Blind to Betrayal

Blind to Betrayal

Author: Jennifer Freyd

Publisher: Turner Publishing Company

Published: 2013-02-14

Total Pages: 186

ISBN-13: 1118234480

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One of the world's top experts on betrayal looks at why we often can't see it right in front of our faces If the cover-up is worse than the crime, blindness to betrayal can be worse than the betrayal itself. Whether the betrayer is an unfaithful spouse, an abusive authority figure, an unfair boss, or a corrupt institution, we often refuse to see the truth order to protect ourselves. This book explores the fascinating phenomenon of how and why we ignore or deny betrayal, and what we can gain by transforming "betrayal blindness" into insight. Explains the psychological phenomenon of "betrayal blindness", in which we implicitly choose unawareness in order to avoid the risk of seeing treachery or injustice Based on the authors' substantial original research and clinical experience carried out over the last decade as well as their own story of confronting betrayal Filled with fascinating case studies involving unfaithful spouses, abusive authority figures and corrupt institutions, to name a few In a remarkable collaboration of science and clinical perspectives, Jennifer Freyd, one of the world's top experts on betrayal and child abuse, teams up with Pamela Birrell, a psychotherapist and educator with 25 years of experience.


Trust and Betrayal in the Workplace

Trust and Betrayal in the Workplace

Author: Dennis S. Reina

Publisher: Berrett-Koehler Publishers

Published: 2006-01-12

Total Pages: 274

ISBN-13: 1576759490

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In competitive global economy, organisations sometimes must make difficult or even painful changes. This title is about trust - the power when it exists, the problems when it doesn't, the pain when it is betrayed and what you can do to restore it. It provides an approach to trust that outlines a common language to discuss trust constructively.


Trust and Betrayal in the Workplace

Trust and Betrayal in the Workplace

Author: Dennis Reina PhD

Publisher: Berrett-Koehler Publishers

Published: 2015-02-02

Total Pages: 239

ISBN-13: 1626562598

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This new edition of a classic, bestselling book has been revised and updated throughout and includes a new chapter on Forgiveness in the Workplace


Trust and Betrayal in the Workplace

Trust and Betrayal in the Workplace

Author: Dennis S. Reina

Publisher: Berrett-Koehler Publishers

Published: 2015-02-02

Total Pages: 225

ISBN-13: 162656258X

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This new edition of a classic, bestselling book has been revised and updated throughout and includes a new chapter on Forgiveness in the Workplace


The Empathetic Workplace

The Empathetic Workplace

Author: Katharine Manning

Publisher: HarperCollins Leadership

Published: 2021-02-16

Total Pages: 225

ISBN-13: 1400220033

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This critical resource gives managers, HR, and anyone who may come into contact with someone in trauma—including workplace violence, harassment, assault, illness, addiction, fraud, bankruptcy, and more—the tools they need to be prepared for what lies ahead. This book is crucial for every manager or HR representative who shouldn’t just prepare to one day be faced with a report of a traumatic experience at work, but plan on it. This five-step method will help managers make survivors feel supported and understood. The Empathetic Workplace guides supervisors of any level through an understanding of how stories of trauma impact the brain of both the survivor and the listener, as well as the tools to handle the interaction appropriately, to help the listener, the organization, and most importantly, the survivor. The easy-to-follow LASER method outlined in these pages includes the following elements that all managers should know and understand: Listen-Controlling your own reaction, managing your body language, asking open-ended questions, hearing what is not being said, and winding down the speaker when the conversation becomes unproductive are essential elements in being a good listener. Acknowledge-Once someone shares a difficult personal story with you, it is important to acknowledge that gift. Share-You can help the speaker regain some measure of control by sharing information with him or her about what happened or what happens next, your personal or organizational values, and what you don’t yet know but hope to learn. Empower-You can help the traumatized person by providing him or her with resources that are available to them through the company or outside groups. Return-The final step is to ensure that the traumatized person has a way to come back later when he or she cannot remember all that you said, thinks of more questions, or wishes for updates. The LASER technique can benefit all who are responsible for others, from top-tier managers at Fortune 500 companies to Residence Advisors in college dormitories.


Rebuilding Trust in the Workplace

Rebuilding Trust in the Workplace

Author: Dennis S. Reina

Publisher: Berrett-Koehler Publishers

Published: 2010-10-03

Total Pages: 232

ISBN-13: 1605099449

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An expert guide to resolving coworker conflicts and healing hurt feelings and resentments, to create a more productive—and pleasant—environment. Are you feeling less engaged, less committed, and more skeptical at work? Do you find yourself isolated? Or are you caught in the middle of co-workers’ interpersonal conflicts? If so, you may be experiencing the symptoms of broken trust in workplace relationships. Small but hurtful situations accumulate over time into the confidence-busting, commitment-breaking, energy-draining patterns consistent with broken trust. Everyone has experienced gossiping, missed deadlines, someone taking credit for other people’s work, or “little white lies.” You may have been hurt. You may have realized that you inadvertently let others down. Or you may be wondering how to help others reeling from broken trust. No matter your vantage point, this new book from two award-winning authors and consultants to top-tier organizations offers a proven seven-step process to heal pain and rebuild trust. This compassionate, practical approach helps you reframe the experience, take responsibility, forgive, let go, and move on. You can feel motivated to go to work again—and safe to be more fully who you are, giving your organization your best thinking, highest intention, risk-taking, and creativity. And in a place of self-discovery, self-trust, and authenticity, you can connect more fully with others in your personal life as well. While there have been many books on recovering from betrayal in personal relationships, this is the first to focus specifically on the workplace—and the first to give equal weight to what to do when you have hurt others. “Rebuilding trust is a job you cannot ignore if you want a thriving workplace. Don’t miss this book.” —John Kador, author of Effective Apology


Organizations Behaving Badly

Organizations Behaving Badly

Author: Daniel J. Svyantek

Publisher: IAP

Published: 2021-01-01

Total Pages: 229

ISBN-13: 1648023568

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Organizational science profits from taking new perspectives using a simple model to understand why behaviors of particular types occur within them. This volume provides readers with a rich source of casestudies and empirical studies of the role played by the interaction between individual actors, organizational contexts, and the actual behaviors being performed the actors. These chapters each seek to describe how these three interact in to create organizational practices with negative effects on either internal members of the organization or external stakeholders (e.g,. clients). The chapters provide insight into how organizations may control these negative behaviors with basic Human Resource Management practices. It is this volume’s hope that these chapters may provide insight into the important role these three factors plays in understanding negative organizational behavior within organizations across the world.


Betrayal Trauma

Betrayal Trauma

Author: Jennifer J. Freyd

Publisher: Harvard University Press

Published: 1998-02-06

Total Pages: 244

ISBN-13: 0674253973

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This book lays bare the logic of forgotten abuse. Psychologist Jennifer Freyd's breakthrough theory explaining this phenomenon shows how psychogenic amnesia not only happens but, if the abuse occurred at the hands of a parent or caregiver, is often necessary for survival. Freyd's book will give embattled professionals, beleaguered abuse survivors, and the confused public a new, clear understanding of the lifelong effects and treatment of child abuse.


Leadership and Self-deception

Leadership and Self-deception

Author: The Arbinger Institute

Publisher: Berrett-Koehler Publishers

Published: 2002

Total Pages: 193

ISBN-13: 1576755029

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Explains why self-deception is at the heart of many leadership problems, identifying destructive patterns that undermine the successes of potentially excellent professionals while revealing how to improve teamwork, communication, and motivation. Reprint.