

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 1993-02

Total Pages: 256

ISBN-13: 0671797255

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A step-by-step approach to making your marriage loving again.


The After An Affair Cure 2 In 1

The After An Affair Cure 2 In 1

Author: Laura Redmond

Publisher:

Published: 2019-12-04

Total Pages: 314

ISBN-13: 9781646961702

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Do you need emotional healing after your spouse has been unfaithful? Are you looking to rebuild trust in your marriage after an affair? Would you like to restore your confidence and regain your self-worth? If your answer is yes to any of these questions, then keep reading because you're about to find what you're looking for. Dealing with marital infidelity can shake your sense of identity and your trust in people. Adultery is a traumatic experience to go through, no matter what side you're on - the cheater or the cheated one. When planning a future together and vowing to be faithful, no one thinks they'll ever go through these hard moments. Yet some of us do and it can be a tough and shameful struggle. The good news is there are many ways to fix and even strengthen the trust in you, your spouse, and your marriage. No matter if you're looking to restore or end your marriage, one thing is crucial, you need to understand why the affair happened to be able to move on. In Healing After An Affair 2 In 1 you will discover: 1 essential truth you don't want to believe, that will help you start the journey of emotional healing The secret weapon to gain your partner's admiration as well as put jealousy at bay, without losing any of your friends How to decode your lover's enigmatic behavior (so you don't have to guess if they're cheating or not) The key to knowing if you should stay or you should go (and avoid wasting your time in limbo) How to heal, grow, and move on from your spouse's affair without taking the blame for the actions they did. ... and much, much more! Your spouse's affair isn't the end of the road for you. It's time to move on from the hurt of infidelity, find emotional healing, and rebuild a stronger relationship with your partner. So if you want to rebuild trust in your marriage, click the "Add to Cart" button now!


Healing After An Affair

Healing After An Affair

Author: Laura Redmond

Publisher:

Published: 2021-03-25

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781646961689

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Do you need emotional healing after your spouse has been unfaithful to you? Are you looking for closure after the affair that broke your marriage? Would you like to restore your confidence and regain your self-worth? If answered yes to any of these questions, keep reading because you're about to find what you're looking for. Dealing with marital infidelity can shake your sense of identity and your trust in people. When planning a future together and vowing to be faithful, no one thinks they'll ever go through these hard moments. Yet some of us do and it can be a tough and shameful struggle. But the good news is - even if you might not be inclined to believe this now - you can find emotional healing and closure. You can and you will get over this. It won't be easy, but it's possible. No matter if you're looking to restore or end your marriage, one thing is crucial, you need to understand why the affair happened to be able to move on. In this guide, you will discover: 1 essential truth you don't want to believe, that will help you start the journey of emotional healing How to decode your lover's enigmatic behavior (so you don't have to guess if they're cheating or not) 10 valuable lessons everyone should learn from this traumatic experience (including how to avoid being cheated on in future relationships) The key to knowing if you should stay or you should go (and avoid wasting your time in limbo) How to heal, grow, and move on from your spouse's affair without taking the blame for the actions they did. ... and much, much more! Now's your chance to make sense of this traumatic experience, let it teach you some valuable lessons to take into your next relationships, and reclaim your happiness. So if you want to get your life back after infidelity, click the "Add to Cart" button now!


Unfaithful

Unfaithful

Author: Gary Shriver

Publisher: David C Cook

Published: 2009-11-01

Total Pages: 288

ISBN-13: 0781404401

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Statistics show that one in every four marriages is impacted by infidelity. So the odds are pretty good that you or someone you know has experienced the searing pain of marital infidelity. But adultery is not an automatic death sentence for your marriage. You can trust again. You can restore intimacy. You can have a relationship that you will both cherish for a lifetime. Ten years ago, Gary and Mona Shriver experienced the devastation caused by adultery, and in the course of trying to save themselves, they wrote this book. Raw, transparently honest, the Shrivers’ story alone is an inspiration, offering hope and practical strategies for healing. Now this updated and revised edition adds other real-life stories of betrayal and forgiveness, and new information defining adultery, including the destruction of emotional affairs. Some doubt if a marriage can truly heal after the ravages of infidelity. Unfaithful proves you can. It’s not easy . . . but it can be done. Is it worth it? Yes. And you hold the first step—and hope—in your hand.


Transcending Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder

Transcending Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder

Author: Dennis C. Ortman

Publisher: Celestial Arts

Published: 2011-09-21

Total Pages: 258

ISBN-13: 0307807800

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Have you been traumatized by infidelity? The phrase "broken heart" belies the real trauma behind the all-too-common occurrence of infidelity. Psychologist Dennis Ortman likens the psychological aftermath of sexual betrayal to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in its origin and symptoms, including anxiety, irritability, rage, emotional numbing, and flashbacks. Using PTSD treatment as a model, Dr. Ortman will show you, step by step, how to: • work through conflicting emotions • Understand yourself and your partner • Make important life decisions Dr. Ortman sees recovery as a spiritual journey and draws on the wisdom of diverse faiths, from Christianity to Buddhism. He also offers exercises to deepen recovery, such as guided meditations and journaling, and explores heart-wrenchingly familiar case studies of couples struggling with monogamy. By the end of this book, you will have completed the six stages of healing and emerged with a whole heart, a full spirit, and the freedom to love again.


Healing After the Affair

Healing After the Affair

Author: Dr Michele Gardner

Publisher: Independently Published

Published: 2021-04

Total Pages: 50

ISBN-13:

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What If My Partner Is Cheating on me, How Can I Be Sure and What Next.....? Even the couples we consider perfect can be affected by cheating, either emotionally, or physical. While cheating does not have to be physical, a spouse can cheat emotionally and think that it does not affect his/her relationship. Whether physical or emotional ...helps you: - Find out the main causes of cheating and how a man and a woman view cheating - Learn the signs (some of which you never noticed) which indicate infidelity in relationships - Understand The Various Types Of Infidelity & The Role Of Technology - Find Out If Infidelity Can Be Predicted and Prevented - And much more. Typically, no one is prepared for an infidelity case especially when it affects them directly. Who could ever think that the person they love and entrust their hearts with can cheat on them? However, the good news is, you can heal from any form of infidelity. Click "Buy Now" & Invest In Yourself and Relationship!


NOT "Just Friends"

NOT

Author: Shirley Glass

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2007-11-01

Total Pages: 450

ISBN-13: 1416586407

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One of the world’s leading experts on infidelity provides a step-by-step guide through the process of infidelity—from suspicion and revelation to healing, and provides profound, practical guidance to prevent infidelity and, if it happens, recover and heal from it. You’re right to be cautious when you hear these words: “I’m telling you, we’re just friends.” Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.