Swinging is like opening a bag of potato chips in church. Everyone looks at you in disgust, but deep down inside they want some too. This book is a primer for couples interested in exploring "The Lifestyle" known as swinging. You'll learn great tips for throwing your own swinger parties, how to meet and attract other swingers, as well how to avoid some of the common pitfalls that happen while swinging.
This is the intermediate level guide and the continuation from the first book: "Swinging For Couples Vol. 1: Beginner's Guide To The Swinging Lifestyle - 25 Things You Must Know Before Becoming A Swinger." In this book, we will cover the more advanced parts of swinging. Swinging is about trust, and trust is won through careful attention to rules, paying attention to boundaries, and not causing drama. It is important to understand that swinging is not about having sex with anyone you feel like having sex with. It is not about cheating on your spouse or partner. It is, as I said, primarily about trust. Swinging brought back that feeling couples had when they were first with their spouse or partner, that excitement and anticipation they felt during the first date. One aspect of swinging that most people may find hard to believe is that seeing other people interested in and desiring your partner can actually make you desire them more. There is, of course, nervousness during your first few swaps. The idea of swinging is an exciting one, but it can also be extremely nerve-wracking. Even if you have already discovered a club you and your partner want to be a part of, or a couple you and your partner are going to swing with, there is still a lot to learn about the swinging lifestyle. In this guide, you’ll learn the importance of your reputation, of hygiene and ethics to those in the swinging world, how to host the other couple at your own venue, how to swing discreetly, how to play rough but safe, and you will also get a peek at some of the different fetishes you may or may not come across during your journey. Here are some of the things you will discover in "Swinging For Couples Vol. 2:" - Importance of reputation within the swinging world... - Practicing good hygiene... - Practicing good ethics within the swinging world... (both public and private) - Hosting the other couple and being gracious guests... - Swinging discreetly – how to swing without ruining your career and social reputation... - WARNING: 3 things you should never do when it comes to swinging - Play rough but play safe – how to take it to the edge without taking it too far. - Exploring different fetishes within the world of swinging - And much more...
Drawing on an extensive survey of real people and over 40 years of research, this revealing volume proposes that a nonmonogamous lifestyle may be healthier for marriages than a monogamous one. Based on an exhaustive survey into the lives of real people, Swinging in America: Love, Sex, and Marriage in the 21st Century concludes that nonmonogamous relationships such as swinging and polyamory offer a new blueprint for combining sex and love—one that may prove more in line with the way people actually live their lives in our society. Swinging in America begins with what we know about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, based on personal narratives and over 40 years of sociological research comparing swinging and non-swinging couples on factors such as personal happiness, marital satisfaction, psychological stability, and personal values. The second half of the book explores the historical rise and contemporary decline of monocentrism—the sexually monogamous marriage as the organizing principle underlying our culture—and the implications of this decline for new nonmonogamous relationships and marriages.
Are you interested in couple-swapping? Sex parties? Group sex? Threesomes? Anonymous sex? Girl/Girl? Orgies? Then Swinging for Beginners: An Introduction to the Lifestyle - the Revised Edition is a book you definitely need to read. It's been said that the couple who plays together stays together and this sizzling how-to book tells everything you need to know to get started in this sexy lifestyle. This includes information on dating, what to wear, what to do at clubs and parties, single men, jealousy, threesomes, how to meet other swingers and how to deal with it all and much more. In Swinging for Beginners: An Introduction to the Lifestyle - the Revised Edition, you'll not only find out the basics, but also read about steamy real-life experiences that will give you a real taste of what to expect once you get started. So are you prepared to delve more deeply into the secret world of the swinging lifestyle? Do you think you're ready to join in on the fun? Are you ready to see just what the Swinging Lifestyle is all about? If so, this book can help you get started. C'mon. You know you're curious.
The wryly amusing and revealing story of one man's journey into the swinger lifestyle that pulls back the curtain on this fascinating, and often misunderstood, subculture. An estimated fifteen million strong worldwide, swingers are everywhere - a huge community, hiding in plain sight, whose erotic pastime remains a complete mystery to the rest of us. In Swingland, Daniel Stern outs himself and the secretive society he loves, recounting his ten - year transformation from a lonely guy who couldn't get a date into a veteran sexual adventurer. Swingland is much more than just a titillating exposé - there is also plenty of invaluable advice for those thinking of taking the plunge themselves (be honest, sensitive and hygienic!). Lovingly written, with a keen sensibility, Stern's narrative is as improbably safe as it is fun - and impossible to put down.
Curious adults interested in how others live or seeking more than a vanilla lifestyle for them, can uncover the swinging world of consensual non-monogamy. We demystify the fascinating swinger lifestyle that is discreetly enjoyed by those having more than their share of hot memorable moments. Discover this sex-positive alternative to traditional relationships with this swinger guide written by relationship expert Dr. Georgia Fuchs and her husband Will. They'll show how this exciting & discreet community of swinging couples & singles is nothing like the Hollywood myths. This swinging guide explains how to safeguard relationships, discreetly find swingers, set boundaries, while still adding in the excitement of consensual non-monogamy to your life. Realize just how to have a loving, lasting relationship that just happens to also include sexy playtime with hot new friends today! Topics Covered: What is Swinging? Who Swings? Why Swing? Jealousy or Compersion? Risks of Swinging Why Swinging Won't Fix Cheating Types of Swingers Avoiding Landmines Balancing Religion With Swinging How to Share Your Interest in Swinging Swinging Rulebook Handling Feelings How To Go Swinging? Packing Your Swinging Party Bag Safer Sex and Managing Risk Levels Etiquette AKA Polite Phucking Safeguarding Privacy Rural Swinging ED Issues & Performance Pills Ice Breaker Games Younger & Senior Swingers And much more...
The present study explored the marital and sexual satisfaction of a sample of 1,376 men and women swingers via an on-line survey. Marital and sexual satisfaction scales were used to measure the levels of satisfaction of the sample in both variables. Demographics characteristics of the sample, attitudes towards swinging experiences, and swinging sexual behaviors were also examined. Data analysis revealed that both men and women in the sample scored at the high end of the marital and sexual satisfaction scales. Further statistical procedures yielded minimal differences between the scores of men and women in those measures. the swinging experience was measure by multiple choice questions. Regarding swinging activities and experiences, men and women swingers reported being satisfied with their swinging activities. Men were more likely than women to have suggested swinging to their partners; the two major reasons given for engaging in swinging activities were sexual variety and fantasy fulfillment; most of the participants reported participating in swinging activities four to five times a year and finding their swinging partners via the Internet. the demographic data revealed that the individuals in the sample were mostly white, aged between thirty and fifty years of age, in their first marriage, college educated from urban or suburban areas, and with a mean income between forty and seventy five thousand dollars yearly. Most of the men reported being heterosexual while a small number reported being bisexual; over half of the women reported having a bisexual orientation and only a small number were heterosexual. the limitations of the study were described and discussed and the following recommendations were suggested. Further research is needed with the swinging population to determined the impact of swinging on the family unit, engage in further research with couples to evaluate the responses of each individual, and conduct a comprehensive longitudinal study to gather information on the long-term effects of swinging on the marital relationship.
This book is a primer for couples interested in exploring "The Lifestyle" known as swinging. You'll learn great tips for throwing your own swinger parties, how to meet and attract other swingers, as well how to avoid some of the common pitfalls that happen while swinging.
This book is an engaging and comprehensive resource for high school and college students on modern topics in human sexuality, covering subjects such as gender roles and dating to sexual orientation and sex itself. Part of Greenwood's The Psychology of Everyday Life series, this book gives readers a single-stop resource for learning about the intersections of psychology, human attraction, sexuality, cultural norms, and sexual behavior. Written in a compelling and straightforward style, readers will enjoy learning about the subject and come away with a new perspective on sex and sexuality. This overview covers popular topics in human sexuality such as the ubiquitous forms of sex in society (e.g., gender roles, sexual orientation, media and technology, cultural norms about sex), the importance of sex in every individual's life, the positive and negative effects of sex, specific psychological theories and theorists, sex over the developmental lifespan, and different cultural perspectives on topics in human sexuality. The presentation of topics in the book builds logically on previously covered material; however, the information is presented so that students looking for specific information can read chapters out of order and still understand the primary content areas.
