Surviving My Toxic Childhood
Surviving My Toxic Childhood

Author: Jane Appleson

Publisher: Xlibris Corporation

Published: 2011-03-30

Total Pages: 203

ISBN-13: 1456859331

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Growing up in a home with a verbally and physically abusive father and an alcoholic and promiscuous mother, Jane thinks she can escape by going to the convent. She plans to offer her life for her mother’s conversion, even taking her mother’s name as a nun. When the perfect convent life she visualized doesn’t happen, Jane recognizes that she has made a mistake and must leave the convent to return to the secular world. Realizing that a return home will put her back into the same toxic situation that she left behind, Jane attempts suicide in the convent. Inspired by actual events, this book chronicles Jane’s eventual survival.

Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members
Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members

Author: Sherrie Campbell

Publisher:

Published: 2022-08-24

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781038726223

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For many people, cutting ties with a toxic family member is a crucial step away from a legacy of dysfunction and toward healing and well-being. In Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members, psychologist Sherrie Campbell offers readers effective strategies for setting strong boundaries after ending contact with a toxic family member, and provides powerful tools to help them heal from shame, self-doubt, and stigma.

Toxic Parents
Toxic Parents

Author: Susan Forward

Publisher: Bantam

Published: 2009-12-16

Total Pages: 322

ISBN-13: 0307575322

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BONUS: This edition contains an excerpt from Dr. Susan Forward's Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them. When you were a child... Did your parents tell you were bad or worthless? Did your parents use physical pain to discipline you? Did you have to take care of your parents because of their problems? Were you frightened of your parents? Did your parents do anything to you that had to be kept secret? Now that you are an adult... Do your parents still treat you as if you were a child? Do you have intense emotional or physical reactions after spending time with your parents? Do your parents control you with threats or guilt? Do they manipulate you with money? Do you feel that no matter what you do, it's never good enough for your parents? In this remarkable self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward drawn on case histories and the real-life voices of adult children of toxic parents to help you free yourself from the frustrating patterns of your relationship with your parents -- and discover an exciting new world of self-confidence, inner strength, and emotional independence.

The Toxic Parents Survival Guide
The Toxic Parents Survival Guide

Author: Bryn Collins

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2018-10-09

Total Pages: 271

ISBN-13: 0757321208

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If you or someone you love grew up with an emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or selfish parent, you probably struggle with residual feelings of anger, abandonment, loneliness, or shame. For anyone who endured a nightmare or a wasteland instead of a nurturing childhood, The Toxic Parents Survival Guide will offer you the clinical insights and the day-to-day tools so you can break the chains of toxicity that bind you in a mess you didn't create. Psychologist Bryn Collins pulls back the layers to explore the very complicated relationship with an emotionally unavailable parent. Whether they were unavailable because of addiction, mental illness, or being overly controlling or an iceberg, this imminently practical book will help validate your frustration and emotional struggles, help you set clear boundaries, and learn how to un-mesh yourself and move forward to a place of strength and peace without any guilt. Using case studies, quizzes, and jargon-free concepts, Collins profiles the most common types of toxic parents and offers the tactics and tools you need to change and break free of these painful associations. Your wounds can be healed and you can move forward. The Toxic Parents Survival Guide will help you find different ways of dealing with your parents' painful legacy so that you don't suffer and don't pass along emotional unavailability to the next generation or your current relationships.

How to Survive Your Childhood Now That You’re an Adult
How to Survive Your Childhood Now That You’re an Adult

Author: Ira Israel

Publisher: New World Library

Published: 2017-10-10

Total Pages: 210

ISBN-13: 160868508X

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As children, we learned to get approval by creating facades to help us get our emotional and psychological needs met, but we also rebelled against authority as a way of individuating. As adults, these conflicting desires leave many of us feeling anxious or depressed because our authentic selves are buried deep beneath glitzy or rebellious exteriors or some combination thereof. In this provocative book, eclectic teacher and therapist Ira Israel offers a powerful, comprehensive, step-by-step path to recognizing the ways of being that we created as children and transcending them with compassion and acceptance. By doing so, we discover our true callings and cultivate the authentic love we were born deserving.

Trapped in the Mirror
Trapped in the Mirror

Author: Elan Golomb, PhD

Publisher: Harper Collins

Published: 2012-06-19

Total Pages: 276

ISBN-13: 0062227025

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In this compelling book, Elan Golomb identifies the crux of the emotional and psychological problems of millions of adults. Simply put, the children of narcissist—offspring of parents whose interest always towered above the most basic needs of their sons and daughters—share a common belief: They believe they do not have the right to exist. The difficulties experienced by adult children of narcissists can manifest themselves in many ways: for examples, physical self-loathing that takes form of overeating, anorexia, or bulimia; a self-destructive streak that causes poor job performance and rocky personal relationships; or a struggle with the self that is perpetuated in the adult's interaction with his or her own children. These dilemmas are both common and correctable, Dr. Golomb tells us. With an empathic blend of scholarship and case studies, along with her own personal narrative of her fight for self, Dr. Golomb plumbs the depths of this problem, revealing its mysterious hold on the affairs of otherwise bright, aware, motivated, and worthy people. Trapped in the Mirror explores. the nature of the paralysis and lack of motivation so many adults feel stress and its role in exacerbating childhood wrongs why do many of our relationships seem to be "reruns" of the past how one's body image can be formed by faulty parenting how anger must be acknowledge to be overcome and, most important, how even the most traumatized self can be healed. Rooted in a profoundly humanist traditional approach, and suffused with the benefit of the latest knowledge about intrafamily relationships, Trapped in the Mirror offers more than the average self-help book; it is truly the first self-heal book for millions.

Silently Seduced
Silently Seduced

Author: Kenneth M. Adams

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2011-09-01

Total Pages: 209

ISBN-13: 0757391745

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When a parent singles out a child for special privileges and attention, that child is often unaware that the relationship is unhealthy—even incestuous. As adults, these children struggle to feel validated, because while they have not been directly abused, they feel a sense of violation and crossed boundaries—usually done in the name of 'love' and 'caring.' The parent's love feels more confining than freeing, more demanding than giving, more intrusive than nurturing. Yet these children suffer from what psychologist Kenneth Adams calls The Silent Seduction—because there is nothing loving or caring about a close parent-child relationship that services the needs of the parent rather than the child. In this revised and updated 20th anniversary edition of his groundbreaking book Silently Seduced, Dr. Adams explains how 'feeling close,' especially with the opposite-sex parent, is not the source of comfort the image suggests, especially when that child is cheated out of a childhood by being a parent's surrogate partner. He offers a framework to understand this covert incest and its effect on sexuality, intimacy, and relationships, and how victims can begin the process of recovery.

Surviving the Toxic Family
Surviving the Toxic Family

Author: Marina Williams Lmhc

Publisher: Viale Publishing

Published: 2014-09-03

Total Pages: 256

ISBN-13: 9780692282588

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"Surviving the Toxic Family" is a valuable book for anyone trying to recover from the devastating effects of growing up in a toxic or dysfunctional family. Drawing on engaging case studies, this book shows you how it is possible to recover from the trauma associated with a toxic family and leads you through the process to complete recovery. This book utilizes a three step process: Understanding why your family acts the way they do and why they treated you so poorly Changing the rules so that you do not have to continue being mistreated by them Taking your life back and living a life that's more authentic and genuine "Surviving The Toxic Family" promises to be a valuable tool for anyone who has a dysfunctional family, those with a loved one whom struggles with their family, and for therapists seeking to help clients from toxic families. This book provides practical hands-on strategies for surviving even the most toxic and dysfunctional families.

Surviving Toxic Parents
Surviving Toxic Parents

Author: Carmen Moss

Publisher:

Published: 2020-07-02

Total Pages: 170

ISBN-13:

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Did your parents ever do unloving things in the name of love? Here is how you reclaim your sense of self. Do you feel as though your relationship with your parents is seriously limiting your potential? Have they made you feel small or worthless in the past? Did you or do you have to take care of them and constantly be there for them and their problems? Have they used physical or emotional pain to "discipline" you? Do they try to control you, manipulate you, or make you feel as though you are inferior or just not enough? If you are answering yes to any of the above questions then the chances are high you are dealing with a toxic parent. This can be a hard pill to swallow at first, but from here on everything will begin to get better. Did you know that 2.9 million cases of child abuse are reported every year in the United States, but that that is an estimated fraction of the truth? The sad part is, most of these people never get the proper help or guidance they need to actually heal and move forward with their lives. But that doesn't have to be the case with you. A life free from all the toxicity is certainly possible. Accepting the current status of your reality is the first and most powerful step you can take in reclaiming your life. From there, with just minutes a day, we can begin to understand how to break free of it and what to do next. In Surviving Toxic Parents, you'll discover: The most important thing to do before cutting ties with the toxic relationship Groundbreaking insight into how you can prepare for finally confronting your abuser in a productive and healthy fashion What healthy boundaries actually look like and how to set your own The things you must NOT do when dealing with a toxic parent Why self-love is the #1 key to freedom and how you can build it within yourself A step-by-step guide to true forgiveness and how this will bring you peace 10 practices that will help you to rebuild a healthy relationship once you're ready Why finding a coach or guide could save your life ... and so much more. It might seem like too much to deal with at first, but remember, every great journey begins with the first step. You've been thinking about this for a while now and it is finally time to do what you must in order to break free - in order to bring yourself back to life. Addressing your relationship with your parents can be difficult, especially if it's gone years without being discussed, but it is NOT impossible. With some newfound awareness, the right tools and techniques, and a bit of courage you can completely transform your entire life in no time at all. Just look at the story of Oprah Winfrey, who suffered from child abuse at a very early age and still managed to move forward with her life into both fame and fortune. So, if you're ready to rid your life of all the toxicity once and for all, then scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" button right now.

Healing Developmental Trauma
Healing Developmental Trauma

Author: Laurence Heller, Ph.D.

Publisher: North Atlantic Books

Published: 2012-09-25

Total Pages: 321

ISBN-13: 1583945113

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This “well-organized, valuable” guide draws from somatic-based psychotherapy and neuroscience to offer “clear guidance” for coping with childhood trauma (Peter Levine, author of Waking the Tiger and In an Unspoken Voice). Although it may seem that people suffer from an endless number of emotional problems and challenges, Laurence Heller and Aline LaPierre maintain that most of these can be traced to five biologically based organizing principles: the need for connection, attunement, trust, autonomy, and love-sexuality. They describe how early trauma impairs the capacity for connection to self and others and how the ensuing diminished aliveness is the hidden dimension that underlies most psychological and many physiological problems. Heller and LaPierre introduce the NeuroAffective Relational Model® (NARM), a method that integrates bottom-up and top-down approaches to regulate the nervous system and resolve distortions of identity such as low self-esteem, shame, and chronic self-judgment that are the outcome of developmental and relational trauma. While not ignoring a person’s past, NARM emphasizes working in the present moment to focus on clients’ strengths, resources, and resiliency in order to integrate the experience of connection that sustains our physiology, psychology, and capacity for relationship.