Aimed at women who have never been able to orgasm, who cannot orgasm with a partner, or who used to orgasm but no longer can, this friendly, holistic guide first helps women identify possible reasons they may not be able to achieve orgasm, then helps them repair and overcome these difficulties. Asserting that—with understanding and a willingness to learn—all women are able to have orgasms, this reassuring must-read for dissatisfied women includes personal stories to assure them they are not alone, information on the biological mechanics of female orgasm, solo and partnered practical exercises, and advice on how to maintain the ability to orgasm throughout changes such as getting older or starting new relationships. The current state of women's sexuality is explored, as this helpful guide discusses the cultural myths that can hold women back psychologically and physically.
A FRANK, FUNNY AND EMPOWERING CELEBRATION OF FEMALE PLEASURE An orgasm will help you sleep and keep you looking younger, it doesn’t cost money and isn’t a scarce resource. So why is it that, like the pay gap, there is an ‘orgasm gap’ between women and men? The Hotbed Collective began life as a podcast with a mission ‘to make life better one orgasm at a time’. Their debut book, More Orgasms Please is an open, honest and at moments hilarious dive into all aspects of sex for women. It covers feminist porn, body image, menopause and much more. Like the podcast that inspired it, More Orgasms Please is like the best sort of chat between friends: punchy and playful, normalising and educating. It is an eye-opening read that puts women’s bodies and our right to pleasure firmly on the map. Think of it as ‘Couch to 5k’ ... for orgasms.
About 7 years ago, the love of my life dumped me because I "wasn't satisfying her in bed." Naturally, my ego was crushed and I went into a severe depression for a few months. But eventually when I finally got over my depression, I knew that I had to figure this whole "female orgasm" thing out. I didn't want to live the rest of my life not being able to make a woman orgasm. So, I began my search. The books that I found offered the same regurgitated information on where the clitoris is located, and the best positions to stimulate it. And as much as you'd think that information would help, it didn't get me the results I was looking for. I couldn't make my partner - whoever she was - consistently orgasm. To say my "orgasm ratio" was 10% - making her cum 1 out of 10 times - would be generous. So, I did what I thought was the next best thing. I went to my best girlfriend at the time and asked her if she would let me interview her about her orgasmic process. Thankfully, she did. And she liked my questions so much that she referred me to her friends, who referred me to their friends, who referred me to their friends, so on. Within 9 months, I had over 360 interviews... and I had completely changed in the process. I spent the next 6 years practicing the things I had learned from those interviews... and a few more things that I learned along the way. And now..? More than 90% of the time, I can make my lover orgasm. If we're dating, 100% of the time. Here's what I learned: 1) As long as you understand the sexual philosophy of the woman you're about to undress, you'll know how to treat her through the process (Soft, Hard, Combinations) 2) The only way you can truly understand her sexual philosophy is by asking the right questions and mastering the art of sexual communication. 3) Then you must own your role in the sexual process. Especially when playing the role of the leader. If you are to lead her to her orgasm, you must feel confident in not just your sexual abilities, but yourself as a whole. 4) Once you have the above 3 handled, you then use the key positions with the right rhythms to bring her to an intense - whole body - orgasm... whether or not clitoral stimulation is involved. Within the book, "The Real Orgasm" you will see the detailed breakdowns of the sexual philosophies I encountered throughout my interviews and the types of sexual personalities those women had. You will also learn the questions I asked to learn everything that I learned from those women. And in case you're wondering... yes, I did sleep with a few of the women that I interviewed. I'm not saying it to boast... well, maybe a little... but I'm mainly saying it because these questions work. They let her know that you're interested in HER... and if you actually pay attention, you'll learn EVERYTHING you need to know to make her cum like a geyser. You will also learn the best strategies and tactics that thousands of men use - including myself - to build an inner core of confidence, dominance, and seduction. This is not about being an overbearing asshole. It's about owning your place as the leader and feeling comfortable there. And finally... you will learn the key positions that virtually guarantee orgasm, as well as, my secret hacks for developing the best sexual rhythm for repetitive orgasms. This information truly transformed my life... The simple fact that I know all of this gives me the type of confidence that most guys would kill for. Not conceit. Confidence. The kind of stuff that "dime pieces" notice. The kind of stuff that gets their panties wet before any physical contact is made. And when we end up in the bedroom, everything flows so smoothly and most importantly. I'm in control of myself the whole time and therefore, can comfortably control the situation. My partner orgasms over and over and OVER again... and most importantly... ...it's all so very sexy.
A fulfilling sex life is one of the great joys of life,yet many woman silently wonder why their own sexual pleasure falls short of the romantic fantasies they hear about. Now the secrets of sexual ecstasy are revealed. Seven clearly describes steps to success will tell you: The simple exercises that will help you become orgasmic How you can help your partner learn to please you Ways to heighten sexual enjoyment for your partner How to prolong lovemaking The three stages of sexual response Four different types of orgasms How you can climax whenever you want to -- again and again How to realize the ultimate sexual enjoyment you've dreamed of . . . It's Easier Than You Think!
This award-winning book “offers a thorough compilation of what modern science, from biomechanics to neurochemistry, knows about the secrets of orgasm” (Publishers Weekly). The coauthor of the international best-selling book The G Spot and Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality, Beverly Whipple joins neuroscientist Barry R. Komisaruk and endocrinologist Carlos Beyer-Flores to view orgasm through the lenses of behavioral neuroscience along with cognitive and physiological sciences. Covering every type of sexual peak experience in women and men from intense to phantom, this fascinating and comprehensive work illuminates the hows, whats, and wherefores of orgasm. The authors explain how and why orgasms happen, why they fail to happen, and what brain and body events are put into play at the moment of orgasm. They also describes the genital-brain connection, how the brain produces orgasms, how aging affects orgasm, and the effects of prescription medication, street drugs, hormones, disorders, and diseases. Winner of the 2007 Bonnie and Vern L. Bullough Book Award, given by the Foundation for the Scientific Study of Sexuality
Are you one of the thirty percent of women who has difficulties with orgasm? Do you want to experience greater sexual satisfaction? In easy to read language, The Elusive Orgasm provides a full overview of women's sexual pleasure, covering sexual triggers, stages of arousal, the power of mind, and how women differ from men. Longtime clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Vivienne Cass reveals all the causes of women's orgasm difficulties-and how to remedy them. In The Elusive Orgasm, you'll learn: What an orgasm is, How the clitoris is much more than "a little button", The five types of orgasm difficulties, The twenty-five causes of those difficulties, Self-awareness via quizzes and questionnaires, Step-by-step plans to help you and your partner. An extraordinarily thorough, all-inclusive exploration of every possible reason why women have orgasm challenges, The Elusive Orgasm gives you the tools to discover the source of your own orgasm difficulties, along with straightforward remedies. Book jacket.
It's fun, it's frank, and it's packed with information about how an orgasm works, what women wish men knew about the female orgasm and how to make your orgasms bigger, better and more satisfying. What makes this book unique is that it includes the stories of real women and not just tips from sex experts. Throughout, women talk candidly about how they reach orgasm, what works for them (and what doesn't) and describe in detail their own sexual responses. And what they have to say may surprise you! Other hot topics include: , "The best positions for female orgasm , How to find that elusive G-spot and the newest pleasure zone, the A-spot , Ways to increase your and your partner's excitement , Intimate exercises to give you the ultimate orgasm , Seven crucial steps to joyful orgasmic sex Perfect for the nightstand or for slipping into an overnight bag, "The Book of the Orgasm allows women -- and men -- to explore the ultimate sexual pleasure!
Goal of this module is to introduce you to the healthy mindset you need to have in order to give a woman an orgasm. - The truth is every healthy woman is capable of multiple full body orgasms - Sadly most women will never reach their full orgasmic potential - Stats - Around 29% of women have never had an orgasm at all Around 70% report never having an orgasm during sex Only 20% of women have experienced a vaginal orgasm (deeper orgasm than clitoral orgasm) - There are a number of reasons for this but the biggest is lack of knowledge and understanding of how it works - Very few people realize this but guiding a woman to orgasm requires leading both her mind and body - What I
Wellness Orgasms are just like the real thing, only better. Join Ardell and Donovan as these established champions of healthy lifestyles promote their idea that life should be filled with the Wellness Orgasms of reason, exuberance, athleticism and liberty rather than the dysfunctional, dangerous and destructive miseries associated with faith, dogma and irrationality. Enjoy the ride as Ardell and Donovan explore why REAL wellness goes way beyond disease prevention to a state where happiness, joy and love are secured by embracing nature, science, personal responsibility, exceptional mind and body fitness and freedom. Consider their idea that a fun way to live well and die healthy is to create a life rich in experiences and in harmony with others, while joyfully accepting there are no gods, heaven or hell and that life is meaningless and preposterously brief. Orgasms, wellness orgasms, that is, have never sounded so wholesome, so appealing or so practical.
