Counseling Skills for Companioning the Mourner

Counseling Skills for Companioning the Mourner

Author: Alan D. Wolfelt

Publisher: Companioning

Published: 2016-02

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781617222306

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An in-depth guide to the counseling process and establishing a trusting relationship with clients--from a bestselling author and grieving expert Helping people in grief means being an empathetic companion--someone who allows grievers to be experts of their own experiences, who bears witness without judging, who gently encourages the expression of thoughts and feelings. But even if you approach the work with this understanding, how you "are" when you spend time with the griever also has a tremendous influence on your capacity to help. How do you develop a relationship with the griever? How do you show empathy, respect, warmth, and genuineness? Could you improve your listening, paraphrasing, clarifying, perception checking, informing, and other essential helping skills? Whether you are a professional counselor or a lay helper, whether you have years of experience or are new to the work, this guide, based on by Dr. Wolfelt's companioning philosophy, will help you be the most effective grief companion you can be.


Counseling Skills for Companioning the Mourner

Counseling Skills for Companioning the Mourner

Author: Alan D. Wolfelt

Publisher: Companion Press

Published: 2016-02-01

Total Pages: 144

ISBN-13: 1617222321

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An in-depth guide to the counseling process and establishing a trusting relationship with clients—from a bestselling author and grieving expert Helping people in grief means being an empathetic companion—someone who allows grievers to be experts of their own experiences, who bears witness without judging, who gently encourages the expression of thoughts and feelings. But even if you approach the work with this understanding, how you "are" when you spend time with the griever also has a tremendous influence on your capacity to help. How do you develop a relationship with the griever? How do you show empathy, respect, warmth, and genuineness? Could you improve your listening, paraphrasing, clarifying, perception checking, informing, and other essential helping skills? Whether you are a professional counselor or a lay helper, whether you have years of experience or are new to the work, this guide, based on by Dr. Wolfelt's companioning philosophy, will help you be the most effective grief companion you can be.


The Handbook for Companioning the Mourner

The Handbook for Companioning the Mourner

Author: Alan D Wolfelt

Publisher: Companion Press

Published: 2009-04-01

Total Pages: 130

ISBN-13: 161722037X

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Partly a counseling model and partly an explanation of true empathy, this handbook explores the ways companionship eases grief. For caretakers who work with grieving people or for friends and family just hoping to stay close, 11 tenets are outlined for mourner-led care. These simple rules call for understanding another person's pain, listening with the heart rather than the head, not filling up every minute with words, respecting confusion and disorder, and relying on curiosity rather than expertise.


Companioning You!

Companioning You!

Author: Alan D Wolfelt

Publisher: Companion Press

Published: 2012-11-01

Total Pages: 129

ISBN-13: 1617221694

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Based on Dr. Wolfelt's unique and highly regarded philosophy of "companioning" versus treating mourners, this self-care guide for professional and lay grief caregivers emphasizes the importance of taking good care of oneself as a precursor to taking good care of others. Bereavement care is draining work, and remaining empathetic to the painful struggles of mourners, death, and dying, day in and day out, makes caregivers highly susceptible to burnout. This book demonstrates how caring for oneself first allows one to be a more effective caregiver to others. Through the advice, suggestions, and practices directed specifically to caregiving situations and needs, caregivers will learn not to lose sight of caring for themselves as they care for others.


Companioning the Grieving Child

Companioning the Grieving Child

Author: Alan D. Wolfelt

Publisher: Companion Press

Published: 2012-06-01

Total Pages: 162

ISBN-13: 1617221589

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Renowned author and educator Alan Wolfelt redefines the role of the grief counselor in this guide for caregivers to grieving children. Providing a viable alternative to the limitations of the medical establishment’s model for companioning the bereaved, Wolfelt encourages counselors and other caregivers to aspire to a more compassionate philosophy in which the child is the expert of his or her grief—not the counselor or caregiver. The approach outlined in the book argues against treating grief as an illness to be diagnosed and treated but rather for acknowledging it as an event that forever changes a child's worldview. By promoting careful listening and observation, this guide shows caregivers, family members, teachers, and others how to support grieving children and help them grow into healthy adults.


Healing Grief at Work

Healing Grief at Work

Author: Alan D. Wolfelt

Publisher: Companion Press

Published: 2005-05-01

Total Pages: 146

ISBN-13: 1879651459

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With a gentle and considerate style, this handbook explores what happens when grief and the workplace meet, and the drastic effects of grieving on employees, their performance, and the overall workplace environment. Touching on the different kinds of grief workers can experience, such as death, divorce, and layoffs, the effective ways to channel grief during the workday, how to support coworkers who mourn, participation in group memorials, and negotiating appropriate bereavement leave, this concise and practical resource gives both ideas for the mourner and the mourner's coworkers. A special introduction for employers, owners, managers, and human resource personnel addresses the economic impact of grief in the workplace and provides practical and cost effective ideas for maintaining morale and creating a productive yet compassionate work environment.


When Grief Is Complicated

When Grief Is Complicated

Author: Dr. Alan Wolfelt

Publisher: Companion Press

Published: 2018-03-01

Total Pages: 177

ISBN-13: 1617222607

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After a significant loss, grief is normal and necessary. But sometimes a mourner's grief becomes naturally heightened, stuck, or made more complex by especially difficult circumstances, such as suicide, homicide, or multiple losses within a short time period. This is called “complicated grief.” In this primer by one of the world's most respected grief educators, Dr. Wolfelt helps caregivers understand the various factors that often contribute to complicated grief. He presents a model for identifying complicated grief symptoms and, through real-life examples, offers guidance for companioning mourners through their challenging grief journeys. This book rounds out Dr. Wolfelt's resources on the companioning philosophy of grief care, making it an essential addition to your professional library.


A Leader's Manual for Dementia Care-Partner Support Groups

A Leader's Manual for Dementia Care-Partner Support Groups

Author: Edward G. Shaw

Publisher: Companion Press (Company)

Published: 2020-11

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781617222931

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The Dementia Care Partner's Workbook is a new resource from Companion Press that is both a support group participant's manual and self-study guide for care partners who have a loved one with Alzheimer's disease or another form of dementia. Its ten concise lessons not only walk you through the types, brain biology, and progressive symptoms of dementia but also offer practical tips for managing behaviors, coping with emotional issues, prioritizing self-care, and planning ahead--everything from diagnosis to end-of-life.The Manual provides general information about establishing and leading support groups, counseling skills for leaders and co-leaders, how to handle challenging group participants, step-by-step instructions on how to run each of the ten individual weekly meetings (including meeting-specific handouts), and lots of practical advice.


Career Counseling

Career Counseling

Author: David Capuzzi

Publisher: Routledge

Published: 2018-09-03

Total Pages: 593

ISBN-13: 1351681044

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Career Counseling, 3rd edition, provides a comprehensive, holistic overview of the foundations of career counseling, information on the most effective skills and techniques, and contextual perspectives on career and lifestyle planning, all by nationally and internationally recognized experts. Updated chapters introduce important material not often addressed in introductory texts, such as rehabilitation, addictive behaviors, counseling couples and families, and working with ethnic and gender/sexual minority clients. Included throughout the text are case studies, informational sidebars, and experiential activities that enhance the reading and encourage additional contemplation of chapter content. Readers can also turn to the book’s companion website for chapter test questions, PowerPoints, and additional resources.


Capital Punishment's Collateral Damage

Capital Punishment's Collateral Damage

Author: Robert M. Bohm

Publisher:

Published: 2013

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781611632095

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The literature on capital punishment is voluminous. For nearly 250 years, scholars have discussed and debated such issues as its deterrent effect, or lack thereof; retributive and religious arguments; costs; administration, including miscarriages of justice and whether it is imposed in an arbitrary and discriminatory manner; and whether methods of execution are cruel and unusual. Conspicuously missing from this literature is the human element; the impact of capital punishment on the lives of those who are involved in the process by calamity, duty, or choice. Capital Punishment's Collateral Damage seeks to rectify that omission by allowing participants in this ritual of death to describe in their own words their role in the process and, especially, its effects on them. In this way, we can begin to understand the reach of capital punishment beyond just the victim and the perpetrator. We can begin to understand the collateral damage of capital punishment. "Capital Punishment's Collateral Damage enriches the discussion on capital punishment by including groups (e.g., police officers, defense attorneys, prosecutors, judges, correctional officers, etc.) intimately involved in the process of capital punishment who rarely receive any attention about their involvement. This examination of the ways in which their roles in the process affect their careers and personal lives adds a unique contribution to the death penalty literature." -- Melissa J. Stacer, University of Southern Indiana "Another impressive book by a preeminent capital punishment scholar. This should be required reading for every student of the death penalty." -- Stacy K. Parker, Muskingum University "Clearly written and extensively documented, this book reflects the expertise of the author, who has published extensively on capital punishment. It makes an important contribution by pulling together in one source the disparate and often neglected experiences of people involved in a capital case." -- Criminal Law and Criminal Justice Books