Times Enmeshed

Times Enmeshed

Author: Gabriele Stürzenhofecker

Publisher: Stanford University Press

Published: 1998

Total Pages: 294

ISBN-13: 9780804728997

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This book traces the formation of historical consciousness among the Duna people of Papua New Guinea and explores how this is constituted differently for men and women.


When He's Married to Mom

When He's Married to Mom

Author: Kenneth M. Adams

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2007-03-26

Total Pages: 256

ISBN-13: 9781416539360

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When a Woman Is in an Emotional Tug-of-War for Her Man's Heart Why can't he commit? Many women find themselves asking this question when in love with a man who won't get married, won't stop womanizing, or refuses to give up his sex addictions. Often this kind of man is bound by an unhealthy attachment to his mother. This phenomenon is called "mother-son enmeshment." In When He's Married to Mom, clinical psychologist and renowned intimacy expert Dr. Kenneth M. Adams goes beyond the stereotypes of momma's boys and meddling mothers to explain how mother-son enmeshment affects everyone: the mother, the son, and the woman who loves him. In his twenty-five years of practice, Dr. Adams has successfully treated hundreds of enmeshed men and shares their stories in this informative guide. He provides proven methods to make things better, including: -- Guidelines to help women create fulfilling relationships with mother-enmeshed men -- Tools to help mother-enmeshed men have healthy and successful dating experiences leading to serious relationships and marriage -- Strategies to help parents avoid enmeshing their children When He's Married to Mom provides practical and compassionate advice to the women who are involved with mother-enmeshed men, to the mothers who wish to set them free, and to the men themselves.


The Emotional Incest Syndrome

The Emotional Incest Syndrome

Author: Dr. Patricia Love

Publisher: Bantam

Published: 2011-07-06

Total Pages: 305

ISBN-13: 0307799182

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From Dr. Patricia Love, a ground-breaking work that identifies, explores and treats the harmful effects that emotionally and psychologically invasive parents have on their children, and provides a program for overcoming the chronic problems that can result.


The Adult Chair

The Adult Chair

Author: Michelle Chalfant

Publisher: Michelle Chalfant

Published: 2018-03-02

Total Pages: 72

ISBN-13: 9780999892602

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The Adult Chair is more than a book, or a tool, or a process. It is an entirely new way to see your world, your relationships, your career, and your life.


Silently Seduced

Silently Seduced

Author: Kenneth M. Adams

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2011-09-01

Total Pages: 209

ISBN-13: 0757391745

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When a parent singles out a child for special privileges and attention, that child is often unaware that the relationship is unhealthy—even incestuous. As adults, these children struggle to feel validated, because while they have not been directly abused, they feel a sense of violation and crossed boundaries—usually done in the name of 'love' and 'caring.' The parent's love feels more confining than freeing, more demanding than giving, more intrusive than nurturing. Yet these children suffer from what psychologist Kenneth Adams calls The Silent Seduction—because there is nothing loving or caring about a close parent-child relationship that services the needs of the parent rather than the child. In this revised and updated 20th anniversary edition of his groundbreaking book Silently Seduced, Dr. Adams explains how 'feeling close,' especially with the opposite-sex parent, is not the source of comfort the image suggests, especially when that child is cheated out of a childhood by being a parent's surrogate partner. He offers a framework to understand this covert incest and its effect on sexuality, intimacy, and relationships, and how victims can begin the process of recovery.


On Death, Dying, and Disbelief

On Death, Dying, and Disbelief

Author: Candace R. M. Gorham

Publisher: Pitchstone Publishing (US&CA)

Published: 2021-10-19

Total Pages: 116

ISBN-13: 1634312163

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Everyone grieves in their own way and according to their own timeframe, the accepted wisdom tells us. But those in mourning rarely find comfort in knowing this. Further, those attempting to support someone in mourning can do little with this advice, leaving them with a sense of helplessness. As a mental health professional and someone who has dealt with her own share of personal grief, Candace R. M. Gorham understands well the quest for relief. The truth of the matter, she says, is there is no one way to grieve, but there are things that are important to pay attention to while mourning. While much of the advice she shares is universal, she pays particular attention to the struggle those who do not believe in a god or afterlife face with the loss of a loved one—and offers practical, life-affirming steps for them to remember and heal.


Intimate Appraisals

Intimate Appraisals

Author: Thomas J. Cottle

Publisher: UPNE

Published: 2002

Total Pages: 356

ISBN-13: 9781584651420

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An eminent sociologist offers insightful impressions and discussions of American culture and the ways it both liberates and imprisons various social groups.


Sovay

Sovay

Author: Celia Rees

Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing USA

Published: 2010-10-01

Total Pages: 429

ISBN-13: 1599905736

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In 1794 England, the beautiful Sovay dons a man's cloak and holds up stagecoaches in broad daylight. Posing as a highway robber began as a lark to test a suitor's devotion. But when she lifts the wallet of one of England's most dangerous men, Sovay begins to unravel a web of deceit and duplicity. Acclaimed author Celia Rees' talent for romance and intrigue are sure to thrill a paperback audience.


Families and Family Therapy

Families and Family Therapy

Author: Salvador Minuchin

Publisher: Harvard University Press

Published: 2009-07-01

Total Pages: 281

ISBN-13: 0674041127

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No other book in the field so fully combines vivid clinical examples, specific details of technique, and mature perspectives on both effectively functioning families and those seeking therapy. The views and strategies of a master clinician are presented here in such clear and precise form that readers can proceed directly from the book with comparisons and modifications to suit their own styles and working situations. Salvador Minuchin presents six chapter-length transcripts of actual family sessions—two devoted to ordinary families who are meeting their problems with relative success; four concerned with families seeking help. Accompanying each transcript is the author’s running interpretation of what is taking place, laying particular stress on the therapist’s tactics and maneuvers. These lively sessions are interpreted in a brilliant theoretical analysis of why families develop problems and what it takes to set them right. The author constructs a model of an effectively functioning family and defines the boundaries around its different subsystems, whether parental, spouse, or sibling. He discusses ways in which families adapt to stress from within and without, as they seek to survive and grow. Dr. Minuchin describes methods of diagnosing or “mapping” problems of the troubled family and determining appropriate therapeutic goals and strategies. Different situations, such as the extended family, the family with a parental child, and the family in transition through death or divorce, are examined. Finally, the author explores the dynamics of change, examining the variety of restructuring operations that can be employed to challenge a family and to change its basic patterns.