"Excellent, easy advice for those who live with a short fuse.” —Library Journal Quick and easy-to-learn strategies for dealing with anger on the spot! If you struggle with problem anger, you know how much it can hurt your relationships and get in the way of your happiness. When you’re faced with a difficult situation or anger trigger, it’s all too easy to get swept up in your emotions. That’s why you need quick and immediate tools you can use in the moment—whenever anger takes hold. Based in proven-effective cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), Instant Anger Management is a take-anywhere guide for managing anger—whenever and wherever you are. Using quick and simple “try this” interventions—such as breathing, acceptance, and self-expression—you’ll learn to stay grounded, identify your triggers, and balance your emotions. You’ll also find tips and strategies to help you maintain a more positive outlook on life. Packed with skills to help you: Express yourself in healthy ways Deal with frustration Find validation for your emotions Handle feelings of regret Stop being defensive
The Instant-Series Presents "Anger Management" How to Control Anger Instantly! Since you are reading this, you probably have some anger issues affecting you. Take for instances... * You are driving late to work, and somebody cuts you off, driving slowly in front of you. * You are trying to talk, and somebody keeps interrupting you, taking away your spotlight. * You are at the store, and somebody overcharges you, making you wait in line and causing everybody behind blaming you. * You are ordering something, and somebody messes up entirely what you wanted, making you go through all the hassle returning it. * You are working, and somebody keeps bothering you, making you lose your train of focus with your already overdue work. What is your automatic reaction? Anger is a natural go-to response, and your anger may even be justified. Who doesn't want to lash out that idiot who spilled coffee on someone's brand new favorite outfit by immediate default...yet then they try to hold back that anger? The problem is when anger is constantly easily triggered or can't be contained. You may think anger makes you tough, but by being angry all the time, deep down there is something bothering you - either out of fear so it acts as a shield or harboring deep emotional pain from the past because of someone or something. The sad part is...your anger not only affects you, but those around you: your friends, family, and loved-ones. If you don't control this vicious cycle, not only can you end up regretting it, but end up hurting yourself and those closest to you. The good news is, anger is an emotion, and like any emotion...it can be controlled. Within "Instant Anger Management": * How to quickly get rid with of your anger as soon as it happens with instant anger management techniques. * How to uncover the root of the anger problems so you know where the real issues lie to finally unburden yourself. * How to control your anger with preventive measurements the moment it is about to appear, so you won't regret it afterward. * How to easily turn all those negative emotions into positive ones so you can live a more happy life. * How to stay anger-free for the rest of your life so you're no longer feeling drained, able to focus on what really matters. * Plus, custom practical "how-to" strategies, techniques, applications and exercises to dealing with anger. ...and much more. Don't let anger control you; let your anger be controlled by YOU. Take back your life and feel the joy it has to offer, not the anger that holds you back.
CBT skills for coping with angry thoughts, expressing your emotions, and putting an end to angry outbursts—once and for all. Being a young man is tough, and you’re not always equipped to deal with the ongoing challenges of school, work, family, and relentless peer pressure. First of all, it’s not all your fault. Our society encourages boys to repress their emotions—both positive and negative. You may have been told to “suck it up,” or “just be a man.” But burying your emotions can make it extremely difficult to express yourself, be heard, and feel like your needs are being met. The result is a frustration that builds and boils over into anger. The good news is there’s an easy-to-learn method for managing your anger and expressing your emotions in a healthy way. Written by an expert in anger with decades of experience working with teens, this book provides you with the tools you need for effective anger management, as well as essential skills for getting in touch with and communicating your thoughts and feelings. You’ll learn to understand the emotions that trigger anger, build up your emotional vocabulary to better express your feelings, and focus on the positive. You’ll also discover anger-reduction techniques to stay cool when anger intensifies, so you put out the fire and get to a place of calm. This workbook is packed with tips and tricks to help you: Replace unhelpful anger with clear communication Break the habit of catastrophizing and personalizing Reduce the overwhelming physiological response of anger Channel the positive power of anger With the right tools, you can take charge of your anger—and your life. This workbook will show you how. In these increasingly challenging times, kids and teens need mental health resources more than ever. With more than 1.6 million copies sold worldwide, Instant Help Books are easy to use, proven-effective, and recommended by therapists.
Anger Mangement Book Series #1 Anger can ruin many different things in life, from your health to your career, to relationships and friendships. It's time to get this problem under control. In Anger Management: 7 Steps to Freedom from Anger, Stress, and Anxiety, you will learn: Why is Anger a Problem for Society: Anger is a natural, healthy emotion, but what are the costs of it running without control? Our society is becoming increasingly angry, and it's harming not just ourselves, but others.Where Anger Came from: What are the origins of anger? Surely, this prevalent emotion has to have a source. Chapter one will explain this to help you understand where your emotion springs from and how best to handle it.Different Types of Anger: Not all anger is created equal. There's anger at a situation, anger at another person, and anger at ourselves. Understanding these distinctions can help you find healthy ways to deal with the emotion.Handling the Emotion: What are some healthy alternatives to burying your anger or exploding? Throughout this guide, you will be given useful tools for handling the emotion in a balanced, assertive way. By the end of this book, you should have the necessary mental tools for becoming assertive, rather than aggressive, and calm when necessary. If you're tired of being controlled by this unpredictable emotion, take matters into your own hands and read this useful guide.
"This is an excellent resource for learning how to manage and control issues relating to the emotion of anger. The book includes numerous lessons and helpful tools and information on topics such as stress management, empathy, assertive communication, forgiveness, expectation management, self-talk, judgment and impulse control management, and much more. This is a perfect book to use as a self help manual for individuals, couples, and families as well as mental health professionals, businesses, clergy, probation departments and law enforcement personnel." (Product description).
Powerful tools to help you manage the anxiety that makes you angry. Do people tell you that you seem angry? Do you find yourself losing your cool from time to time? From academic stress, worrying about college, and dealing with friend drama—you’ve got a lot on your plate. Is it any wonder, then, that the stress of it all can cause you to snap? If anxiety or stress is causing you to act out in ways that don’t seem like you—this book can help. Using a proven-effective approach rooted in evidence-based cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), When Anxiety Makes You Angry will help you identify the anxiety beneath your anger, accept difficult emotions—rather than fighting or trying to ignore them—and learn healthy coping and self-regulation skills to help you find emotional balance. You’ll also discover how to “train your brain” to stop and think before reacting; and how to choose calm over chaos when faced with the things that trigger your anxiety or anger. The teen years are full of changes, and sometimes it can be hard to deal with all the worry, uncertainty, and setbacks (without getting angry). But with the right tools, you can take control of anxiety and the difficult emotions it causes—and face the challenges ahead with confidence and a clear head. This friendly guide has your back! In these increasingly challenging times, kids and teens need mental health resources more than ever. With more than 1.6 million copies sold worldwide, Instant Help Books are easy to use, proven-effective, and recommended by therapists.
Do you ever feel so frustrated with school, friends, parents, and life in general that you lose control of your emotions and lash out? You shouldn’t feel ashamed. Being a teen in today’s world is hard, but it’s even harder when you’re unable to keep your cool in stressful situations. Fortunately, there are things you can do to make positive changes in your life. Using proven effective mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) and dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT), Mindfulness for Teen Anger will teach you the difference between healthy and unhealthy forms of anger. Inside, you’ll learn how to make better choices, how to stop overreacting, find emotional balance, and be more aware of your thoughts and feelings in the moment. You’ll also learn skills for building positive relationships with peers, friends, and family. As a teen, the relationship skills you learn now can help you thrive in the future. With a little help, and by cultivating compassion and understanding for yourself and others, you will be able to transform your fear and anger into confidence and kindness.
The Gift of Anger shows you how to discover the deeper meaning behind your anger, and change the relationships and situations in your life that frustrate you. In seven simple and effective steps, this book guides you past any level of anger, from mild irritation to rage, and toward a balanced approach to using anger for greater understanding and well-being. By learning to see anger as a gift, you'll be able to: Regain emotional balance after becoming angry; Identify and name the unmet needs at the root of your anger; Create an action plan for ensuring your needs are met; and Understand and forgive others and have compassion for yourself.
“A practical, easy-to-follow guide to getting control of your anger so that you can live a more productive life today. … Rather than get angry, get this book.” —Robert L. Leahy, PhD, director of the American Institute for Cognitive Therapy We all get angry sometimes. But if you feel angry all of time—and if your anger makes others uncomfortable, creates distance in your relationships, disrupts your ability to think clearly and make good decisions, or otherwise results in behaviors that you regret or find embarrassing later—it’s time to make a change. Written by two clinical psychologists with decades of experience using cognitive behavioral interventions to treat anger, Anger Management for Everyone provides a comprehensive, research-based program to keep anger in its place. This revised and updated second edition includes new information on the environmental effects on anger, such as hunger and sleep; new progressive muscle relaxation and mindfulness exercises; and new strategies and tips for improving social and interpersonal skills. With the authors’ enhanced “Anger Episode Model,” and the ten proven-effective skills for anger management in this helpful guide, you’ll come to better understand and control your problem anger, learn how to cope with everyday disappointments and frustrations, and experience more happiness, success, and vitality in all areas of your life.
By working through the activities in I'm Not Bad, I'm Just Mad, children with anger control problems can develop better emotional and behavioral control. Kids will learn how to identify the things that make them angry, become better problem solvers, talk about their frustrations, and much more.
