The Ladies' Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness

The Ladies' Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness

Author: Florence Hartley

Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform

Published: 1872

Total Pages: 356

ISBN-13:

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In preparing a book of etiquette for ladies, I would lay down as the first rule, "Do unto others as you would others should do to you." You can never be rude if you bear the rule always in mind, for what lady likes to be treated rudely? True Christian politeness will always be the result of an unselfish regard for the feelings of others, and though you may err in the ceremonious points of etiquette, you will never be impolite. Politeness, founded upon such a rule, becomes the expression, in graceful manner, of social virtues. The spirit of politeness consists in a certain attention to forms and ceremonies, which are meant both to please others and ourselves, and to make others pleased with us; a still clearer definition may be given by saying that politeness is goodness of heart put into daily practice; there can be no _true_ politeness without kindness, purity, singleness of heart, and sensibility.


Complete Etiquette for Ladies

Complete Etiquette for Ladies

Author: Samuel Orchart Beeton

Publisher: Old House Books

Published: 2014-08-07

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781908402097

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“In conversing with gentlemen, try to not fall into the too common practice of talking to them nothing but nonsense...” First published in 1876, Complete Etiquette for Ladies aimed to instruct English women of all ages and situations on the finer points of proper comportment in Victorian society. Penned by Samuel Orchart Beeton – husband of the renowned cookery writer Isabella – it offers a view of ideal feminine conduct at once strikingly familiar and charmingly antiquated. Resolving such troublesome issues as how to display good sense when shopping, avoid busy-body neighbours and deal with disappointed affections, it also issues stern warnings: a reputation might be lost by such simple improprieties as offering a gentleman an opinion on financial matters, uttering the word 'stomach' to anyone other than a physician, or wearing ribbons at the breakfast table.


How to Be a Lady

How to Be a Lady

Author: Candace Simpson-Giles

Publisher: HarperChristian + ORM

Published: 2012-01-09

Total Pages: 193

ISBN-13: 1401604609

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A charming reminder of what it takes to be an exemplary woman—someone who is mindful of the effect she has on others and knows how to breeze through an awkward conversation with poise. Of all the women you know, how many of them would you describe as “a lady”? Naturally, you know women who are kind and intelligent, witty and resourceful; but a lady is an altogether different variety of female. She’s mindful of the effect she has on those around her, and she’s careful not to let her words or appearance betray her true intentions. How to Be a Lady is a charming reminder of what it takes to be an exemplary woman—someone who knows how to breeze through an awkward conversation with poise, or delicately sidestep the beauty salon gossip. Candace Simpson-Giles delivers a delightful refresher course on what it means to be a lady among women.


The Ways of Ladies

The Ways of Ladies

Author: Felicia Layeni

Publisher: Layeni Publishing

Published: 2013-09-18

Total Pages: 228

ISBN-13: 9781457521317

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Despite claims that they somehow disappeared after women's liberation and our rise in politics and Corporate America, ladies are alive and well and thriving in the 21st century! In fact, the rebirth of ladies has begun. In a time when an entire generation of women has been coached to behave like men, a movement is growing. The message? Though times have changed, gentility, decorum, dignity, good manners and refined womanhood never went out of style. Wise enough to not believe the "new" rules advising them to throw away their femininity, strong enough to hold onto traditional values in a morally relaxed society, and adaptable enough to apply their own savvy and grace to ever-changing technology and business climates, ladies are reclaiming their rightful place again as the standard bearers for America. In this primer, the first of a trilogy on traditional etiquette in the 21st century, Certified Etiquette Consultant Felicia Layeni reveals what ladies know about: using social skills to thrive in any environment being a gracious hostess dating in the 21st century applying a soft touch to high tech to stand out raising respectful children using etiquette as an advantage in the workforce and much more!"


A Lady's Guide to Etiquette and Murder

A Lady's Guide to Etiquette and Murder

Author: Dianne Freeman

Publisher: Countess Of Harleigh Mystery

Published: 2019-05-28

Total Pages: 289

ISBN-13: 1496716884

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Frances Wynn, the American-born Countess of Harleigh, enjoys more freedom as a widow than she did as a wife. With her young daughter in tow, Frances rents a home in Belgravia and prepares to welcome her sister, Lily, arriving from New York for her first London season. But no sooner has Frances begun her new life than the Metropolitan police receive an anonymous letter implicating Frances in her husband's death. Frances assures Inspector Delaney of her innocence, but she's also keen to keep him from learning the scandalous circumstances of Reggie's demise. As fate would have it, her dashing new neighbor, George Hazelton, is one of only two other people aware of the full story. While busy with social engagements on Lily's behalf, and worrying if Reggie really was murdered, Frances rallies her wits, a circle of gossips, and the ever-chivalrous Mr. Hazelton to uncover the truth. A killer is in their midst and Frances must unmask the villain before Lily's season, and their lives, come to a most unseemly end.


True Ladies and Proper Gentlemen

True Ladies and Proper Gentlemen

Author: Sarah A. Chrisman

Publisher: Skyhorse

Published: 2015-05-19

Total Pages: 224

ISBN-13: 1634500008

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Regardless of time period, some things hold true: kindness is timeless. Invasion of privacy; divorce; relationship issues; encounters between people from different places and cultures; new technologies developed at dizzying speeds . . . the hectic pace of life in the late nineteenth century could make the mind reel. Wait a minute—the nineteenth century? Many of the issues people faced in the 1880s and ’90s surprisingly remain problems in today’s modern world, so why not take a peek at some Victorian advice about negotiating life’s dizzying twists and turns? Gathered from period magazines and Hill’s Manual of Social and Business Forms, a book on social conduct originally published in 1891, this volume provides timeless guidance for a myriad of situations, including: The husband’s duty: Give your wife every advantage that it is possible to bestow. Suggestions about shopping: Purchasers should, as far as possible, patronize the merchants of their own town. (Buy local!) Suggestions for travel: Having paid for one ticket, you are entitled to only one seat. It shows selfishness to deposit a large amount of baggage in the surrounding seats and occupy three or four. Unclassified laws of etiquette: Never leave home with unkind words. This advice is accompanied by watercolors and illustrations throughout. Though these are tips originate from nineteenth-century ideas, you’ll find that they certainly do still apply.


Debrett's Etiquette for Girls

Debrett's Etiquette for Girls

Author: Fleur Britten

Publisher: Antique Collectors Club Dist

Published: 2008

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781851495733

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Debrett's 'Etiquette for Girls' is the essential guide to life for every girl about town.


A Little Book of Manners

A Little Book of Manners

Author: Emilie Barnes

Publisher: Harvest Kids

Published: 1998-02-01

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781565076785

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Following in the footsteps of the popular Let's Have a Tea Party! Book, Emilie Barnes introduces children to good manners. Fascinating facts explain why we follow certain rules, and helpful hints demonstrate courtesy in a child-friendly way.