There are 78 million people now crossing the 50-year mark, and they're redefining middle age and creating a new vision of what a fulfilling sex life means. Sex Over 50 speaks to this legion of gracefully aging Americans who are looking for professional, practical advice on how to make the transition to deeper, richer, more sophisticated sexual relationships. This edition includes a new chapter on the dating scene for Boomers, as well as updated information on hormone replacement therapy and erectile dysfunction.
As the baby boomers move through middle age their sexual needs and experiences change. Everything is covered from flirting, fantasies and inhibitions to romance and the peaks and flows of sexual arousal.
Romance and sex do not have to decrease with age. Dr. Ruth, world famous sex therapist, shows readers how to rev up the romance, passion, and excitement.
A guide to help women understand how their bodies work and to take charge of their sexuality, discussing anatomy, body image, trauma, overcoming difficulties, and related topics.
A Senior Citizen Guide to a Happy Sex Life seeks to debunk the myths and misconceptions surrounding sex and aging, shining a light on the diverse expressions of desire and connection that flourish among senior citizens. Through candid discussions and expert insights, we delve into the physical, emotional, and relational aspects of sexual well-being in later life and uncover the essential ingredients for fostering a vibrant and fulfilling sexual relationship. Each chapter of this ebook provides ideas with specific tips and insights for maintaining a healthy and satisfying sex life. This ebook also highlights the importance of communication, emotional bonding, intimacy, and adaptation in the development of a happy sex life. Engaging in sexual activity later in life is associated with a myriad of physical health benefits. Regular sexual activity has been linked to improved cardiovascular health, including lower blood pressure and reduced risk of heart disease. The physical exertion involved in sexual activity can also contribute to increased flexibility, muscle tone, and overall physical fitness. Moreover, the release of endorphins during sexual arousal can alleviate chronic pain and promote relaxation, leading to improved sleep quality. Thus, prioritizing your sexual health can directly contribute to your physical well-being, enhancing vitality and longevity. Research has shown that individuals who remain sexually active in later life report higher levels of happiness and lower rates of depression. Thus, nurturing sexual health among senior citizens is essential for promoting emotional well-being and resilience in the face of life’s challenges. A Senior Citizen Guide to a Happy Sex Life covers a vast array of topics related to senior citizen sexuality such as: the importance of sexual health in later life, understanding the aging body, communication with your partner, health considerations, enhancing intimacy, practical tips and techniques, adapting to physical limitations, staying safe, mental and emotional well-being, sex toys and enhancements, erotica and sexual fantasy, and single seniors and dating. There is also a chapter dedicated to where you can find additional resources and support related to senior citizen sexuality. A Senior Citizen Guide to a Happy Sex Life is not just an ebook; it’s a celebration of vitality, intimacy, and the enduring power of love at any age. As you navigate the golden years, may this ebook serve as a reminder that passion knows no bounds, and with understanding, communication, and a willingness to embrace change, the journey of sexual fulfillment can be one of joy, connection, and endless discovery. A Senior Citizen Guide to a Happy Sex Life ebook will serve as a tool to help you reclaim your right to pleasure, passion, and love that knows no bounds. Here’s to embracing the full spectrum of life’s pleasures, regardless of the number of candles on your birthday cake. Cheers to love, laughter, and a happy, fulfilling sex life for you, now and forever!
A seasoned woman is spicy. She has been marinated in life experience. . . . She can be alternately sweet, tart, bubbly, mellow. She can be maternal and playful. Bossy and submissive. Strong and soft. . . . The seasoned woman knows who she is. She could be any one of us, as long as she is committed to living fully and passionately in the second half of life. In her most groundbreaking work since Passages and The Silent Passage, bestselling author Gail Sheehy reveals a hidden cultural phenomenon–increased vitality in women’s sex and love lives after fifty. Sex and the Seasoned Woman is the story of an intimate revolution taking place under our very noses. Boomer generation women in midlife are open to sex, love, dating, new dreams, exploring spirituality, and revitalizing their marriages as never before. This is a new universe of passionate, liberated women–married and single–who are unwilling to settle for the stereotypical roles of middle age and are now realizing they don’t have to. As life spans grow longer and as societal constraints continue to loosen, older women–once free of the exhausting demands of young children, needy husbands, and demanding careers–find themselves ready to pursue the passionate life. They embrace their “second adulthood” as a period of reawakening. Written in Sheehy’s singularly compelling style, combining interviews and research, this book gives voice to more than a hundred fascinating and colorful women. The inspiring stories tell of wives who reinvigorate their marriages after their children leave the nest as well as divorced, widowed, and long-single women who find new dreams and new loves. Sheehy delineates a crucial link between cultivating a new dream and reopening the pathway to intimacy and sexual pleasure. She also examines the latest medical breakthroughs addressing symptoms that have unnecessarily curtailed women’s sex lives. From women who find their sexuality reawakened by a younger lover, to couples whose marriages survive health crises and grow stronger, to women who finally find a soulmate in their sixties, to stories from seasoned sirens in their seventies, eighties, and even nineties, these portraits cover an enormous range of experience. In them, Sheehy locates the universal patterns that enable us all to recognize and understand our own lives.
Despite continuing ageist beliefs that sexuality is a privilege designed only for the young and physically healthy, research continues to indicate that the majority of older adults maintain interest in sexuality and may engage in fulfilling sexual behavior well into their last decade of life. Unfortunately, many professionals remain unaware of general knowledge of elderly sexuality, including the expected and normal physiological changes that can occur within the context of both male and female aging. The presence of chronic illness and other medical problems certainly can influence the expression of an aging adult’s sexuality, and emergent research suggests that there are effective ways to cope with menopause, heart disease, arthritis, incontinence, diabetes, sleep disorders, breast cancer, prostate cancer, and erectile dysfunction (ED), among others. Dramatic changes have taken place within the last decade alone in terms of non-surgical treatment for incontinence and ED, with forms of sex therapy, biofeedback, and PDE-5 inhibitors. Regrettably, many aging adults and their care providers remain unaware of their increased risk factors for STDs, including HIV infection via lack of knowledge, changes in the vaginal lining, and typical declines in immune function. Estimates suggest that by the year 2020, more than half of all individuals living with HIV will be over the age of 50. Although some high quality professional books are available for clinicians, they tend to be disjointed research bibliographies, edited volumes on a narrowly focused aspect of elderly sexuality, or texts that are more than 10 years old. With the extent of new information available regarding sexuality and aging, an up to date, empirically based text is necessary.
Helps women break through the tired and hurtful stereotypes of aging to better reflect who they are, how they live, and what they want as they age. Who hasn’t heard the stereotypes about women of a "certain age?” That’s the age when women become invisible, irrelevant, undesirable, asexual, unhinged, dried-up, hormonal messes. It’s when women quickly slide into fragility and become forgetful, passive, weak, feeble, debilitated, disabled, dependent, and depressed. Or so the story goes. Not only are those outdated narratives sexist and ageist, they are also damaging to women’s physical, emotional, financial, romantic, and sexual health. It’s time to change them. In Not Too Old for That, Vicki Larson helps change the narrative about being a woman at midlife and older. She questions what we’ve been told aging would be like and encourages us to instead ask ourselves, what do we want it to be like, and how can we get there? The key is to be curious, open-minded, and intentional about the ways we are becoming our future selves.We have an opportunity to create new narratives of aging as a woman, ones that value women at all stages of life, not just youth, and it starts with us. Once the stereotypes that have held women back are broken down, women can move past them and rather than feel helpless as the years add up, they can discover and tap into just how much agency they have. Not only will this book help to create a less-ageist, less-sexist, more-inclusive future, it will release our daughters and all young women from a similar future.
This is the first book to integrate theoretical insights into sexuality, sexual health and ageing, with research findings from studies conducted with older people and the professionals that work with them. It will be of interest to students, researchers, practitioner and policymakers working within gerontology, sociology, psychology, social work, nursing and medicine.
Meet, date, and start a relationship with Mr. or Ms. Right–after 50 Almost everyone associates falling in love with their younger years, but as the boomer generation ages, more and more people over 50 are jumping back into the dating scene for the first time (in a long time) and need advice and guidance on how the dating world (and ways to find a soul mate) have changed since they last tested the water. Dating After 50 For Dummies covers the gamut of topics for those dating after 50: the physical and emotional benefits of sex and relationships as we age; dating confidence boosters; dating site options (and signing up for the first trial); safety concerns when dating; fun and different dating ideas; how to introduce a new partner to your children; and much more. Dating and relationship advice for baby boomers How to deal with medical issues that can make sex difficult Dating advice for gays and lesbians How to build self-esteem for dating after 50 If you're single and over 50, the trusted advice in Dating After 50 For Dummies gives you everything you need to get out there and meet the partner of your dreams.
