'How To Set Up An FLR' is a straight froward, no nonsense book that tells it like it is. Georgia Ivey Green (also known as Mistress Ivey) tells her readers the truth about Female Led Relationships instead of feeding their fantasies like so many others have done in the past. She talks about real life and how to implement a female led relationship that fits you in real life, not in some fantasy you may have picked up from the Internet. Couples gain the knowledge to avoid common pitfalls and ease into an FLR where both parties can feel comfortable. She takes the fantasy out and puts the reality in. 'How To Set Up An FLR' was originally a highly successful ebook for your favorite e-reader. Now it is available in paperback so you can hold it in your hand, write comments and notes in the margins, or quickly access any page for the information you need. There are many sections that you will want to refer back to for years to come. This book is invaluable to those wishing to establish a successful female led relationship. It will guide couples just starting out as well those who may have tried to set up an FLR before and failed. It covers such things as approaching your partner, creating an agreement, limits, and, yes, even cuckolding. If you have ever thought about converting your relationship to an FLR, then you really aught to read this book first. It could save your relationship.
FLR stands for female-led relationship. These are relationships in which the woman and the man agree that she will be the dominant partner, while he will be the subservient one. There are plenty of ways to engage in this type of relationship for a fulfilling and adventurous lifestyle. Here are the details on what it means, its various aspects, and how to apply FLR principles to your own relationship.
Put the fire back in your relationship! This brand new book is destined to be the most revolutionary, breakthrough, and fastest growing relationship guide of the next 20 years! This phenomenal book is bound to be an International Bestseller! Love & Obey, is now available for the first time ever in trade paperback. In this revolutionary new guide to understanding a Female Led Relationship and how it will fulfill the woman and the man's needs, desires, and behaviors. You will be living together as a happy couple. Men report 97% of the time that they are getting more satisfaction, sexual and otherwise, than ever before since experiencing loving female authority. Known as the "Caribbean Queen," Marisa Rudder provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication by acknowledging their differences and discovering the importance of this loving female authority in a relationship. This type of relationship allows your Alpha Male to be himself while completely 100% devoted, worshipping and obedient to you as his Queen, which allows you both to enjoy a spiritual and sexually blissful relationship. No other Female Led Relationship guide on the market will give you the same level of evidence- based insight sure to help you strengthen, nurture, and live the relationship you've always wanted!
The #1 thing men secretly desire of women, yet typically won't admit it. Are you the one who likes to be in control, especially when it comes to making decisions for you and your partner? Do you and your significant other naturally fall into the dominant female and submissive male roles in your relationship, yet do not feel as if you utilize this couple dynamic to its fullest potential? Have you heard of or seen your friends in a female led relationship, the idea peaking your interest, but do not know how to implement this lifestyle into your own daily routine? Through years on end, men have always been the dominant one in relationships, telling the woman what to do, taking care of finances, and typically taking the lead in the bedroom. Because women are quickly becoming more and more aware of the influence they can have on the world and thus breaking out of their shells, female led relationships are becoming increasingly popular in today's modern times, and for a good reason. According to Her Way, having the woman be the dominant partner in a relationship has many benefits, some of which include: A better sex life Improved communication Less pressure on the man to make sure his wife or girlfriend is happy Increased satisfaction in the relationship A relationship based on female dominance isn't solely about the control, but also about how it sets a stronger foundation for both sides of the party. In Female Led Relationship Guide, you will discover: Why a female led relationship doesn't necessarily mean BDSM, and how you can make it work for both you and your partner The key to finding the right balance between the dominant and submissive, and if it's even possible How this couple dynamic can be the solution to intimacy issues, as well as build the foundation for a healthy relationship The #1 thing you must do before beginning a female led relationship, or else it will do you and your partner more harm than good The major topics of concern to address with your significant other, and how to go about discussing them The shocking reason why men seek out dominant women to take charge in a relationship -- it may not be what you think! The varying degrees of dominance that can cater to anyone's comfort zone and lifestyle And much more. Don't worry, if you and your partner are interested in adopting a relationship built on female dominance but don't want this aspect of your life to be public, you don't have to. How you approach this lifestyle is completely up to you, whether it be something you do only behind closed doors or something you carry out regardless of where you are. Ladies, even if you're unsure about being the dominant one in the relationship and don't know if it suits your personality, the degree in which you dominate your partner depends on your wants and needs. Female led relationships aren't black or white, you can easily form your own perfect combination that will satisfy any and all of your desires. Do your relationship a favor and join the modern version of relationships where women are the ones who take charge. Keep up -- the times are changing! If you want to explore the powers of female dominance and experience another level of connection with your partner, then scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" button right now.
A complete guide to male chastity. If you are new to male chastity or have been practicing it for years, this book will guide you to a happier sex life. Everything you ever wanted to know about how to sexually tease and torment your partner. How to talk "dirty" to him. What to say, when and how to say it, even if you are shy or embarrassed. Keeping him aroused when he is away. It's all here.Has your partner been pushing you to lock his manhood up in a chastity device? Are you afraid you won't live up to his expectations? Are you too shy, embarrassed, or uncomfortable talking "dirty" to him in bed (or any other time)? Being a KeyHolder should not be terrifying for any woman. Armed with the information in this handbook, you can become an expert at playing the chastity game. Once you know how to play, he won't stand chance. This guide will make it easy for any woman to become a KeyHolder for her partner, or any other man, for that matter.
I am writing this book for the woman who is interested in being in a Female Led Relationship. It is for the women who is at her wits end and is tired of the same old thing with the same men. She is tired of being an object in her relationship. She is tired of not getting satisfied in bed. She is tired of "sleeping on the wet spot" while her lover rolls over and falls asleep. She is tired of being overlooked and taken for granted. This is not a book of erotic titillating stories. While in later chapters I will give you a variety of ideas to take "erotic control" of your partner, my primary purpose is to give you a realistic illustration as to what to expect and think about when you are in a relationship like this. We have all dated that guy who wanted sex all the time and was really kinky in the bedroom. The kind of guy that wants to do it in the back yard while you're wearing a red satin teddy or a guy who wants to watch while you are pleasuring yourself with your magic vibrating egg. But a Female Led Relationship is more than just kinky sex. It's actually a very small part of it. It is first and foremost a relationship between two consenting adults. It isn't just one or two steamy and kinky moments of passion. It's a way of living. It's a lifestyle with the woman at the helm.
What is 'Female Leadership'? It's accepting that 'She knows best' in all matters. From the finances to the household to how best to accomplish long-term goals. It's trusting in Her judgement to run things and embracing 'Her way'. This doesn't make the man weak, just the opposite, because men are the best at 'getting things done' when the task is clearly defined but difficult to do. A Female Dominant Household plays to both side's strengths and minimizes weaknesses, leading to Female empowerment, greater satisfaction in the relationship, trust, bonding and yes, mind-blowing sex.Surrender, Submit, Serve Her seeks to help implement your Female Led household through tools like the Command and Conquer meeting (commanding and conquering tasks and roadblocks, not people), laying out the contract of servitude (clearly defining her dominion and removing unnecessary confusion) and crafting your own pledge that personalizes and empowers the act of his submission.Surrender, Submit, Serve Her has been nominated for the BDSM Writers Con 2017 Golden Flogger Awards for BEST BDSM Book of the Year in the Non-fiction category.Updated for 2018! Better formatting and new content.
LONGLISTED FOR THE NATIONAL BOOK AWARD “Nothing short of magic.” —Elizabeth Acevedo, New York Times bestselling author of The Poet X From the acclaimed poet featured on Forbes Africa’s “30 Under 30” list, this powerful novel-in-verse captures one girl, caught between cultures, on an unexpected journey to face the ephemeral girl she might have been. Woven through with moments of lyrical beauty, this is a tender meditation on family, belonging, and home. my mother meant to name me for her favorite flower its sweetness garlands made for pretty girls i imagine her yasmeen bright & alive & i ache to have been born her instead Nima wishes she were someone else. She doesn’t feel understood by her mother, who grew up in a different land. She doesn’t feel accepted in her suburban town; yet somehow, she isn't different enough to belong elsewhere. Her best friend, Haitham, is the only person with whom she can truly be herself. Until she can't, and suddenly her only refuge is gone. As the ground is pulled out from under her, Nima must grapple with the phantom of a life not chosen—the name her parents meant to give her at birth—Yasmeen. But that other name, that other girl, might be more real than Nima knows. And the life Nima wishes were someone else's. . . is one she will need to fight for with a fierceness she never knew she possessed.
While observing exotic animal trainers for her acclaimed book Kicked, Bitten, and Scratched, journalist Amy Sutherland had an epiphany: What if she used these training techniques with the human animals in her own life–namely her dear husband, Scott? In this lively and perceptive book, Sutherland tells how she took the trainers’ lessons home. The next time her forgetful husband stomped through the house in search of his mislaid car keys, she asked herself, “What would a dolphin trainer do?” The answer was: nothing. Trainers reward the behavior they want and, just as important, ignore the behavior they don’t. Rather than appease her mate’s rising temper by joining in the search, or fuel his temper by nagging him to keep better track of his things in the first place, Sutherland kept her mouth shut and her eyes on the dishes she was washing. In short order, Scott found his keys and regained his cool. “I felt like I should throw him a mackerel,” she writes. In time, as she put more training principles into action, she noticed that she became more optimistic and less judgmental, and their twelve-year marriage was better than ever. What started as a goofy experiment had such good results that Sutherland began using the training techniques with all the people in her life, including her mother, her friends, her students, even the clerk at the post office. In the end, the biggest lesson she learned is that the only animal you can truly change is yourself. Full of fun facts, fascinating insights, hilarious anecdotes, and practical tips, What Shamu Taught Me About Life, Love, and Marriage describes Sutherland’s Alice-in-Wonderland experience of stumbling into a world where cheetahs walk nicely on leashes and elephants paint with watercolors, and of leaving a new, improved Homo sapiens.
The Loving Female Led Relationship COUPLES WORKBOOK helps couples establish relationships that empower women. Couples will learn to clarify and structure their Loving Female Led Relationships (Loving FLRs) with ease.Couples who engage in Loving FLRs appreciate the strength of a woman's leadership. She will never have to shrink her personality to stand beside him.Loving Female Led Relationship COUPLES WORKBOOK offers guidance for thoughtful discussion on:* Signs You Are A Good Fit for a Loving FLR* Establishing Boundaries* Identifying Strengths and Weaknesses* Identifying Basic Emotional Needs* Leadership Styles* Structuring Household Responsibilities* Conflict Resolution* So much more!The Loving Female Led Relationship COUPLES WORKBOOK doesn't teach you how you should structure your relationship, it guides you to create a relationship that suits you!
