Weird Parenting Wins

Weird Parenting Wins

Author: Hillary Frank

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2019-01-15

Total Pages: 256

ISBN-13: 0525504478

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Unconventional--yet effective--parenting strategies, carefully curated by the creator of the popular podcast The Longest Shortest Time Some of the best parenting advice that Hillary Frank ever received did not come from parenting experts, but from friends and podcast listeners who acted on a whim, often in moments of desperation. These "weird parenting wins" were born of moments when the expert advice wasn't working, and instead of freaking out, these parents had a stroke of genius. For example, there's the dad who pig-snorted in his baby's ear to get her to stop crying, and the mom who made a "flat daddy" out of cardboard and sat it at the dinner table when her kids were missing their deployed military father. Every parent and kid is unique, and as we get to know our kids, we can figure out what makes them tick. Because this is an ongoing process, Weird Parenting Wins covers children of all ages, ranging in topics from "The Art of Getting Your Kid to Act Like a Person" (on hygiene, potty training, and manners) to "The Art of Getting Your Kid to Tell You Things" (because eventually, they're going to be tight-lipped). You may find that someone else's weird parenting win works for you, or you might be inspired to try something new the next time you're stuck in a parenting rut. Or maybe you'll just get a good laugh out of the mom who got her kid to try beets because...it might turn her poop pink.


Win-Win Parenting

Win-Win Parenting

Author: Marylynne White

Publisher: Dog Ear Publishing

Published: 2012-02

Total Pages: 248

ISBN-13: 1457507609

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MaryLynne White has a Master's degree in early childhood and family development. She has over twenty years' experience working as a parenting coach and counselor with children and their parents. She has also spent time in the "trenches" working as a professional nanny in a home with five children, ages 7 to 13 years of age. Through her work, she recognized that many "traditional" parenting techniques did not work very well. She developed a "toolbox" of simple ways to help parents guide their children's negative behaviors into more positive whereby everyone wins and feels happier. These proven techniques work for all children, regardless of their personalities. Her easy going, informal manner can be seen on her website at www.Win-WinParenting.com or her Youtube videos. She also has another website devoted to parenting the child with attachment problems at www.therapeuticparenting.com. This book offers easy to understand, sometimes different parenting techniques to help create a WIN-WIN atmosphere in your home. It shows how to raise respectful, responsible and happy children without the arguments and frustrations. It explains why children behave the way they do. WIN-WIN Parenting provides a road map on how parents can feel more successful, confident and loving when raising children. The book addresses specific behavior problems, with examples, along with common parental responses to them. Developmental reasons are given to explain the children's behaviors. Finally, specific parenting techniques are shared that are guaranteed to change children's behaviors. You will discover: How to get your kids to do things without nagging How to stay calm even when your child is having a melt down How to have fun as a parent without feeling frustrated, angry or impatient How to parent so everyone in the family WINS "


Playing to Win

Playing to Win

Author: Hilary Levey Friedman

Publisher: Univ of California Press

Published: 2013-08-03

Total Pages: 304

ISBN-13: 0520276752

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"Many parents work more hours outside of the home and their lives are crowded with more obligations than ever before; many children spend their evenings and weekends trying out for all-star teams, traveling to regional and national tournaments, and eating dinner in the car while being shuttled between activities. In this vivid ethnography, based on almost 200 interviews with parents, children, coaches and teachers, Hilary Levey probes the increase in children's participation in activities outside of the home, structured and monitored by their parents, when family time is so scarce. As the parental "second shift" continues to grow, alongside it a second shift for children has emerged--especially among the middle- and upper-middle classes--which is suffused with competition rather than mere participation. What motivates these particular parents to get their children involved in competitive activities? Parents' primary concern is their children's access to high quality educational credentials--the biggest bottleneck standing in the way of, or facilitating entry into, membership in the upper-middle class. Competitive activities, like sports and the arts, are seen as the essential proving ground that will clear their children's paths to the Ivy League or other similar institutions by helping them to develop a competitive habitus. This belief, motivated both by reality and by perception, and shaped by gender and class, affects how parents envision their children's futures; it also shapes the structure of children's daily lives, what the children themselves think about their lives, and the competitive landscapes of the activities themselves"--


How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

Author: Adele Faber

Publisher: Harper Collins

Published: 1999-10

Total Pages: 306

ISBN-13: 0380811960

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You Can Stop Fighting With Your Chidren! Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know–how you need to be more effective with your children and more supportive of yourself. Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down–to–earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding. Their methods of communication, illustrated with delightful cartoons showing the skills in action, offer innovative ways to solve common problems.


All Done Day

All Done Day

Author: Ann Lahm

Publisher:

Published: 2020-05-16

Total Pages: 138

ISBN-13: 9781734933710

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All Done Day teaches parents how to create a personalized daily plan for each of their children that calls them up and uniquely motivates them to action based on targets the parent defines as most important. Parenting can be exhausting when, as a parent, you can't get your child to follow through, and nothing you try works. With All Done Day parents will watch their children own their successes and grow into the adults they dream they can be.


Ignore It!

Ignore It!

Author: Catherine Pearlman, PhD, LCSW

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2017-08-08

Total Pages: 274

ISBN-13: 1524704008

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This book teaches frustrated, stressed-out parents that selectively ignoring certain behaviors can actually inspire positive changes in their kids. With all the whining, complaining, begging, and negotiating, parenting can seem more like a chore than a pleasure. Dr. Catherine Pearlman, syndicated columnist and one of America’s leading parenting experts, has a simple yet revolutionary solution: Ignore It! Dr. Pearlman’s four-step process returns the joy to child rearing. Combining highly effective strategies with time-tested approaches, she teaches parents when to selectively look the other way to withdraw reinforcement for undesirable behaviors. Too often we find ourselves bargaining, debating, arguing and pleading with kids. Instead of improved behavior parents are ensuring that the behavior will not only continue but often get worse. When children receive no attention or reward for misbehavior, they realize their ways of acting are ineffective and cease doing it. Using proven strategies supported by research, this book shows parents how to: - Avoid engaging in a power struggle - Stop using attention as a reward for misbehavior - Use effective behavior modification techniques to diminish and often eliminate problem behaviors Overflowing with wisdom, tips, scenarios, frequently asked questions, and a lot of encouragement, Ignore It! is the parenting program that promises to return bliss to the lives of exasperated parents.


Win the Whining War & Other Skirmishes

Win the Whining War & Other Skirmishes

Author: Cynthia Whitham

Publisher: Perspective Publishing

Published: 1991

Total Pages: 212

ISBN-13:

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A step-by-step guide to increasing cooperation and reducing conflict with children two to twelve years old. With entertaining illustrations and anecdotes, this book provides clinically-proven battle plans for dealing with behavior that drives parents crazy. Whitham offers practical solutions to everyday problems; parents will see results quickly. (Perspective Publishing)


The Parenting Book

The Parenting Book

Author: Nicky Lee

Publisher: Alpha International

Published: 2009

Total Pages: 545

ISBN-13: 1905887361

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"How can we develop a family identity? ; How can we meet our children's deepest needs? ; How and where do we set the boundaries? ; How can we pass on our values to our children? Drawing on their own experience of bringing up four children and having talked to thousands of parents over the years on their parenting courses, Nicky and sila Lee bring fresh insights and time-tested values to the task of parenting. Full of valuable advice and practical tips. The parenting book is a resource for parents to come back to again and again"--Back cover.


Parenting In A Tech World

Parenting In A Tech World

Author: Matt McKee

Publisher:

Published: 2021-06-15

Total Pages: 176

ISBN-13: 9780578917276

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How do you know when your child is ready for a smartphone? Which apps are the most dangerous for my 13-year-old? What do I do if I catch my child watching porn? How do I get to a place of trusting my kid with social media? How do I spot signs of trouble in my kid from their use of social media? These are questions parents ask every day - parents who are overwhelmed, fearful or ignorant about social media and technology. Parenting in a Tech World is for parents who don't know where to start with addressing the use of technology in their homes. Our book is a comprehensive resource that answers your questions, and provides you with a plan of action for developing a relationship between you, your child and technology. Our families have been adversely affected by technology, just like yours. Whether it's viewing inappropriate material or being unable to focus on anything else. We've felt the tension of needing to use technology and being concerned with what our kids might stumble into online. Also, our families have been positively affected by technology. Whether Facetiming with grandparents, chatting with friends who have moved away, or playing online games among siblings, we've benefitted from the connection that technology and social media can bring. Parenting in a Tech World addresses common tensions surrounding tech, and provides a valuable perspective on how technology can't be ignored, but must be taught to be used responsibly. We break down how to talk to kids about tech, and how to teach them boundaries on social media. With practical tips, real-world advice from fellow parents, and helpful exercises, we walk you through how to nurture a healthy relationship between your kid and technology by the time they leave your house. From hardware to new apps, to new users, to new features, we take a look at what you need to be mindful of when introducing anything to your family's online network. To fully equip you, we share impactful websites that provide tools you can use to inform yourself and develop a tech infrastructure for your family. Though technology isn't inherently good or bad, it can be used either way. Through the use of statistics, we show you what's going on with kids and tech. And we prove exactly how important it is to monitor your child's technology use. Parenting in a Tech World is your guide, from start through finish, to creating a healthy relationship with technology among your family members. The stakes for your child's wellbeing and safety are too high to gloss over the power technology has in our society. If you're looking for where to begin with managing technology in a healthy way, Parenting in a Tech World is that starting line.


The Newbie's Guide to Positive Parenting

The Newbie's Guide to Positive Parenting

Author: Rebecca Eanes

Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform

Published: 2015-01-24

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781507580011

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"When conventional parenting methods eroded the deep connection she once shared with her children, Rebecca set out on a journey to reclaim what was lost. When she discovered the philosophy of positive parenting, hope was restored. As she began implementing this philosophy in her own home, she saw an amazing transformation in her children's behavior, and her connection with her little ones was revived. You'll learn the secrets Rebecca has learned to bring peace, contentment, and joy to her family."--Back cover.