Teachings of a Not-So-Perfect Mom
Teachings of a Not-So-Perfect Mom

Author: Glenice Lui

Publisher: BalboaPress

Published: 2012-09-13

Total Pages: 55

ISBN-13: 1452507082

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Over the years, author Glenice Lui has learned many valuable lessons from her children; now she shares her favourite insights from being a mom. Modern moms try their best to juggle the many demands on their time and energy, with varying levels of success. Glenice has shared your struggle to balance work and family. Like you, shes learned that while moms may not always have the right answers, if their actions are driven by pure and unconditional love, things will usually work out just fine in the end. Teachings of a Not-So-Perfect Mom, her gift to moms everywhere, is filled with funny, heartwarming, and inspirational life lessons she has experienced. She wants to send the message that all moms have been given an innate gift of unimaginable love that transcends any difficulties coming our way in bringing up our families. So instead of wasting energy trying to be perfect, moms just need to have perfect love for their families.

Dispatches from a Not-So-Perfect Life
Dispatches from a Not-So-Perfect Life

Author: Faulkner Fox

Publisher: Crown

Published: 2007-12-18

Total Pages: 274

ISBN-13: 0307420582

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When Salon.com published Faulkner Fox’s article on motherhood, “What I Learned from Losing My Mind,” the response was so overwhelming that Salon reran the piece twice. The experience made Faulkner realize that she was not alone—that the country is full of women who are anxious and conflicted about their roles as mothers and wives. In Dispatches from a Not-So-Perfect Life, her provocative, brutally honest, and often hilarious memoir of motherhood, Faulkner explores the causes of her unhappiness, as well as the societal and cultural forces that American mothers have to contend with. From the time of her first pregnancy, Faulkner found herself—and her body—scrutinized by doctors, friends, strangers, and, perhaps most of all, herself. In addition to the significant social pressures of raising the perfect child and being the perfect mom, Faulkner also found herself increasingly incensed by the unequal distribution of household labor and infuriated by the gender inequity in both her home and others’. And though she loves her children and her husband passionately, is thankful for her bountiful middle-class life, and feels wracked with guilt for being unhappy, she just can’t seem to experience the sense of satisfaction that she thought would come with the package. She’s finally got it all—the husband, the house, the kids, an interesting part-time job, even a few hours a week to write—so why does she feel so conflicted? Faulkner sheds light on the fear, confusion, and isolation experienced by many new mothers, mapping the terrain of contemporary domesticity, marriage, and motherhood in a voice that is candid, irreverent, and deeply personal, while always chronicling the unparalleled joy she and other mothers take in their children.

Not So Perfect Mom
Not So Perfect Mom

Author: Amy Rienow

Publisher:

Published: 2019-06-25

Total Pages: 120

ISBN-13: 9781614841036

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As a mom, do you feel a constant pressure and nagging guilt that comes from chasing perfection? A drive for perfection has a negative effect on the relationships you are trying to build and nurture in your home. Amy Rienow offers every mom hope and encouragement to build healthy relationships and find real joy. She writes like a friend reminding moms to embrace each day as an opportunity to build heart-connections with their children. This book is laced with honest and practical parenting advice from a biblical perspective. Amy shares 12 "Mom Missions" that will give moms a new approach to raising happy children who know they are loved.

A Mother's Rule of Life
A Mother's Rule of Life

Author: Holly Pierlot

Publisher: Sophia Institute Press

Published: 2004

Total Pages: 221

ISBN-13: 1928832415

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With the help of your own rule, you can get control of your household, grow closer to God, come to love your husband more, and raise up good Christian children.

The Not Good Enough Mother
The Not Good Enough Mother

Author: Sharon Lamb

Publisher: Beacon Press

Published: 2019-06-25

Total Pages: 202

ISBN-13: 0807082465

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A psychologist who evaluates the fitness of parents when their children have been removed from their custody finds herself reassessing her own mothering when her son falls victim to the opioid crisis. Psychologist and expert witness Dr. Sharon Lamb evaluates parents, particularly in high-stakes cases concerning the termination of parental rights. The conclusions she reaches can mean that some children are returned home from foster homes. Others are freed for adoption. Well-trained, Lamb generally can decide what’s in the best interests of the child. But when her son’s struggle with opioid addiction comes to light, she starts to doubt her right to make judgments about other mothers. As an expert, a professor, and a mother, Lamb gives voice to the near impossible standards demanded by a society prone to blame mothers when anything befalls their children. She describes vividly the plight of individual parents, mothers in particular, struggling with addiction and mental illness and trying to make stable homes for their kids amid the economic and emotional turmoil of their lives—all in the context of the opioid epidemic that has ravaged her home state of Vermont. In her office, during visits with their children, and in the family court, the parents we meet wait anxiously for Lamb’s verdict: Have they turned their lives around under child welfare’s watchful eye? Do they understand their children’s needs? In short, are they good enough? But what is good enough? Lamb turns that question on herself in the midst of her gradual realization of her son’s opioid addiction. Amazed at her own denial, feeling powerless to help him, Lamb confronts the heartache she can bring into the lives of others and her power to tear families apart.

Motherprayer
Motherprayer

Author: Barbara Mahany

Publisher: Abingdon Press

Published: 2017-03-28

Total Pages: 242

ISBN-13: 1501827286

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Barbara Mahany writes, “Mothering was my crash course in love. Love of the sort I call Divine. Love in the way we yearn to be loved: Without end. Without question. Without giving in to exhaustion. Love with a big and boundless heart. Love with eyes and ears—and soul—wide open. Love even when it’s not so easy.” In Motherprayer, Mahany generously shares personal love letters on the mysteries and gifts of mothering, interspersed with family recipes and gentle essays, all offering beautiful lessons in how to love, and how to love well. In her bracingly honest style, she captures the ephemeral moments of motherhood—the hard, the glorious, the laughter, and the tears—and invites readers to pay attention, cradle our loved ones in prayer, and see the sacred lessons in loving. These stirring meditations bring into sharp focus one essential question: How do we love breathtakingly?

Perfect Madness
Perfect Madness

Author: Judith Warner

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2006-02-07

Total Pages: 356

ISBN-13: 9781594481703

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A lively and provocative look at the modern culture of motherhood and at the social, economic, and political forces that shaped current ideas about parenting What is wrong with this picture? That's the question Judith Warner asks in this national bestseller after taking a good, hard look at the world of modern parenting--at anxious women at work and at home and in bed with unhappy husbands. When Warner had her first child, she was living in Paris, where parents routinely left their children home, with state-subsidized nannies, to join friends in the evening for dinner or to go on dates with their husbands. When she returned to the States, she was stunned by the cultural differences she found toward how people think about effective parenting--in particular, assumptions about motherhood. None of the mothers she met seemed happy; instead, they worried about the possibility of not having the perfect child, panicking as each developmental benchmark approached. Combining close readings of mainstream magazines, TV shows, and pop culture with a thorough command of dominant ideas in recent psychological, social, and economic theory, Perfect Madness addresses our cultural assumptions, and examines the forces that have shaped them. Working in the tradition of classics like Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique and Christopher Lasch's The Culture of Narcissism, and with an awareness of a readership that turned recent hits like The Bitch in the House and Allison Pearson's I Don't Know How She Does It into bestsellers, Warner offers a context in which to understand parenting culture and the way we live, as well as ways of imagining alternatives--actual concrete changes--that might better our lives.

What Mothers Do Especially When It Looks Like Nothing
What Mothers Do Especially When It Looks Like Nothing

Author: Naomi Stadlen

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2007-09-06

Total Pages: 340

ISBN-13: 9781585425914

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Instead of preaching what mothers ought to do, psychotherapist Naomi Stadlen explains what mothers already do in the course of any exhausting day's work. Drawing from countless conversations with hundreds of mothers spanning more than a decade, What Mothers Do provides lucid insight into the true experience of motherhood and answers the perennial question common to mothers everywhere: What have I done all day? Stadlen's wise reflections, threaded throughout with the voices of real mothers, explore unsentimental reactions to motherhood-resentment, guilt, splintered identity, crippling inefficiency, and deadening fatigue. Yet the overriding sentiment is one of empowerment and wonder, as Stadlen illustrates how seemingly insignificant skills such as responding to a baby's colicky cry, being instantly interruptible, or soothing an overstimulated child to sleep profoundly contribute to an individual's socialization, self-worth, and curiosity. Remarkably perceptive and heartening, What Mothers Do will resonate with mothers everywhere in search of understanding and wisdom.

Confessions Of A Domestic Failure
Confessions Of A Domestic Failure

Author: Bunmi Laditan

Publisher: HarperCollins Australia

Published: 2017-05-01

Total Pages: 221

ISBN-13: 1489241817

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From the creator of The Honest Toddler comes a fiction debut sure to be a must–read for mums everywhere There are good mums and bad mums – and then there are hot–mess mums. Introducing Ashley Keller, career girl turned stay–at–home mum who's trying to navigate the world of Pinterest–perfect, Facebook–fantastic and Instagram–impressive mommies but failing miserably. When Ashley gets the opportunity to participate in the Motherhood Better boot camp run by the mummy–blog–empire maven she idolises, she jumps at the chance to become the perfect mum she's always wanted to be. But will she fly high or flop? With her razor–sharp wit and knack for finding the funny in everything, Bunmi Laditan creates a character as flawed and lovable as Bridget Jones or Becky Bloomwood while hilariously lambasting the societal pressures placed upon every new mother. At its heart, Ashley's story reminds mums that there's no way to be perfect, but many ways to be great.

Buddhism for Mothers
Buddhism for Mothers

Author: Sarah Napthali

Publisher: ReadHowYouWant.com

Published: 2010-06

Total Pages: 314

ISBN-13: 1458780236

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Become a calmer and happier mother with Buddhism for Mothers. 'This is an excellent, practical guide to everyday Buddhism not just for mothers, but for everyone who has ever had a mother. ' Vicki Mackenzie, author of the bestselling Why Buddhism Parenthood can be a time of great inner turmoil for a woman yet parenting books invariably focus on nurturing children rather than the mothers who struggle to raise them. This book is different. It is a book for mothers. Buddhism for Mothers explores the potential to be with your children in the all-important present moment; to gain the most joy out of being with them. How can this be done calmly and with a minimum of anger, worry and negative thinking? How can mothers negotiate the changed conditions of their relationships with partners, family and even with friends? Using Buddhist practices, Sarah Napthali offers ways of coping with the day-to-day challenges of motherhood. Ways that also allow space for the deeper reflections about who we are and what makes us happy. By acknowledging the sorrows as well as the joys of mothering Buddhism for Mothers can help you shift your perspective so that your mind actually helps you through your day rather than dragging you down. This is Buddhism at its most accessible, applied to the daily realities of ordinary parents. Even if exploring Buddhism at this busy stage of your life is not where you thought you'd be, it's well worthwhile reading this book. It can make a difference.