Self-Esteem

Self-Esteem

Author: Matthew McKay

Publisher: ReadHowYouWant.com

Published: 2009-09-17

Total Pages: 302

ISBN-13: 1458725138

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Self-esteem is essential for psychological survival. It is an emotional sine qua non - without some measure of self-worth, life can be enormously painful, with many basic needs going unmet. One of the main factors differentiating humans from other animals is the awareness of self: the ability to form an identity and then attach a value to it. In other words, you have the capacity to define who you are and then decide if you like that identity or not. The problem of self-esteem is this human capacity for judgment. It's one thing to dislike certain colors, noises, shapes, or sensations. But when you reject parts of yourself, you greatly damage the psychological structures that literally keep you alive. Judging and rejecting yourself causes enormous pain. And in the same way that you would favor and protect a physical wound, you find yourself avoiding anything that might aggravate the pain of self-rejection in any way. You take fewer social, academic, or career risks. You make it more difficult for yourself to meet people, interview for a job, or push hard for something where you might not succeed. You limit your ability to open yourself with others, express your sexuality, be the center of attention, hear criticism, ask for help, or solve problems....This book is about stopping the judgments. It's about healing the old wounds of hurt and self-rejection. How you perceive and feel about yourself can change. And when those perceptions and feelings change, the ripple effect will touch every part of your life with a gradually expanding sense of freedom. ---- Self-Esteem.


The Self-Love Workbook

The Self-Love Workbook

Author: Shainna Ali

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2018-12-04

Total Pages: 219

ISBN-13: 1612438822

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Activities, prompts, and helpful advice collected to help you better experience the life-changing magic of self-love. You need love from yourself as much as from others. When you have low self-esteem, low confidence or even self-hatred, it’s impossible to live life to the fullest. It’s time to build your self-love and transform your attitude, emotions and overall outlook on life! This helpful workbook allows you to become aware of your own unique needs and goals while discovering how to better accept and love your true self. It includes a variety of constructive and actionable tips, tricks and exercises, including: • Interactive Activities explore a variety of fun and creative ways to love yourself • Reflection Prompts unpack your experiences and connect them to new lessons • Helpful Advice deepen your understanding of self-love and utilize it in the real world Self-love allows you not only to see your true self, but also to truly accept who you are wholeheartedly. With this acceptance comes the freedom and confidence to live your life to its fullest. It’s time to conquer self-doubt and self-sabotage. It’s time to love yourself!


Six Pillars of Self-Esteem

Six Pillars of Self-Esteem

Author: Nathaniel Branden

Publisher: Bantam

Published: 1995-05-01

Total Pages: 370

ISBN-13: 0553374397

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Nathaniel Branden's book is the culmination of a lifetime of clinical practice and study, already hailed in its hardcover edition as a classic and the most significant work on the topic. Immense in scope and vision and filled with insight into human motivation and behavior, The Six Pillars Of Self-Esteem is essential reading for anyone with a personal or professional interest in self-esteem. The book demonstrates compellingly why self-esteem is basic to psychological health, achievement, personal happiness, and positive relationships. Branden introduces the six pillars-six action-based practices for daily living that provide the foundation for self-esteem-and explores the central importance of self-esteem in five areas: the workplace, parenting, education, psychotherapy, and the culture at large. The work provides concrete guidelines for teachers, parents, managers, and therapists who are responsible for developing the self-esteem of others. And it shows why-in today's chaotic and competitive world-self-esteem is fundamental to our personal and professional power.


Growing Happy Kids

Growing Happy Kids

Author: Maureen Healy

Publisher: Health Communications, Inc.

Published: 2012-04-03

Total Pages: 266

ISBN-13: 0757316123

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We all want children to be happy and grow into productive, fulfilled adults, and according to parenting expert Maureen Healy, the secret to that success is in providing a foundation of inner confidence. With twenty years of experience as a spiritual teacher and child development expert, Healy knows that confidence is never "out there" but is something to be cultivated from inside.Healy literally traveled the world in search of the best practices in raising inwardly strong children and the connection between inner confidence and lasting happiness. In Growing Happy Kids, she draws on her Buddhist training, her background in child psychology, and the latest scientific research. The result is her insightful model for creating inner confidence and cultivating a sense of emotional strength that lays the foundation for children's happiest lives.Anyone who touches the life of a child--parents, teachers, school administrators, grandparents, clinicians--will gain wise ideas and practical suggestions for nurturing a child's sense of confidence and ultimately, happiness.


Hardwiring Happiness

Hardwiring Happiness

Author: Rick Hanson, PhD

Publisher: Harmony

Published: 2016-12-27

Total Pages: 306

ISBN-13: 0385347332

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With New York Times bestselling author, Dr. Hanson's four steps, you can counterbalance your brain's negativity bias and learn to hardwire happiness in only a few minutes each day. Why is it easier to ruminate over hurt feelings than it is to bask in the warmth of being appreciated? Because your brain evolved to learn quickly from bad experiences and slowly from good ones, but you can change this. Life isn’t easy, and having a brain wired to take in the bad and ignore the good makes us worried, irritated, and stressed, instead of confident, secure, and happy. But each day is filled with opportunities to build inner strengths and Dr. Rick Hanson, an acclaimed clinical psychologist, shows what you can do to override the brain’s default pessimism. Hardwiring Happiness lays out a simple method that uses the hidden power of everyday experiences to build new neural structures full of happiness, love, confidence, and peace. You’ll learn to see through the lies your brain tells you. Dr. Hanson’s four steps build strengths into your brain to make contentment and a powerful sense of resilience the new normal. In just minutes a day, you can transform your brain into a refuge and power center of calm and happiness.


How to Build Self-Esteem and Be Confident

How to Build Self-Esteem and Be Confident

Author: Maddy Malhotra

Publisher: For Betterment Publications

Published: 2013-08-20

Total Pages: 220

ISBN-13: 9780957667709

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Would YOU like to live a Rich and Fulfilled life? Is it time to Empower Yourself and take Control of your Emotions? Proven FACT: Most of us sabotage our success & happiness! This Inspirational book can help you to: Be Positive, Believe in Yourself and Achieve Peak Performance. This book has received great reviews from: Best selling authors, Clinical Psychologists, Media personnel, Entrepreneurs, Business Executives, Wellness coaches and people from all walks of life (few mentioned below in the editorial reviews section). About Author Maddy Malhotra is an International Motivational Speaker and Success Coach. He is a regular guest on radio and has been interviewed by stations worldwide including the BBC. He's done motivational shows for well-being TV channels and has been featured in several national newspapers and health magazines. His life story has inspired hundreds of thousands worldwide. He lives in the UK and is involved in several Charity/non-profit projects. Maddy is passionate for helping people to achieve Success, Happiness and Self-Love. Maddy says I have shared the philosophies and principles which have been followed by every successful person and their roots can also be found in ancient wisdom. I have applied and lived these myself and my clients have benefited from it. I don't want anyone to feel unworthy, unlovable, or incapable so I have revealed some very important facts which can help you live a happier and fulfilled life. These secrets affect every area of our lives every single day but are not taught at school and are rarely a part of parenting! This became the biggest reason for me to write this book and create seminars and home study course. "High Self esteem (self-belief), a fearless Positive Mind, Confidence in Your Abilities, Effective Habits and Clear Goals - are essential to create a Prosperous and Happy life" From the back cover "We need a Positive Self-Image for Career or Business Success, Ideal Body and Happy Relationships. " Many hours and much money are spent every year in the pursuit of getting thinner, richer, more confident, 'better' jobs and fulfilling relationships. And yet we never quite seem to achieve what we desperately seek and we can't seem to keep hold of it when we do. Why is this? Quite simply we sabotage our own efforts with 'limiting beliefs' about our capabilities and our worth. In this Easy to read and Practical book Maddy Malhotra aims to help us change that forever. If you have ever failed to achieve something you set out to do or achieved it and then lost it afterwards, this is the book for you. Learn why and how your beliefs are holding you back, what you can do about it and how You Can build Belief in Yourself. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain (including those elusive goals)! FACT: 'They' didn't teach us the principles of success and happiness! This book can help you achieve More Time for Yourself, Happy Relationships, Clear & Effective Goal setting, Financial Success, Emotional Intelligence, Leadership Skills, Self Empowerment, Create a Positive Attitude, Mental Toughness, Positive Behaviour, Decision Making Skills, Inner Motivation, Self Love, Inner-Peace, Effective Parenting, Understanding 'How Life Works', High Self-Esteem, Boost / Increase Confidence, Overcome / Get rid of Fears, Break Bad Habits & develop new like the world class achievers, Be Successful, Be Happy, Be Peaceful, Forgiveness and daily Gratitude. If you like Stephen Covey's Seven Habits of Highly Effective People or Brian Tracy's books or the Chicken Soup for the Soul series (Jack Canfield), then you'll like this too! Some readers of this book, who had read 'The Secret', realised why the 'law of attraction' didn't work for them! You can read Maddy's inspirational life story and his humanitarian projects at CoachMaddy.com Like many, you can also benefit from his personal development articles, media interviews, and blog.


13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do

13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do

Author: Amy Morin

Publisher: Harper Collins

Published: 2014-12-23

Total Pages: 198

ISBN-13: 0062358316

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"Kick bad mental habits and toughen yourself up."—Inc. Master your mental strength—revolutionary new strategies that work for everyone from homemakers to soldiers and teachers to CEOs. Everyone knows that regular exercise and weight training lead to physical strength. But how do we strengthen ourselves mentally for the truly tough times? And what should we do when we face these challenges? Or as psychotherapist Amy Morin asks, what should we avoid when we encounter adversity? Through her years counseling others and her own experiences navigating personal loss, Morin realized it is often the habits we cannot break that are holding us back from true success and happiness. Indulging in self-pity, agonizing over things beyond our control, obsessing over past events, resenting the achievements of others, or expecting immediate positive results holds us back. This list of things mentally strong people don't do resonated so much with readers that when it was picked up by Forbes.com it received ten million views. Now, for the first time, Morin expands upon the thirteen things from her viral post and shares her tried-and-true practices for increasing mental strength. Morin writes with searing honesty, incorporating anecdotes from her work as a college psychology instructor and psychotherapist as well as personal stories about how she bolstered her own mental strength when tragedy threatened to consume her. Increasing your mental strength can change your entire attitude. It takes practice and hard work, but with Morin's specific tips, exercises, and troubleshooting advice, it is possible to not only fortify your mental muscle but also drastically improve the quality of your life.


Express Yourself

Express Yourself

Author: Emily Roberts

Publisher: New Harbinger Publications

Published: 2015-06-01

Total Pages: 181

ISBN-13: 1626251509

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Winner of a Foreword Reviews' 2015 INDIEFAB Book of the Year Award for Young Adult Nonfiction Being a teen girl isn’t easy—so learning skills to feel confident is key! In Express Yourself, psychotherapist Emily Roberts will teach you how to communicate effectively and feel assertive in any situation. Whether it’s online or at school, with friends, parents, bullies, cliques or crushes—any tricky situation life throws yours way. Many teen girls feel pressured to be nice, rather than assert their opinions. They may fear being called bossy or pushy when speaking their mind or offering a different point of view. If you have ever stopped yourself from expressing your opinion, you know how bad it can feel afterward. Don’t let yourself fall into that same trap over and over. Your thoughts and feelings matter just as much as everyone else’s—you just need to find your voice. Express Yourself offers skills based in dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to help you create positive interactions with others and deal with difficult emotions that can arise from bullying or dealing with mean girls. The book also provides easy-to-use strategies that will boost your self-esteem and confidence, and you’ll discover tons of assertive communication skills you can use every day, including how to speak up when you are upset, asking for what you want in a clear assertive manner, and coping when intense emotions threaten to take over and sabotage your relationships. In our modern world of social media and texting, strong communication skills are needed more than ever. This book will not only give you the tools needed to speak up in everyday or difficult situations, but it will also provide powerful advice for effectively communicating in the digital world.


How To Be Happy

How To Be Happy

Author: Liggy Webb

Publisher: John Wiley & Sons

Published: 2012-07-17

Total Pages: 242

ISBN-13: 0857083406

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We all have the capacity to be happy. There may be occasions in your life where this seems a challenging concept, however there are some very definite things that you can do to make sure that you are happy more often than not. After all, happy people get sick less often, they have more energy, are more creative, sustain more positive relationships and are more fun to be around. With the help of Liggy Webb, you can create your own personal happiness toolkit! How to be Happy will help you feel more self-empowered and in control of any situation, helping you progress in your work and personal life. You will learn how to: • Build your self-confidence to make the best of who you are • Be open to learning new things, to become more effective and creative • Develop an attitude of gratitude to appreciate life more • Encourage and sustain positive relationships • Build your resilience and emotional strength to cope with stress and manage change • Foster a healthy attitude and get fit for life You can make the decision right now to be happier if you really want to be. Life is what you make it - so learn how to be happy, effective and energetic - and watch how it inspires those around you.