“A precisely crafted and bracingly honest” memoir of war and its aftershocks from the New York Times–bestselling author of Matterhorn (The Atlantic). In 1968, at the age of twenty-three, Karl Marlantes was dropped into the highland jungle of Vietnam, an inexperienced lieutenant in command of forty Marines who would live or die by his decisions. In his thirteen-month tour he saw intense combat, killing the enemy and watching friends die. Marlantes survived, but like many of his brothers in arms, he has spent the last forty years dealing with his experiences. In What It Is Like to Go to War, Marlantes takes a candid look at these experiences and critically examines how we might better prepare young soldiers for war. In the past, warriors were prepared for battle by ritual, religion, and literature—which also helped bring them home. While contemplating ancient works from Homer to the Mahabharata, Marlantes writes of the daily contradictions modern warriors are subject to, of being haunted by the face of a young North Vietnamese soldier he killed at close quarters, and of how he finally found a way to make peace with his past. Through it all, he demonstrates just how poorly prepared our nineteen-year-old warriors are for the psychological and spiritual aspects of the journey. In this memoir, the New York Times–bestselling author of Matterhorn offers “a well-crafted and forcefully argued work that contains fresh and important insights into what it’s like to be in a war and what it does to the human psyche” (The Washington Post).
Discover Why Men Come on Strong Then Suddenly Lose Interest If you are currently dating, at some point you''ve probably been blindsided and left utterly frustrated after a great guy suddenly lost interest in you even though he seemed so passionate in the beginning. Maybe you''ve been completely heartbroken after a long-term boyfriend suddenly started pulling away from you. Sadly, as unfortunate as these dating situations are, when they do occur, most women tend to act in counterproductive ways that only end up pushing their guy even further away, maybe even for good. What to Do When Men Pull Away, Become Distant, or Try to Ignore You No woman can change the reality that any man, no matter how interested or invested he may first appear, can potentially pull away and lose interest in her at some point. Although this is the reality, a woman can, in fact, change the way she deals with such situations. While you might not be able to control a man''s behavior, you can control your own. Being in control of your emotions, especially when a man''s behavior threatens your future with him, will make it easier for you to influence his heart and make him see you as an irreplaceable, high-value woman. But in order to effectively influence a man''s heart, a woman must possess a deep understanding of how men think - why they lose interest and what scares them away from a blossoming relationship. How to Finally Understand Men and Never Be Confused by Their Behavior Again The thing is, a woman can astronomically increase her chances of dating success by doing one simple thing: understanding men. Rather than responding in desperation and frantic fretting, when a woman truly understands male dating behavior, she becomes far more confident and capable in dealing with men whenever they pull away or attempt to ghost her. Fortunately, in, Never Get Ghosted Again, you''re going to get an inside look into how men think when it comes to women and dating. In this fun and insightful dating book for women, you will discover the secret reasons why men suddenly lose interest, what causes men to fall in (and out of) love with a woman, and how to prevent that special guy from disappearing on you. Here''s what you''re going to learn inside: The BIGGEST reason why men pull away whenever you start giving them MORE of your love and attention. The seven things that make a man feel as if he''s "just not ready" for a SERIOUS relationship with a GREAT woman. What to do (and what NOT to do) when the man you desire suddenly starts losing interest in you. The six man-repelling behaviors that SCARE men away on a first date. (Hint: You''ll finally understand why many guys QUICKLY lose interest in highly educated, smart, and successful women.) Exactly what goes on in the mind of a man who suddenly "BREAKS THINGS OFF" with a woman he deeply cares about. The nine ways good-hearted women unknowingly CHASE men away by "Coming on Too Strong". (Hint: Avoid these "red flag" dating behaviors if you want to keep HIM chasing YOU instead.) What to say and do to STOP an on-coming break-up in its tracks to potentially SAVE the relationship. The twelve TIME-WASTING signs that reveals when a man sees you as his "PLAN B" and nothing more. (Hint: Knowing these signs will keep you from being seduced into a DEAD-END relationship with an emotionally unavailable man.) The PRIMAL process by which men "fall in love", and how to use this knowledge to get the guy you want and NOT get played. And much, much more... Would You Like to Learn More? Get started right away and discover the secret reasons why men lose interest and how to prevent great guys from disappearing on you. Scroll to the top of the page and select the ''buy'' button now.
Identifies seven personality types that share a common quality of having numerous unrelated interests, explaining how to prioritize and pursue multiple goals simultaneously in order to enjoy a successful and varied life.
Do You Want to Know Why Your Man SUDDENLY LOST INTEREST and How to GET HIS ATTENTION BACK? If you've ever had the man you love pull away just when you thought everything was going PERFECT, then I have GREAT NEWS for you: I am here to let you into the secrets of why he's suddenly lost interest and what exactly you can do to GET HIS FOCUS BACK ON YOU. I'm going to help you solve this mystery and I'm also going to give you the solution to it. I've Spent My Career Analyzing the Dating Game, and Now I'm Here to Show YOU How You Can WIN BACK HIS HEART Hi, I'm Eric Monroe. I'm a relationship expert, it's what I do for a living. I've spent my career analyzing relationships to work out what makes people tick and I've helped countless women find long-lasting, passionate relationships. I've been through this wringer with so many women who, just like you, have found themselves baffled and confused, sure that they did everything right to win their man's love but somehow ending up with nothing more than a cold shoulder. I helped them get their man's attention back, and I can help you too. Give Me ONE DAY and I'll DOUBLE Your Chances of Finding the Answer Give me a week and I guarantee that you will not only know exactly what landed you in this sticky spot, but that you know what you need to do to make things right. Not only that, I'm going to empower you to make the decision as to whether fixing this issue is really what YOU want. In this book, we'll cover: * The 12 reasons men suddenly go cold on their lovers. * How to spot the symptoms and know exactly what's going on. * Easy, practical ways to solve the situation and get your relationship - and your life - back on track. * And much, MUCH more. If You Don't Read This Guide, You Risk LOSING YOUR MAN FOREVER This guide has been proven to work - a hundred times over! I'm going to show you that getting your man's eyes back where they belong isn't only possible, it's much simpler than you thought. All it takes is for you and I to analyze the situation together and you'll start to narrow down the possibilities right away - and all for less than the cost of a pipe and a Sherlock Holmes hat. See the Difference in Less Than a Week... or Your Money Back! If you follow the chapters in this guide and you find they're not for you, simply click one button within 7 days and Amazon will return 100% of your money. That's how sure I am that I have the answer to your problem - I CAN help you turn things from cold back to steaming hot. Just scroll up now and click the BUY NOW button to start WINNING BACK YOUR MAN'S HEART, today!
In an alternate frontier America, Eff must travel beyond the Great Barrier and come to terms with her magic abilities--and those of her twin brother--to stop the newest threat encroaching on the settlers.
The classic guide to a powerful technique that can increase your mindfulness and lead to personal transformation Based on groundbreaking research conducted at the University of Chicago, the focusing technique has gained widespread popularity and scholarly acclaim. It consists of six easy-to-master steps that identify and change the way thoughts and emotions are held within the body. Focusing can be done virtually anywhere, at any time, and an entire “session” can take no longer than ten minutes, but its effects can be felt immediately–in the relief of bodily tension and psychological stress, as well as in dramatic shifts in understanding and insight. In this highly accessible guide, Dr. Eugene Gendlin, the award-winning psychologist who developed the focusing technique, explains the basic principles behind focusing and offers simple step-by-step instructions on how to utilize this powerful tool for tapping into greater self-awareness and inner wisdom. As you learn to develop your natural ability to “focus,” you’ll find yourself more in sync with both mind and body, filled with greater self-assurance, and better equipped to make the positive changes necessary to improve and enhance every aspect of your life.
Forget what you know about the nature of magic. In a world where an industrial revolution is powered by magic, Tyen, a student of archaeology, unearths a sentient book called Vella. Once a young sorcerer-bookbinder, Vella was transformed into a useful tool by one of the greatest sorcerers of history. Since then she has been collecting information, including a vital clue to the disaster Tyen's world faces. Elsewhere, in an land ruled by the priests, Rielle the dyer's daughter has been taught that to use magic is to steal from the Angels. Yet she knows she has a talent for it, and that there is a corrupter in the city willing to teach her how to use it -- should she dare to risk the Angels' wrath. But not everything is as Tyen and Rielle have been raised to believe. Not the nature of magic, nor the laws of their lands. . . and not even the people they trust. AN EPIC NEW FANTASY ADVENTURE BEGINS.
"The Beta Male Revolution is for men in the 21st Century what Feminism was for women in the 1960s and 1970s" says Author and Professional Dating Coach Alan Roger Currie in his latest book. Most men don't want to remain 'just friends' with women. Men want either sex only from women, or a combination of sexual companionship and non-sexual companionship. Unlike men, women have as many as FOUR types of men they want to spend time with: - Men who women only want to spend time with for sexual enjoyment and satisfaction: These are 'Total Alpha males' - Men who women only want to spend time with for a combination of sexual companionship and non-sexual companionship. These are 'Alpha males with a few Beta traits and tendencies' - Men who women want to spend time with primarily for the benefit of entertaining conversation, enjoyable social companionship, and financial assistance and support. These are 'Beta males with a few Alpha traits and tendencies' - Men who women only want to spend time with for strictly platonic friendship, flattery, and to have men provide them with an 'empathetic listening ear' when they are feeling bored, frustrated, or depressed. These are 'Total Beta males' Many women socially interact exclusively with Alpha male types between the ages of 18 and 29, and then begin looking for a nice, sweet, polite, monogamy-oriented Beta male type for marriage once they reach the age of 30. Well, the Beta male types are tired of this routine, and they are now avoiding proposing to marriage to women who they perceive as "Alpha male leftovers." Beta males are now well aware that the vast majority of women want to spend time with Alpha males for sexual enjoyment and satisfaction. They are also well aware that most women want to spend time with Beta males for platonic friendship, financial favors, and entertaining conversation. The Beta Male Revolution is a brutally honest assessment of where we as a society have been, where we are now, and where we are headed regarding the state of dating, long-term romantic relationships, marriage, and monogamy vs. promiscuity vs. polyamory. Women can also learn from this book because Currie explains just why men pursue some women for short-term non-monogamous 'casual' sex only, while they pursue other totally different women for long-term romantic relationships and marriage. Purchase this book right now and be educated and enlightened. You are guaranteed to have a better understanding of the manner in which the mind of the opposite sex works, and why men and women gravitate toward the type of romantic companions and sexual companions that they do after reading this book. This book will be talked about for years to come.
What do you want to be when you grow up? It's a familiar question we're all asked as kids. While seemingly harmless, the question has unintended consequences. It can make you feel like you need to choose one job, one passion, one thing to be about. Guess what? You don't. Having a lot of different interests, projects and curiosities doesn't make you a "jack-of-all-trades, master of none." Your endless curiosity doesn't mean you are broken or flaky. What you are is a multipotentialite: someone with many interests and creative pursuits. And that is actually your biggest strength. How to Be Everything helps you channel your diverse passions and skills to work for you. Based on her popular TED talk, "Why some of us don't have one true calling", Emilie Wapnick flips the script on conventional career advice. Instead of suggesting that you specialize, choose a niche or accumulate 10,000 hours of practice in a single area, Wapnick provides a practical framework for building a sustainable life around ALL of your passions. You'll discover: • Why your multipotentiality is your biggest strength, especially in today's uncertain job market. • How to make a living and structure your work if you have many skills and interests. • How to focus on multiple projects and make progress on all of them. • How to handle common insecurities such as the fear of not being the best, the guilt associated with losing interest in something you used to love and the challenge of explaining "what you do" to others. Not fitting neatly into a box can be a beautiful thing. How to Be Everything teaches you how to design a life, at any age and stage of your career, that allows you to be fully you, and find the kind of work you'll love.
Dear Friend, This book teaches you the hidden secrets of self-reliance so you can reach your full potential and accomplish your grandest goals and dreams. It will help you to discover your true purpose and calling in life. How to get any job or career you want. How you can get the upper hand in any personal or professional negotiation. The ultimate time management strategy that will help you maximize the use of your time, enable you to focus on your core competencies and reach your goals in the quickest most efficient way possible. It will teach you success and problem solving mindsets and skillsets that will enable you to overcome any obstacle, challenge or setback. The secrets to health, vitality and unlimited energy that keeps you free from common colds, flu and illnesses so you can enjoy your life with exceptional mental clarity, focus and efficiency
