Divorcing with Dignity

Divorcing with Dignity

Author: Tim Emerick-Cayton

Publisher: Westminster John Knox Press

Published: 1993-01-01

Total Pages: 116

ISBN-13: 9780664252267

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Based on the author's professional experience in law and as a minister who has mediated for more than 500 couples, Divorcing With Dignity illustrates how to survive the pain and anguish of divorcing while maintaining personal integrity and faith. Foreword by Carl D. Schneider.


Untangling Your Marriage

Untangling Your Marriage

Author: Nanci A. Smith

Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield

Published: 2022-10-11

Total Pages: 203

ISBN-13: 1538166909

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Divorce is hard, but it doesn’t have to be so painful. Collaborative Divorce offers a different, more peaceful path to ending a marriage; this book shows you how to do it. Divorce is like a death in the family, except no one is bringing you food. This book is a myth buster, and an antidote to the negative messaging about divorce. It offers hope and encouragement for the reader to choose a divorce process that aligns with their own core values. Values such as dignity, mutual respect, integrity, and compassion. It offers the reader an introduction to Collaborative Divorce, both the mindset and the process, as it has been established and practiced for the past thirty years. Collaborative divorce is an interdisciplinary, non-adversarial divorce model. It is like mediation on steroids. Divorce is a complex process. It involves legal, psychological, and financial considerations. Collaborative divorce uses an interdisciplinary approach, and it is not dominated by the lawyers and is more cost efficient. A skillful mental health coach addresses emotional issues such as anger, sadness, rage, betrayal, guilt, shame, excitement, relief, and acceptance for everyone in the family. The financial neutral will collect, organize, analyze, and present the financial resources of the couple in a way to ensure an equal understanding of what can often feel like overwhelming amount of data. The lawyers provide legal advice. The core focus of the book is to reframe divorce from a shame and blame game to a paradigm where divorce is viewed through the lens of grief. It offers each reader an opportunity to show up for their divorce and present their best selves, even if they don’t feel like it. It emphasizes honor and respect for everyone involved. This book is an open and honest portrayal of divorce from the perspective of a veteran divorce attorney, who has also been divorced. We live in a time of volatility, uncertainty, complexity, and ambiguity. A divorce is just like that, and the antidote to those conditions include concepts like collaboration, deep listening, innovation, flexibility, and an ability to pivot. Collaborative divorce is the best kept secret of family lawyers. It is an opportunity to emerge from a divorce, healthy and wholehearted, not bitter, and resentful. Learn how to do it here.


42 Rules for Divorcing with Children

42 Rules for Divorcing with Children

Author: Melinda L. Roberts

Publisher: Happy About

Published: 2012-09

Total Pages: 143

ISBN-13: 1607730731

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42 rules for divorcing with children offers practical advice for managing a healthy divorce, building a better team of Exes with children living in two houses, minimizing stress and anxiety on all fronts, and constructing positive relationships with open and consistent communication.


Splitopia

Splitopia

Author: Wendy Paris

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2016-03-15

Total Pages: 336

ISBN-13: 1476725535

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Packed with research, insights, and illuminating (and often funny) examples from Paris’s own divorce experience, this book is a “practical and reassuring guide to parting well.” —Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project Engaging and revolutionary, filled with wit, searing honesty, and intimate interviews, Splitopia is a call for a saner, more civil kind of divorce. As Paris reveals, divorce has improved dramatically in recent decades due to changes in laws and family structures, advances in psychology and child development, and a new understanding of the importance of the father. Positive psychology expert and author of Happier, Tal Ben-Shahar, writes that Paris’s “personal insights, stories, and research” create “a smart and interesting guide that can be extremely helpful for those going through divorce.” Reading this book can be the difference between an expensive, ugly battle and a decent divorce, between children sucked under by conflict or happy, healthy kids. This is “a compelling case that it’s high time for a new definition of Happily Ever After—for everyone” (Brigid Schulte, author of Overwhelmed: Work, Love, and Play When No One Has the Time).


You Don't Have to Sell the Farm to Get Rid of the Jackass

You Don't Have to Sell the Farm to Get Rid of the Jackass

Author: Bonnie Jerbasi

Publisher:

Published: 2014-08-25

Total Pages: 94

ISBN-13: 9781937397265

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Finally, a book that cuts through the confusing world of family law and gives you an insider's view on how to navigate your divorce with dignity and without draining your bank account. For those who are contemplating divorce, in the midst of a divorce, or embroiled in post-judgment proceedings, this book will open your eyes to the workings of the legal profession and arm you with the tools you need to survive--even thrive--during this difficult time. Putting aside issues regarding children, for the most part, ending a relationship is simply a math problem.To help you navigate the storms that accompany divorce, Bonnie Jerbasi draws upon more than 25 years in the legal profession and her own two divorces to give you firsthand advice on how to make it to the other side of divorce in one piece. Written in simple, straightforward language--not legalese--you will learn things like how to choose the perfect attorney, how to keep control of your own case and budget, and how to keep a sane perspective while your relationship ends and your family structure changes. If you want to hold on to your sanity, cash, and dignity, read this book and heed the advice so you can move forward gracefully into your new life.


Financial Dignity After Divorce

Financial Dignity After Divorce

Author: Christine Luken

Publisher: 7 Pillars, LLC

Published: 2022-03-29

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9780998591223

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Are you ready to recover a positive and healthy relationship . . .with your money?Money is the third person in any marriage, but unlike your ex, money will be with you forever. That's why it's important for a divorcing woman to not only heal her heart but also learn how to mend her relationship with money.If you're feeling overwhelmed and confused about handling money on your own after a divorce, you're not alone. Christine Luken, Founder of the Financial Dignity® Movement, writes not just from a place of expertise but also personal experience. After guiding countless women to a place of financial security and independence, Christine has compiled those success stories with a step-by-step process for women to effectively manage both their emotions and their money.In this book you'll learn how to:?Increase your financial security?Identify & defuse your emotional money hot buttons ?Manage your personal finances with ease and confidence?Release the money baggage from your previous relationship-for good?And develop healthy money behaviors to carry you confidently into your bright futureFinancial Dignity® After Divorce is an easy to read, practical, and inspirational personal finance book for divorcing or separating women. You don't have to take this journey alone. You can mend your heart and your relationship with money.


Smart Women

Smart Women

Author: Judy Blume

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2011-12-01

Total Pages: 369

ISBN-13: 1101572566

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Two thirtysomethings try to find their way through the complications of post-marriage love in this beloved novel from #1 New York Times bestselling author Judy Blume. Margo and B.B. are each divorced, and each is trying to reinvent her life in Colorado—while their respective teenage daughters look on with a mixture of humor and horror. But even smart women sometimes have a lot to learn—and they will, when B.B.’s ex-husband moves in next door to Margo... Includes a New Introduction by the Author


Better Apart

Better Apart

Author: Gabrielle Hartley

Publisher: HarperCollins

Published: 2019-01-29

Total Pages: 242

ISBN-13: 0062689428

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“Potent, accessible tools for your family and your future.” —Gwyneth Paltrow Marital strife and divorce can be your chance to profoundly transform yourself, your mindset and your relationship with a more harmonious and steady vision. While many of us may be better together, some of us can actually become better apart. What if you emerged from your divorce stronger and more resilient than ever before? Better Apart is the first book to apply the life-changing, healing wisdom of meditation and yoga, combined with practical advice, to help anyone going through the painful and seemingly intractable realities of divorce. Gabrielle Hartley and Elena Brower are warm and caring guides who can help you compassionately part from your partner. Whether your separation is amicable, or your ex is combative, Better Apart can help you find peace, calm, and hope. Blending practical advice from a legal perspective together with spiritual wisdom, Gabrielle and Elena are experts and realists who have created a simple five-step process that uses original meditations, perspective-shifting exercises, and fresh suggestions to help navigate the common legal and emotional pitfalls of divorce. Don’t worry if you’ve never tried yoga or mediation; Gabrielle’s insight buttressed by Elena’s practices and exercises are accessible for all. Together, they show you how to meaningfully shift your mindset and to move forward though any—or all—parts of this emotionally fraught process. Better Apart radically reframes the way couples experience, execute, and recover from when “for better or worse” is no longer an option, and helps you find the road to a new mindset and better life.


Splitsville

Splitsville

Author: Clarissa Rayward

Publisher:

Published: 2014-11-30

Total Pages:

ISBN-13: 9780994202505

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Are you in the throes of a divorce or separation and don't know where to turn? We often joke about the 'D' word (divorce) but if you are or have experienced the breakdown of a family relationship it is anything but a humorous experience. Although divorce is often unpleasant there can be a light at the end of the tunnel.Splitsville- How to separate, Stay out of Court and Stay friends will guide you and your family through the legal issues associated with your relationship breakdown and onto a path to a successful future.Written by Specialist Family Lawyer, Clarissa Rayward, Splitsville provides you and your spouse with the information you need to ensure that after your separation or divorce you can both move forward into a new stage of life without causing each other or your children unnecessary angst. The complex legal process is broken down into clear language to ensure you can gain the knowledge needed to negotiate sensible and sustainable agreements for your finances and your children.If you are considering or experiencing divorce or separation and want to minimise the financial and emotional costs to you and your family then this book is for you.


The Smart Stepfamily

The Smart Stepfamily

Author: Ron L. Deal

Publisher: Bethany House

Published: 2006

Total Pages: 272

ISBN-13: 076420159X

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Each member has their own unique place in a family. Ron Deal explores the myth of the "blended" family offering practical, realistic solutions for stepfamilies.