Disqualified?

Disqualified?

Author: Dave Miller

Publisher:

Published: 2021-04-22

Total Pages: 171

ISBN-13:

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"I want to stick with what the Bible says. No compromise." The church has operated on the assumption that all divorce is always sin and disqualifies every man as serving as a pastor, elder, or deacon. Variations from that position have been viewed as compromise of the Word of God. After studying every passage in the Bible that deals with divorce and remarriage, Dave Miller has come to a different position. In Disqualified, he examines the Old Testament evidence that sets the cornerstone and lays the foundation of the biblical teaching, then looks at the framework constructed in Jesus' radical teachings. He examines the finishing touches put on by Paul, especially in 1 Corinthians 7, establishing the key biblical teachings on divorce, remarriage, and ministry. God's intent from creation was that marriage be a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, but in a world broken by sin also granted exceptions based on the "hardness of the human heart." After surveying the biblical evidence, Dave Miller asks several key questions for individuals and churches to consider. Have those who been divorced been permanently disqualified from leadership positions in churches? What does the phrase, "husband of one wife" mean? The church cannot ignore this subject and must search the Scriptures to seek the mind of Christ on it. Simply relying on tradition or doing what pleases people is not sufficient. God's word is always right and Dave Miller is convinced that we need to take a new look at this difficult topic.


The Life-Saving Divorce

The Life-Saving Divorce

Author: Gretchen Baskerville

Publisher:

Published: 2020-02

Total Pages:

ISBN-13: 9781734374704

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You Can Love God and Still Get a Divorce. And get this, God will still love you. Really. Are you in a destructive marriage? One of emotional, physical, or verbal abuse? Infidelity? Neglect? If yes, you know you need to escape, but you're probably worried about going against God's will. I have good news for you. You might need to divorce to save your life and sanity. And God is right beside you. In "The Life-Saving Divorce" You'll Learn: - How to know if you should stay or if you should go.- The four key Bible verses that support divorce for infidelity, neglect, and physical and/or emotional abuse. - Twenty-seven myths about divorce that aren't true for many Christians. - Why a divorce is likely the absolute best thing for your children. - How to deal with friends and family who disapprove of divorce. - How to find safe friends and churches after a divorce. Can you find happiness after leaving your destructive marriage? Absolutely yes! You can get your life back and flourish more than you thought possible. Are you ready? Then let's go. It's time to be free. This book includes multiple first-person interviews. Explains psychological abuse, gaslighting, the abuse cycle, Christian divorce and remarriage, children and divorce, domestic violence, parental alienation, mental abuse, and biblical reasons for divorce. Includes diagrams such as the Duluth Wheel of Power and Control (the Duluth Model) and the Abuse Cycle, as well as graphs based on Paul Amato's 2003 study analyzing Judith Wallerstein's book, The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce. Includes quotes by Leslie Vernick, Lundy Bancroft, Shannon Thomas, David Instone-Brewer, Natalie Hoffman, LifeWay Research, Kathleen Reay, Gottman Institute, Glenda Riley, Martin Luther, John Calvin, Steven Stosny, Michal Gilad, Leonie Westenberg, Nancy Nason-Clark, Julie Owens, Marg Mowczko, Justin Holcomb, Barna Group, Justin Lehmiller, Alan Hawkins, Brian Willoughby, William Doherty, Brad Wright, Bradford Wilcox, Sheila Gregoire, E Mavis Hetherington, John Kelly, Betsey Stevenson, Justin Wolfers, Norm Wright, Virginia Rutter, Judith Herman, and Bessel van der Kolk. Recommended reading list includes: Henry Cloud, John Townsend Boundaries books, Richard Warshack books.


Not Under Bondage

Not Under Bondage

Author: Barbara Roberts

Publisher:

Published: 2008

Total Pages: 190

ISBN-13: 9780980355345

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This book, written by a survivor of domestic abuse, explains the dilemmas of abuse victims, carefully examines the Scripture and scholarly research, and shows how the Bible sets victims of abuse free from bondage and guilt. Key concepts are: The Bible distinguishes between "treacherous divorce" and "disciplinary divorce", prohibiting the former and permitting the latter in serious cases of abuse, adultery or desertion. If the offending partner was sexually immoral, or abused, deserted, or unjustly dismissed the other, and has been judged to be "as an unbeliever," the Bible allows the non-offending, mistreated partner to remarry.


Divorce and Remarriage

Divorce and Remarriage

Author: H. Wayne House

Publisher: InterVarsity Press

Published: 1990-04-20

Total Pages: 280

ISBN-13: 9780830812837

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Editor H. Wayne House introduces a lively debate on varying Christian views of divorce and remarriage. Contributors include J. Carl Laney, William Heth, Thomas Edgar and Larry Richards.


Peace After Divorce

Peace After Divorce

Author: Renee Smith Ettline

Publisher:

Published: 2012-03

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9780984878994

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Illumination Book Award WinnerUplifting, practical and inspiring this award-winning divorce recovery book helps you with real-life issues and takes you on a journey that can change your life for the better. Selected as an exemplary Christian self-help book by the Illumination Book Awards, Peace after Divorce walks you through a process that helps you cope with and heal from divorce. Learn Ways To: Move beyond the pain of separation and divorce; Deal with loneliness and divorce grief; Win the battle with your thoughts, Choose healing actions; Cope more effectively with your ex or soon-to-be ex; Help children cope with separation and divorce; Enjoy life after divorce as a single adult; and more.Don't Become One of the Walking Wounded! Click to Order Your Copy Now. For individual or group use. Christian divorce recovery curriculum and leader materials are available through After Divorce Ministries.


The MacArthur Study Bible

The MacArthur Study Bible

Author: Thomas Nelson

Publisher: Thomas Nelson

Published: 2013-11-05

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781418550370

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The MacArthur Study Bible is perfect for serious study. No other study Bible does such a thorough job of explaining the historical context, unfolding the meaning of the text, and making it practical for your life.


God Hates Divorce Malachi 2

God Hates Divorce Malachi 2

Author: Bettie J Rusher

Publisher: Scribes of Eden LLC

Published: 2017-01-30

Total Pages:

ISBN-13: 9780998555508

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GOD HATES DIVORCE: Malachi 2:16, A Wife's Guide to a Successful Marriage has been written with blood, sweat, and tears for ALL women! This Guide is for you; if you are unmarried (for whatever reason), and are in the preparation and/or contemplating stage! If you are a new bride - this Guide is for you! If you are a wife that's in a smooth sailing stage - this Guide is for you! If you are a wife in the OMG (Oh, My God) stage - this Guide is for you! If you are the champion wife that's in the midst of active battle - this Guide is for you! Finally, if you are the seasoned, mature wife - this Guide is for you; to serve as a reminder to keep your hands on the plow... to never get distracted or be deceived that you got it all together! The Heavenly Marriage Series offers "Woman to Woman" real talk, no sugar-coating added to quip wives with advance maneuvers that the enemy, who loves divorce and hates family, don't want God's POWER COUPLES to know! Yes, GOD HATES DIVORCE! Since the beginning of time; God has had a Plan for Marriage, He said, it is Good! He blessed Adam and Eve, saying Be fruitful, multiply, replenish, subdue and have dominion on earth. He hasn't changed His mind. Adam and Eve were the first POWER COUPLE to experience a Heavenly Marriage! What is a Heavenly Marriage? How does it look? Is it really possible to experience a Heavenly Marriage right here on this earth in your lifetime? Absolutely, unequivocally, you got that right...YES, YOU CAN!! The Wife's Guide to a Successful Marriage, answers those "What do you do when you don't know what to do?" questions! This Guide is full of wisdom, knowledge and experience gained through over 30 years of marriage. Author, Bettie J Rusher, a battle scarred-veteran wife passionately shares her journey from the Pit of Despair to a HEAVENLY MARRIAGE. She shares (31) surprisingly, very simple, kick the-devil-out-of-your marriage warfare strategies. Plus (31) powerful prayers and daily confessions are included to assist you in defensively and offensively fight for your marriage. Yes, the devil hates your marriage! Since the beginning of time; he has fought against God's Plan for marriages. He understands the Power of a Heavenly Marriage. The question is, do you really want a Heavenly Marriage? Are you ready to do the work behind closed doors or enviously covet your neighbors' Heavenly Marriage? After reading this Guide, you will have a good idea of what it truly takes; there will be no illusions. Marriage is a serious business (with a contract), BUT, here is the Good News; GOD WANTS you to have a Heavenly Marriage; therefore it is possible!!!


The Peaceful Wife

The Peaceful Wife

Author: April Cassidy

Publisher: Kregel Publications

Published: 2016-01-27

Total Pages: 263

ISBN-13: 0825443946

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“This book walks each of us through the reality checks we need in order to have the marriage we want!” —Shaunti Feldhahn, social researcher and best-selling author of For Women Only In today’s workplace, women are often rewarded for having type A personalities: driven, demanding, ambitious, and strong. Yet when it comes to their marriages, those same traits can backfire. After all, no one goes into marriage hoping for a promotion. What is a wife to do? April Cassidy knows this struggle firsthand. She thought she was a great Christian wife and begged God to make her passive husband into a more loving, involved, godly leader. Instead, God opened her eyes to changes that she needed to make, such as laying down her desire for control and offering genuine, unconditional respect—not just love—to her husband. Cassidy’s conclusions may be as startling to readers as they were to her, but The Peaceful Wife shares how she and many others have learned to reorient their lives to biblical commands—resulting in healthier, happier marriages. In the end, you’ll find The Peaceful Wife a powerful path to God’s design for women to live in full submission to Christ as Lord.


The God Who Is There

The God Who Is There

Author: D. A. Carson

Publisher: Baker Books

Published: 2010-07-01

Total Pages: 240

ISBN-13: 1441213856

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It can no longer be assumed that most people--or even most Christians--have a basic understanding of the Bible. Many don't know the difference between the Old and New Testament, and even the more well-known biblical figures are often misunderstood. It is getting harder to talk about Jesus accurately and compellingly because listeners have no proper context with which to understand God's story of redemption. In this basic introduction to faith, D. A. Carson takes seekers, new Christians, and small groups through the big story of Scripture. He helps readers to know what they believe and why they believe it. The companion leader's guide helps evangelistic study groups, small groups, and Sunday school classes make the best use of this book in group settings.


Reforming Marriage

Reforming Marriage

Author: Douglas Wilson

Publisher: Canon Press & Book Service

Published: 1995

Total Pages: 146

ISBN-13: 1885767455

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How would you describe the spiritual aroma of your home? The source of this aroma is the relationship between husband and wife. Many can fake an attempt at keeping God's standards in some external way. What we cannot fake is the resulting, distinctive aroma of pleasure to God. Reforming Marriage does what few books on marriage do today: it provides biblical advice. Douglas Wilson points to the need for obedient hearts on the part of both husbands and wives. Godly marriages proceed from obedient hearts, and the greatest desire of an obedient heart is the glory of God.