How Can I Get Through to You?

How Can I Get Through to You?

Author: Terrence Real

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2010-05-11

Total Pages: 457

ISBN-13: 1439106762

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"What happened to the passion we started with? Why aren't we as close as we used to be?" PROBLEM: If you are a woman who is unfulfilled in your marriage...if you feel unheard or overburdened...if you quietly live in a state of slow-burn resentment... PROBLEM: If you are a man unhappy that your partner seems so unhappy with you...if you feel bewildered, unappreciated, or betrayed... This book offers a solution Bestselling author and nationally renowned therapist Terrence Real unearths the causes of communication blocks between men and women in this groundbreaking work. Relationships are in trouble; the demand for intimacy today must be met with new skills, and Real -- drawing on his pioneering work on male depression -- gives both men and women those skills, empowering women and connecting men, radically reversing the attitudes and emotional stumbling blocks of the patriarchal culture in which we were raised. Filled with powerful stories of the couples Real treats, no other relationship book is as straight talking or compelling in its innovative approach to healing wounds and reconnecting partners with a new strength and understanding.


I Don't Want to Talk About It

I Don't Want to Talk About It

Author: Terrence Real

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 1999-03-11

Total Pages: 390

ISBN-13: 0684865394

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A bestseller for over 20 years, I Don’t Want to Talk About It is a groundbreaking and hopeful guide to understanding and destigmatizing male depression, essential not only for men who may be suffering but for the people who love them. Twenty years of experience treating men and their families has convinced psychotherapist Terrence Real that depression is a silent epidemic in men—that men hide their condition from family, friends, and themselves to avoid the stigma of depression’s “un-manliness.” Problems that we think of as typically male—difficulty with intimacy, workaholism, alcoholism, abusive behavior, and rage—are really attempts to escape depression. And these escape attempts only hurt the people men love and pass their condition on to their children. This groundbreaking book is the “pathway out of darkness” that these men and their families seek. Real reveals how men can unearth their pain, heal themselves, restore relationships, and break the legacy of abuse. He mixes penetrating analysis with compelling tales of his patients and even his own experiences with depression as the son of a violent, depressed father and the father of two young sons.


The End of Men

The End of Men

Author: Hanna Rosin

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2012-09-11

Total Pages: 322

ISBN-13: 1101596929

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Essential reading for our times, as women are pulling together to demand their rights— A landmark portrait of women, men, and power in a transformed world. “Anchored by data and aromatized by anecdotes, [Rosin] concludes that women are gaining the upper hand." –The Washington Post Men have been the dominant sex since, well, the dawn of mankind. But Hanna Rosin was the first to notice that this long-held truth is, astonishingly, no longer true. Today, by almost every measure, women are no longer gaining on men: They have pulled decisively ahead. And “the end of men”—the title of Rosin’s Atlantic cover story on the subject—has entered the lexicon as dramatically as Betty Friedan’s “feminine mystique,” Simone de Beauvoir’s “second sex,” Susan Faludi’s “backlash,” and Naomi Wolf’s “beauty myth” once did. In this landmark book, Rosin reveals how our current state of affairs is radically shifting the power dynamics between men and women at every level of society, with profound implications for marriage, sex, children, work, and more. With wide-ranging curiosity and insight unhampered by assumptions or ideology, Rosin shows how the radically different ways men and women today earn, learn, spend, couple up—even kill—has turned the big picture upside down. And in The End of Men she helps us see how, regardless of gender, we can adapt to the new reality and channel it for a better future.


The Pleasure Gap

The Pleasure Gap

Author: Katherine Rowland

Publisher: Seal Press

Published: 2020-02-04

Total Pages: 312

ISBN-13: 1580058345

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American culture is more sexually liberal than ever. But compared to men, women's sexual pleasure has not grown: Up to 40 percent of American women experience the sexual malaise clinically known as low sexual desire. Between this low desire, muted pleasure, and experiencing sex in terms of labor rather than of lust, women by the millions are dissatisfied with their erotic lives. For too long, this deficit has been explained in terms of women's biology, stress, and age. In The Pleasure Gap, Katherine Rowland rejects the idea that women should settle for diminished pleasure; instead, she argues women should take inequality in the bedroom as seriously as we take it in the workplace and understand its causes and effects. Drawing on extensive research and interviews with more than one hundred women and dozens of sexual health professionals, Rowland shows that the pleasure gap is neither medical malady nor psychological condition but rather a result of our culture's troubled relationship with women's sexual expression. This provocative exploration of modern sexuality makes a case for closing the gap for good.


If All Women Are Gold Diggers

If All Women Are Gold Diggers

Author: Crenique

Publisher: AuthorHouse

Published: 2015-12-04

Total Pages: 56

ISBN-13: 1504964586

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"If All Women Are Gold Diggers...What Are Men?" is a journal with questions at the top of each page, for you to answer. If you ever wanted to know what are men, this book is for you. Men have been calling women a list of names for many years, now Crenique has made up her own list of names to call men. Trust me, you will be entertained.


You Just Don't Understand

You Just Don't Understand

Author: Deborah Tannen

Publisher: Harper Collins

Published: 2013-04-23

Total Pages: 354

ISBN-13: 0062210092

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From the author of New York Times bestseller You're Wearing That? this bestselling classic work draws upon groundbreaking research by an acclaimed sociolinguist to show that women and men live in different worlds, made of different words. Women and men live in different worlds...made of different words. Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said. Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.


Intimately Speaking for Women

Intimately Speaking for Women

Author: Tony Perez

Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform

Published: 2015-03-28

Total Pages: 342

ISBN-13: 9781511500968

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This book has been written to highlight the problematic areas for women. As it relates to society and religion, sex, dating, love, and relationships with the male gender. The author's intent is to help those who may suffer, or have issues in this regard, resolve their matters through proper understanding of men in general, and the way they think.


Women It's Your Turn

Women It's Your Turn

Author: Robin Hartley

Publisher: McMillen Publishing

Published: 2002

Total Pages: 228

ISBN-13: 9781888223408

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This comprehensive guide to women's health includes vital information from a health-care professional on how to take better care of yourself: body, mind, and spirit. Subjects include perimenopause, menopause, PMS, osteoporosis, and libido, among others. The overall theme of the book is how to balance a career with family life, while maintaining or improving your health.


The Sense of an Ending

The Sense of an Ending

Author: Julian Barnes

Publisher: Vintage

Published: 2011-10-05

Total Pages: 158

ISBN-13: 0307957330

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BOOKER PRIZE WINNER • NATIONAL BESTSELLER • A novel that follows a middle-aged man as he contends with a past he never much thought about—until his closest childhood friends return with a vengeance: one of them from the grave, another maddeningly present. A novel so compelling that it begs to be read in a single setting, The Sense of an Ending has the psychological and emotional depth and sophistication of Henry James at his best, and is a stunning achievement in Julian Barnes's oeuvre. Tony Webster thought he left his past behind as he built a life for himself, and his career has provided him with a secure retirement and an amicable relationship with his ex-wife and daughter, who now has a family of her own. But when he is presented with a mysterious legacy, he is forced to revise his estimation of his own nature and place in the world.


Successful Women, Angry Men

Successful Women, Angry Men

Author: Bebe Moore Campbell

Publisher: Berkley Trade

Published: 2000

Total Pages: 260

ISBN-13:

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The classic relationship book is now available in paperback with a new Introduction and updated information. Based on more than 100 interviews, this handbook has sound advice for men and women on coping with, and eliminating, career-threats from relationships and developing a common ground of mutual respect.