Extreme Space
Extreme Space

Author: F. R. R. Mallory

Publisher:

Published: 2013-03

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781893006485

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The essential handbook for singles and couples who want to explore domination and submission as a relationship style or fetish in ways that are emotionally sustainable. For anyone who has ever fantasized about consensual kink, S/m, love, kinky sex, and powerful intimate connections beyond the limits of traditional relationships, this groundbreaking handbook explores the unusual potentials that are unique to kink. Experienced kink participant F.R.R. Mallory dispels myths and covers all the complex contradictions integral to maintaining a successful and responsible kink-centric relationship--from honest communication to self-awareness and more. Individuals and their partners will learn how to establish limits, explore psychological edges, and how to define their relationships on their own terms.

Domination & Submission
Domination & Submission

Author: Michael Makai

Publisher:

Published: 2014

Total Pages:

ISBN-13: 9781310106156

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The definitive handbook on Domination and Submission (D/s) relationships and the BDSM lifestyle. A must-read for anyone considering or curious about non-traditional relationships within a fetish culture context. Funny, insightful, educational, and inspiring.Author Michael Makai goes in-depth on Dominants, submissives, switches, primals, and their relationship dynamics. Learn about BDSM activities, bondage, toys, groups, protocols, and safety. This book even dares to go where others fear to tread: Primal relationships, online BDSM relationships, the Gorean subculture, first meetings, religion vs. kink, and the many ways it can all go wrong.You'll love Michael Makai's irreverent and humorous treatment of this subject as he gives you the benefit of his 35+ years of experience in the D/s and BDSM lifestyles.

The Ritual of Dominance and Submission
The Ritual of Dominance and Submission

Author: David English

Publisher: Createspace Independent Pub

Published: 2012-07-06

Total Pages: 302

ISBN-13: 9781478199137

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Within these pages lay the elusive secrets to defining structure and ritual to alternative dominant/submissive and master/slave lifestyle dynamics within your personal life or your community. You will find a definitive resource for building, practicing and maintaining rituals and protocols within your relationship or group, without having to go join a secret society, or convincing someone to mentor you on their private secrets for success.

Box Hill: A Story of Low Self-Esteem
Box Hill: A Story of Low Self-Esteem

Author: Adam Mars-Jones

Publisher: New Directions Publishing

Published: 2020-09-01

Total Pages: 104

ISBN-13: 0811230066

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The winner of the 2019 Fitzcarraldo Editions Novel Prize A sizzling and deeply touching love story between two men, set in the gay biker community of 1970s London In Box Hill, a vivid coming-of-age novel, a young man suddenly wakes up to his gay self—on his eighteenth birthday, when he receives the best gift ever: love and sex. In the woodsy cruising grounds of Box Hill, chubby Colin literally stumbles over glamorous Ray—ten years older, leather-clad, cool, handsome, a biker, and a top. (Colin, if largely unformed, is nevertheless decidedly a bottom.) Colin narrates his love—conveying how mind-blowing being with Ray is—in comically humble-pie terms. “If there are leaders then there must be followers, and I had followership skills in plenty just waiting to be tapped. To this day I can’t see a fat kid in shorts without wanting to rush over and give him what comfort I can. To tell him it won’t always be like this.” Mars-Jones uses Colin’s naivete to give a fresh view of the world and of love. Before long, however, homophobia, class, family strife, and loss rear their ugly heads. Yet in the end, it seems Colin’s modest view oddly takes in the widest horizon: he learns that “people can care about anything.” A surprise and a pleasure, Box Hill is an intensely moving short novel.

Domination and Submission Lifestyle
Domination and Submission Lifestyle

Author: Allen Graih

Publisher:

Published: 2010-06-14

Total Pages: 137

ISBN-13: 9780557449590

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Domination and Submission. The very words access our emotions creating discomfort, yet curiosity. The lifestyle Domina, the submissive slave. In a true Dom/sub lifestyle the relationship is not as insidious as this would seem. Domination is about leadership, respect, and being a leader, rather than a bully or a boss. Submission is more about supporting that roll than succumbing to the wishes of the Dominant.BDSM plays a roll only when both parties are ready for it, but it does not have to be a part of a Dom/sub lifestyle. For those of us that enjoy this aspect, this book has pointers, safe words, and tips on attitudes that both Dom and sub need to respect from one another. Notice the words play and roll. Domination and submission is a roll playing lifestyle. This expanded edition has clearly numbered pages, a brief history of BDSM, and a full Glossary.

Different Loving
Different Loving

Author: William Brame

Publisher: Villard

Published: 1996-01-13

Total Pages: 561

ISBN-13: 0679769560

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“A detailed, eye-opening account of the real sexual underground in America . . . a thorough and serious study.”—Playboy From Different Loving: In order to understand unusual sexualities such as dominance and submission, one first has to consider the question ‘What is normal?‘ If the unique function of sex is reproductive—and the only reason men and women should engage in sex is for the purpose of creating a new life—then only heterosexual intercourse is normal. By this standard, many common acts, even contraception, must be considered aberrant. Reproductive relevance was the Victorian standard of normalcy, and even today many of the laws in the United States still abide by that model. But people have always pursued sex for both reproduction and for pleasure and well-being. We start from the premise that sex for pleasure is a normal human drive and is acceptable when it brings pleasure to both partners. From this perspective, D&S is simply a ‘different‘ kind of loving. We hope to add to the greater body of knowledge about what people really do behind closed doors with the people they most love and trust. Perhaps Different Loving will help open the door for further research into the mystery, beauty, and complexity of human life and its diverse expressions. Praise for Different Loving “The definitive guide to the sexual styles of those who walk on the wild side.”—Kirkus Reviews “As a window on largely unexplored territory, Different Loving is a breakthrough in the dialogue on human sexuality, and a significant work of popular sociology.”—South Bend Tribune “A comprehensive primer on loving with leather and romance by riding crop.”—Michael Musto, New York Daily News

We Are Not Born Submissive
We Are Not Born Submissive

Author: Manon Garcia

Publisher: Princeton University Press

Published: 2021-03-30

Total Pages: 248

ISBN-13: 069120182X

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Submission : a philosophical taboo -- Is submission feminine? Is femininity a submission? -- Womanhood as a situation -- Elusive submission -- The experience of submission -- Submission is an alienation -- The objectified body of the submissive woman -- Delights or oppression : the ambiguity of submission -- Freedom and submission -- Conclusion: What now?

2 Elegant, 2 Intelligent, Never 2 Submissive
2 Elegant, 2 Intelligent, Never 2 Submissive

Author: Jacqueline Bordeaux

Publisher: Jinxedinc Media

Published: 2018-03

Total Pages: 302

ISBN-13: 9781775091394

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No extremes, no craziness, all pleasure. A Guide for Dominants and Submissives, providing both instructions and erotic stories. The first Elegant Intelligent Submissive book was a guide of sexual instruction and stories that showed you how sensual this variation of Domination and Submission can be. No craziness, no nastiness. Rough but respectful, this style of domination is for elegant intelligent people attracted to tasteful erotica. It's for people attracted to the psychological stimulation as much as the physical. Book 1 gave you a lot of basics, whether you want Domination / Submission at a recreational level or as lifestyle. This is Book 2. More stories, more intense, more submissive training, less mercy. Written so raw, you

Domination And Defiance
Domination And Defiance

Author: Diane Elizabeth Dreher

Publisher: University Press of Kentucky

Published: 2014-10-17

Total Pages: 218

ISBN-13: 0813159172

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Shakespeare was clearly fascinated by the relationship between fathers and daughters, for this primal bond of domination and defiance structures twenty-one of his comedies, tragedies, and romances. In a conflict that is at once social and interpersonal, Shakespeare's fathers demand hierarchical obedience while their daughters affirm the new, more personal values upheld by Renaissance humanists and Puritans. In her penetrating analysis of this compelling relationship, Diane Dreher examines the underlying psychological tensions as well as the changing concepts of marriage and the family during Shakespeare's time. She points to the pain and conflict caused by sex role polarization. Shakespeare's possessive fathers tyrannize over their daughters, unwilling to relinquish their "masculine" power and control and leaving these young women with only two alternatives: paternal domination or defiance and loss of love. The logic of Shakespeare's plays repudiates traditional stereotypes, showing how women like Ophelia and Desdemona are destroyed by conforming to the passive Renaissance ideal. The book concludes with a consideration of Shakespeare's androgynous characters—dynamic women in doublet and hose, and fathers who become sensitive, caring, and empathetic. Shakespeare's balanced characters thus reconcile the polarities within themselves and bring greater harmony to their world. Domination and Defiance is the first book on this most provocative relationship in Shakespeare. Shedding new light on the complex father-daughter bond, character, and motivation, it makes a major contribution to literary studies.