A Clergy Husband's Survival Guide

A Clergy Husband's Survival Guide

Author: Matthew Caminer

Publisher: SPCK

Published: 2012-10-18

Total Pages: 121

ISBN-13: 0281067910

DOWNLOAD EBOOK

Women now comprise almost half the priests serving in the Church of England. As a result, there are many male clergy spouses who have had to come to terms with the seismic shift that occurs in family life when a wife embarks on the journey from exploration of vocation - through selection, training and formation - to ordination and a life of ministry. The author had his own busy career when he suddenly found himself playing second fiddle rather than being the 'doer' in the household. Not only did this subtly affect his marriage, but as friends and acquaintances became 'parishioners', he was required to respect boundaries, to be discreet and often to carry the burden of unsought confidentiality. Drawing on these experiences and those of many fellow clergy spouses, this volume is a practical, informative and engaging guide to the joys and challenges of being married to a vicar. Part one deals with the process from initial call to ordination and beyond. Part two helps clergy husbands work through what their new role might involve. Part three looks at lifestyle and family issues, while Part four offers support and sensible advice if things go wrong.


Saved & Sexual A Survival Guide for Pastors' Wives

Saved & Sexual A Survival Guide for Pastors' Wives

Author: Poiette McGill Bromell

Publisher: Lulu.com

Published: 2010-10-26

Total Pages: 83

ISBN-13: 0557213916

DOWNLOAD EBOOK

Pastors' wives are given a first hand account of what it means love a pastor in a way that is spiritually and sexually fulfilling. Poiette McGill Bromell shares her experience as a pastor's wife and how she meets the various challenges involved with loving the leader of a congregation. This book seeks to put romance and intimacy back where it belongs - in matrimony.


Four Ministries, One Jesus

Four Ministries, One Jesus

Author: Richard A. Burridge

Publisher: Wm. B. Eerdmans Publishing

Published: 2019-01-17

Total Pages: 298

ISBN-13: 1467452521

DOWNLOAD EBOOK

Combining the skills of a leading biblical scholar with the wisdom derived from years spent training candidates for ordination, Richard Burridge offers rich reflections on the four gospel portraits of Jesus and shows how they not only inform the calling to ordained ministry but also help sustain the practice of Christian ministry in its various dimensions. Four Ministries, One Jesus is for all who feel called to a life of Christian ministry and want to ground their calling in the teaching and example of Jesus, as provided in the four gospels. Burridge helps readers consider vital questions such as: how to sustain reading, Bible study, and theological reflection in ministry; how to extend pastoral care to people outside as well as inside the Christian community; how to care for self and family; and how to stay attuned to the Spirit by cultivating a fresh and vigorous life of prayer.


Curacies and How to Survive Them

Curacies and How to Survive Them

Author: Matthew Caminer

Publisher: SPCK

Published: 2015-04-16

Total Pages: 154

ISBN-13: 0281073449

DOWNLOAD EBOOK

It is common knowledge that many curacies run into difficulties and that this is something people often feel constrained from discussing openly. Curacies and How to Survive Them offers readers the opportunity to listen in on a series of fast-flowing conversations between a psychologist, a theologian and a clergy spouse, which explore frequently occurring dilemmas and challenges. Using fictionalised case studies, collated from the true stories of curates and training incumbents, the book offers principles and strategies for understanding and addressing some common issues. Its emphasis is on the dynamics and psychology of the critical relationship between curates and their training incumbents. Attractively styled in a way reminiscent of the highly successful collaborations between John Cleese and Robin Skynner, Families and How to Survive Them and Life and How to Survive It. The conversational tone offers an engaging alternative to academic, theological and ecclesiastical writing. By highlighting issues that are not generally discussed, it will be immensely useful to people who might otherwise feel isolated and helpless.


Clergy Moms

Clergy Moms

Author: Allison M. Moore

Publisher: Church Publishing, Inc.

Published: 2008

Total Pages: 196

ISBN-13: 9781596270800

DOWNLOAD EBOOK

Walking the tightrope of home and parish life for clergy parents is notoriously difficult in all the mainline Protestant denominations, but most books on ordination and vocation ignore the question of family life. The ordination of women, the prevalence of two-career marriages, the increasing need to care for aging family members, and the recognition of non-traditional families have shed new light on clergy family dynamics within the family and the church. This book uses accounts of experiences gathered through interviews and surveys of clergy and their family members, primarily in the Episcopal Diocese of Newark. Its ultimate goal is to develop a holistic theology of vocation that has implications for the church, the clergy, and all families and nourishes and protects faith and family life.


The Youth Minister's Survival Guide

The Youth Minister's Survival Guide

Author: Len Kageler

Publisher: Harper Collins

Published: 1991-12-14

Total Pages: 208

ISBN-13: 031054341X

DOWNLOAD EBOOK

This wonderful and easy read helps new and future youth workers set patterns in life and ministry that will keep them whole and healthy, and away from burnout.


Yoked

Yoked

Author: Andrew Kort

Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield

Published: 2014-10-08

Total Pages: 172

ISBN-13: 1566997275

DOWNLOAD EBOOK

This collection of true stories is written by Mihee Kim-Kort and Andy Kort, a married clergy couple who met while they were in seminary. They share their unique perspective on the joys and challenges of ministry in alternating segments, forming a collective narrative that illuminates the inner workings of a clergy marriage, even as it inspires with heartfelt tales of life in ministry. Throughout the book Mihee and Andy relate their respective impressions of shared experiences, revealing inherent differences and potential sources of conflict, but also demonstrating how they work through their differences, communicate, and collaborate to make the most of their strengths. With 20 years of ministry experience between them, a blue Subaru Outback crammed full of child car seats, an old dog named Ellis, and life experience in three states, Andy and Mihee have struggled with infertility, survived the threat of foreclosure, travelled abroad and led mission trips together, and through it all remain yoked together. This tale of endurance is only made possible by hard work, sympathetic friends, endless conversations, countless cups of coffee and bottles of beer, and the grace of God.


Formerly a Wife

Formerly a Wife

Author: Welby O'Brien

Publisher: Moody Publishers

Published: 2007-08-28

Total Pages: 170

ISBN-13: 1600669719

DOWNLOAD EBOOK

Now that I'm on my own...Can I be tough enough to survive, yet preserve a tender spirit? How do I deal with all of these intense feelings? How do I make this house my home? Formerly a Wife, written by one who has been there, will help women in the post-divorce phase of their lives to: admit their feelings without feeding them make healthy choices for survival and beyond confront a myriad of issues including identity and self-worth, pain and memories, and the burden of new responsibilities. Organized in an easy-reference, question/answer format, Formerly a Wife (1) provides support and comfort for the newly divorced woman (2) prepares and equips her for the unfamiliar territory ahead and (3) helps her take the first steps of survival toward becoming the person God is forming her to be.


The Emotional Survival Guide for Caregivers

The Emotional Survival Guide for Caregivers

Author: Barry J. Jacobs

Publisher: Guilford Press

Published: 2006-03-17

Total Pages: 273

ISBN-13: 1606237934

DOWNLOAD EBOOK

Caring for a parent whose health is in decline turns the world upside down. The emotional fallout can be devastating, but it doesn't have to be that way. Empathic guidance from an expert who's been there can help. Through an account of two sisters and their ailing mother--interwoven with no-nonsense advice--The Emotional Survival Guide for Caregivers helps family members navigate tough decisions and make the most of their time together as they care for an aging parent. The author urges readers to be honest about the level of commitment they're able to make and emphasizes the need for clear communication within the family. While acknowledging their guilt, stress, and fatigue, he helps caregivers reaffirm emotional connections worn thin by the routine of daily care. This compassionate book will help families everywhere avoid burnout and preserve bonds during one of life's most difficult passages.


A Ministry Survival Guide

A Ministry Survival Guide

Author: Lisa Elliott

Publisher: Word Alive Press

Published: 2022-04-30

Total Pages: 218

ISBN-13: 1486621775

DOWNLOAD EBOOK

A Ministry Survival Guide: Straight from the Heart explores the joys and challenges of life in the spotlight of ministry. Relatable stories, survival tips, biblical mentors, and a Bible study guide provide a valuable resource for pastors’ wives, women in ministry, and anyone who desires to thrive, not just survive in the Christian life. This book will help you: live a public-private life. fortify your marriage. balance family and ministry. prevent burnout. navigate transitions. manage painful relationships. grow through personal challenges. build a godly support system. discover blessings beneath burdens. nurture your soul.