Dear Cheryl

Dear Cheryl

Author: Cheryl Lavin

Publisher: Creators Publishing

Published: 101-01-01

Total Pages: 272

ISBN-13: 0984871322

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Here's the book that will keep you from making the same mistakes that millions have made as they navigated the rough waters of relationships. In Dear Cheryl: Advice from Tales from the Front columnist Cheryl Lavin shares her best relationship advice on subjects ranging from dealing with children to getting along with in-laws to sex. And Cheryl should know. Her nationally-syndicated column, Tales from the Front, has been running for an astonishing 30 years! In those three decades, she's heard it all, from philandering husbands to frigid wives. She's heard about the problems of meeting, the difficulties of committing and the heartbreak of divorcing. She's heard from happily married people about what they were doing right and from unhappily partnered people about what they were doing wrong. About relationship that survived decades of struggle and those that couldn't make it through a three-day weekend. Lovers who got away and lovers who wouldn't leave. And based on everything she's learned in that time, Cheryl gives advice that's both wise and witty. She isn't afraid to tell people what they need to hear, not what they want to hear, however much it may hurt. "Sometimes people are hoping against hope that I'll tell them that despite all evidence to the contrary, their significant other really does love them or really isn't cheating or really will commit one day," says Cheryl. "They need a cold reality shower and I turn on the spray." Everyday, millions of times a day, people are meeting, falling in love, falling out of love, marrying, divorcing, having their hearts broken and starting all over again. And when they run into a rough spot, they can write to Dear Cheryl. Dear Cheryl: Advice from Tales from the Front is the best of those columns. Order your copy now and you won't make the same mistakes as so many of Cheryl's readers.


The Natural Mother of the Child

The Natural Mother of the Child

Author: Krys Malcolm Belc

Publisher: Catapult

Published: 2021-06-15

Total Pages: 228

ISBN-13: 1640094393

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Krys Malcolm Belc's visual memoir-in-essays explores how the experience of gestational parenthood—conceiving, birthing, and breastfeeding his son Samson—eventually clarified his gender identity. Krys Malcolm Belc has thought a lot about the interplay between parenthood and gender. As a nonbinary, transmasculine parent, giving birth to his son Samson clarified his gender identity. And yet, when his partner, Anna, adopted Samson, the legal documents listed Belc as “the natural mother of the child.” By considering how the experiences contained under the umbrella of “motherhood” don’t fully align with Belc’s own experience, The Natural Mother of the Child journeys both toward and through common perceptions of what it means to have a body and how that body can influence the perception of a family. With this visual memoir in essays, Belc has created a new kind of life record, one that engages directly with the documentation often thought to constitute a record of one’s life—childhood photos, birth certificates—and addresses his deep ambivalence about the “before” and “after” so prevalent in trans stories, which feels apart from his own experience. The Natural Mother of the Child is the story of a person moving past societal expectations to take control of his own narrative, with prose that delights in the intimate dailiness of family life and explores how much we can ever really know when we enter into parenting.


Ebony

Ebony

Author:

Publisher:

Published: 2002-07

Total Pages: 180

ISBN-13:

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EBONY is the flagship magazine of Johnson Publishing. Founded in 1945 by John H. Johnson, it still maintains the highest global circulation of any African American-focused magazine.


Vibration Cooking

Vibration Cooking

Author: Vertamae Smart-Grosvenor

Publisher: University of Georgia Press

Published: 2011-04-15

Total Pages: 255

ISBN-13: 0820339598

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Vibration Cooking was first published in 1970, not long after the term “soul food” gained common use. While critics were quick to categorize her as a proponent of soul food, Smart-Grosvenor wanted to keep the discussion of her cookbook/memoir focused on its message of food as a source of pride and validation of black womanhood and black “consciousness raising.” In 1959, at the age of nineteen, Smart-Grosvenor sailed to Europe, “where the bohemians lived and let live.” Among the cosmopolites of radical Paris, the Gullah girl from the South Carolina low country quickly realized that the most universal lingua franca is a well-cooked meal. As she recounts a cool cat’s nine lives as chanter, dancer, costume designer, and member of the Sun Ra Solar-Myth Arkestra, Smart-Grosvenor introduces us to a rich cast of characters. We meet Estella Smart, Vertamae’s grandmother and connoisseur of mountain oysters; Uncle Costen, who lived to be 112 and knew how to make Harriet Tubman Ragout; and Archie Shepp, responsible for Collard Greens à la Shepp, to name a few. She also tells us how poundcake got her a marriage proposal (she didn’t accept) and how she perfected omelettes in Paris, enchiladas in New Mexico, biscuits in Mississippi, and feijoida in Brazil. “When I cook, I never measure or weigh anything,” writes Smart-Grosvenor. “I cook by vibration.” This edition features a foreword by Psyche Williams-Forson placing the book in historical context and discussing Smart-Grosvenor’s approach to food and culture. A new preface by the author details how she came to write Vibration Cooking.


Destination USA

Destination USA

Author: United States. National Tourism Resources Review Commission

Publisher:

Published: 1973

Total Pages: 134

ISBN-13:

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Ask a Manager

Ask a Manager

Author: Alison Green

Publisher: Ballantine Books

Published: 2018-05-01

Total Pages: 306

ISBN-13: 0399181822

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From the creator of the popular website Ask a Manager and New York’s work-advice columnist comes a witty, practical guide to 200 difficult professional conversations—featuring all-new advice! There’s a reason Alison Green has been called “the Dear Abby of the work world.” Ten years as a workplace-advice columnist have taught her that people avoid awkward conversations in the office because they simply don’t know what to say. Thankfully, Green does—and in this incredibly helpful book, she tackles the tough discussions you may need to have during your career. You’ll learn what to say when • coworkers push their work on you—then take credit for it • you accidentally trash-talk someone in an email then hit “reply all” • you’re being micromanaged—or not being managed at all • you catch a colleague in a lie • your boss seems unhappy with your work • your cubemate’s loud speakerphone is making you homicidal • you got drunk at the holiday party Praise for Ask a Manager “A must-read for anyone who works . . . [Alison Green’s] advice boils down to the idea that you should be professional (even when others are not) and that communicating in a straightforward manner with candor and kindness will get you far, no matter where you work.”—Booklist (starred review) “The author’s friendly, warm, no-nonsense writing is a pleasure to read, and her advice can be widely applied to relationships in all areas of readers’ lives. Ideal for anyone new to the job market or new to management, or anyone hoping to improve their work experience.”—Library Journal (starred review) “I am a huge fan of Alison Green’s Ask a Manager column. This book is even better. It teaches us how to deal with many of the most vexing big and little problems in our workplaces—and to do so with grace, confidence, and a sense of humor.”—Robert Sutton, Stanford professor and author of The No Asshole Rule and The Asshole Survival Guide “Ask a Manager is the ultimate playbook for navigating the traditional workforce in a diplomatic but firm way.”—Erin Lowry, author of Broke Millennial: Stop Scraping By and Get Your Financial Life Together