Not! Another Self-Help Book: Why We Get Stuck in Life and How You Can Move Forward
Not! Another Self-Help Book: Why We Get Stuck in Life and How You Can Move Forward

Author: Dr. John C. Panepinto

Publisher: BookLocker.com, Inc.

Published: 2024-06-01

Total Pages: 119

ISBN-13:

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Getting stuck in life happens. Whether you have a vision for your future or feel aimless— everyone gets stuck sometimes. And it can happen more than once. Living authentically presents problems and sometimes we create them without knowing. If you don’t know why you can’t let go or move ahead, you’ll stay stuck. You’ll remain on the not-so-merry-go-round of stuck-ness waiting for answers. To move forward you have to ask the right questions. Not! Another Self-Help Book is truly not another self-help book. Written as a conversation you wish you had or didn’t realize you needed to have, you’ll engage in topics everyone needs to explore and make sense of. Talks we’d have if we would slow down the busy-ness of life. Getting stuck and staying stuck has become a way of life for an increasing number of individuals and families. The rising numbers of anxiety, depression, and hopelessness shine a light on this problem. We treat the symptoms but fail to address the core issues. How much longer can we carry on this way? A common mindset lurks beneath these problems, a pervasive and powerful belief system influencing every aspect of our lives. Like fish in water, we move and breathe in this mindset without knowing spaces exist above the surface. If you follow the scripts of this mindset, you end up chasing what you think is important only to find it isn’t the “thing” once you get there. The chase begins again. Each chapter of Not! Another Self Help Book guides you through this cultural mindset to the core of growth and development—and a different way of being in the world. The concepts and tools help you to ask the right questions. Questions that open the doors and lead through confusion and uncertainty. When you ask the right questions, you will discover the answers you’ve been waiting for. From the inside out, you develop a mindset that works for you and not against you. You create a vision of your future from the heart of what matters most to you, and those who matter most. Not! Another Self-Help Book provides the substance and direction to get unstuck and confidently move forward. The foundation you build holds even if you get stuck again on your journey. Whenever you need to, you can rely on these life-affirming ideas and get back on track. And you may not ever need…another self-help book.

The Science of Stuck
The Science of Stuck

Author: Britt Frank, LSCSW

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2023-07-11

Total Pages: 273

ISBN-13: 0593542851

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A research-based tool kit for moving past what’s holding you back—in life, in love, and in work. We all experience stuckness in our lives. We feel stuck in our relationships, career paths, body struggles, addiction issues, and more. Many of us know what we need to do to move forward—but find ourselves unable to take the leap to make it happen. And then we blame and shame ourselves, and stay in a loop of self-doubt that goes nowhere. The good news is you’re not lazy, crazy, or unmotivated. In this empowering and action-oriented guide, you’ll discover why we can’t think our way forward—and how to break through what’s holding us back. Using an eclectic approach and a customizable plan that’s as direct or as deep as you want, this life-changing guide empowers you to: break old habits and patterns gain perspective on pain and trauma from the past free yourself from the torturous “why” questions take control of your choices to create the life you want Bringing together research-backed solutions that range from shadow work to reparenting, embodied healing, and other clinical practices, along with empowering personal stories, this book is a hands-on road map for moving forward with purpose, confidence, and the freedom to become who you’re truly meant to be.

The Artist's Way
The Artist's Way

Author: Julia Cameron

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2002-03-04

Total Pages: 295

ISBN-13: 1101156880

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"With its gentle affirmations, inspirational quotes, fill-in-the-blank lists and tasks — write yourself a thank-you letter, describe yourself at 80, for example — The Artist’s Way proposes an egalitarian view of creativity: Everyone’s got it."—The New York Times "Morning Pages have become a household name, a shorthand for unlocking your creative potential"—Vogue Over four million copies sold! Since its first publication, The Artist's Way phenomena has inspired the genius of Elizabeth Gilbert and millions of readers to embark on a creative journey and find a deeper connection to process and purpose. Julia Cameron's novel approach guides readers in uncovering problems areas and pressure points that may be restricting their creative flow and offers techniques to free up any areas where they might be stuck, opening up opportunities for self-growth and self-discovery. The program begins with Cameron’s most vital tools for creative recovery – The Morning Pages, a daily writing ritual of three pages of stream-of-conscious, and The Artist Date, a dedicated block of time to nurture your inner artist. From there, she shares hundreds of exercises, activities, and prompts to help readers thoroughly explore each chapter. She also offers guidance on starting a “Creative Cluster” of fellow artists who will support you in your creative endeavors. A revolutionary program for personal renewal, The Artist's Way will help get you back on track, rediscover your passions, and take the steps you need to change your life.

The Mindful Way through Depression
The Mindful Way through Depression

Author: Mark Williams

Publisher: Guilford Press

Published: 2012-06-04

Total Pages: 289

ISBN-13: 1462508014

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If you’ve ever struggled with depression, take heart. Mindfulness, a simple yet powerful way of paying attention to your most difficult emotions and life experiences, can help you break the cycle of chronic unhappiness once and for all. In The Mindful Way through Depression, four uniquely qualified experts explain why our usual attempts to “think” our way out of a bad mood or just “snap out of it” lead us deeper into the downward spiral. Through insightful lessons drawn from both Eastern meditative traditions and cognitive therapy, they demonstrate how to sidestep the mental habits that lead to despair, including rumination and self-blame, so you can face life’s challenges with greater resilience. This e-book includes an audio program of guided meditations, narrated by Jon Kabat-Zinn, for purchasers to stream or download from the web. See also the authors' Mindful Way Workbook, which provides step-by-step guidance for building your mindfulness practice in 8 weeks. Plus, mental health professionals, see also the authors' bestselling therapy guide: Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy for Depression, Second Edition. Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies (ABCT) Self-Help Book of Merit

No Cure for Being Human
No Cure for Being Human

Author: Kate Bowler

Publisher: Random House

Published: 2021-09-30

Total Pages: 123

ISBN-13: 1473597412

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***A SUNDAY TIMES AND INDEPENDENT BOOK OF THE YEAR AND INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER*** The bestselling author of Everything Happens for a Reason (And Other Lies I've Loved) asks, how do you move forward with a life you didn't choose? Hailed by Glennon Doyle as 'the Christian Joan Didion', Kate Bowler used to accept the modern idea that life is an endless horizon of possibilities, a series of choices which if made correctly, would lead us to a place just out of our reach. A beach body by summer. A trip to Disneyland around the corner. A promotion on the horizon. But then at thirty-five she was diagnosed with stage IV colon cancer, and now she has to ask one of the most fundamental questions of all: How do we create meaning in our lives when the life we hoped for is put on hold indefinitely? In No Cure for Being Human, Kate searches for a way forward as she mines the wisdom (and absurdity) of our modern 'best life now' advice industry, which offers us exhausting positivity, trying to convince us that we can out-eat, out-learn and out-perform our humanness. With dry wit and unflinching honesty she grapples with her cancer diagnosis, her ambition and her faith and searches for some kind of peace with her limitations in a culture that says that anything is possible. Frank and funny, dark and wise, Kate's irreverent, hard-won observations in No Cure For Being Human chart a bold path towards learning new ways to live.

Stuck
Stuck

Author: Anneli S. Rufus

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2008

Total Pages: 338

ISBN-13: 9781585426676

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Rufus identifies a rather striking social trend: many people are stuck in the wrong relationship, career, or town, or just with bad habits they can't seem to quit. Many even say they want to change, but face a complex network of causes for immobilization.

Everything Happens for a Reason
Everything Happens for a Reason

Author: Kate Bowler

Publisher: Random House

Published: 2018-02-06

Total Pages: 208

ISBN-13: 0399592075

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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • “A meditation on sense-making when there’s no sense to be made, on letting go when we can’t hold on, and on being unafraid even when we’re terrified.”—Lucy Kalanithi “Belongs on the shelf alongside other terrific books about this difficult subject, like Paul Kalanithi’s When Breath Becomes Air and Atul Gawande’s Being Mortal.”—Bill Gates NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY REAL SIMPLE Kate Bowler is a professor at Duke Divinity School with a modest Christian upbringing, but she specializes in the study of the prosperity gospel, a creed that sees fortune as a blessing from God and misfortune as a mark of God’s disapproval. At thirty-five, everything in her life seems to point toward “blessing.” She is thriving in her job, married to her high school sweetheart, and loves life with her newborn son. Then she is diagnosed with stage IV colon cancer. The prospect of her own mortality forces Kate to realize that she has been tacitly subscribing to the prosperity gospel, living with the conviction that she can control the shape of her life with “a surge of determination.” Even as this type of Christianity celebrates the American can-do spirit, it implies that if you “can’t do” and succumb to illness or misfortune, you are a failure. Kate is very sick, and no amount of positive thinking will shrink her tumors. What does it mean to die, she wonders, in a society that insists everything happens for a reason? Kate is stripped of this certainty only to discover that without it, life is hard but beautiful in a way it never has been before. Frank and funny, dark and wise, Kate Bowler pulls the reader deeply into her life in an account she populates affectionately with a colorful, often hilarious retinue of friends, mega-church preachers, relatives, and doctors. Everything Happens for a Reason tells her story, offering up her irreverent, hard-won observations on dying and the ways it has taught her to live. Praise for Everything Happens for a Reason “I fell hard and fast for Kate Bowler. Her writing is naked, elegant, and gripping—she’s like a Christian Joan Didion. I left Kate’s story feeling more present, more grateful, and a hell of a lot less alone. And what else is art for?”—Glennon Doyle, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Love Warrior and president of Together Rising

Option B
Option B

Author: Sheryl Sandberg

Publisher: Knopf

Published: 2017-04-24

Total Pages: 241

ISBN-13: 1524732699

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#1 NEW YORK TIMES BEST SELLER • From authors of Lean In and Originals: a powerful, inspiring, and practical book about building resilience and moving forward after life’s inevitable setbacks After the sudden death of her husband, Sheryl Sandberg felt certain that she and her children would never feel pure joy again. “I was in ‘the void,’” she writes, “a vast emptiness that fills your heart and lungs and restricts your ability to think or even breathe.” Her friend Adam Grant, a psychologist at Wharton, told her there are concrete steps people can take to recover and rebound from life-shattering experiences. We are not born with a fixed amount of resilience. It is a muscle that everyone can build. Option B combines Sheryl’s personal insights with Adam’s eye-opening research on finding strength in the face of adversity. Beginning with the gut-wrenching moment when she finds her husband, Dave Goldberg, collapsed on a gym floor, Sheryl opens up her heart—and her journal—to describe the acute grief and isolation she felt in the wake of his death. But Option B goes beyond Sheryl’s loss to explore how a broad range of people have overcome hardships including illness, job loss, sexual assault, natural disasters, and the violence of war. Their stories reveal the capacity of the human spirit to persevere . . . and to rediscover joy. Resilience comes from deep within us and from support outside us. Even after the most devastating events, it is possible to grow by finding deeper meaning and gaining greater appreciation in our lives. Option B illuminates how to help others in crisis, develop compassion for ourselves, raise strong children, and create resilient families, communities, and workplaces. Many of these lessons can be applied to everyday struggles, allowing us to brave whatever lies ahead. Two weeks after losing her husband, Sheryl was preparing for a father-child activity. “I want Dave,” she cried. Her friend replied, “Option A is not available,” and then promised to help her make the most of Option B. We all live some form of Option B. This book will help us all make the most of it.

Not Another Self-Help Book
Not Another Self-Help Book

Author: Lindsey Kane Leaverton

Publisher: Greenleaf Book Group

Published: 2024-01-09

Total Pages: 359

ISBN-13: 1632997479

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Reclaim your relationship with pain This may look like a book on the surface, but it's more of an experiential journey filled with relatable stories, original music, coloring book pages, irreverent humor, lessons for healing, and most of all, hope. With this book as your guide, you are invited to show up as the brave, badass woman you already are and challenge your past, current, and future experiences with brokenness. Through the lens of Lindsey, you will experience a paradigm shift as you learn how to grapple with all that life throws at you. If you're a pain magnet buried in overwhelm and exhaustion, suffocated by shame, stress, and guilt, this book is for you. Not Another Self-Help Book is for imperfect women who desperately want to reimagine their relationship with pain in all its forms. Flipping the script on the unhelpful notion that everything happens for a reason,Lindsey's words will revolutionize the way you see heartbreak, trauma, conflict, rejection, and humiliation. Gaining awareness that pain is the greatest teacher, you will learn how life isn't happening to you, it's happening for you. It's about damn time to ramp up your search for relief, start making sense of what you've seen, and dig out of the hole you can't seem to get out of, no matter what you try. Lindsey Kane Leaverton has authored over 100 original songs, traveled the world sharing unforgettable stories, and out of sheer desperation during Covid found a way to completely reframe the way she interacts with life's shit. Reading this book will feel a lot like having cocktails with an old friend who makes you belly laugh. You may have tried everything under the sun, read all the self-help books on the planet, and given into the notion that maybe life will always be this hard. Don't give up before the miracle. This is not just another self-help book. You'll see . . .

Overcoming Perfectionism 2nd Edition
Overcoming Perfectionism 2nd Edition

Author: Roz Shafran

Publisher: Robinson

Published: 2018-05-10

Total Pages: 263

ISBN-13: 1472140559

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How to break the circle of 'never good enough' Striving for something can be a healthy and positive attribute; it's good to aim high. But sometimes whatever we do just isn't good enough; we want to be too perfect and start setting unrealistic goals. Such high levels of perfectionism, often driven by low self-esteem, can turn against success and develop into unhealthy obsession, triggering serious mental-health problems, such as anxiety, depression and eating disorders. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), on which this self-help book is based, has been found to be a highly effective treatment and provides relief from that disabling sense of not being good enough. In this essential self-help guide, you will learn: - How clinical perfectionism manifests itself - Effective coping strategies with invaluable guidance on how to avoid future relapse OVERCOMING self-help guides use clinically-proven techniques to treat long-standing and disabling conditions, both psychological and physical. Many guides in the Overcoming series are recommended under the Reading Well Books on Prescription scheme. Series Editor: Professor Peter Cooper