Rebuilding Your Life After Homicide

Rebuilding Your Life After Homicide

Author: Victim Support Services

Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform

Published: 2016-05-05

Total Pages: 80

ISBN-13: 9781533134059

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Victim Support Services, formerly Families and Friends of Missing Persons and Violent Crime Victims originally published this booklet in 1983 under a different title called "Grief by Homicide". The new title of this book, "Rebuilding your Life after Homicide" has been chosen because it reflects the experience that surviving victims of homicide undergo after the unthinkable happens. Survivors report that they literally had to pick up the pieces of the old, and find a new way to carry on. Rebuilding a new normal and a new way of living. Life as they knew it was different after the violent loss of their loved one. The most important message of this book is to convey that you are not alone. Many mothers, fathers, husbands, wives, sisters, brothers, aunt's, uncle's, steps, grandparents, and close friends have walked a similar path before you. Losing a loved one to homicide is a very misunderstood form of grief, no one is prepared for such a sudden and violent act. We are sorry that you are going through this. This book was written with you, your loved one, and your family in mind. Everyone's story is unique. There is no blue print available to get you through this. There is no right way to grieve or recover. This book has been developed as a guide of what you might expect along the way. This journey will not be easy. It will take everything that you have to make it through it, there will be really difficult moments, as well as positive ones. You are not alone, agencies like Victim Support Services are across the United States to help guide you through this process. Please don't hesitate to reach out to someone if you need help.


After the Eclipse

After the Eclipse

Author: Sarah Perry

Publisher: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt

Published: 2017

Total Pages: 371

ISBN-13: 0544302656

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A fierce memoir of a mother's murder, a daughter's coming-of-age in the wake of immense loss, and her mission to know the woman who gave her life


Rebuilding Life After Trauma

Rebuilding Life After Trauma

Author: Tonya L Whiteside

Publisher: Xulon Press

Published: 2013-03-01

Total Pages: 94

ISBN-13: 9781625099136

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What would you do if you had just become the victim and witness to a murder-suicide? How are you going to process standing between two friends, seeing one friend murder the other? Do you scream? Do you run? The journey from sorry to a sunny day can be long and emotional. In this life-changing book, Tonya L. Whiteside, founder of The Whiteside Group and award winning author of her bestselling book, Change the Atmosphere with Encouraging Words, tells the eye-witness account of the murder of her longtime friend, Stacey Bryant. Sadly, Stacey was tragically murdered by her husband and high school sweetheart, Eddie. In this book, Rebuilding Life after Trauma, Tonya shares of her battles with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, depression and other struggles due to the effects of what she witnessed. Tonya shares that even on her emotional road upward to recovery, you can rebuild your life and that you may already have in your possession useful components. You can retrain your brain with the right resources and guidance. How we handle depression, adversity, personal crisis, and stress is crucial. Drawing from the wisdom and knowledge gained, Tonya discusses how you can find: healing for your heart, happiness in your relationships, and hope for better days. If you have lost a loved one tragically due to violence or are trying to move forward in your life due other effects of a traumatic experience, follow Tonya on this journey. Rebuilding Life after Trauma will propel you toward lifelong transformation. By using the positive strategies in the book, you will realize greater possibilities and outcomes for your life. You will discover that everything happens for a reason and nothing is an accident.


Murder Survivor's Handbook

Murder Survivor's Handbook

Author: Connie Saindon

Publisher:

Published: 2014-09-25

Total Pages: 244

ISBN-13: 9780989691307

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Murder Survivor's Handbook: Real-Life Stories, Tips & Resources provides information, resources, and strategies for learning to live with the aftermath of a homicide, including safety issues, dealing with the criminal justice system, addressing the news media, and coping with traumatic grief, while preserving the memory of a loved one. In the book, Survivor Writers describe their own experiences and, through their tips and suggestions, lend a helping hand to those who follow in their footsteps.


A Shopping List for Murder - Part Ii

A Shopping List for Murder - Part Ii

Author: Robyn Beveridge

Publisher: Trafford Publishing

Published: 2013-12-05

Total Pages: 297

ISBN-13: 1490719814

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This story is about a woman who suffered a serious assault as a result of her husbands actions. Once he had been through the court system, and was imprisoned the story didn't end. Robyn had to rebuild her world and start again, always considering she could be harmed again. Slowly, step by step, she did the things she could to start her new life. Her world had to change totally. The story tells of that rebuilding, of the laughs, tears, and challenges that she faced every step of the way. In the background, she had the support of members of New Zealand Police, both working and retired who supported, encouraged, laughed with her. Without their support the story would have been totally different. This story tells of one woman's life after a crime that the Public would never see.


Grief After Suicide

Grief After Suicide

Author: John R. Jordan

Publisher: Routledge

Published: 2011-01-19

Total Pages: 575

ISBN-13: 1135849269

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A suicide leaves behind more victims than just the individual. And yet there are very few professional resources that provide the necessary background, research, and tools to effectively work with the survivors. This edited volume addresses the need for an up-to-date, professionally oriented summary of the clinical and research literature on the impact of suicide bereavement on survivors.


Life after Death Row

Life after Death Row

Author: Saundra D. Westervelt

Publisher: Rutgers University Press

Published: 2012-10-17

Total Pages: 301

ISBN-13: 0813553393

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Life after Death Row examines the post-incarceration struggles of individuals who have been wrongly convicted of capital crimes, sentenced to death, and subsequently exonerated. Saundra D. Westervelt and Kimberly J. Cook present eighteen exonerees’ stories, focusing on three central areas: the invisibility of the innocent after release, the complicity of the justice system in that invisibility, and personal trauma management. Contrary to popular belief, exonerees are not automatically compensated by the state or provided adequate assistance in the transition to post-prison life. With no time and little support, many struggle to find homes, financial security, and community. They have limited or obsolete employment skills and difficulty managing such daily tasks as grocery shopping or banking. They struggle to regain independence, self-sufficiency, and identity. Drawing upon research on trauma, recovery, coping, and stigma, the authors weave a nuanced fabric of grief, loss, resilience, hope, and meaning to provide the richest account to date of the struggles faced by people striving to reclaim their lives after years of wrongful incarceration.


A Life Divided

A Life Divided

Author: Jan Canty

Publisher:

Published: 2020-06

Total Pages:

ISBN-13: 9780578685922

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Narrative nonfiction true crime memoir in which a psychologist describes the fallout from her spouse's murder and how she regained her momentum.


How to Survive the Loss of a Child

How to Survive the Loss of a Child

Author: Catherine Sanders

Publisher: Harmony

Published: 2011-08-17

Total Pages: 257

ISBN-13: 030757475X

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"Thank you, Catherine Sanders, for giving us a book that few others could have written. Every page speaks both the depth of your compassion and the breadth of your knowledge. This book will be a wise companion on the difficult journey from loss to recovery." — Robert Kastenbaum, Ph.D., author of The Psychology of Death "How to Survive the Loss of a Child is a godsend to those in the field as well as to those of us in need of such a resource for our own mourning." — Eugene Knott, Ph.D., University of Rhode Island "Dr. Sanders' insights are profound and poignant." — Patricia Geiger, M.D., pediatrician, Boone, North Carolina "Thank you so much for all that you do for bereaved parents but especially for writing How to Survive the Loss of a Child. I know that it has changed lives. It changed mine!" — Nancy Ulmer, bereaved parent, Kindermourn, Charlotte, North Carolina It is only through experiencing grief that bereaved parents ultimately heal. Moving through the phases of grief, the bereaved person works toward restoration. Understanding these phases, knowing what to expect, and learning what they can do to help themselves give parents greater assurance and comfort. In How to Survive the Loss of a Child, Dr. Sanders, a bereaved parent herself, offers grieving parents practical help and emotional support. This book also helps family members, friends, and caregivers relate to grieving parents and aids them, too, in understanding the process of healing through grief.


Rebuilding Shattered Lives

Rebuilding Shattered Lives

Author: James A. Chu

Publisher: John Wiley & Sons

Published: 1998-04-30

Total Pages: 298

ISBN-13: 9780471247326

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In Rebuilding Shattered Lives, James A. Chu, MD, describes a proven approach to the assessment and treatment of post-traumatic and dissociative disorders developed at the Dissociative Disorders and Trauma Program at McLean Hospital and Harvard Medical School. Drawing on his extensive empirical research and more than a decade's clinical experience specializing in treating survivors of severe abuse, Dr. Chu also offers valuable insights into all the major areas of traumarelated symptomatology and provides the most detailed explanation of dissociative theory currently in print. And, with the help of numerous vignettes and case examples, he clearly illustrates common clinical dilemmas encountered when dealing with survivors of severe abuse as well as the most effective techniques for resolving them. Rebuilding Shattered Lives is an important working resource for mental health workers of all levels of experience. Throughout, the writing style is clear, and complex theories are explained with an emphasis on how they provide the conceptual basis for a rational, responsible, and safe approach to treatment.