When There are No Words

When There are No Words

Author: Charlie Walton

Publisher: Pathfinder Publishing, Inc.

Published: 1996

Total Pages: 116

ISBN-13: 9780934793575

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The author, who experienced the death of two of his sons as well as a family friend, discusses grief and dealing with loss, as well as consoling a friend or loved one when no words seem appropriate.


When There Are No Words

When There Are No Words

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Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform

Published: 2017-01-24

Total Pages: 225

ISBN-13: 9781507507193

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This book, intended for clinicians treating very early trauma and neglect in the attachment period, integrates several treatment strategies in a comprehensive and resonant approach that is attuned to the client's unspoken early experience. Although the book presumes EMDR training, it has considerable application for other clinicians who deal with the pernicious effects of early trauma and neglect in the attachment period. The book is based on the seminal contributions of Katie O'Shea, and integrates the author's understanding of complex trauma, dissociative disorders, and the neurobiology of traumatic dissociation, including Panksepp, Porges, Schore, and others. It draws upon the somatic therapy traditions of Peter Levine and others for accessing the somatically held unprocessed trauma responses. Although primarily for clinicians, the cartoons are also suitable for use with clients. Like the author's first book on dissociation, the lay public will be interested in the book because its cartoons make the information comprehensible. The early trauma approach in its basic form consists of 1) containment, 2) safe state, 3) resetting hardwired subcortical affective circuits and 4) clearing trauma by time frame for temporal integration. For complex cases, each step has ego state variations and there are more preparatory steps to ensure the self system is aligned with treatment goals. It integrates ego state work to reduce loyalty to the aggressor and the problem of perpetrator introjects. The author was a collaborator of the late father of ego state therapy, John G. Watkins, Ph.D. Sandra Paulsen offers a third integration approach, "temporal integration," to supplement the "tactical integration" and "strategic integration" approaches of Catherine Fine, Ph.D. and Richard Kluft, M.D., respectively. The book has over a hundred original drawings by the author, which telegraph complex psychological and neurobiological concepts quickly, making the book a quicker read than would otherwise be possible. The format, with its generous use of bullets, white space and cartoons, mean that a range of readers can scan the chapters for the information relevant to their own needs. Appendices provide detailed information on the mechanics of the work, how to ethically work in the intensive format, containment procedures for complex cases, working with perpetrator introjects. Although the book is informal with its use of cartoons, the book includes relevant scholarly citations and references. Because it is both metaphoric and scholarly, it speaks to both the right and left hemisphere's of the reader's brain. Many concepts will slip in unawares through the compelling use of metaphor. The book includes case examples to illustrate the suggested scripting for accomplishing each of the relevant steps. Narrative discussion describes the most likely problems for each step and what to do about them. Katie O'Shea, M.S., is acknowledged as contributing author because of her development of the original approach and some of the ideas contained in the book. Ulrich Lanius, Ph.D. contributed to the neurobiological understandings in the book. Above all, the author's goal is to help others understand how the story tells itself non-verbally, when trauma occurs in the attachment period and is held in implicit memory. When we hear of the story in the non-verbals, clinicians can "catch and release" the traumatic sequelae of very early trauma and neglect. The book includes worksheets for clinicians use. It supplements the online workshops that Dr Paulsen presents on this same topic, and others, see www.bainbridgepsychology.com.


When There Are No Words

When There Are No Words

Author: Carol Colacurcio

Publisher: Xlibris Corporation

Published: 2019-10-27

Total Pages: 127

ISBN-13: 1796066591

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This book is about how sacred sound works as therapy from a sound therapist who has successfully treated a wide range of clients for over twenty years. This book is very experiential. Many examples are given of diverse musical styles and instruments in relation to health problems ranging from stress and grief to serious illnesses suffered by the terminally ill. Carol offers the reader many practical applications of such cross cultural techniques as meditational breathing, tuning into one's own chakras and the vibrational healing effects of Tibetan singing bowls. Readers will be excited to learn how music has been used as medicine for thousands of years and this sound therapy is once again available today.


In the Beginning There Were No Words

In the Beginning There Were No Words

Author: Caleb Gattegno

Publisher: Educational Solutions

Published: 2010-03-02

Total Pages: 196

ISBN-13: 0878252126

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"What is there in the life of each of us that requires our full attention at a particular age, that is vital for that age or for coming ages and cannot be postponed?" This is the question Caleb Gattegno poses in his age-specific trilogy The Universe of Babies, Of Boys and Girls, and The Adolescent and His Will. This original monograph provides an entirely new set of tools for the study of early childhood, and offers powerful insights into the relationship of man to himself. The constant use of consciousness as an instrument of study sheds light on how children learn what they must learn and yields a broader understanding of human functionings.


The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows

The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows

Author: John Koenig

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2021-11-16

Total Pages: 288

ISBN-13: 1501153668

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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER “It’s undeniably thrilling to find words for our strangest feelings…Koenig casts light into lonely corners of human experience…An enchanting book. “ —The Washington Post A truly original book in every sense of the word, The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows poetically defines emotions that we all feel but don’t have the words to express—until now. Have you ever wondered about the lives of each person you pass on the street, realizing that everyone is the main character in their own story, each living a life as vivid and complex as your own? That feeling has a name: “sonder.” Or maybe you’ve watched a thunderstorm roll in and felt a primal hunger for disaster, hoping it would shake up your life. That’s called “lachesism.” Or you were looking through old photos and felt a pang of nostalgia for a time you’ve never actually experienced. That’s “anemoia.” If you’ve never heard of these terms before, that’s because they didn’t exist until John Koenig set out to fill the gaps in our language of emotion. The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows “creates beautiful new words that we need but do not yet have,” says John Green, bestselling author of The Fault in Our Stars. By turns poignant, relatable, and mind-bending, the definitions include whimsical etymologies drawn from languages around the world, interspersed with otherworldly collages and lyrical essays that explore forgotten corners of the human condition—from “astrophe,” the longing to explore beyond the planet Earth, to “zenosyne,” the sense that time keeps getting faster. The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows is for anyone who enjoys a shift in perspective, pondering the ineffable feelings that make up our lives. With a gorgeous package and beautiful illustrations throughout, this is the perfect gift for creatives, word nerds, and human beings everywhere.


My Heart, Ever His

My Heart, Ever His

Author: Barbara Rainey

Publisher: Baker Books

Published: 2020-03-31

Total Pages: 198

ISBN-13: 1493422863

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As we search for meaning in our world of shallow online relationships and glamorized selfies, many are returning to traditional and liturgical churches. The repeated words, benedictions, and historic hymns connect us to saints who have gone before, giving us a sense of belonging, richness, and transcendence. Written prayers, once cast off as archaic, are now welcomed as guides to tune our hearts to the heart of God. In My Heart, Ever His Barbara Rainey shares 40 prayers for women. They can meditate on one prayer throughout the week or read a prayer a day for 40 days as a way to express the longing of our hearts to our Father who loves us even as he sees who we truly are. Like the psalms of David, these prayers are honest, sometimes raw. Barbara uses these transparent expressions of common experiences to encourage us to surrender to Christ and help us see God as he is, not as we assume him to be. My Heart, Ever His provides a stepping-stone to help you become more transparent with God and discover his welcoming embrace.


Poems of Love and Letting Go

Poems of Love and Letting Go

Author: Jocelyn Soriano

Publisher: Jocelyn Soriano

Published: 2018-09-27

Total Pages: 144

ISBN-13: 1386937657

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“I see now that no person who has ever loved has ever been spared from tears. Tears of joy and tears of sorrow. Of the most intimate union and of letting go.” Poignant, timeless and true. This book is a personal collection of poems about love and letting go. Whether it be a newfound love, a love that endures a lifetime, or a love that will soon be saying goodbye, one can find in these pages something like a mirror that tells the story of one’s own heart. Are you in sorrow because of a broken heart? Are you in grief because your are mourning the death of a loved one? Dying is painful, but so is the loss of a love that broke your heart. Yet in all these, if one has loved true, one has found meaning in life. Healing is never far away for as long as hope is kept alive in one’s heart. Let these poems of love comfort you, inspire you and remind you of the beauty of love. To love is to be rapt in bliss, to be torn asunder and to be healed and made whole again.


What to Do When You Feel Like Hitting

What to Do When You Feel Like Hitting

Author: Cara Goodwin PhD

Publisher: Sourcebooks, Inc.

Published: 2021-06-15

Total Pages: 50

ISBN-13: 1638076731

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Teach toddlers safe ways to express big feelings Toddlers are still learning how to speak, socialize, and understand their emotions. It's common for them to react with their hands when they get frustrated—but hitting is never okay. What to Do When You Feel Like Hitting helps toddlers understand why hitting is not allowed and shows them how to react to their feelings with actions that are safe and kind. This illustrated entry into no hitting books for toddlers features: Alternatives to hitting—Kids will learn how to use "gentle hands" to squeeze a stuffed animal when they feel upset, scribble a picture to get out their frustration, and practice taking deep breaths to calm down. A light touch—The language is kid-friendly and positive, encouraging toddlers to understand and communicate their feelings, not just keep their hands to themselves. Engaging illustrations—Big, beautiful pictures help kids see the ideas in action and keep their attention on the page. Get the best in no hitting books for toddlers with a storybook that helps them learn empathy and compassion.


When There Are No Words

When There Are No Words

Author: Sandra Magsamen

Publisher: Rizzoli Universe Promotional Books

Published: 2002-07-08

Total Pages: 64

ISBN-13: 9780789310842

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When There Are No Words explores the significant ways in which we can relate to each other without words. It is a playful reminder of the power that lives in subtle gestures, passionate embraces, and the wink of an eye; it is a celebration of the human connection, for it reveals how actions make us understood and help us to understand others. Packaged in a deluxe, oversized format, this interactive volume features the colorful, dynamic illustrations, warm prose, and distinctive quality that characterize Magsamen's work and have made her business, Table Tiles, Inc., a major force in the gift market worldwide. Inventive and masterfully crafted, When There Are No Words encourages touch through its magnetic cover that inspires readers to "connect" with the book. Ten magnetic pieces are placed on the cover-the five words of the title and five images-so that readers can literally take away the words and build their own word and image scenarios. The book also contains many other special interactive features, including: diecut pages; a clock with spinning hands; a gatefold; a globe that turns; and a pocket for magnet storage. Particularly during these times when the need to communicate may be more urgent, but more difficult, this wonderful volume is an exceptional year-round token of love that expresses caring when words are simply not enough. Special Features: Magnetic cover * 10 magnets * Inside pocket for magnet storage * Diecut pages * Gatefold * Clock with spinning hands * Turning globe


The Best American Poetry 1996

The Best American Poetry 1996

Author: David Lehman

Publisher: Scribner

Published: 1996-09-16

Total Pages: 322

ISBN-13: 9780684814513

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From Simon & Schuster, in its ninth year, The Best American Poetry 1996 is universally acclaimed as the best anthology in the field. The compilation includes a diverse abundance of poems published in 1995 in more than 40 publications ranging from The New Yorker to The Paris Review to Bamboo Ridge.