Weird Parenting Wins
Weird Parenting Wins

Author: Hillary Frank

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2019-01-15

Total Pages: 258

ISBN-13: 0525504478

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Unconventional--yet effective--parenting strategies, carefully curated by the creator of the popular podcast The Longest Shortest Time Some of the best parenting advice that Hillary Frank ever received did not come from parenting experts, but from friends and podcast listeners who acted on a whim, often in moments of desperation. These "weird parenting wins" were born of moments when the expert advice wasn't working, and instead of freaking out, these parents had a stroke of genius. For example, there's the dad who pig-snorted in his baby's ear to get her to stop crying, and the mom who made a "flat daddy" out of cardboard and sat it at the dinner table when her kids were missing their deployed military father. Every parent and kid is unique, and as we get to know our kids, we can figure out what makes them tick. Because this is an ongoing process, Weird Parenting Wins covers children of all ages, ranging in topics from "The Art of Getting Your Kid to Act Like a Person" (on hygiene, potty training, and manners) to "The Art of Getting Your Kid to Tell You Things" (because eventually, they're going to be tight-lipped). You may find that someone else's weird parenting win works for you, or you might be inspired to try something new the next time you're stuck in a parenting rut. Or maybe you'll just get a good laugh out of the mom who got her kid to try beets because...it might turn her poop pink.

Playing to Win
Playing to Win

Author: Hilary Levey Friedman

Publisher: Univ of California Press

Published: 2013-08-03

Total Pages: 304

ISBN-13: 0520276752

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"Many parents work more hours outside of the home and their lives are crowded with more obligations than ever before; many children spend their evenings and weekends trying out for all-star teams, traveling to regional and national tournaments, and eating dinner in the car while being shuttled between activities. In this vivid ethnography, based on almost 200 interviews with parents, children, coaches and teachers, Hilary Levey probes the increase in children's participation in activities outside of the home, structured and monitored by their parents, when family time is so scarce. As the parental "second shift" continues to grow, alongside it a second shift for children has emerged--especially among the middle- and upper-middle classes--which is suffused with competition rather than mere participation. What motivates these particular parents to get their children involved in competitive activities? Parents' primary concern is their children's access to high quality educational credentials--the biggest bottleneck standing in the way of, or facilitating entry into, membership in the upper-middle class. Competitive activities, like sports and the arts, are seen as the essential proving ground that will clear their children's paths to the Ivy League or other similar institutions by helping them to develop a competitive habitus. This belief, motivated both by reality and by perception, and shaped by gender and class, affects how parents envision their children's futures; it also shapes the structure of children's daily lives, what the children themselves think about their lives, and the competitive landscapes of the activities themselves"--

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

Author: Adele Faber

Publisher: Harper Collins

Published: 1999-10

Total Pages: 306

ISBN-13: 0380811960

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You Can Stop Fighting With Your Chidren! Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know–how you need to be more effective with your children and more supportive of yourself. Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down–to–earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding. Their methods of communication, illustrated with delightful cartoons showing the skills in action, offer innovative ways to solve common problems.

Trophy Child
Trophy Child

Author: Ted Cunningham

Publisher: David C Cook

Published: 2012-09-01

Total Pages: 242

ISBN-13: 1434705161

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Written for every mom who helps too much with homework just to impress the teacher and every dad who takes credit for his daughter’s soccer success, Trophy Child will give parents the encouragement they need to nurture their kids into who God created them to be. Our culture’s obsession with achievement often leads parents to form expectations for their kids based on the world’s standards, not on the Bible. As a result, their kids feel they never measure up. Trophy Child will help modern Christian parents create a home where children find success in following their heavenly Father’s leading for them—and readers know the joy of seeing their children embrace their full potential as children of God.

Win the Whining War & Other Skirmishes
Win the Whining War & Other Skirmishes

Author: Cynthia Whitham

Publisher: Perspective Publishing

Published: 1991

Total Pages: 212

ISBN-13:

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A step-by-step guide to increasing cooperation and reducing conflict with children two to twelve years old. With entertaining illustrations and anecdotes, this book provides clinically-proven battle plans for dealing with behavior that drives parents crazy. Whitham offers practical solutions to everyday problems; parents will see results quickly. (Perspective Publishing)

Win-Win Parenting
Win-Win Parenting

Author: Marylynne White

Publisher: Dog Ear Publishing

Published: 2012-02

Total Pages: 248

ISBN-13: 1457507609

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MaryLynne White has a Master's degree in early childhood and family development. She has over twenty years' experience working as a parenting coach and counselor with children and their parents. She has also spent time in the "trenches" working as a professional nanny in a home with five children, ages 7 to 13 years of age. Through her work, she recognized that many "traditional" parenting techniques did not work very well. She developed a "toolbox" of simple ways to help parents guide their children's negative behaviors into more positive whereby everyone wins and feels happier. These proven techniques work for all children, regardless of their personalities. Her easy going, informal manner can be seen on her website at www.Win-WinParenting.com or her Youtube videos. She also has another website devoted to parenting the child with attachment problems at www.therapeuticparenting.com. This book offers easy to understand, sometimes different parenting techniques to help create a WIN-WIN atmosphere in your home. It shows how to raise respectful, responsible and happy children without the arguments and frustrations. It explains why children behave the way they do. WIN-WIN Parenting provides a road map on how parents can feel more successful, confident and loving when raising children. The book addresses specific behavior problems, with examples, along with common parental responses to them. Developmental reasons are given to explain the children's behaviors. Finally, specific parenting techniques are shared that are guaranteed to change children's behaviors. You will discover: How to get your kids to do things without nagging How to stay calm even when your child is having a melt down How to have fun as a parent without feeling frustrated, angry or impatient How to parent so everyone in the family WINS "

The Dynamics of Powerful Parenting
The Dynamics of Powerful Parenting

Author: Raymond Messer

Publisher: Trafford Publishing

Published: 2005

Total Pages: 196

ISBN-13: 1412053145

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The Dynamics of Powerful Parenting is a book about power, the power held by a parent to shape the development of a child, and the power of a child to either accept or reject those efforts. Often, when things are not working well for parents with their children, they will continue doing the same things, yet with ever more vigor. Usually, the result will be more of the same, only worse. A secret to understanding the dynamics of many human behaviors lies in the paradox of the Chinese Finger Puzzle (aka: Chinese Handcuff). The Chinese finger puzzle is a tube woven from bamboo shoots that is several inches long and about the diameter of a person's fingers; true to its nature, the tube will narrow as its ends are pulled. Thus, when the tube is slipped over the ends of fingers or thumbs on opposing hands, the subject's efforts to pull his or her fingers apart are met with increasing resistance from the device. So it is with much of being human. The thing that people wish to avoid most is the very thing that results from their efforts to do so. Dynamics is a book written with this paradox in mind. It is a book of insights about parenting that turns upside down many of the things that are currently held dear in "traditional" parenting efforts. It is a book that downplays the use of punishment, but never overlooks the need for discipline and responsibility. Dynamics encourages parents to think about what they are doing, how they are doing it, and what are they are experiencing as a result, then provides useful tools for changing undesired outcomes. It is a book that can produce positive results that will benefit generations yet unborn.

The Smart Stepfamily
The Smart Stepfamily

Author: Ron L. Deal

Publisher: Bethany House

Published: 2006

Total Pages: 272

ISBN-13: 076420159X

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Each member has their own unique place in a family. Ron Deal explores the myth of the "blended" family offering practical, realistic solutions for stepfamilies.

Winning the Heart of Your Child
Winning the Heart of Your Child

Author: Mike Berry

Publisher: Baker Books

Published: 2019-02-05

Total Pages: 190

ISBN-13: 1493415336

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Many of us enter parenthood with a perfect vision of what our family will be. But along the way we discover that the children we've been blessed with are real human beings, with their own minds, ideals, and views of the world. Our influence only goes so far, and when those children reach the pre-teen and teenage years, it may seem to have disappeared completely. Yet at no time in a kid's life is their parents' positive, godly influence more critical. For parents who are concerned that their child is pulling away, following poor role models, or making choices that will lead to pain and difficulty, Mike Berry has good news: it's not too late. He offers parents nine keys to maximizing and leveraging their influence to help their children through these difficult years and develop a relationship with them that can weather any storm.

Hold On to Your Kids
Hold On to Your Kids

Author: Gordon Neufeld

Publisher: Vintage Canada

Published: 2011-11-30

Total Pages: 332

ISBN-13: 0307375498

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A psychologist with a reputation for penetrating to the heart of complex parenting issues joins forces with a physician and bestselling author to tackle one of the most disturbing and misunderstood trends of our time -- peers replacing parents in the lives of our children. Dr. Neufeld has dubbed this phenomenon peer orientation, which refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction: for a sense of right and wrong, for values, identity and codes of behaviour. But peer orientation undermines family cohesion, poisons the school atmosphere, and fosters an aggressively hostile and sexualized youth culture. It provides a powerful explanation for schoolyard bullying and youth violence; its effects are painfully evident in the context of teenage gangs and criminal activity, in tragedies such as in Littleton, Colorado; Tabor, Alberta and Victoria, B.C. It is an escalating trend that has never been adequately described or contested until Hold On to Your Kids. Once understood, it becomes self-evident -- as do the solutions. Hold On to Your Kids will restore parenting to its natural intuitive basis and the parent-child relationship to its rightful preeminence. The concepts, principles and practical advice contained in Hold On to Your Kids will empower parents to satisfy their children’s inborn need to find direction by turning towards a source of authority, contact and warmth. Something has changed. One can sense it, one can feel it, just not find the words for it. Children are not quite the same as we remember being. They seem less likely to take their cues from adults, less inclined to please those in charge, less afraid of getting into trouble. Parenting, too, seems to have changed. Our parents seemed more confident, more certain of themselves and had more impact on us, for better or for worse. For many, parenting does not feel natural. Adults through the ages have complained about children being less respectful of their elders and more difficult to manage than preceding generations, but could it be that this time it is for real? -- from Hold On to Your Kids