Discover the heartfelt stories of minister wives that have shocked many readers of the immoral and distasteful behavior of so many ministers that says, they are after Gods Own Heart. Some of the stories are heartbreaking, shocking and unbelievable. Ministers wives and their mistresses, share their most intimate secrets of sinful relationships they have shared with the men of God. Painful and anonymous, they tell it all. They talk about the affairs their husband had with other women in the church, the children they fathered, the abuse, and all the secrets that would never be revealed to the church congregation.The author also reveals her own personal story by boldly exposing the hidden secrets of her life growing up as a preachers kid, with several of her own brothers that later became ministers, and also sharing her story living the life as a ministers wife, only in hopes of providing other women with courage, strength, and knowledge to take a stand and demand the happiness and respect they deserve.So you must obey them and do everything they tell you. But do not do what they do, for they do not practice what they preach.Matthew 23:3
Pastors' wives have often been viewed as "women behind the scenes", unnoticed and unappreciated. But the stories of these 14 women--from Katie Luther to Jill Briscoe--show that pastors' wives through the ages have played an essential role in the ministry of the church.
Life as a pastor's wife offers meaningful opportunities to play a significant part in God's work, to witness and participate in the beauty of changed lives. Yet it also carries the potential for deep wounds and great conflict that can drain the joy out of service. Is it worth it? Oh, yes, says Kay Warren, wife of Pastor Rick Warren and cofounder of Saddleback Church. It is more than worth the risk--it's a sacred privilege. Drawing on more than forty years in ministry in every possible size church, Kay provides encouraging principles and life lessons, along with intimate personal stories, that will give readers the confidence needed to lead and live well. Pastor's wives learn to - accept who they are - adapt to change - help their children survive and thrive - protect their private lives - deal with criticism - live with integrity - develop an eternal perspective Whether she is excited, struggling, or feeling broken and tired, every pastor's wife will find hope and encouragement for their calling in Kay's warm and wise words.
MINISTRY IS A CHALLENGING VOCATION, EVEN IN THE BEST OF TIMES. WHILE THE PASTOR OR YOUTH MINISTER IS THE PUBLIC FACE OF HIS CHURCH, THERE IS SOMEONE ELSE WHO PLAYS A VITAL SUPPORTING ROLE BEHIND THE SCENES - A ROLE THAT CAN BE CENTRAL TO ITS SUCCESS OR STRUGGLES. BEING THE WIFE OF A PASTOR OR YOUTH MINISTER CAN BE TREMENDOUSLY REWARDING, BUT IT IS ALSO A COMMITMENT OF TIME, PERSONAL INVESTMENT, AND PATIENCE. JEANA FLOYD PROVIDES A CLEAR, CONCISE, AND HONEST VIEW OF THIS LIFE. WITH "INTERACTIVE TESTIMONIES" INCLUDED FROM VARIOUS PASTORS' WIVES AT THE END OF EACH CHAPTER, THE BOOK SHARES POIGNANT AND POWERFUL INSIGHTS ANY WOMAN OR WIFE CAN APPRECIATE.
Women married to ministers discuss their feelings about themselves and their marriages, and how they cope with the special pressures in their lives caused by the demands of the ministry
"The Pastor's Wife - The Role and Life of the Pastor's Wife" is a well-written and insightful real-life ode to pastors' wives. The author, a renowned broadcast journalist, writes in simple, relatable English, offering readers a glimpse into the pastor's wife's (Osofo/Asafo maame's) often lonely and misunderstood unscripted life. She translates her pain from the loss of a dear friend into an opportunity to give pastors' wives a voice to share their secret pain and burdens with the world. This is not in a sense of seeking sympathy but rather in an appreciation of their public life, which has often overshadowed their individuality and the challenge of "living above reproach." She reveals how some pastors' wives have virtually lost themselves in ministry as they submissively help their spouses work towards fulfilling the mandate of their calling. This is a must-read for all church members, helping them to appreciate the vulnerability and secret cries of the pastor's spouse. It does not paint a gloomy picture but rather sheds light on the reality and suggests how the situation can be improved through policies that allow wives to also live their calling as they support the Pastor." Deaconess Sophia Nana Kudjordi, Pentecost International Worship Centre (PIWC), Graceland, Chief Corporate Communications Officer, ZoomLion. In the book, Peggy raises questions about the preparations that ministers' wives undergo and how this affects them in their roles. She accomplishes this by examining the perspectives of a cross-section of ministers' wives from various denominations in Ghana and beyond. The author achieves this by beautifully weaving the biography of a minister's wife and her personal reflections on her life. Based on these insights, she identifies the challenges faced by ministers' wives and offers useful recommendations to improve their ministry. The book carries a great deal of credibility and specificity. I am hopeful that it will inspire ministers and their wives to appreciate the circumstances in which ministry is conducted, and I highly recommend it to all. Samuel Gyau Obuobi (Apostle) General Secretary, The Church of Pentecost Peggy Ama Donkor delves into the rare subject of the role ministers' wives play in the lives of ministers within the body of Christ. In her book, "The Pastor's Wife - The Life and Role of the Pastor's Wife," she recounts the life story of her late "sister" as a minister's wife and extends her observations to the roles of other ministers' wives from The Church of Pentecost and other Christian denominations. The author raises questions about the role ministers' wives play in their husbands' ministry. She contextualizes the role of the minister's wife in The Church of Pentecost by comparing it with that of other churches. After gathering the views of a wide array of ministers' wives, she enumerates several challenges faced by ministers' wives across the spectrum and offers recommendations for addressing some of those challenges, as suggested by those already in ministry. She also provides guidance for the wives of young ministers and those entering ministry. Undoubtedly, the author utilizes her journalistic expertise to enrich the writing. The result is a simple and easy-to-read book suitable for all audiences. I encourage everyone to obtain copies, as it will undoubtedly change your perception of who a minister's wife is for the better. Elder Engr. Eric Atta-Sonno Head, Project Development and Operations Department Ghana Libyan-Arab Holding Company Pentecost International Worship Centre, PIWC Atomic
Although their calling is joyous, pastors' wives encounter special challenges because of the nature of their husbands' work. These letters from the wives of experienced and well-known pastors provide empathy, wise counsel, and encouragement.
