This book is about my life as a woman who wanted to have a good man but could not find one on my own. I am a single mother with four children who had a horrible past that infected my thinking pattern towards men in general. Some folks with this type of insecurity go and see therapist, but decide to consult God about this issue. In result of finding God I found the truth why many of women are single, and the main reason is that we hold on to a lot of hurt that mess with our mind and thinking. When I began to contact God for myself, when I was out the sight of church, my family, and friends I was faced alone in the mirror with myself. And as I confront issue that was pulled up by seeking God it showed me the true answer to what I and many women ask God. What happen to the good men, is a book about my life that will inspire some and encourage other but important give you courage to face you. I also show the importance of why having a relationship with God for yourself is necessary. And in the end you will see that God's yoke is easy, and burden is light. When I tried to find a good man on my own, I was picking the wrong one because of me, not the men. But when I finally decide to detach myself from my own issues and come outside myself I got free and love found me.