Mommy Burnout

Mommy Burnout

Author: Dr. Sheryl G. Ziegler

Publisher: HarperCollins

Published: 2018-02-20

Total Pages: 293

ISBN-13: 0062683705

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The ultimate must-read handbook for the modern mother: a practical, and positive tool to help free women from the debilitating notion of being the "perfect mom," filled with funny and all too relatable true-life stories and realistic suggestions to stop the burnout cycle, and protect our kids from the damage burnout can cause. Moms, do you feel tired? Overwhelmed? Have you continually put off the things you need to do for you? Do you feel like it’s all worth it because your kids are happy? Are you "over" being a mother? If you answered yes to these questions, you’re not alone. Parents today want to create the ideal childhood for their children. Women strive to be the picture-perfect Pinterest mother that looks amazing, hosts the best birthday parties in town, posts the most "liked" photos, and serves delicious, nutritious home-cooked meals in her neat, organized home after ferrying the kids to school and a host of extracurricular activities on time. This drive, while noble, can also be destructive, causing stress and anxiety that leads to "mommy burnout." Psychologist and family counselor Dr. Sheryl Ziegler is well-versed in the stress that moms face, and the burden of guilt they carry because they often feel like they aren’t doing enough for their kids’ happiness. A mother of three herself, Dr. Z—as she’s affectionately known by her many patients—recognizes and understands that modern moms are all too often plagued by exhaustion, failure, isolation, self-doubt, and a general lack of self-love, and their families are also feeling the effects, too. Over the last nineteen years working with families and children, Dr. Z has devised a prescriptive program for addressing "mommy burnout"—teaching moms that they can learn to re-energize themselves and still feel good about their families and their lives. In this warm and empathetic guide, she examines this modern epidemic among mothers who put their children’s happiness above their own, and offers empowering, proven solutions for alleviating this condition, saving marriages and keeping kids happy in the process.


Power Switch Parenting

Power Switch Parenting

Author: Anna Sink

Publisher:

Published: 2020-09-07

Total Pages: 108

ISBN-13:

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Intentionally kept below 100 pages, this is the TL;DR, no-worksheet, parenting guide to nurturing our children's growth while preserving our parental mental health. This method was developed to be particularly useful at redefining boundaries between working at home while also parenting at home.There are guidelines for time spent with children, activities to use to engage children independently, and mental exercises for younger children to succeed at learning for periods in excess of their average attention span. While there is no one size fits all technique for parenting, Power Switch Parenting proposes a customizable method to optimize quality time parenting our children and quality time cultivating parent and child independence.


Can't Even

Can't Even

Author: Anne Helen Petersen

Publisher: Mariner Books

Published: 2021-05-04

Total Pages: 321

ISBN-13: 0358561841

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An incendiary examination of burnout in millennials--the cultural shifts that got us here, the pressures that sustain it, and the need for drastic change


The Child Whisperer

The Child Whisperer

Author: Carol Tuttle

Publisher:

Published: 2012

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9780984402137

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The Child Whisperer teaches how to read unsaid clues that children naturally give every day, and shows how parenting, teaching, coaching, and mentoring children can be an even more intuitive, cooperative experience than ever.


Parenting Stress

Parenting Stress

Author: Kirby Deater-Deckard

Publisher: Yale University Press

Published: 2008-10-01

Total Pages: 220

ISBN-13: 0300133936

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All parents experience stress as they attempt to meet the challenges of caring for their children. This comprehensive book examines the causes and consequences of parenting distress, drawing on a wide array of findings in current empirical research. Kirby Deater-Deckard explores normal and pathological parenting stress, the influences of parents on their children as well as children on their parents, and the effects of biological and environmental factors. Beginning with an overview of theories of stress and coping, Deater-Deckard goes on to describe how parenting stress is linked with problems in adult and child health (emotional problems, developmental disorders, illness); parental behaviors (warmth, harsh discipline); and factors outside the family (marital quality, work roles, cultural influences). The book concludes with a useful review of coping strategies and interventions that have been demonstrated to alleviate parenting stress.


Key Topics in Parenting and Behavior

Key Topics in Parenting and Behavior

Author: Springer Behavioral & Health Sciences

Publisher: Springer Nature

Published: 2022

Total Pages: 129

ISBN-13: 3031199189

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This volume features cutting-edge and impactful articles from across Springer's diverse journals publishing program. In this curated collection, our editorial team has brought together highly-cited and downloaded articles on the topic of Parenting and Behavior into one single resource. Moreover, this book enables readers to review a broad spectrum of quality research on a specialized topic, which we hope facilitates interdisciplinary and critical discussions of the topic at hand. As part of the Key Topics in Behavioral Sciences book series, this volume aims to serve as a quick reference for readers when writing or researching new topics or subject areas. Other topics in the series will include Psychological Research Methods, Health and Behavior, Industrial and Organizational Psychology, Sports Psychology, and Consumer Behavior. In the first section of the volume, articles focus on such topics as Adolescents, Communication Technologies, Emerging Adults, Mental Health, Social Media, Well-Being, Motivation, Parental Support, Self-Esteem, Sports Participation, Aggressiveness, Empathy, Parenting Styles, and Primary School. Next, the second section features research on Academic Motivation, Entitlement, Helicopter Parenting, Mastery Vs. Performance Goals, Overparenting, Perfectionism, Antecedents, Burn-Out, Behavior Causes, Exhaustion, Group Therapy, Informant Discrepancy, Parent-Child Discrepancy, Resilience, and Treatment Outcome. Lastly in the final section of this collection, Body Image, Depression, Life Satisfaction., Parental Mediation, Social Comparison, Media Use, Parental Media Monitoring, Parental Mediation, Preregistration, Video Games, and Violence are discussed.


Ending the Parent-Teen Control Battle

Ending the Parent-Teen Control Battle

Author: Neil D. Brown

Publisher:

Published: 2016

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781626254244

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Power struggles between parents and teens are nothing new, but chronic control battles are destructive to teen development as well as the entire family. According to psychotherapist Neil Brown, these battles occur as the result of self-perpetuating negative relationship patterns. This book will help you understand and end the painful tug-of-war with your teen and foster a peaceful and loving home environment.


When Kids Call the Shots

When Kids Call the Shots

Author: Sean Grover

Publisher: AMACOM

Published: 2015-06-03

Total Pages: 225

ISBN-13: 0814436013

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If you want to fix your rebellious and disrespectful child, you need to start by fixing yourself. Are your kids pummeling you with demands and bossing you around with impunity? Have your once-precious preschoolers become rebellious, entitled, and disrespectful to authority? While there are plenty of so-called experts who might try to validate your convictions that you have done all you can to “fix” your “difficult” children, the hard truth is, they’re not doing you any favors by placing the responsibility solely on your children. Parenting struggles rarely originate from just one side. Instead, they erupt at the volatile intersection of a child's personality with a parent's own insecurities and behaviors. In When Kids Call the Shots, therapist and parenting expert Sean Grover untangles the forces driving family dysfunction, and helps parents assume their leadership roles once again. Parents will discover: Three common bullying styles used by kids Parenting styles that contribute to power balances Critical testing periods in a child’s development Coping mechanisms that backfire Personalized plans for calmly exerting authority in any scenario The solution to any problem begins with learning to control what you can control. In parenting, you’ve already learned how impossible it is to control your kids. Begin by controlling you!


The End of Burnout

The End of Burnout

Author: Jonathan Malesic

Publisher: Univ of California Press

Published: 2022-01-04

Total Pages: 284

ISBN-13: 0520975340

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Going beyond the how and why of burnout, a former tenured professor combines academic methods and first-person experience to propose new ways for resisting our cultural obsession with work and transforming our vision of human flourishing. Burnout has become our go-to term for talking about the pressure and dissatisfaction we experience at work. But in the absence of understanding what burnout means, the discourse often does little to help workers who suffer from exhaustion and despair. Jonathan Malesic was a burned out worker who escaped by quitting his job as a tenured professor. In The End of Burnout, he dives into the history and psychology of burnout, traces the origin of the high ideals we bring to our jobs, and profiles the individuals and communities who are already resisting our cultural commitment to constant work. In The End of Burnout, Malesic traces his own history as someone who burned out of a tenured job to frame this rigorous investigation of how and why so many of us feel worn out, alienated, and useless in our work. Through research on the science, culture, and philosophy of burnout, Malesic explores the gap between our vocation and our jobs, and between the ideals we have for work and the reality of what we have to do. He eschews the usual prevailing wisdom in confronting burnout (“Learn to say no!” “Practice mindfulness!”) to examine how our jobs have been constructed as a symbol of our value and our total identity. Beyond looking at what drives burnout—unfairness, a lack of autonomy, a breakdown of community, mismatches of values—this book spotlights groups that are addressing these failures of ethics. We can look to communities of monks, employees of a Dallas nonprofit, intense hobbyists, and artists with disabilities to see the possibilities for resisting a “total work” environment and the paths to recognizing the dignity of workers and nonworkers alike. In this critical yet deeply humane book, Malesic offers the vocabulary we need to recognize burnout, overcome burnout culture, and acknowledge the dignity of workers and nonworkers alike.