New York Times bestselling author Dr. Daniel Amen equips you with powerful weapons to battle the inner dragons that are breathing fire on your brain, driving unhealthy behaviors, and robbing you of joy and contentment. Your brain is always listening and responding to these hidden influences and unless you recognize and deal with them, they can steal your happiness, spoil your relationships, and sabotage your health. This book will teach you to tame the: Dragons from the Past that ignite your most painful emotions; Negative Thought Dragons that attack you, fueling anxiety and depression; They and Them Dragons, people in your life whose own dragons do battle with yours; Bad Habit Dragons that increase the chances you’ll be overweight, overwhelmed, and an underachiever; Addicted Dragons that make you lose control of your health, wealth, and relationships; and Scheming Dragons, advertisers and social media sites that steal your attention. Dr. Daniel Amen shows you how to recognize harmful dragons and gives you the weapons to vanquish them. With these practical tools, you can stop feeling sad, mad, nervous, or out of control and start being happier, calmer, and more in control of your own destiny.
A new and simple system to understanding and controlling the behavior of others Noted body language, behavior and communication expert Mark Bowden offers a totally practical, easy-to-read guide to understanding the impulsive actions of others, along with the best tools to manage them. A number one anxiety in business is dealing with problem people. In Tame the Primitive Brain, Mark Bowden's fresh approach is the fastest and most effective way to understand why someone acts towards you the way they do; why you react to their behavior in the way you do; and most importantly, what exactly to do about it to achieve the right outcomes. Brings new and fresh perspectives to business readers for dealing with tricky behaviors Explains how to effectively manage those around you at any level in an organization Shares the latest evolutionary behavioral theory, neuroscientific evidence, and the tried and tested tools and tricks based on these premises This simple model of how we humans can and do relate to each other brings increased depth of understanding and expands your toolset to better manage yourself and others to achieve anything.
The very things we do to control anxiety can make anxiety worse. This unique guide offers a cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)-based approach to help you recognize the constant chatter of your anxious “monkey mind,” stop feeding anxious thoughts, and find the personal peace you crave. Ancient sages compared the human mind to a monkey: constantly chattering, hopping from branch to branch—endlessly moving from fear to safety. If you are one of the millions of people whose life is affected by anxiety, you are familiar with this process. Unfortunately, you can’t switch off the “monkey mind,” but you can stop feeding the monkey—or stop rewarding it by avoiding the things you fear. Written by psychotherapist Jennifer Shannon, this book shows you how to stop anxious thoughts from taking over using proven-effective cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and mindfulness techniques, as well as fun illustrations. By following the exercises in this book, you’ll learn to identify your own anxious thoughts, question those thoughts, and uncover the core fears at play. Once you stop feeding the monkey, there are no limits to how expansive your life can feel. This book will show you how anxiety can only continue as long as you try to avoid it. And, paradoxically, only by seeking out and confronting the things that make you anxious can you reverse the cycle that keeps your fears alive.
"This wonderfully written book inspired by real-life issues throws light on the challenges we face in our relationships and the perils of modern society. It explores shades of human nature and why we behave, in ways detrimental to our well being." Neil's asexual marriage troubles him. Sylvia, a divorcee wants nothing to do with men. When their paths cross, each finds a soulmate in the other. Yet due to the forces of nature, they feel compelled to part ways so that the other can find happiness. Neil is on a journey to understand himself, and how he fits into the female sexual realm. His dilemma as he cruises through life has been brought to light as 'Men do not talk about their issues.' Sylvia is on a journey to understand love and happiness and when faced with her friend's mortality to discover the 'True Purpose of Life.' Quotes from the book: "Men rarely shared their emotions with others. They discuss their conquests but not their failures." "Inundated by the success stories splashed all over, most of us lesser mortals walked on this earth in a state of dereliction.""Somewhere we are not only capable of drowning our partner's best but also bringing out the worse."The purpose of this book is to bust the confusion and myth surrounding love, sex, and happiness. We are moving away from our core in pursuit of larger-than-life fantasies flashed at us, thus creating havoc in our minds and living with an understated dissatisfaction. This book reflects on why the best life is not about big cars and big houses but something deeper and meaningful. To understand what that is, please read the book. From the author: As a physician, I began counseling my patients more than prescribing medications. This novel hints at solutions to stay happy in marriage, to heal relationships and to attain the one element the human mind needs to find happiness. Through the journey of Sylvia and Neil, this book helps to figure out the most important ingredient for success without which even the richest of the rich remain poor. My hope for you as a reader is that you will be able to connect with some of the stories narrated in this book. If this book helps you in some way, my purpose would be met.
HOW TO TAME THE MIND LIVE THE PRESENT TO THE FULLEST, ENJOY LIFE AND LET GO OF YOUR FEARS BY TRAINING YOUR MONKEY MIND ABOUT THIS BOOK The first step to mastering your mind is to understand what the monkey mind is and why it’s such a problem. The monkey mind is that part of our consciousness that never stops chattering away. It's always thinking about something, whether it be the past or future, positive or negative thoughts, good or bad experiences—the list goes on and on. Most people are not even aware of how much time they spend caught up in endless chatter in their heads! The constant stream of self-talk can be exhausting at best and debilitating at worst—it keeps us from living fully in the present moment with all its joys, challenges, beauty and sorrows. For example: If you are stressed out about work tomorrow, then you have already lost half your day because you will feel tired from poor sleep tonight due to worrying about tomorrow’s workload. What would happen if we could stop worrying about these things long enough for us to enjoy eating lunch with friends this afternoon? Would we remember what kind of sandwich tastes best? Would we savor every bite instead of wolfing down whatever happens pass through our lips quickly so we can get back to being worried? CONTENT Introduction What Is A Monkey Mind According To Zen Buddhists? Why Thinking Of Your To-Do Lists Distracts You From The Present? Why Thinking Of Imaginary Fears Distracts You From The Present? Why Recalling Hurtful Things From The Past Distracts You From The Present? Why Creating Catastrophic Scenarios Of The Future Prevents You From Living In The Present? Why Judging The Present Moment Prevents You From Living Life At Its Fullest? How Does The Monkey Mind Affect Your Mood? Why Does The Monkey Mind Have A Negative Impact On Your Behavior? Why Taming Your Monkey Mind Will Give You Clarity? Why Taming Your Monkey Mind Will Allow You To Focus On The Present? Why Taming Your Monkey Mind Will Improve The Quality Of Your Sleep? Why Taming Your Monkey Mind Will Increase Your Sense Of Calm? Why Taming Your Monkey Mind Will Make You Happier? Why Mindfulness Can Help Us Tame The Mind? How To Keep A Journal To Tame Your Mind? What Is The A-B-C Technique To Tame The Monkey Mind? How To Recite Mantras To Tame The Mind? How To Avoid Jumping To Conclusions To Tame The Mind? How To Use The Pranayama Breathing Technique To Tame The Mind? Why Avoid Multitasking To Tame The Mind? Why Physical Activity Can Help You Tame Your Mind? How To Observe Your Own Thoughts To Tame Your Mind? How Meditation Can Help You Tame Your Monkey Mind? Why Practicing Yoga Can Help You Tame Your Mind? ABOUT THE SAPIENS NETWORK The content in this guide is based on extensive official research and comes from a variety of sources, mostly from books published by experts who have mastered each of the topics presented here and who are backed by internationally recognized careers. Therefore, the reader will be able to acquire a large amount of knowledge from more than one reliable and specialized source. This happens because we rely only on official and endorsed media. In addition, we also collect information from different web pages, courses, biographies, and interviews, so we give the reader a broad overview of their topics of interest. We have not only checked that the sources of knowledge are relevant, but we have also made a very careful selection of the final information that makes up this guide. With great practicality, we have compiled the most useful concepts and put them in a way that are easiest for the reader to learn. Our ultimate goal is to simplify all the ideas that they are fully understandable and so that the reader can enjoy a pleasant, practical, and simple reading. This is why we strive to provide only the key information from each expert. In this guide, the reader will not find redundancies or unnecessary or irrelevant content. Each chapter covers the essential and leaves out everything that could be deemed as extra or that does not add anything new to the selected concepts. Thus, the reader will be able to enjoy a text where they will easily find specialized information that comes exclusively from experts and that has been selected with the greatest effectiveness.
Taming the Anxious Mind deconstructs the complex treatment of anxiety and stress disorders into a user-friendly and action-oriented guidebook. Parables, infographics, charts, and illustrations supplement the material and creates a more digestible approach to psychological content.
***NATIONAL BESTSELLER*** STOP FOR A MOMENT. Are you here right now? Is your focus on this page? Or is it roaming elsewhere, to the past or future, to a worry, to your to-do list, or to your phone? Whether you’re simply browsing, talking to friends, or trying to stay focused in an important meeting, you can’t seem to manage to hang on to your attention. No matter how hard you try, you’re somewhere else. The consequence is that you miss out on 50 percent of your life—including the most important moments. The good news: There’s nothing wrong with you—your brain isn’t broken. The human brain was built to be distractible. The even better news: You can train your brain to pay attention more effectively. Stay with me a little longer and soon you will be able to: Focus without all the struggle. Take back your attention from the pull of distraction. And function at your peak, for all that truly matters in your life.
The #1 UK bestseller that presents a funny, honest, and engaging look at the craziness of modern life, explaining why we’re all just a little bit out of our minds. In Sane New World, Ruby Wax - comedian, writer and mental health advocate - shows us just how our minds can send us mad as our internal critics play on a permanent loop tape ‘Don’t do that.. why you... you didn’t... should have... but you didn’t...’. Ruby knows those voices well. She has been on a tough but ultimately enlightening journey that has taken her from battling depression to achieving a Masters Degree from Oxford University in Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy. In Sane New World, Ruby helps us all understand why we sabotage our sanity, how our brains work and how we can rewire our thinking – often through simple mindfulness techniques - to find calm in a frenetic world.
