Late-night texts. Mixed signals. Dead-end relationships. This doesn’t have to be your love life. Welcome to dating in the digital world—where phone conversations followed by dinner and a movie have been replaced by last-minute texts, ambiguous relationships, and vague group hangouts. While technology makes it faster and easier to connect than ever before, it has also created confusion . . . And heartbreak. Ruthie and Michael Dean have heard the same story from thousands of women: the disappearing men, the cryptic messages, the disappointing relationships, and the false intimacy of on-screen connection. In a no-holds-barred narrative style, the husband-and-wife team chronicles their dating mishaps, hilarious attempts to find love, and many mistakes—helping women understand just what men are thinking and how to attract Mr. Right. Real Men Don’t Text offers game-changing perspectives, bringing a fresh approach to love, sex, and dating. You don’t need to spend one more night staring at a phone screen. It’s time to take back your love life!
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Revealing Texting Dating Tips That Will Have You Attracting More Women Want to attract and date more woman? Is there a certain girl you want to seduce and have a relationship with? Would you like to amp up her interest in you? And do you want to do all of this with the most powerful tool at your disposal--your phone. Texting her isn't difficult if you know what you are doing, and this book will show you how. Beyond just a simple texting guide, this book teaches you how to write messages that will text her into bed. Text Dating Secrets Revealed destroys the conventional wisdom about attracting, dating, and seducing women through the use of text messaging. This guide will help transform you from a texting zero to a texting hero with simple, easily-to-implement advice. If you can text, then you already have all the necessary skills to succeed. You just have to be willing to take action. Renown text dating guru Vin Petrillo unveils his simple and efficient storyteller system, which focuses on building attraction in women by pressing the right emotional buttons. A Preview of What You Will Learn Inside... • How frequently should you text her? • What type of text will make her take notice and WANT to respond immediately to you? • How you can tell she is interested in you? • Should you flirt in your texts, and if so, when? • How to ask her out without appearing interested? • Is asking her a lot of questions a good idea? Text Dating Secrets Revealed covers these questions and many more. This guide will explain in-depth the mistakes you are probably making and how to avoid them in the future. Don't be stuck in the past, following advice that doesn't get you anywhere. It is time to make a change.
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