How to Start a Kinky Relationship
How to Start a Kinky Relationship

Author: James Amoureux

Publisher: Tantralogic Group Publishing

Published: 2011-03-01

Total Pages: 236

ISBN-13: 9780615458557

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"How To Start A Kinky Relationship" is for the kink-curious novice as well as the seasoned bondage master and long time S&M submissive. People who never had the pleasure of a kinky relationship will find all the tools they need to get the ball rolling. People who have been kinky in the past but "just fell into it" will have a systematic approach to starting and growing their next relationship. People who already self-identify as kinky or queer or pervert will find plenty of insights that will improve their overall communication and sexual relationships. This book delves into the mindset, activities, and communication styles that make kinky relationships great. It shows you how to get comfortable with kink, find partners, screen them for compatibility, communicate your desires, and grow your relationship. It does not detail rope bondage techniques, how to become a leather-studded sex machine, or how to use the Force to lure unsuspecting Jedi to the Kinky side. Rather it will help you understand your own personal preferences and how to find a compatible partner to play with. The focus of this book is on relationships, not landing kinky quickies with your online hook up. Still, casual encounters follow the same principles: know what you want, be congruent, define your relationship terms, get enthusiastic consent, and take responsibility for your actions. Then you can keep yourself busy having the most amazing, wild, mind-blowing sex the world has ever known.

How to Be Kinky
How to Be Kinky

Author: Morpheous

Publisher:

Published: 2012-11-13

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781931160995

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How to be Kinky is a primer on the multi-faceted world of kink and getting into BDSM play. It is for beginners and novices, couples and singles. Morpheous' comprehensive guide to kink addresses all aspects of kinky play, such as how to turn bedrooms into a den of iniquity, how to maintain physical and emotional safety during play and proper protocols and etiquette at fetish events. Fully updated, this enhanced second edition is reworked in full-colour, with gorgeous and sexy photos, as well as 15 easy to follow photo essays.

A Little Bit Kinky
A Little Bit Kinky

Author: Dr. Natasha Valdez

Publisher: Harmony

Published: 2010-01-12

Total Pages: 211

ISBN-13: 0307590046

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Dr. Natasha is on a Mission to Help You Get Sex and Intimacy Back into Your Life for Good! Does “getting kinky” make you blush? Does it sound dirty and maybe a little illegal? Well, it’s not, says Dr. Natasha. Kinky is just another way to have more fun in bed – and what couple who has been together for a few years couldn’t benefit from that? Dr. Natasha comes to the rescue by helping you both get in touch with your kinky side – with instructions that are as simple as they are sizzling. Whether it’s writing messages on your underwear, finding new uses for ice cubes or learning a little racy role play, you’ll push the limits of your inhibitions to sample and savor new sexual delights. The common denominator is that breathing new life into familiar sex will make your connection more loving and intense both inside and outside of the bedroom.

To Love, Honor, and Vacuum
To Love, Honor, and Vacuum

Author: Sheila Wray Gregoire

Publisher:

Published: 2014

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9780825443466

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"Sheila speaks to both the heart and habits of the woman who is wife and mother. The lessons in this book are biblical, doable, and affordable!"--Margaret B. Buchanan From advertisements to mommy blogs to Pinterest, scenes of domestic bliss abound, painting a picture of perfection and expectation nearly impossible to live up to. Why can't you work a full-time job, stylishly clothe yourself and your children, plan a party for twelve with handmade decorations, keep your house sparkling clean without chemicals, and bake a gourmet meal in the same day? Everyone else is doing it! For many women, housework has become more than chores that need to be done; it is a symbol of identity. Sheila Wray Gregoire wants to stop that thinking in its tracks and help women back to a life of balance--for their sakes and for their families. She encourages women to shift their focus from housekeeping to relationships and shows them how to foster responsibility and respect in all family members. The second edition retains the helpful, concrete advice on everyday situations such as strategies for tackling chores and budgets and tips on effective communication, while incorporating the wisdom Sheila has gained through her interaction with thousands of readers of her blog and through her speaking ministry over the past ten years. Through the principles in To Love, Honor, and Vacuum, Gregoire promises readers they can grow and thrive in the midst of their hectic lives--even if their circumstances stay the same.

When Someone You Love Is Kinky
When Someone You Love Is Kinky

Author: Dossie Easton

Publisher: SCB Distributors

Published: 2011-08-02

Total Pages: 188

ISBN-13: 1890159840

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Many, many people have sexual interests or practices that are in some way unusual. These people may enjoy bondage or spanking, erotic role-playing, dressing in special clothes that turn them on, or a host of other activities that place them outside the sexual mainstream. Your mechanic might have an alternative sexuality, or your librarian, or your kids' teacher, or your boss.... If someone you love has a sexual kink, or if you suspect that she may, and you want to know more about what that means to her and how you can deal with what it means to you, this book is for you. "When Someone You Love Is Kinky will do more for family values than anything the right wing ever dreamed up, because it lets people communicate and love and respect each other on the basis of who they really are. A wonderful contribution twoards a more sex-positive culture." - Dr. Carol Queen, author, Real Live Nude Girl "Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt, both wise and compassionate women, and both players in the world of kink, welcome the reader gently into that world and answer everything anyone might have wanted to ask but was really afraid to find out." - Isadora Alman, syndicated sex and relationship columnist

Becoming Real
Becoming Real

Author: Dr. Gail Saltz

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2005-05-03

Total Pages: 257

ISBN-13: 1594480826

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An inspiring work that pushes us to mature past the obstacles we create for ourselves. In this refreshing and unique book, Today Show psychiatrist Dr. Gail Saltz shows how to pinpoint, deal with, and eliminate the debilitating baggage that stands in the way of success. Through revealing and intensive questionnaires, Becoming Real helps identify the symptoms that lead to repetitive self-defeating behaviors and provides essential tools for becoming a stronger person-in love, friendship, career, and in life-with a newfound confidence.

Cuffed, Tied, and Satisfied
Cuffed, Tied, and Satisfied

Author: JAIYA

Publisher: Harmony

Published: 2014-06-17

Total Pages: 273

ISBN-13: 0804138087

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BANISH BORING SEX AND UNLEASH ORGASMIC ECSTASY WITH POWER, RESTRAINT, AND SENSATION PLAY! Are you ready to expand your sexual boundaries? If you’ve ever fantasized about being taken by your man, dreamed of playing with handcuffs, ropes, and paddles, or been turned on by the thought of wickedly wielding power over your lover, you’ve found the right book! Award-winning Sexologist and author Jaiya will be your Mistress in this fun-to-read handbook that will transform your sex life. CUFFED, TIED, AND SATISFIED leads the kink novice and pro alike on a shame-free personal journey to sexual empowerment, including your full plan for safely playing on the edge, setting boundaries, and communicating with your partner about your deepest, darkest, untapped desires. Jaiya will teach you how to make your sexual fantasies a safe reality through: • SENSORY PLAY - Blindfolded and tied to the bed; you’re helpless as every inch of your skin is awakened with your lover’s hot breath and a delicious feather… • POWER ROLES - You’ve drawn up your own sexy contract detailing every moment of how you want your lover to take you to full surrender; he looks into your eyes and pulls you to your knees… • IMPACT AND TOYS - Just the sound of your wicked crop sends your lover into ecstasy; the anticipation has you both on the brink of extraordinary pleasure… • ROLE PLAYING - Standing naked in front of your lover, they admire your black thigh-high heels. You’ve empowered your inner Dominatrix, and you’re ready to take control… CUFFED, TIED, AND SATISFIED is all you need to bring kink out of the dungeon and into your bedroom.

Coming Home to Passion
Coming Home to Passion

Author: Ruth Cohn

Publisher: Praeger

Published: 2011-02-18

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 0313392129

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This book offers a detailed road map for overcoming sexual and relationship impasses originating from painful childhood experiences. Large numbers of adults with histories of childhood trauma and neglect suffer persistent relationship and sexual difficulties. Unfortunately, most have failed to receive adequate help with emerging from these deep and complex problems. Coming Home to Passion: Restoring Loving Sexuality in Couples with Histories of Childhood Trauma and Neglect explores the enduring impacts—physiological, psychological, and behavioral—of childhood trauma and neglect. Author Ruth Cohn, drawing on 25 years of experience working with trauma survivors and their partners and families, lays out a practical and actionable course for recovery in clear, accessible language. This book provides direction and hope to those with trauma backgrounds while also serving as a unique resource for professional readers. Integrating in-depth information on attachment and relationship, trauma and neglect, and sexuality, Cohn details a practical, hands-on treatment approach for revitalizing love, health, and passion.

The Ultimate Guide to Kink
The Ultimate Guide to Kink

Author: Tristan Taormino

Publisher: Cleis Press

Published: 2012-03-01

Total Pages: 466

ISBN-13: 157344782X

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The Ultimate Guide to Kink is the first major guide to BDSM in a generation—a bold and sexy collection of essays that run the gamut from expert how-to tutorials to provocative essays that delve into complex questions about desire, power, and pleasure. The book brings together diverse voices from the kink community in an unprecedented way: each chapter is written by a different sexuality/BDSM educator. Divided into two sections, the first section features thorough, thoughtful pieces—on everything from flogging to bondage—packed with techniques and beautifully illustrated with original images from artist Katie Diamond. The second section is dedicated to role-playing fantasies and personal manifestos. From age play to masochism, these chapters cover some of the edgiest, most taboo and controversial elements of kink in depth. The Ultimate Guide to Kink features the expertise of renowned educators writing passionately on their favorite subjects, including Patrick Califia, Midori, Laura Antoniou, Barbara Carrellas, Lee Harrington, Jack Rinella, Lolita Wolf, Madison Young, Hardy Haberman, Felice Shays, Ignacio Rivera, Sarah Sloane, Mollena Williams, FifthAngel, and Edge. It will educate, inspire, and challenge both newcomers to the world of kink and experienced BDSM players.

How to Talk Dirty
How to Talk Dirty

Author: Denise Brienne

Publisher: CreateSpace

Published: 2012-04-12

Total Pages: 84

ISBN-13: 9781497552654

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Why Learn How To Talk Dirty? You might be reading this because your partner has expressed an interest in hearing naughty words in the heat of passion. You might have sought out this book because you are the one who craves those sweet nothings. Maybe you want to liven up your sex life, or maybe you are just curious as to why your partner likes to talk so much in bed. Maybe you are already a fantastic dirty talker who needs a new idea or two, or maybe you're just in the mood to brush up on your naughty skills. Whatever the reason, you've chosen the right book to learn how to talk dirty! Talking dirty has become so much a part of our sexual culture that it has spawned surveys, interviews, forums, books, and research galore. In fact, before it was called "dirty talk," the art of saying sexual things to your lover with the intent to arouse had a scientific name: Lagnolalia. There's good reason for all this scientific interest. Over 80% of our sex life takes place in our heads, meaning that fantasy, memory, and desire are some of the most powerful driving forces behind everything we do behind closed doors. Studies have shown that by the time you actually get physical with your partner, your mind has been leading up to the encounter. So why not go for the dirty talk? It's been in the back of your mind all day anyway! According to Aline P. Zoldbrod, PhD, the author of more than a few books on naughtiness, sexy talk with your partner not only revs up play between the sheets, but enriches your life in ways you never would have imagined. It makes your partner feel good to know how excited you are, and your excitement makes them feel like the best lover in the world. That might explain why talking dirty makes you tingle in all the right places, but it doesn't explain why the naughtiest dirty talk can also be the hottest. It's one thing to say "fuck" and get a smile, but it's quite another to tell your partner exactly how you want to fuck them, in the most graphic terms you can imagine. The dirtier the words, the better. What's up with that? One word: Taboo. This book helps you break the taboo and teaches you how to talk dirty to a guy. INSIDE YOU WILL LEARN: 1. Why we should talk dirty 2. The most important part of talking dirty 3. Finding out that dirty talking doesn't have to be filthy 4. How to get started 5. How to get dirty ideas 6. Setting the stage for being naughty 7. How to put words in your mouth 8. How to use dirty talk creatively everyday 9. Fine tuning your bedroom talk 10. How to have phone sex 11. How to send dirty text messages 12. Playing dirty online with cybersex and email 13. How to talk dirty in public 14. Finding those "WHOA" moments 15. How to do naughty role-playing 16. Girl on girl dirty talk 17. Getting hard-core with talking dirty 18. How to put everything into action Pick up Denise Brienne's "How To Talk Dirty" Kindle book right start learn how to spice up your sex life!