Wired for Intimacy

Wired for Intimacy

Author: William M. Struthers

Publisher: ReadHowYouWant.com

Published: 2010-02

Total Pages: 302

ISBN-13: 1458765555

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Pornography is powerful. Our contemporary culture as been pornified, and it shapes our assumptions about identity, sexuality, the value of women and the nature of relationships. Countless Christian men struggle with the addictive power of porn. But common spiritual approaches of more prayer and accountability groups are often of limited help. In this book neuroscientist and researcher William Struthers explains how pornography affects the male brain and what we can do about it. Because we are embodied beings, viewing pornography changes how the brain works, how we form memories and make attachments. By better understanding the biological realities of our sexual development, we can cultivate healthier sexual perspectives and interpersonal relationships. Struthers exposes false assumptions and casts a vision for a redeemed masculinity, showing how our sexual longings can actually propel us toward sanctification and holiness in our bodies. With insights for both married and single men alike, this book offers hope for freedom from pornography.


Growth and Intimacy for Gay Men

Growth and Intimacy for Gay Men

Author: Christopher J. Alexander

Publisher: Psychology Press

Published: 1997-07-29

Total Pages: 316

ISBN-13: 9780789001535

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Growth and Intimacy for Gay Men: A Workbook is an avenue through which gay men can understand their identity, experiences, and goals. The book contains over 50 checklists, open-ended questions, and writing exercises the reader can do on his own, as part of a support or study group, or with the guidance of a psychotherapist to further his own personal insight into his life as a gay man.


Intimacy Between Men

Intimacy Between Men

Author: John H. Driggs

Publisher: Plume

Published: 1991-11-28

Total Pages: 260

ISBN-13: 9780452266964

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"A wonderful and wise book that has been needed for a long time."—Patrick J. Carnes.


Seduction

Seduction

Author: Rachel O'Neill

Publisher: John Wiley & Sons

Published: 2018-06-28

Total Pages: 232

ISBN-13: 1509521593

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Within the so-called seduction community, the ability to meet and attract women is understood as a skill which heterosexual men can cultivate through practical training and personal development. Though it has been an object of media speculation – and frequent sensationalism – for over a decade, this cultural formation remains poorly understood. In the first book-length study of the industry, Rachel O’Neill takes us into the world of seduction seminars, training events, instructional guidebooks and video tutorials. Pushing past established understandings of ‘pickup artists’ as pathetic, pathological or perverse, she examines what makes seduction so compelling for those drawn to participate in this sphere. Seduction vividly portrays how the twin rationalities of neoliberalism and postfeminism are reorganising contemporary intimate life, as labour-intensive and profit-orientated modes of sociality consume other forms of being and relating. It is essential reading for students and scholars of gender, sexuality, sociology and cultural studies, as well as anyone who wants to understand the seduction industry’s overarching logics and internal workings.


Black Men and Intimacy - Voices From Across the Diaspora

Black Men and Intimacy - Voices From Across the Diaspora

Author: Therez Fleetwood

Publisher:

Published: 2020-08

Total Pages: 250

ISBN-13: 9780996832533

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There are countless books on men and relationships that analyze and interpret men's feelings about intimacy from a clinical or therapeutic approach. However, there are few books that actually highlight Black men's points of view on intimacy in a raw, impactful and inspiring way. Black Men and Intimacy - Voices From Across the Diaspora explores the complexities of relationships through the minds of men who give real, no-holds-barred answers to the questions all women want to ask about love, relationships, communication, sex, intimacy, and much more. Black Men and Intimacy - Voices From Across the Diaspora is not a theoretical analysis of Black men overall, nor is it written to stereotype or categorize Black men. This book is a compilation of personal one-on-one interviews with Black men sharing their opinions based on their own life experiences. Black Men and Intimacy; Voices From Across the Diaspora was written for Black women who truly desire to understand Black men better; Black men who are looking to find their voice of self expression; Parents raising Black boys; Moderators discussing Black men; Ministers, marriage counselors, therapists and people in other areas of social service that council Black men; Book Clubs who want to discuss Black men and relationships; Couples wanting to create/build more intimacy in their relationships; Any woman married to or dating a Black man.


The Married Guy's Guide to Great Sex

The Married Guy's Guide to Great Sex

Author: Clifford L. Penner

Publisher: NavPress

Published: 2017-09-05

Total Pages: 177

ISBN-13: 1684280362

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Keep the sizzle in your marriage. Sex matters in a marriage—a lot! Yet many men secretly wonder: Is she really satisfied? What do we do when our desires don’t match? How can we get back the passion we used to feel? The Married Guy’s Guide to Great Sex will tell you what you really want to know: how to make sex meaningful to your wife, build desire, get past sexual problems, and enjoy guilt-free sex. Noted sex therapists Clifford and Joyce Penner also unveil the mystery of “what women want” and how simple it is to boost your love life by letting your wife lead. Their candid, clear style will encourage you to make great sex happen—or happen more often—in your marriage. This title is a repackage of The Way to Love Your Wife, and is a companion to the new title Enjoy: God’s Gift of Sexual Pleasure for Women, also by the Penners.


Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man LP

Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man LP

Author: Steve Harvey

Publisher: Harper Collins

Published: 2010-06-01

Total Pages: 254

ISBN-13: 0061999571

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Steve Harvey, the host of the nationally syndicated Steve Harvey Morning Show, can't count the number of impressive women he's met over the years, whether it's through the "Strawberry Letters" segment of his program or while on tour for his comedy shows. Yet when it comes to relationships, they can't figure out what makes men tick. Why? According to Steve it's because they're asking other women for advice when no one but another man can tell them how to find and keep a man. In Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, Steve lets women inside the mindset of a man and sheds light on concepts and questions such as: The Ninety Day Rule: Ford requires it of its employees. Should you require it of your man? The five questions every woman should ask a man to determine how serious he is. And much more . . . Sometimes funny, sometimes direct, but always truthful, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man is a book you must read if you want to understand how men think when it comes to relationships.


How Can I Get Through to You?

How Can I Get Through to You?

Author: Terrence Real

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2010-05-11

Total Pages: 457

ISBN-13: 1439106762

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"What happened to the passion we started with? Why aren't we as close as we used to be?" PROBLEM: If you are a woman who is unfulfilled in your marriage...if you feel unheard or overburdened...if you quietly live in a state of slow-burn resentment... PROBLEM: If you are a man unhappy that your partner seems so unhappy with you...if you feel bewildered, unappreciated, or betrayed... This book offers a solution Bestselling author and nationally renowned therapist Terrence Real unearths the causes of communication blocks between men and women in this groundbreaking work. Relationships are in trouble; the demand for intimacy today must be met with new skills, and Real -- drawing on his pioneering work on male depression -- gives both men and women those skills, empowering women and connecting men, radically reversing the attitudes and emotional stumbling blocks of the patriarchal culture in which we were raised. Filled with powerful stories of the couples Real treats, no other relationship book is as straight talking or compelling in its innovative approach to healing wounds and reconnecting partners with a new strength and understanding.


Finding Your Leading Man

Finding Your Leading Man

Author: Jon P. Bloch

Publisher: Macmillan

Published: 2000-12-08

Total Pages: 324

ISBN-13: 9780312267360

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In a light-hearted, humorous voice, Dr. Bloch explores the 12 basic personality types that gay men employ to hide their fears and desires and to block intimacy. Fun, practical, and easy to use, "How to Find Your Leading Man" is a clear, enjoyable and simple guide for the gay man on the hunt for his one and only.


Love Between Men

Love Between Men

Author: Rik Isensee

Publisher: Rik Isensee

Published: 2020-03-13

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781625361875

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Read this book if you'd like to improve your relationship and communicate better with your boyfriend, lover, or even your next date! You'll learn how to resolve conflicts instead of escalating or retaliating, enhancing the sense of intimacy and love that brought you together in the first place. "LOVE BETWEEN MEN is a treasure...Isensee condenses years of clinical expertise of working with gay couples and translates this into a volume that is chock-full of enormously helpful and practical ways for men to look at, understand, and improve their relationships. It is bound to become a classic." -Michael Shernoff, ACSW "...a valid guide to establishing closer, more enduring partnerships...fills a gap in the resources available to couples." -K. Orton Williams, San Francisco Sentinel "...there is meat on these bones; material that any person in a relationship, or considering/fearing one, can learn from.... Isensee's insights are solid and his chapter on abusive relationships is the sort of material rarely discussed within the gay community. And his summation chapters, which include the awful thought of 'What If It Doesn't Work Out?, ' are astute." -Dale Reynolds, Lambda Book Report "This is a practical, down-to-earth manual for men who live in intimate relationships and want to improve them.... This book does more than help couples solve complicated interpersonal problems-it helps them to avoid them." -Harvey L. Gochros, D.S.W., professor, School of Social Work, University of Hawaii "lsensee explores gay male relationships by examining the difficulty of maintaining successful male-male bondings in a hostile, homophobic society. He discusses problems unique to homosexual relationships.... A helpful book." -Library Journal "A welcome addition to practical gay literature." -Booklist