It Starts with You
It Starts with You

Author: Nicole Schwarz

Publisher: Broadleaf Books

Published: 2022-02-15

Total Pages: 274

ISBN-13: 1506472486

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As parents, we want to shape our children into emotionally mature and healthy human beings. But we cannot effectively shape our children's emotional well-being until we've addressed our own traumas and emotional needs. In It Starts with You, marriage and family therapist and parent coach Nicole Schwarz offers a nonjudgmental, shame-free guide to parenting children with a calm confidence. Working from a place of grace and compassion, she encourages us to explore how our history, thoughts, and assumptions impact our parenting decisions. Moving away from traditional discipline strategies, Schwarz focuses on the importance of having a calm brain, connected relationships, respectful conversations, and a coaching mindset with our kids. It Starts with You lays out a five-step process you can turn to whenever you're stuck in a difficult parenting situation. Each step is grounded in research and presented in a way that is easy to understand. Rather than adding unnecessary pressure, we learn that kids do not need perfect parents, but parents who are willing to learn, grow, and move forward with them in a positive direction.

Hurrah for Gin
Hurrah for Gin

Author: Katie Kirby

Publisher: Quercus

Published: 2017-11-28

Total Pages: 369

ISBN-13: 1635060451

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The perfect gift, this book is not a how-to guide. It won't tell you how to get your baby to sleep, how to deal with toddler tantrums, how to be a good parent, a cool parent, or even a renegade parent. It's a book about parenting that contains absolutely no useful advice whatsoever. Instead, Hurrah for Gin shares beautifully honest anecdotes and illustrations from the parenting front line that demonstrate it is perfectly possible to love your children with the whole of your heart while finding them incredibly irritating at the same time. From pregnancy to starting school, Hurrah for Gin takes you through the exciting, frustrating, infuriating, and wonderful whirlwind of parenthood, offering solidarity and a friendly hug after a tough day. Best served with gin.

The Imperfect Parent
The Imperfect Parent

Author: Kate Hamilton

Publisher: Greenleaf Book Group

Published: 2024-10-01

Total Pages: 344

ISBN-13:

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A judgment-free handbook on parenting kids in all their uniqueness We all want to raise independent, confident children, but unfortunately, there’s no one right way to parent that we can all learn. Each child is unique, and each mom and dad has their own ideas on parenting, often influenced by the way they were raised. The Imperfect Parent shows us how we can celebrate those differences, embracing the individuality of our kids, carrying on the successful practices our parents demonstrated, and learning from their—and our—mistakes. A mom of two boys, author Kate Hamilton is no stranger to parenting struggles, and she knows well that anyone who thinks they can parent error-free is just kidding themselves. This book is an honest look at her parenting triumphs and failures and what parents everywhere can learn from both. She explains: • How to handle parenting advice from others • How to communicate well with your partner or co-parent • How to help your children discover their identities • How to have conversations with your kids about uncomfortable topics • How to let your children fail And that just scratches the surface! Recognizing that there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to raising kids, The Imperfect Parent teaches you how to forge a path that works best for your family.

Good-Enough Mother
Good-Enough Mother

Author: René Syler

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2007-03-27

Total Pages: 294

ISBN-13: 141695127X

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In an ideal world, mothers would have time to hand-sew their kids' costumes for the school play, prepare all-organic meals, and volunteer in the classroom at the drop of a hat. In reality, most moms have to settle for plopping their little ones in front of SpongeBob so that they can prepare yet another chicken nugget-based dinner, guiltily convinced they're falling down on the job. In Good-Enough Mother, René Syler pulls back the curtain to reveal the truth about modern mothering and reassure time-stressed moms that even if their children are strangers to made-from-scratch cookies, they can emerge as happy, well-adjusted, fully functioning members of society. Mother to two great kids of her own, Syler explains how she learned to chuck perfection for practicality -- in short, how she became a Good-Enough Mother. She shows other women seeking to balance family, work, and some semblance of a personal life how to happily join the ranks of Good-Enough Mothers, who occasionally serve breakfast for dinner yet give their children plenty of what really matters -- love, time, and support. Each essay provides welcome empathy and sage advice on navigating life's different obstacles, whether it's dealing with annoying Supermoms, bluffing through a third grader's math homework, or coping with the words that strike terror into every parent's heart ("Your son's teacher on line one"). Offering real wisdom tempered with humor and warmth, Good-Enough Mother will have every modern mom laughing in relief and recognition.

Happy Chaos
Happy Chaos

Author: Soleil Moon Frye

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2011-08-23

Total Pages: 259

ISBN-13: 1101543523

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From Punky to parenting, Soleil Moon Frye shares insightful, realistic, in-the-trenches parenting advice, inspiration, and fun. Enthusiastic, spunky, and positive, Punky Brewster was the quintessential eighties kid. Nearly thirty years later, Soleil Moon Frye-the adorable girl who played her on TV-is all grown up. Now she's a married mom of two, an entrepreneur who parlayed her successful kids' clothing line into a partnership with Target, and a social media whiz with millions of followers. Many of the same girls who watched Soleil on television are now grown up with children of their own, too, and they look to her as a go-to source for realistic, in-the-trenches parenting advice, inspiration, and fun. Happy Chaos invites those women into Soleil's world, and makes them revel in the chaos of their own lives, too. Soleil believes that "happy chaos" is the sign of a family operating at its best-when parents accept that they'll make mistakes, that there will be messes, tears and skinned knees. She learned to love a jumbled life during her own childhood, when her own mom created an atmosphere that was thoroughly unconventional. Their house in Los Angeles was a haven for many young stars of Soleil's generation, often far from home and looking for a safe place to hang out. In this book, she shows how her happy but chaotic childhood informed her parenting: Each chapter begins with a telling reminiscence before moving into insightful advice and fun stories about life with her husband and two adorable daughters.

Parenting with Heart
Parenting with Heart

Author: Stephen James

Publisher: Revell

Published: 2018-10-16

Total Pages: 195

ISBN-13: 1493415158

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Parents want to be the best person they can for their children, but much of the time they may feel like giraffes on ice--clumsy, unprepared, and in imminent danger of going down. The good news is, our children don't need perfect parents. They need authentic, fully-hearted, relationally engaged parents who can mess up and move on more than parents who always get it right. In this freeing book, respected therapists and bestselling authors Stephen James and Chip Dodd invite parents to let go of perfectionism and micromanaging as they learn to parent from a place of emotional honesty and intimacy. Through their clinical experience and relatable true stories, they show parents that raising children to become capable, loving, and wise-hearted adults is far more about accepting our flaws than projecting an impossible standard to our children that we already know we can't live up to. Parents will learn how to resolve issues from their own childhoods, tune into their feelings and the emotions of their children, and be present with their families through both the best and worst of circumstances.

How Imperfect Parents Lead Great Families
How Imperfect Parents Lead Great Families

Author: Dale Vernon

Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform

Published: 2016-05-14

Total Pages: 170

ISBN-13: 9781533250704

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One of life's great injustices is that having children does not magically transform you into a great parent. No matter how deeply you wish to build a strong family, you bring your emotional baggage, blind spots, and biases to the task. To make matters worse, family is a continuous balance between doing enough for our children while managing the day to day chaos of our lives. No parent is perfect, but by leading your family intentionally with the focus on purpose, not perfection, you can lead your family to happiness and success. The secret? Know who you are by establishing, living and communicating through your values. How Imperfect Parents Lead Great Families teaches you how to establish a culture of communicating in your home with three powerful strategies for being an intentional parent and family: Bring your family together through unity by aligning your values and purpose Communicate consistently and continuously with clarity to provide the example you want your children learn from. Grow your children's confidence through action by turning all their efforts into positive experiences. Becoming the family you want to be is within your grasp. How Imperfect Parents Lead Great Families shows you the way.

I Thought It Was Just Me (but it Isn't)
I Thought It Was Just Me (but it Isn't)

Author: Brené Brown

Publisher: Avery

Published: 2008

Total Pages: 338

ISBN-13: 1592403352

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First published in 2007 with the title: I thought it was just me: women reclaiming power and courage in a culture of shame.

Raising the Perfectly Imperfect Child
Raising the Perfectly Imperfect Child

Author: Boris Vujicic

Publisher: WaterBrook

Published: 2016

Total Pages: 234

ISBN-13: 1601428340

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The father of Nick Vujicic, one of the world's most beloved persons with a disability, shares candidly the mistakes and successes in raising a child with unique challenges - from birth to an independent and satisfying adulthood. Nick Vujicic acknowledges that overcoming his physical challenges would have been impossible without the wise and effective efforts of his parents and family. Nick's father, Boris, tells the story of what it took to parent such a unique child. And he offers insight and practical advice to any parent raising a child with special needs.