Surviving Your Split
Surviving Your Split

Author: Lucy;Mannering Mannering

Publisher: ReadHowYouWant

Published: 2018-10-25

Total Pages: 400

ISBN-13: 9781525285028

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Welcome to the club that you never wanted to join. You aren't alone: 94,000 Australians get divorced every year, and this doesn't include de facto relationships, which are just about identical in the eyes of the Family Court. Of all major life events that mess you around, divorce comes in at number two, just behind the death of a spouse. It's a scary, confusing time. But you will get through this. Authors and sisters Rebekah and Lucy Mannering did. Rebekah separated from her first husband four months before Lucy separated from hers. As lawyers who grew up in a family of lawyers, even they felt confronted by their strange new world. Surviving Your Split is the book they wished they'd had. Practical and humorous, it's the sort of guidance you'd get if your best friend was a family lawyer. It's for everyone who needs help to navigate the legal minefield of divorce, and wants some tips on how to get through it with their life relatively intact-and the possibility of creating an even better, happier life at the other side. Surviving Your Split aims to save you money by skilling you up and ensuring the best outcome for you and your family. It is broken into bite-size information including: surviving the first few days telling your children and extended family dealing with the Family Court system negotiating a property settlement and a resource list

Surviving Your Split
Surviving Your Split

Author: Nicolya Williams

Publisher:

Published: 2020-07-25

Total Pages:

ISBN-13: 9781948985031

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Have you recently experienced a divorce that has knocked you down?We often have this idea in our mind of what our lives are supposed to be and what it'll look like in the future, and whether it's divorce or separation that vision is often shattered.When life takes this turn it's easy to fall on your face and feel like there's no purpose.It's easy to become embarrassed or overwhelmed and in turn, begin to isolate.It's easy to become hopeless and give up.Going through my divorce was one of the most difficult things I have ever experienced.Letting go of the image I had in my head about my family, life, dreams, and plans felt unbearable.I had to learn to create a new picture in my head and mentally doing this was more difficult than physically trying to understand.For a long time, I allowed myself to believe that I had to remain in a hurt place.After being sick and tired for so long I decided that I couldn't live my life like this forever.Through my experience I learned that the only way to get unstuck was to make a choice.It's simple to assume that certain things have to happen for us to be free of negative thinking or a stuck mindset.And if you sit and wait for a breakthrough you could be sitting and waiting for your entire life.Trust me that's no funYou have to create your own breakthroughs.You have to decide that you deserve more.You have to believe in yourself and your future.You have to let yourself be happy againAnd Surviving Your Split will teach you just that

Before You Split
Before You Split

Author: Toni Nieuwhof

Publisher: WaterBrook

Published: 2021-01-12

Total Pages: 224

ISBN-13: 0525653376

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A former divorce attorney lays out the hidden benefits of staying together, whether you’re frustrated with your marriage, on the brink of giving up completely, or simply want to strengthen your relationship to withstand the inevitable hard times. “Toni Nieuwhof is the guide you’ve been waiting for. Deeply wise, genuinely empathetic, and uncommonly insightful, Toni is a fresh voice with tried and true experience that offers a proven roadmap.”—Ann Voskamp, New York Times bestselling author of The Broken Way and One Thousand Gifts If you’ve ever wanted to say, “I can’t do this anymore!” out of frustration with your marriage, you’re definitely not alone. In this practical and insightful guide, former divorce attorney Toni Nieuwhof shows that even if you feel disconnected or stuck in your troubled marriage—and worry about its impact on your kids—there is a way forward. Before You Split helps you find what you really want from your marriage and how to move forward to a better future by: • seeing yourself and your spouse more clearly • dealing with unrealistic expectations • empowering you with constructive ways to respond to difficult emotions • engaging the power of forgiveness • increasing your peacemaking skills • advancing your journey of personal growth Even if it feels like it’s over, it’s not too late. Change takes place one step at a time. Before You Split will help you make choices with your eyes wide open.

Split
Split

Author: Suzanne Finnamore

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2008-04-17

Total Pages: 278

ISBN-13: 1440635285

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?Not only funny, it?s also fully triumphant...a heartbreaking pleasure to read.?(Elle) Suzanne Finnamore didn?t see it coming. Well, she saw some things?for example, a cocktail napkin on which her husband had scribbled a Cole Porter love song and an indecipherable name?but she refused to acknowledge it. She was busy tending to their son and creating the perfect home. Until the night it all imploded. ?I deserve happiness,? he said, which apparently translated into ousting her from his life. At once funny, sad, and unflinchingly fierce, this memoir will resonate with anyone who has endured the end of a relationship?and come out on the other side changed.

Splitting
Splitting

Author: Bill Eddy

Publisher: New Harbinger Publications

Published: 2021-07-01

Total Pages: 321

ISBN-13: 1684036135

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This highly anticipated second edition of Splitting includes new chapters on abuse, alienation, and false allegations; as well as information about the four types of domestic violence, protective orders, and child custody disputes. Are you divorcing someone who’s making the process as difficult as possible? Are they sending you nasty emails, falsifying the truth, putting your children in the middle, abusing you, or abusing the system? Are they “persuasive blamers,” manipulating and fooling court personnel to get them on their side? If so, you need this book. For more than ten years, Splitting has served as the ultimate guide for people divorcing a high conflict person, one who often has borderline or narcissistic (or even antisocial) personality disorder. Among other things, it has saved readers thousands of dollars, helped them keep custody of their children, and effectively guided them through a difficult legal and emotional process. Written by a family law attorney and therapist, and the author of Stop Walking on Eggshells, Splitting is an essential legal and psychological guide for anyone divorcing a persuasive blamer: someone who suffers from borderline personality disorder (BPD), narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), and/or antisocial personality disorder (ASPD). This second edition includes new information about antisocial personalities; expanded information about domestic violence, child abuse, alienation, and false allegations; how to approach protective orders and deal with child custody disputes; and a new chapter on how to successfully present your case to decision makers. Turn to this guide to help you: Predict what your spouse may do or say in court Take control of your case with assertiveness and strategic thinking Choose a lawyer who understands your case Learn how e-mails and social networking can be used against you If you need help navigating a high-conflict divorce from a manipulative spouse, this book includes all of the critical information you need to work through the process of divorce in an emotionally balanced, productive way.

Surviving the Split
Surviving the Split

Author: Harry Bates

Publisher: Independently Published

Published: 2023-02-11

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13:

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"Surviving the Split: A Guide to Moving On After Divorce" is a comprehensive and practical guide that will help you navigate the challenges of divorce and find happiness and peace in the aftermath. If you're struggling to deal with the emotional, legal, and financial aspects of divorce, this book is for you. Written by an expert in the field, this book will provide you with the tools and resources you need to overcome the challenges of divorce and start a new chapter in your life. With step-by-step guidance, this book will help you understand the legal process of divorce, address financial concerns, deal with emotional challenges, and focus on the future. Whether you're just starting the divorce process or you're already moving on, this book will provide you with the support and inspiration you need to build a positive and fulfilling life after divorce. With a focus on self-care and practical advice, "Surviving the Split: A Guide to Moving On After Divorce" is the ultimate resource for anyone who is going through divorce or has recently gone through a split. Order your copy today and start building a happy and fulfilling life after divorce.

How to Split Up and Stay in One Piece
How to Split Up and Stay in One Piece

Author: Rosie Staal

Publisher: White Ladder Press

Published: 2008

Total Pages: 185

ISBN-13: 9781905410293

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How to Split Up and Stay in One Piece is a welcome companion for anyone going through a divorce. In the UK, 300,000 people are getting divorced every year and this number is increasing. The author, Rosie Staal, who has gone through a divorce herself, offers practical advice on how to recover from the breakdown of a relationship. She also reveals tried and tested coping mechanisms to deal with what can often be a painful time. Offering advice and coping strategies, this book contains valuable case studies from 'break-up survivors' - people who have been through it and have found a way to move on with their lives. Covering a wide breadth of situations, case studies include: newlyweds and long-standing couples, partnerships with children and couples with financial difficulties.

Split
Split

Author: Swati Avasthi

Publisher: Ember

Published: 2012-01-24

Total Pages: 289

ISBN-13: 0375863419

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A riveting portrait of life after abuse from an award-winning novelist. Sixteen-Year-Old Jace Witherspoon arrives at the doorstep of his estranged brother Christian with a re-landscaped face (courtesy of his father’s fist), $3.84, and a secret. He tries to move on, going for new friends, a new school, and a new job, but all his changes can’t make him forget what he left behind—his mother, who is still trapped with his dad, and his ex-girlfriend, who is keeping his secret. At least so far. Worst of all, Jace realizes that if he really wants to move forward, he may first have to do what scares him most: He may have to go back. Award-winning novelist Swati Avasthi has created a riveting and remarkably nuanced portrait of what happens after. After you’ve said enough, after you’ve run, after you’ve made the split—how do you begin to live again? Readers won’t be able to put this intense page-turner down.

Primal Loss
Primal Loss

Author: Leila Miller

Publisher: Lcb Publishing

Published: 2017-05-20

Total Pages: 326

ISBN-13: 9780997989311

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Seventy now-adult children of divorce give their candid and often heart-wrenching answers to eight questions (arranged in eight chapters, by question), including: What were the main effects of your parents' divorce on your life? What do you say to those who claim that "children are resilient" and "children are happy when their parents are happy"? What would you like to tell your parents then and now? What do you want adults in our culture to know about divorce? What role has your faith played in your healing? Their simple and poignant responses are difficult to read and yet not without hope. Most of the contributors--women and men, young and old, single and married--have never spoken of the pain and consequences of their parents' divorce until now. They have often never been asked, and they believe that no one really wants to know. Despite vastly different circumstances and details, the similarities in their testimonies are striking; as the reader will discover, the death of a child's family impacts the human heart in universal ways.