Breaking the Cycle of Abuse

Breaking the Cycle of Abuse

Author: Beverly Engel

Publisher: Wiley + ORM

Published: 2015-10-23

Total Pages: 224

ISBN-13: 1119235146

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This “clear, empathetic self-help book . . . is an excellent choice for readers who come from an abusive past and are struggling to make a brighter future”(Publishers Weekly). If you were emotionally, physically, or sexually abused as a child or adolescent, or if you experienced neglect or abandonment, it isn't a question of whether you will continue the cycle of abuse but rather a question of how--whether you will become an abuser or continue to be a victim. In this breakthrough book, Beverly Engel, a leading expert on emotional and sexual abuse, explains how to stop the cycle of abuse once and for all. Her step-by-step program provides the necessary skills for gaining control over emotions, changing negative attitudes, learning healthy ways of communicating, healing the damage from prior abuse, and seeking out support. Throughout, Engel shares many dramatic personal stories including her own experiences with abusive behavior. Breaking the Cycle of Abuse gives you the power to shatter abusive patterns for good and offers a legacy of hope and healing for you and your family. “A beacon of hope for women and men who fear that they will pass the abuse they have suffered on to their children, partners, or employees.” —Lundy Bancroft, author of When Dad Hurts Mom and Why Does He Do That? “In this remarkably powerful, wise, and compassionate book, Beverly Engel . . . offers expert advice and strategies to help parents and would-be parents avoid doing to their children what was done to them and helps both abusers and victims in emotionally and physically abusive relationships make vitally important changes in their relationships.” —Susan Forward, Ph.D., author of Toxic Parents and Emotional Blackmail


Breaking the Cycle of Silence

Breaking the Cycle of Silence

Author: Daniel Pearse

Publisher: Houndstooth Press

Published: 2020-09-13

Total Pages: 148

ISBN-13: 9781544514604

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The latest statistics tell us that one out of three girls and one out of six boys will be sexually abused before the age of eighteen, destroying their lives in ways we can't even imagine. We also know that 90 percent of the time, victims know their abuser. Daniel Pearse is living proof of both these statistics. He and his brother were sent to live with a pedophile after their mother died. For nine years, Daniel suffered sexual, physical, emotional, mental, and verbal abuse at the hands of his tormentor. Like many abused children, Daniel then suffered in silence for decades as an adult. Now, he's committed to stopping the cycle of abuse that causes so much pain.  Breaking the Cycle of Silence proposes age-appropriate sexual abuse training and education in schools. It teaches children what is appropriate, shows adults the signs of abuse to look for, and offers sources of support for victims. With such training and education, we can identify and stop abusers, preventing them from claiming victim after victim for years.


Breaking Their Will

Breaking Their Will

Author: Janet Heimlich

Publisher: Prometheus Books

Published: 2011-06-14

Total Pages: 608

ISBN-13: 1616144068

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This revealing, disturbing, and thoroughly researched book exposes a dark side of faith that most Americans do not know exists or have ignored for a long time—religious child maltreatment. After speaking with dozens of victims, perpetrators, and experts, and reviewing a myriad of court cases and studies, the author explains how religious child maltreatment happens. She then takes an in-depth look at the many forms of child maltreatment found in religious contexts, including biblically-prescribed corporal punishment and beliefs about the necessity of "breaking the wills" of children; scaring kids into faith and other types of emotional maltreatment such as spurning, isolating, and withholding love; pedophilic abuse by religious authorities and the failure of religious organizations to support the victims and punish the perpetrators; and religiously-motivated medical neglect in cases of serious health problems. In a concluding chapter, Heimlich raises questions about children’s rights and proposes changes in societal attitudes and improved legislation to protect children from harm. While fully acknowledging that religion can be a source of great comfort, strength, and inspiration to many young people, Heimlich makes a compelling case that, regardless of one’s religious or secular orientation, maltreatment of children under the cloak of religion can never be justified and should not be tolerated.


Healing Journey # 2

Healing Journey # 2

Author: Lupe Flores Valdez PhD

Publisher: Xlibris Corporation

Published: 2020-10-15

Total Pages: 107

ISBN-13: 1796093165

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Domestic violence has a great impact on families. Research evidence suggests that domestic violence has significant and long term affects in families. In her first book she realized how much child abuse was embedded in her short stories. Therefore, her second book was written to further address the topic of child abuse. This second book is not a tell all book written by the author; rather, she takes a closer look at how she disciplined her own children and how she learned better parenting skills. In this book, the author includes a chapter where she interviewed her own four children for a closer understanding of how she was able to break the cycle of child abuse from their perspectives while continuing her healing journey. These are keys that her own children benefited from as she learned and shared stories, activities, and information covering life coping skills needed for parents to raise children with love, patience, and compassion.


Outgrowing the Pain

Outgrowing the Pain

Author: Eliana Gil

Publisher: Dell

Published: 2009-07-22

Total Pages: 96

ISBN-13: 0307422453

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“Anyone who had a troubled childhood ought to read this book.”—Anne H. Cohn, D.P.H., Executive Director, National Committee for Prevention of Child Abuse Do you have trouble finding friends, lovers, acquaintances? Once you find them, do they dump on you, take advantage of you, or leave? Are you in a relationship you know isn't good for you? Are you still trying to figure out what you want to do when you grow up? Are you drinking too much, eating too much or trying to numb your pain with drugs of any kind? These are just a few of the problems abused children experience when they become adults. You may not realize you were abused. You may think your parents didn't mean it, didn't know better, or that others had it much worse. You may not even have made the connection between the past and your current problems. Outgrowing the Pain is an important book for any adult who was abused or neglected in childhood. It's an important book for professionals who help others. It's a book of questions that can pinpoint and illuminate destructive patterns. The answers you discover can lead to a life filled with new insight, hope, and love. “The best book available to help survivors cope and understand.”—Dan Sexton, Director, Childhelp's National Abuse Hotline “An invaluable aid for adult survivors of child abuse.”—Suzanne M. Sgroi, M.D., Executive Director, New England Clinical Associates


Looking Through the Eyes of an Unseen Child

Looking Through the Eyes of an Unseen Child

Author: Diana Joy

Publisher: Advantage Inspirational

Published: 2009-06-01

Total Pages: 162

ISBN-13: 9781597552240

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The author revisits her childhood in a family where child abuse was tolerated, and the healing path that she chose, guided by a strong belief in God.


Kids Helping Kids Break the Silence of Sexual Abuse

Kids Helping Kids Break the Silence of Sexual Abuse

Author: Linda Lee Foltz

Publisher: Lighthouse Point Press

Published: 2003

Total Pages: 148

ISBN-13: 9780963796691

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A valuable resource for parents and children, this collection of first-hand accounts and expert advice offers help for prevention and healing from childhood sexual abuse.