Assertiveness, the foundation of this book, is about effectively communicating your needs and setting boundaries, while respecting the needs and boundaries of others. It's about finding the subtle balance between making your voice heard and giving others the space to voice their opinions. The art of assertiveness provides you with a detailed blueprint to help navigate the tricky waters of interpersonal relationships in both personal and professional environments. Here is a preview of what you'll learn... • The 5 causes of lack of assertiveness • Fast exercises to gain confidence immediately • Helpful one liners to break in to any situation • What you are missing by not being assertive • Secrets the confident people at work don't want you to know • How to raise assertive kids • Simple daily ritual to stay assertive all day long • Much, much more! Many of us also go through life never truly experiencing what we want. This can either be the perfect relationship, a dream career or a particular lifestyle we had always envisioned for ourselves. The simple reason why we don't go for what we want with more determination is because we have picked up the belief that we must be passive and nice as to not offend others. The problem with this behavior however, is that it gives others the chance to walk all over us.
Isn’t it time you took a stand? Many women struggle with assertiveness, but if you’re prone to anxiety and avoidance, it is especially difficult. Grounded in attachment theory, this essential guide will help you identify your thoughts and feelings, balance your emotions, communicate your needs, and set healthy boundaries to improve your life. When you’re assertive, you’re able to communicate your needs and wishes clearly while respecting yourself and anyone else involved in the interaction. But when you aren’t assertive, you may stop yourself from saying anything when your needs aren’t being met, or end up lashing out in hostile or hurtful ways. People with different attachment styles struggle with being assertive for different reasons, and even women with a secure attachment style may have difficulty expressing emotion when faced with challenging circumstances. Using strategies based in mindfulness, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), The Assertiveness Guide for Women can help you understand the attachment styles that keep you from asserting yourself. You’ll learn about the three communication stances—from the passive Doormat to the aggressive (or passive-aggressive) Sword to the assertive Lantern—and find practical examples that show you how to apply your new communication and emotional awareness skills in your own life. Rather than being caught in a cycle of rumination and regret when you’re unable to express yourself or even acknowledge your own needs, you’ll be ready to assert yourself and get what you want. Whether you’re anxious and overwhelmed by the intensity of your emotions, avoidant and struggle to identify your emotions, or otherwise have difficulty expressing yourself, this book will help you become more aware of your own thoughts and feelings, and empower you to ask for what you need, set boundaries, and speak your truth for a more fulfilling life.
Do you feel angry and frustrated when saying "yes" to something that you'd rather say "no" to? Have you felt that your opinion isn't worth as much as that of others in the same room as you? Then you need to keep reading... "The difference between successful people and really successful people is that really successful people say no to almost everything." - Warren Buffett Sometimes, it can be nerve-wracking or just plain uncomfortable to say "no". Especially when dealing with our loved ones or at the workplace. Unfortunately, it can be extremely damaging, especially over the long-term, to be constantly doing things that we don't want to do, or saying "yes" when deep down we're longing to be able to say "no" whenever we'd like to. The fear of disappointing others can be so intense, that most people live their lives terrified of what others will think if they speak up their thoughts or they say "no" to requests they don't want to do. The reality is that people that can communicate their thoughts, opinions, and wants are the ones that can succeed the most and reach their goals and objectives. Most people believe that you are either born assertive or you aren't. But how much truth is in this? Fortunately, even if you currently consider yourself to be the LEAST assertive person you know of, there is a LOT that you can do to turn your life around completely. In this book, you'll discover: The key difference that sets apart assertive people from passive or aggressive people. Basic body language hacks that everyone can immediately apply to be perceived as more confident. A proven roadmap to increase your sense of confidence when interacting with others. Crucial mistakes to avoid that make most people fail and act either too passively or too aggressively. Safe strategies to become more assertive in business or at the workplace so that you can reach your career goals quicker. Discover how women can become more assertive without being judged negatively. How to quickly improve communication in a relationship so that both sides end up winning. And much more.. There is a good wealth of scientific research that has shown how being assertive lowers stress and anxiety levels. It can also have a profound effect on lowering depression and other mood disorders. Being more assertive can also help you have better control of your emotions and thoughts during all time. Years of studying how our behavior patterns work in society has now made assertiveness training so easy-to-follow that even if you are the shyest person you can think of, you can turn your life around in no time.. So if you want to make sure that you don't ever say "yes" to things you don't want to do ever again, then scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" button now!
Unlock the Path to a Brighter, More Confident You with "Overcoming Anxiety"! Are you tired of avoiding social situations, feeling trapped in your own thoughts, or missing out on life's opportunities because of anxiety? If social anxiety has ever held you back, "Overcoming Anxiety" is the transformational guide you've been waiting for. This comprehensive eBook delves deep into the roots of social anxiety, offering a roadmap to reclaiming your life and embracing your authentic self. Begin your journey with an insightful exploration of social anxiety understand its nature, the psychological underpinnings, and how it manifests in daily life. Identify the triggers that provoke anxiety and learn how cognitive biases can shape your experiences. Gain clarity on how social anxiety impacts personal relationships, professional achievements, and self-esteem, empowering you to take the first steps towards change. "Overcoming Anxiety" champions self-awareness and acceptance, bringing the transformative power of mindfulness and journaling into focus. Discover cognitive techniques, including the essentials of cognitive behavioral therapy, that help you challenge and replace negative thought patterns. Experience the success of exposure strategies designed to help you gradually and confidently face anxiety-inducing situations. Communication is key! This guide offers practical advice on sharpening your active listening, verbal, and non-verbal communication skills while fostering assertiveness. Explore relaxation and mindfulness techniques such as breathwork and meditation, incorporating them seamlessly into your daily routine for maximum effect. Build your social skills toolkit, understand non-verbal cues, and practice engaging conversation starters to connect with others naturally. Support your journey with healthy lifestyle choices, surrounding yourself with a nurturing environment and balancing technology with real-life interactions. Benefit from real-life stories and lessons, gaining inspiration from those who have navigated a similar path. Finally, employ long-term strategies that ensure sustained progress and continued growth. Celebrate your successes and look forward to a future where your true self shines brightly. Embrace life with confidence and courage—your journey to overcoming social anxiety starts here.
Simple psychoeducational strategies to keep clients on track during and in-between sessions. Clients go to therapy wanting to change, but often they have no inherent knowledge of how to change. It’s up to the therapist to build a well-stocked toolkit of life skills and psychoeducational strategies. This book answers the call, delivering an array of basic “solutions”—in the form of handouts, worksheets, exercises, quizzes, mini-lessons, and visualizations—to use with your clients and tailor to fit their needs. No matter your preferred course of therapy—whether it’s CBT, DBT, EMDR, or EFT—having at your disposal a variety of easy-to-learn and easy-to-teach techniques for a host of common therapy issues goes a long way in keeping your clients on track, both during and in between sessions. Each chapter offers loads of skill-building tips and techniques to teach your clients, followed by practical take-aways for in-between sessions and additional recommended resources that they can turn to (websites, books, videos, and social media). Topics covered include: • stress Solutions • anxiety Solutions • depression Solutions • anger Solutions • conflict Solutions • regret Solutions • low Self-Esteem Solutions • life-Imbalance Solutions, and more. This book is one-stop shopping for a variety of simple, practical, educational techniques to help your clients make longstanding life changes.
Your Perfect Right—the leading assertiveness guide with over 1.3 million copies sold—is now fully updated and revised. This indispensable guide to equal-relationship assertiveness is packed with step-by-step exercises, tips, and skills to help you express yourself effectively. Are you comfortable starting a conversation with strangers at a party? Do you sometimes feel ineffective in making your needs clear? Do you have difficulty saying no to persuasive people? Everyone needs a little help getting along with others. Assertiveness is a key social skill, as well as a tool for making your relationships more equal. Learning to respond more effectively to others can help you reduce stress and increase your sense of self-worth. In this fully updated and revised tenth edition, you’ll learn practical advice on dealing with difficult people, handling criticism, and expressing your feelings. You’ll also discover how to use humor in conflict resolution, ways to clarify others’ intentions, and how to distinguish between encouraging and discouraging communication habits. This edition also includes a new introduction by coauthor Robert Alberti, in addition to research and information on the subjects of anger and interpersonal communication. Assertiveness is an alternative to personal powerlessness or manipulation. The program in this book will help you develop effective ways to express yourself, maintain your self-respect, and show respect for others. This is not a “me-first” book—it's all about equal-relationship assertiveness!
All of us can think of times when we know we should speak up, but we don't. When we feel like we're being taken advantage of, but we just accept it. Later, we kick ourselves, thinking: "If only I would have said something!" If this sounds like you, look no further! This book serves as a complete guide to understanding what assertiveness is and how to become more assertive in your own life. Using practical exercises and techniques it will teach you how to stand up for what you believe in, ask for what you want, and say no to what you don't want in a way that's confident, calm, and respectful. This book will also show you how to increase your self-confidence and your self-worth. This book is for: People who would like to massively boost their assertiveness People who would like to develop better communication skills People who would like to learn how to deal with conflicts People who would like to communicate with confidence and charisma New managers who need to be more assertive with their team. Emerging leaders who want to communicate more clearly and confidently. Introverted people who need to set boundaries and say "no." Passive communicators who want to speak more directly and honestly. People who have difficulty protecting their time, priorities, and goals. People who need to set stronger boundaries. People who are tired of being a doormat and taking a passive role in relationships People who are afraid of standing up for themselves The "push over, nice guy" The "Yes man" People who are tired of being controlled and dominated People who struggle with knowing their worth. This book will teach you the following: What is Assertiveness The 4 Communication Styles How to be an Assertive Communicator How to Communicate with Confidence and Charisma Highly Effective Techniques to Deal with Any Conflict in Your Personal & Professional Life How to Have an Assertive Body Language How to Speak Up, Share Your Ideas & Opinions in A Persuasive, Calm & Positive Way How to express your feelings, opinions and wants honestly, clearly, and respectfully How to Say "no" and establish boundaries without Looking Selfish How to Reduce Negative Emotions & Anxiety How to Provide Feedback to Others While Looking Good & Friendly How to Reduce Discomfort When Talking to People How to Overcome your fears and limiting beliefs about being assertive How to better manage conflict and difficult conversations How to make your job and life less stressful because you know how to protect your time, priorities and goals Learning how to be more assertive can massively improve your relationships and your overall sense of self-confidence. When you can express yourself assertively and speak up for yourself, other people will respect you more. Even more importantly, you will respect yourself more. Once you start improving your assertiveness, incredible things will happen in your life. This book will show you how to get more out of your life and feel better about yourself by helping you to become more assertive without coming across as bossy or forceful!
Did you know that asking a new kind of question can immediately change your life? One morning in 1997, college student Noah St. John was in the shower when he asked himself a question that changed his life: Why are we trying to change our lives saying statements we don’t believe . . . when the human mind responds automatically to something even more powerful? That’s when he invented the stunningly simple yet amazingly effective method he named Afformations—a method that’s since helped tens of thousands of people around the world to attract more money, lose hundreds of pounds, find their soul mates, grow their businesses, and dramatically improve their lives, with just four simple steps. The Book of Afformations isn’t just another book on abundance. It’s a proven, step-by-step guidebook to living the life of your dreams. Inside this book, you’ll discover: • What the Belief Gap is and why it’s keeping you stuck • How a struggling insurance salesman increased his income by 560 percent in less than a year—and found the love of his life—using this method • How a 13-year-old girl cured her chronic insomnia using this simple technique—in just one night • What they told you about the Law of Attraction that’s just flat-out wrong • How to quit smoking and overcome depression without drugs or therapy • The 2 most effective questions of all time, and the 1 question you should never ask • How to create instant superstar performance in yourself and everyone in your organization • And that’s just the beginning . . . Are you ready to join the Afformations Revolution?
One of the New York Post's Top 10 Career Books of 2012 and a Booklist Top 10 Business Book DO YOU WORK WITH A MEAN GIRL? A woman’s field guide to the new frontier of professional development—working with other women Women-to-women relationships in the workplace are . . . complicated. When they’re good, they’re great. But when they’re bad, they can ruin your day, your week—even your year. Packed with proven advice from two of today’s leading experts in workplace relationships, this one-of-a-kind guide gives women the tools they need to navigate difficult situations unique to women-to-women relationships—whether with a boss, a colleague, a client, or an employee. Have you dealt with a woman in the workplace who: “Accidentally” excludes you from important meetings? Seems intent on taking you down professionally? Gossips about you with other coworkers? Makes you look bad by missing deadlines? Forms a “pack” of mean girls to make your life miserable? Mean Girls at Work isn’t just about surviving difficult situations. It’s about transforming a toxic relationship into one that benefits and supports both of you. This book is also for women who engage in mean behavior . . . but don’t know it. After all, who hasn’t gossiped about a female coworker? Who hasn’t rolled her eyes in the presence of a woman she doesn’t like? Who hasn’t scanned another woman head to toe—which is just a nonverbal way of saying, “You’ve just been judged”? The authors provide invaluable advice to the more subtle ways of being mean—even if they’re not intended. With a workforce composed of a higher percentage of women than ever, workplace dynamics have changed. Crowley and Elster cover every conceivable scenario, providing critical advice on how to rise above the fray and move forward professionally. Mean Girls at Work is your map to dodging the mines and moving forward in today’s transformed workplace. Praise for Mean Girls at Work “An invaluable suit of armor for surviving nine to five!” —Leil Lowndes, bestselling author of How to Talk to Anyone “If you think the emotional cruelty of comedies like Mean Girls and Heathers doesn’t exist in the real world workplace, think again. In Mean Girls at Work, Katherine Crowley and Kathi Elster valuably chronicle female vs. female predators and offer solid defensive strategies.” —Ann Kreamer, author of It’s Always Personal: Navigating Emotion in the New Workplace “Whether you are in your twenties and just starting your professional career, your midcareer forties, when you are supposed to have figured it out already, or a woman in her fifties or sixties who’s seen it all—this book is a must-read. . . . The authors have finally given women the tools and the sound advice necessary to deal with . . . conflicts that keep us all from succeeding. . . . Carry this book with you to work every day!” —Carolyn Cassin, President, Michigan Women’s Foundation “A must-read for women of all ages in today’s workforce. This book offers what we all need to develop the capacities to endure this ever-changing workplace. We know it is all about relationships and you need the skills outlined in this book to survive and thrive when the Mean Girls attack.” —Kim Harrington, Coordinator, Professional Development and Training, Office of Human Resources, California State University, Sacramento
