Beyond Abuse in the Christian Home

Beyond Abuse in the Christian Home

Author: Catherine Clark Kroeger

Publisher: Wipf and Stock Publishers

Published: 2008-08-15

Total Pages: 254

ISBN-13: 1498275974

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In January 2004 a newly founded evangelical organization called PASCH was formed. The word denotes the Passover or time of new beginnings--when God kept people safe in their own homes before leading them into freedom from abuse and oppression. Yet the word PASCH also stands for Peace and Safety in the Christian Home. PASCH began as a small group of therapists, sociologists, domestic-violence experts, clergy, biblical scholars, survivors--and dedicated Christians. In essence, PASCH was born out of the cries, confusion, and frustration of the people of God. As we encountered many horrifying situations of domestic abuse in Christian homes, those of us who seek to address various aspects of the issue concluded that we needed a fellowship of concerted study, prayer, and action. It was the dream of Catherine Clark Kroeger that an edited book might emerge from the 2005 and 2006 PASCH conferences in order that the papers, presentations, and discussions might be widely available. We found that to make that happen, we needed to work together: that each of us possessed one piece of the puzzle, and that by God's grace we could collectively begin to put the pieces together. The topic of abuse is ugly, which is why so many Christians shy away from discussing it. But in this volume we have tried to present an accurate, faith-based analysis of abuse in the Christian family context. We hope that various chapters stimulate discussion--sometimes debate--and in so doing prompt pastor and people to action. We call on you the reader to consider the various ideas and perspectives offered throughout the book. Hopefully each chapter will prompt you to consider afresh how you conceptualize violence among families of faith. Like you, the reader, the contributors to our collection come from various faith traditions, work in different contexts, and see the issue in part based on their own narrative and training. Yet, despite our differences--and our ongoing debates--we are unanimous that violence has no place in the home. Every home should be a safe place; every home a shelter. When abuse occurs in families of faith, it is the responsibility of the church to offer compassion and support to victims and to call those who act abusively to accountability and justice. Our edited collection includes ∑ Dan Allender speaking from the heart about the impact of the fall on relationships between men and women; ∑ Al Miles reflecting on his pastoral experience of the difficulties and opportunities of speaking out against violence in Christian families; ∑ Bruce and Karen McAndless-Davis offering one couple's story of the long journey toward accountability and dramatic change; ∑ Julie Owens retelling her own dramatic story of abuse, the life imprisonment of her ex-partner and what she wished every pastor knew about domestic violence.


Responding to Abuse in Christian Homes

Responding to Abuse in Christian Homes

Author: Nancy Nason-Clark

Publisher: Wipf and Stock Publishers

Published: 2011-03-04

Total Pages: 273

ISBN-13: 1498273890

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Domestic abuse is a horror. It lurks beneath the surface of our collective existence, sometimes raising its ugly head where least expected-in the church or within families of faith. Are we-individually or collectively-ready to respond? What can, or should, congregations and their pastoral leaders do? And, as we survey the Christian landscape across the United States and Canada, are we as the community of faith stepping up to the challenge presented by violence in the family? There is no easy answer to the problems that surface when abuse impacts the Christian family. But each of the authors contributing to this volume believes fervently that it is imperative that followers of Jesus and their spiritual shepherds respond to the cries for help. To respond well necessitates both knowledge and a willingness to act. This book is here to help. It represents a collective effort to bring all of us a step farther in our journey of walking with Christ over a sea of troubled waters. None of us know as much as we should, but all of us can learn from one another. Throughout the collection we provide an opportunity to examine a diversity of perspectives, with the hope that each will in some way advance our understanding of the complexity of domestic violence issues in our midst-within our churches and the communities where our churches minister.


Hope for Healing from Domestic Abuse

Hope for Healing from Domestic Abuse

Author: Karen DeArmond Gardner

Publisher: Kregel Publications

Published: 2021-08-17

Total Pages: 218

ISBN-13: 0825477425

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God's love is steadfast for survivors who chose to leave an abusive marriage but still suffer the aftershocks When someone leaves an abusive marriage, life isn't instantly fixed. Women who have experienced domestic violence feel shattered. Because of the trauma they've been through, a bond with their abuser has formed that keeps them tied together long after they've physically left. Karen DeArmond Gardner understands these difficulties all too well. She tackled all the same struggles when she left her own abusive marriage. And she intimately knows what women in this situation need in order to gain freedom from the lies of abuse-to be reborn as the people God longs for them to be. Hope for Healing from Domestic Abuse isn't a how-to book with a few easy steps. Instead, it's a biblically based map for a long journey to healing. By recounting her own history--as well as the faithfulness of God when she was willing to follow His direction--Karen helps readers: discover there is life beyond abuse recognize God's relentless pursuit of their heart gain courage to release the trauma of their past regain life, hope, and wholeness in Jesus's healing love Gardner's inside perspective, strong voice, and incredible, vulnerable story of deliverance from the bonds of abuse allow readers to find themselves in her words and feel heard at last. She puts hope back in their hands, with the assurance that God loves them deeply and wants them to know they aren't defined by their trauma, their past, or their brokenness.


Overcoming Abuse God's Way

Overcoming Abuse God's Way

Author: Janet Marie Napper

Publisher: WestBow Press

Published: 2012-06-19

Total Pages: 126

ISBN-13: 1449749305

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"Overcoming Abuse God's Way tells the beautiful story of redemption--how God's faithful love pursued the heart of a broken woman caught up in the grip of abuse, and how He tenderly set her free and raised her up to a new life. For every woman who is longing for love and acceptance in all the wrong places , this story will give you hope and practical resources to live in freedom and love as God's beloved daughter." Angela Thomas Best-Selling Author and Speaker "Janet Marie Napper offers the reader a compelling and heartrending account of a life--her life--impacted by abuse and the long, difficult, and painful journey toward hope and healing in its aftermath. Written for a general audience, the book calls us to see the despair, the denial, the desire to escape, and the eventual determination that is required to change the stranglehold of the past and to chart a new direction. Survivors and those who walk alongside them will find her story a powerful lens through which to see the cruelty of childhood abuse as well as its long term consequences." Nancy Nason-Clark, professor at the University of New Brunswick, Canada; author of numerous books and articles, including Beyond Abuse in the Christian Home and Refuge from Abuse: Healing and Hope for Abused Christian Women. After reading this book, I would like other teenagers to read it. It shows us how not to make wrong decisions in boys so we don't make mistakes and get hurt. This book shows you what to look for and not get tricked into being abused by boys and men... Desi Raine Age 13


Living Beyond Abuse: Workbook

Living Beyond Abuse: Workbook

Author: Destiny Perry

Publisher: Divine Destiny Counseling with Intent

Published: 2014-12-12

Total Pages: 224

ISBN-13: 9780692345986

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The Living Beyond Abuse Work "Thru" Book (Workbook) is designed to be used in conjunction with the book, "Living Beyond Abuse: 20 Keys to Living Beyond the Hurts and the Pains of Your Past." This workbook is designed to push and motivate those who have spent years in abuse to think about the effects it has had on their life, evaluate their past and current position, and then develop a new mindset to overcoming and living beyond abuse. You do not have to stay in abuse. You do not have to allow the abuse you experienced to keep your life on hold. This workbook is not like any ordinary workbook. It will challenge you to think beyond your current state, reach, and gasp for something new and great. You will start to think better, speak better, do better, and live better as you work through the issues of your life. If you want to do anything in life, it will require work. You play a major part in your transition out of an abusive mindset, lifestyle, and your way of doing things. If you are going to live beyond abuse, it will most definitely require work. Get ready to explore a new path of living with God; a pathway of living beyond abuse! The Living Beyond Abuse: 20 Keys to Living Beyond the Hurts and the Pains of Your Past Work "Thru" Book (workbook) is designed to help you navigate your way through the Living Beyond Abuse Book. If you are serious about taking the necessary steps to live a life beyond any abusive past you have experienced this workbook is just for you! Choose today to dive into this workbook and navigate your way through all the emotions and feelings that have held you captive to the abuse physically, mentally, psychologically, emotionally, and spiritually. No one said the process to healing and recovering all would be easy, but with the right tools this workbook provides, will help you work "thru" all of your issues regarding abuse. It is time to go to work. It is time to put in the effort needed be a willing participant in your successful recovery from the hurts and the pains of your past. Once you complete this workbook you will feel relieved and a release from the bondage of abuse that has held you captive for so long. You do not have to stay in abuse. You do not have to allow torment from abuse to infiltrate your mind. You can live free. You can be free. You can LIVE BEYOND ABUSE! Servant after God's Heart, Dr. Destiny D. Perry ... Living Beyond Abuse


Battered Into Submission

Battered Into Submission

Author: James Alsdurf

Publisher: Wipf and Stock Publishers

Published: 1998-11-27

Total Pages: 168

ISBN-13: 1725206587

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Each year three to four million women are severely assaulted by their husbands, ex-husbands or boyfriends. Battery is the single major cause of injury to women. And Christians are not exempt. Women are being choked, spat upon, hit, pushed, bitten, dragged by the hair and kicked -- by Christian husbands. Unfortunately, the church has all too often ignored this uncomfortable subject. Citing their finding from extensive research and summarizing eight years of interviews with victims, abusers, and pastors, James and Phyllis Alsdurf provide a comprehensive treatment of this troubling topic. They show the psychological, spiritual and personal impact of wife abuse and call the church to reexamine its role in addressing the issue.


Living Beyond Abuse

Living Beyond Abuse

Author: Destiny Perry

Publisher: Divine Destiny Counseling with Intent

Published: 2014-09-29

Total Pages: 306

ISBN-13: 9780692301289

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Have you ever thought about the possibilities that could exist outside of the confines of the emotional and physical turmoil that the pains of an abusive past have brought you? Have you considered a life beyond abuse? This book is a great inspiration to help you on your journey to complete and total healing from all the hurts and pains of your abuse. Many times, we find ourselves living minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day, week after week, month after month, and year after year bound and attached at the hip to the trauma we experienced as a child and throughout our early adult years. Just when we seem to try to initiate an effort to move on past the wounds of our broken past something pull us back in. We return to the feelings and emotions associated with the abuse and neglect we experienced by our loved ones and close family friends. As a result, we never experience God's best for our lives. So my question to you is what do you want? Will you dare to trust God and believe Him for the best? Will you choose faith over fear? Will you choose to live beyond abuse? Will you choose today to live a life free of all the stigma and stereotypes associated with being a victim and walk in the restoring power of God not only as a survivor, but also as a victorious overcomer. If you are ready to begin inside you will find just what you have been looking for. I have written a guide that consists of 20 power packed and thought provoking keys to living the God kind of life. These keys of faith will help you unlock and reach your fullest potential. God's purpose for you is not to be held hostage by the pains and the hurts of your past, but to heal you and mend your broken heart so you can live again. You can live beyond abuse! Servant after God's Heart, Dr. Destiny D. Perry ...Living Beyond Abuse


No Place for Abuse

No Place for Abuse

Author: Catherine Clark Kroeger

Publisher: InterVarsity Press

Published: 2010-10-12

Total Pages: 250

ISBN-13: 0830838384

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In this thoroughly revised and updated edition, Catherine Clark Kroeger and Nancy Nason-Clark share with readers a further ten years of experience in listening to the voices of women from around the world and especially to those in the church. They help us hear their cries and find concrete ways to respond so that no home will be a place of abuse.


Beyond Abuse

Beyond Abuse

Author: Christopher Paul Russell

Publisher: Park Point Press

Published: 2023-04

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781956198256

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In his debut memoir, author Christopher Paul Russell takes readers on a journey through the abuse he survived as a child and as an adult, navigating the limiting and damaging self-beliefs from that abuse, and creating a roadmap for healing. Based on his own experiences and extensive research, Russell's roadmap offers an array of ways others can move beyond their own abuse and heal themselves. About the Author Christopher Paul Russell is a licensed practitioner of religious science (RScP) in his home spiritual community at Mile Hi Church in Lakewood, Colorado. He has dedicated his entire spiritual journey and healing path to transcending the effects of his own history of child abuse and neglect for a larger purpose of helping others along their healing journeys, especially those who have been through similar experiences. Visit http: //christopherpaulrussell.com/ to learn more.


Strengthening Families and Ending Abuse

Strengthening Families and Ending Abuse

Author: Nancy Nason-Clark

Publisher: Wipf and Stock Publishers

Published: 2013-06-04

Total Pages: 323

ISBN-13: 1620326590

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Strengthening families of different varieties and ending abuse in the myriad of forms through which it surfaces is God's way of bringing peace and safety to Christian homes across the world. We challenge congregations, their leaders, and the men, women, and youth who faithfully support them to consider their personal role in bringing this vision--inspired by the Scriptures--into reality. Together our voices can be strong. We are united in our belief that every home should be a safe home, every home a shelter from the storms of life, every home a place where we are supported, treated with respect and dignity, and every home a place where men and women are encouraged to be all they can be. It is a tall order. It is a dream to guide our personal conduct and to measure our congregational and community life. We are far from reaching this goal--but toward it we strive.