“A tour filled with moments of grace and angst, and an overwhelming sense that compassion matters.” —Minneapolis Star Tribune Arthur Camden’s greatest talents are for packing and unpacking suitcases, making coleslaw, and second-guessing every decision in his life. When his business fails and his wife leaves him—to pursue more aggressive men—Arthur finds that he has none of the talents and finesse that everyone else seems to possess for navigating New York society.
Good manners go a long way. Remember that individual who everyone smiles at? Live in such a manner that you become popular and respected in society. Learn to be famous and at peace with self.
Title: "The Refined Gentleman: 100 Tips for Modern Elegance" Description: Step into a world where timeless charm meets contemporary living with "The Refined Gentleman: 100 Tips for Modern Elegance." This comprehensive e-book is a treasure trove of insights, offering a roadmap for the modern man seeking to navigate life with style, grace, and authenticity. Within these digital pages, you'll discover a curated collection of 100 practical and actionable tips, covering every aspect of a gentleman's life. From mastering the art of a firm handshake to crafting a sophisticated wardrobe, from navigating social dynamics with ease to harnessing the power of effective communication, this guide is your go-to resource for elevating your presence in the modern world. Explore the secrets of timeless etiquette blended seamlessly with contemporary sensibilities. Whether you're a seasoned gentleman refining your approach or a newcomer eager to embrace a distinguished lifestyle, these tips provide valuable insights into the art of being a modern gentleman. "The Refined Gentleman" is not just a guide; it's a companion on your journey to becoming the best version of yourself. Immerse yourself in a wealth of knowledge that transcends trends and fosters an enduring sense of refinement in every facet of your life. Embark on this transformative experience, where tradition meets modernity, and redefine what it means to be a gentleman in the 21st century. Purchase your copy today and embark on a journey toward lasting elegance and sophistication.
Whether you're a sensitive, bookish type or a beer-guzzling Cyber-jock--or just an average guy--The Gentleman's Guide to Life is a perfect and indispensable primer on looking, living, and feeling good, answering all your questions about clothes, career, fitness, love, and lust. How do I move up without selling out? How do I help my friends (and crush my enemies)? How do I feed and care for my boss? What kind of suit should I wear? What kind of shoes do I wear with the suit? Socks? Do I really need to take my vitamins? Is this impotence or lack of interest? How much sleep do I need? How can I bluff my way through a wine list? What is Cubism? How much should I tip? What CDs should I have to relax? To seduce? Do I like her? Do I really, really like her? What does she mean I don't listen? How do I propose (or ask for the ring back)? Am I the best man I can possibly be? From the Trade Paperback edition.
I never really fit in my age group. My thoughts and values were all wrong. I was a little adult by age seven and grew up with an old soul. I valued marriage, fatherhood, being a leader, and treating women better than they believed they should be treated. I had specific views on sex, life, and work. I valued the future and actively sought to improve my own and others. I worked diligently to improve myself and earn the title gentleman. From holding the door to tying my own tie, I wanted the necessary skills, knowledge, and morals to be the man I felt was best. This book seeks to bring back the men that are above the rest. This book seeks to build your values by giving you my own. It seeks to help guide you toward becoming the gentleman you desire to be. I hope you will join me in bringing back a generation of men who have fallen away from the spotlight and take the initiative to become a gentleman.
“Here is a welcome reminder that men can be gentlemen without turning into ladies—or louts.”—Michelle Malkin "Miner writes with wit and charm."—Wall Street Journal The Gentleman: An Endangered Species? The catalog of masculine sins grows by the day—mansplaining, manspreading, toxic masculinity—reflecting our confusion over what it means to be a man. Is a man’s only choice between the brutish, rutting #MeToo lout and the gelded imitation woman, endlessly sensitive and fun to go shopping with? No. Brad Miner invites you to discover the oldest and best model of manhood— the gentleman. In this tour de force of popular history and gentlemanly persuasion, Miner lays out the thousand-year history of this forgotten ideal and makes a compelling case for its modern revival. Three masculine archetypes emerge here—the warrior, the lover, and the monk—forming the character of “the compleat gentleman.” He cultivates a martial spirit in defense of the true and the beautiful. He treats the opposite sex with passionate respect. And he values learning in pursuit of the truth. Miner’s gentleman stands out for the combination of discretion, decorum, and nonchalance that the Renaissance called sprezzatura. He belongs to an aristocracy of virtue, not of wealth or birth, following a lofty code of manly conduct, which, far from threatening democracy, is necessary for its survival.
