35 Ways to Help a Grieving Child

35 Ways to Help a Grieving Child

Author: Dougy Center

Publisher: Dougy Center

Published: 1999

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9781890534035

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This guidebook presents 35 simple and practical suggestions for supporting a child who is grieving. Drawn from stories, suggestions and insight shared by children and their family members at Dougy Center: The National Grief Center for Children & Families, this book explores behaviors and reactions of children at different ages and stages of development; outlets for children to safely express their thoughts and feelings; and ways to be supportive during difficult times, such as a memorial service, anniversary or holiday.


Helping Children Cope with the Loss of a Loved One

Helping Children Cope with the Loss of a Loved One

Author: William C. Kroen

Publisher: Free Spirit Publishing

Published: 1996-01-15

Total Pages: 113

ISBN-13: 1575428725

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What can we say to a child who has just lost a parent, a sibling, or other loved one? How can we be sure to say and do the right things without adding to the child's confusion and grief? And what if we are grieving, too? Grief in children may be expressed differently than in adults. In clear, concise language, Dr. William Kroen offers comfort, compassion, and sound advice to any adult who is helping a child cope with death. Incorporating insights and information from the respected Good Grief Program at the Judge Baker Children's Center in Boston, Massachusetts, and weaving in anecdotes about real children and their families, he explains how children from infancy through age 18 perceive and react to death. He offers suggestions on how we can respond to children at different ages and stages, and describes specific strategies we can use to guide and support them through the grieving process—from the first devastating days through commemorating the loved one and eventually moving on with life. Includes a list of recommended organizations and additional readings.


Healing a Child's Grieving Heart

Healing a Child's Grieving Heart

Author: Alan D. Wolfelt

Publisher: Companion Press

Published: 2001-04-01

Total Pages: 130

ISBN-13: 1617220426

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A compassionate resource for friends, parents, relatives, teachers, volunteers, and caregivers, this series offers suggestions to help the grieving cope with the loss of a loved one. Often people do not know what to say—or what not to say—to someone they know who is mourning; this series teaches that the most important thing a person can do is listen, have compassion, be there for support, and do something helpful. This volume addresses what to expect from grieving young people, and how to provide safe outlets for children to express emotion. Included in each book are tested, sensitive ideas for “carpe diem” actions that people can take right this minute—while still remaining supportive and honoring the mourner’s loss.


Children and Grief

Children and Grief

Author: Joey O’Connor

Publisher: Revell

Published: 2004-11

Total Pages: 256

ISBN-13: 0800759761

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A sensitive, compassionate book that helps parents teach their children the truth about death and dying.


Life and Loss

Life and Loss

Author: Linda Goldman

Publisher: Routledge

Published: 2013-11-20

Total Pages: 501

ISBN-13: 1136222391

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Many clinicians recognize that denying or ignoring grief issues in children leaves them feeling alone and that acknowledging loss is crucial part of a child’s healthy development. Really dealing with loss in productive ways, however, is sometimes easier said than done. For decades, Life and Loss has been the book clinicians have relied on for a full and nuanced presentation of the many issues with which grieving children grapple as well as an honest exploration of the interrelationship between unresolved grief, educational success, and responsible citizenry. The third edition of Life and Loss brings this exploration firmly into the twenty-first century and makes a convincing case that children’s grief is no longer restricted only to loss-identified children. Children’s grief is now endemic; it is global. Life and Loss is not just the book clinicians need to understand grief in the twenty-first century—it’s the book they need to work with it in constructive ways.


Companioning the Grieving Child

Companioning the Grieving Child

Author: Alan D. Wolfelt

Publisher: Companion Press

Published: 2012-06-01

Total Pages: 162

ISBN-13: 1617221589

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Renowned author and educator Alan Wolfelt redefines the role of the grief counselor in this guide for caregivers to grieving children. Providing a viable alternative to the limitations of the medical establishment’s model for companioning the bereaved, Wolfelt encourages counselors and other caregivers to aspire to a more compassionate philosophy in which the child is the expert of his or her grief—not the counselor or caregiver. The approach outlined in the book argues against treating grief as an illness to be diagnosed and treated but rather for acknowledging it as an event that forever changes a child's worldview. By promoting careful listening and observation, this guide shows caregivers, family members, teachers, and others how to support grieving children and help them grow into healthy adults.


Helping Teens Cope with Death

Helping Teens Cope with Death

Author: Dougy Center for Grieving Children

Publisher: Dougy Center

Published: 2004

Total Pages: 55

ISBN-13: 9781890534028

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This guidebook outlines the many thoughts, challenges and reactions unique to grieving teens. Drawn from stories, suggestions and insight shared by teens and family members, it explores how teens view death and how it impacts their lives as well as offering suggestions as to ways of support and understanding.


Too Much Loss: Coping with Grief Overload

Too Much Loss: Coping with Grief Overload

Author: Alan Wolfelt

Publisher: Companion Press

Published: 2020-09-01

Total Pages: 56

ISBN-13: 1617222887

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Grief overload is what you feel when you experience too many significant losses all at once, in a relatively short period of time, or cumulatively. In addition to the deaths of loved ones, such losses can also include divorce, estrangement, illness, relocation, job changes, and more. Our minds and hearts have enough trouble coping with a single loss, so when the losses pile up, the grief often seems especially chaotic and defeating. The good news is that through intentional, active mourning, you can and will find your way back to hope and healing. This compassionate guide will show you how.


A Parent's Guide to Raising Grieving Children

A Parent's Guide to Raising Grieving Children

Author: Phyllis R. Silverman

Publisher: Oxford University Press, USA

Published: 2009

Total Pages: 271

ISBN-13: 0195328841

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When children lose someone they love, life is never the same. In this sympathetic book, the authors advocate an open, honest approach, suggesting that our instinctive desire to "protect" children from the reality of death may be more harmful than helpful.


Talking with Children About Loss

Talking with Children About Loss

Author: Maria Trozzi

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 1999-10-01

Total Pages: 342

ISBN-13: 9780399525438

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Through captivating stories and thoughtful analysis, Maria Trozzi explains how to handle the difficult job of talking with children and adolescents about loss, with discussions about: * How children perceive and interpret events such as death, disability, and divorce * Guiding children through the four tasks of mourning * Helping children face funerals, wakes, and memorial services * Children's fears and fantasies: how they express them, and how to address them * Age-appropriate responses to children's questions and concerns * Talking to children about long-term illness, suicide, family or community tragedy, and other special situations * What to do when children won't talk about loss, and when to seek professional help"The wisdom, authenticity, and sheer presence of the author are evident from page one until the end of the beautifully written book. Terms like 'ground-breaking' and 'innovative' have been triviliazed by overuse. In this case they are deserved." --Stan Turecki, M.D., author of The Difficult Child