Lessons for Step Mothers

Lessons for Step Mothers

Author: Geeta Maheshwari

Publisher: Partridge Publishing

Published: 2013-11-14

Total Pages: 101

ISBN-13: 148281238X

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Ever since Cinderella, the word wicked seems to have got permanently prefixed to step mothers which is not only unfair, it is also not true. Most women consider step motherhood as their lifes highest calling. They go above and beyond the call of duty to make their step children feel loved and welcomed and all they get is attitudes, eye rolls, and sarcastic remarks. They cant even share their pain with anyone because if they do, the only thing they get to hear every time is, well you knew there were kids involved. Every step mother-to-be knows there are kids involved. Of course she does. She has just no idea how demanding and difficult her job is going to be. With duties and responsibilities sans the rights and the glory, caring for someone elses children can be very demoralizing. Plus with the wicked step mother myth chasing her like a shadow 24x7, it is difficult for her to just be. No wonder most step mothers consider their journey the hardest road travelled. What a step mother needs to realize is that she can neither change societys perception of her nor can she win her step children over by becoming a doormat in her own home. Instead she should invest her time and energy to learn about her step family and her role therein. Thats where this book will come in handy. It has some very useful lessons that will guide every woman who is either contemplating step motherhood or is already there and struggling to: Comprehend the intricate dynamics of step Know why she is a soft target Debunk step family myths Bond with her step kids Keep her identity Prevent step maternal burnout Protect her sanity


The Smart Stepfamily

The Smart Stepfamily

Author: Ron L. Deal

Publisher: Bethany House

Published: 2006

Total Pages: 272

ISBN-13: 076420159X

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Each member has their own unique place in a family. Ron Deal explores the myth of the "blended" family offering practical, realistic solutions for stepfamilies.


The Courage to be a Stepmom

The Courage to be a Stepmom

Author: Sue Patton Thoele

Publisher: Council Oak Books

Published: 2003

Total Pages: 324

ISBN-13: 9781571781291

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Who's taking care of me? Popular author, psychotherapist, mother, and stepmother Sue Patton Thoele has the answer to that question. She offers practical advice and emotional support for women who find themselves in transitional families -- but it's not the usual nuts and bolts advice about such issues as dealing with hostile ex-wives or learning to effectively discipline. Instead, Thoele's book is the first to focus on stepmothers' unique emotional and spiritual needs.


Dear Stepmom, You are Not Alone

Dear Stepmom, You are Not Alone

Author: Ashley Carrubba

Publisher:

Published: 2019

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781693436994

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"Let's dive into the 100 lessons I learned when I became a stepmom. This book is filled with helpful tips, strategies, and reminders of how important your role as a stepmom is to your blended family dynamic, despite what all the haters might say! At times you will feel alone, lost and confused. You will feel like giving up, just like I did. I'm telling you, though, you are not alone. This book is filled with candid and real conversation, as I share my real life step parenting journey with you. If just one lesson helps you through a particularly difficult time, then I've done my job as a fellow stepmom.This book is filled with information I only wished I would have known when I started dating a man with a child; and I feel it is my responsibility to all of my fellow stepmoms to share my story with you-- because let's be honest being the second wife and stepmom is not for the faint of heart." -- Amazon.com.


Stepmotherhood

Stepmotherhood

Author: Cherie Burns

Publisher: Harmony

Published: 2010-11-03

Total Pages: 274

ISBN-13: 0307774589

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If you’re one of the more than 15 million stepmothers in the country, you know the particular trials—and joys—of stepfamily dynamics today. You wonder if you’re doing the right thing and, as a stepmother, many of your specific questions are unique. In this second edition of Stepmotherhood: How to Survive Without Feeling Frustrated, Left Out, or Wicked, journalist and stepmother Cherie Burns brings together countless insights and sound advice, based on the latest research and interviews with experts in the field (including dozens of other stepmoms), to answer questions such as: • How do you manage discipline when parents and stepparents disagree? • How can you help stepsiblings get along? • How do you handle birthdays, holidays, and weddings? • What’s the best way to get along with your stepchild’s mother? • When should you seek a therapist’s help? Burns’s wise and empathetic suggestions go beyond struggle, stigma, and compromise, showing how sensitive, informed stepmothers can take charge—and pride—in their role, becoming more effective and fulfilled.


Stepmonster

Stepmonster

Author: Wednesday Martin

Publisher: HarperCollins

Published: 2011-01-21

Total Pages: 333

ISBN-13: 0547394314

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An honest and groundbreaking guide to understanding the complicated emotions that develop between stepmothers and children. When faced with often overwhelming challenges, what woman with stepchildren is unfamiliar with that “stepmonster” feeling? Half of all women in the United States will live with or marry a man with children. To guide women new to this role—and empower those who are struggling with it—Wednesday Martin draws upon her own experience as a stepmother. She's frank about the harrowing process of becoming a stepmother, she considers the myths and realities of being married to a man with children, and she counteracts the cultural notion that stepmothers are solely responsible for the problems that often develop. Along the way, she interviews other stepmothers and stepchildren and offers up fascinating insights from literature, anthropology, psychology, and evolutionary biology that explain the little-understood realities of this unique parent-child relationship and—in an unexpected twist—shows why the myth of the Wicked Stepmother is the single best tool for understanding who real stepmothers are and how they feel.


Stepmoms on a Mission

Stepmoms on a Mission

Author: Cathryn Bond Doyle

Publisher:

Published: 2018-04-04

Total Pages: 612

ISBN-13: 9780998263601

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This book is a long-awaited definitive instruction manual for the most difficult role you never imagined having, and couldn't possibly prepare for--being a Stepmom. Cathryn Bond Doyle became a stepmother in 1996. Cathryn has developed specific techniques and insights to help stepmothers handle the stress and relationship challenges that may arise with their families. In addition to learning from her own journey, she has worked with thousands of stepmothers, through her support group at smoms.org (which she founded in 2000), to build this collection of proven and practical approaches and tools. Cathryn shows you how to recognize, compassionately acknowledge and understand your own reactions to potentially upsetting stepfamily situations, resist the urge to over-give, resolve your resentments, strengthen your relationship skills, build your connections with your partner and stepkids, and deal with any difficulties that may crop up if the bio-mom of your stepkids is neither kind nor civil. The Table of Contents is designed as your guide to getting specific info on a wide spectrum of common stepmothering "dilemmas." The chapters are written to stand alone in support of each topic so you can get right to the answers most important for you and your situation. Additionally, there are thirty-one proactive tips included to help you and your partner improve daily stepfamily life and so much more. Peppered throughout the forty-one chapters of the book are stories from twenty veteran stepmothers. They share their personal challenges and how they've handled them through working with Cathryn and using her strategies. They each describe how they've become more savvy, confident and self-aware women as a result. These women join Cathryn as Stepmoms on a Mission (SMOMS) and all believe-wholeheartedly-that any woman in the role of stepmother can benefit from this book and the hard-earned wisdom it imparts.


No One's the Bitch

No One's the Bitch

Author: Jennifer Newcomb Marine

Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield

Published: 2009-05-05

Total Pages: 259

ISBN-13: 0762755903

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One of three Americans is today a stepparent, a stepchild, or a stepsibling. That means there are lots of stepmothers and ex-wives out there wrestling with resentment, jealousy, anxiety, anger, and despair over their relationship with the “other woman” in their life. That’s where stepmother/ex-wife team extraordinaire Jennifer Newcomb Marine and Carol Marine step in. No One’s the Bitch is their straight-talking, handholding walk through what is typically a very lonely minefield. Whether women just want to create a neutral, “business” partnership or actually, gulp, to become friends, this book shows them how to reach their goal through ten powerful steps, with chapter titles such as “Own Your Own Crap,” “Collaborate,” and “Communicate.” The authors also recount their own journey, providing ample hope and reassurance to all women struggling to keep a blended family together.


Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons

Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons

Author: Phyllis Haddox

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 1986-06-15

Total Pages: 416

ISBN-13: 0671631985

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A step-by-step program that shows parents, simply and clearly, how to teach their child to read in just 20 minutes a day.


But I'm NOT a Wicked Stepmother!

But I'm NOT a Wicked Stepmother!

Author: Kathi Lipp

Publisher: NavPress

Published: 2015-02-19

Total Pages: 238

ISBN-13: 1624056334

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Most little girls grow up dreaming of being a mom, but hardly any of them dream of becoming a stepmom. Nevertheless, approximately one million new stepfamilies are created every year. It’s no secret, being a stepmother can be a living nightmare. But it can also be an enriching and rewarding experience—one that God can use to strengthen you, helping you survive and even thrive in the toughest job you never asked for. Written by two women who are stepmothers themselves—and know the difficulties of helping to raise someone else’s children—this book is filled with down-to-earth insights and advice for stepmothers from stepmothers. It also offers expert guidance from pastors and counselors on such issues as roles, expectations, realistic goals, organization, finances, holidays, vacations, relationships with stepchildren, negotiation, forgiveness, healing the past, building a strong marriage with stepchildren on the scene, dealing with in-laws and ex-spouses, sexual tensions in stepfamilies, health, depression, stress, and much more. While there is no magic formula to guarantee stepmother success, encouragement and practical wisdom are available in this much-needed resource.