Part One: The Basics -- In Praise of Solo Sex; How Much is Too Much?; An Evening Alone with You; Creative Touching; Toys and Other Self-Love Objects. Part Two: Advanced Practices -- Sex Secrets and Solo Sex; Symbolic Exhibitionism. Part Three: Ultimate Orgasm and the Mind -- Fantasy is More Real; Ultimate Fantasies; How to Have Multiple Orgasms; Heightening Hunger Through Abstinence; Psychic Orgasm: The Ultimate High; Epilogue.
Part One: Solo Sex -- Loving Yourself All the Way -- The Joy of Solo Sex; Positive Narcissism; Dancing on the Edge; More Toys and Games; Advanced Games and Rich Men's Toys; Sharing Solos; Erotic Display. Part Two: Deep Sex and Bodyspirit -- Make the Next Time Your First Time Again; Altered States; The Mystic Experience -- Sex and God. Features more than 100 stories and testimonies from men who enjoy sharing the most intimate details of their solo sex lives with appreciative readers.
"Includes a broad range of sexual situations to draw ideas from, both hetero- & homosexual. There is an ongoing (& applaudable) theme stressing common sense in all things, but there are certainly no limits to the possibilities of self-pleasuring..." Inches, Nov. '90. "A different kind of 'How To' book written for the man who would like to become the true sex connoisseur...Litten gives step-by-step procedures & exercises which set the mind as well as the genitals in motion for multiple orgasms & the ultimate psychic orgasm...Solo Sex is loaded with quotes from experts which provide clinical explanations & facilitate Litten's hypotheses on solo sex. Additionally, the book includes many personal stories contributing greatly in illustrating Litten's attitudes on the subject...To quote Litten: "Solo sex is not merely to be tolerated & endured, but to be exalted & pursued with enthusiasm." RFD, Summer, '90. Heightened orgasmic intensity, multiple orgasms, altered sexual states, the psychic orgasm (mental stimulation only), manual techniques, home-made devices. By a recognized authority. Note: explicit illustrations. Order from Factor Press, P.O. Box 8888, Mobile, AL 36689.
Masturbation is a many-splendored thing, but even here, all of us can get into a comfortable rut. Take what can be really good to really great with Jenny Block's guide to getting in on with yourself. Whether you are happily coupled, on your own, poly, or demonstrating your solo skills for your lover(s), Block has the very best advice on how to pleasure yourself masterfully and share the love. Replete with thorough research, Block's book covers the science of sex, wild and wonderful ideas for upping the masturbation ante, and lots of suggestions for how to incorporate toys. There are only one or two truly good books on the market about "sex for one," and those are years and even decades old. The Ultimate Guide to Solo Sex makes its entry as an instant classic that shows readers how to go from mundane to mind-blowing.
A comprehensive and empowering resource for women traces the history and mechanics of sexual self-fulfillment, in an illustrated how-to guide that also discusses the practice's complicated stigma and related myths. Original.
The classic guide to fully enjoying the pleasures of self-love, full of warmth, intelligence, and informative line drawings—from a renowned sex educator featured on Netflix’s the goop lab with Gwyneth Paltrow Confronting one of our last and most deeply rooted taboos—masturbation—noted sex expert and pro-sex feminist Betty Dodson, Ph.D., takes the shame out of self-love by creating a straightforward and appealing guidebook that reveals masturbation as a satisfying, vital form of sexual expression. Dr. Dodson demonstrates how anyone can learn to make love alone with feelings of guilt or loneliness, and explains why masturbation is sexually and spiritually fulfilling for both men and women. Not only is it the safest sex, but sharing masturbation can also be a sensual treat for couples who want to learn more about each other’s sexual responses. Sex for One demonstrates that self-loving is not just for times in-between lovers or for social misfits. Masturbation is the joyful and ongoing love affair that each of us has with ourselves throughout childhood, adulthood, and the golden years of old age.
Solo by Kwame Alexander and Mary Rand Hess is a New York Times bestseller! Kirkus Reviews said Solo is, “A contemporary hero’s journey, brilliantly told.” Through the story of a young Black man searching for answers about his life, Solo empowers, engages, and encourages teenagers to move from heartache to healing, burden to blessings, depression to deliverance, and trials to triumphs. Blade never asked for a life of the rich and famous. In fact, he’d give anything not to be the son of Rutherford Morrison, a washed-up rock star and drug addict with delusions of a comeback. Or to no longer be part of a family known most for lost potential, failure, and tragedy, including the loss of his mother. The one true light is his girlfriend, Chapel, but her parents have forbidden their relationship, assuming Blade will become just like his father. In reality, the only thing Blade and Rutherford have in common is the music that lives inside them. And songwriting is all Blade has left after Rutherford, while drunk, crashes his high school graduation speech and effectively rips Chapel away forever. But when a long-held family secret comes to light, the music disappears. In its place is a letter, one that could bring Blade the freedom and love he’s been searching for, or leave him feeling even more adrift. Solo: Is written by New York Times bestselling author and Newbery Medal and Coretta Scott King Book Award-winner Kwame Alexander Showcases Kwame’s signature intricacy, intimacy, and poetic style, by exploring what it means to finally go home An #OwnVoices novel that features a BIPOC protagonist on a search for his roots and identity Received great reviews from Publishers Weekly, School Library Journal, Booklist, and Kirkus. If you enjoy Solo, check out Swing by Kwame Alexander and Mary Rand Hess.
In a culture where female empowerment is used to sell everything from sex toys to soap, most sex education continues to bypass pleasure. The results are stark; we've grown accustomed to slut- and prude-shaming and allowed others to dictate how a "good girl" is meant to feel, act, and look. In Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment, August McLaughlin offers an inclusive, unfiltered blend of personal narrative and practical tips on relationships, solo play, journaling, gender issues, and more. From the perks of "Jilling off" to the 7 types of 'gasms, Girl Boner will "empower you to own your sexual self and enjoy ... your whole life a great deal more."
"Out of those ashes rose a version of me that was truer than ever. I emerged as I always was - a solosexual - with every conditioning from society of what love and sex should be burnt away."CEDAR: An Ode to Masturbation is a sensual celebration of solosexuality. Written as the author's testimony to a life lived through masturbation, fragments of memory and dogma collide as the artistry and mystery of masturbation is explored alongside the questioning of how to be solosexual in a society obsessed with partnering. The text then departs in the form of a queer, dystopian fiction "The Clomp of Hooves." In a Bacchanalian society where solosexuals thrive after the fall of capitalist society, one bator must protect the purity of a young solosexual from being corrupted by emergent fascist forces. CEDAR is a work of real imagination. Asymmetrical in form but singular in vision, it is a captivating, explicit and poetic ode to masturbation and how to love.Reviews:"CEDAR is entirely life-affirming. The solosexual part is one thing, but above all the real message of it it's the whole acceptance of yourself. Like the emotional, sensual, animal, everythingness of it all. Being self-sufficient on a profoundly earthy level. In that space there is so much love. You are a beautiful man.""An awesome and inspiring journey.""Incredible, magnificent book - well, I can't praise it enough. Every page has meaning to me, every section captures the imprint of my own solosexual journey. He writes Truth. I've read it many times already -- thoughtfully, again while masturbating, and again as a work of art."Introduction:"Pleasure is the yardstick by which I measure my life. It was not always. It has taken a lifetime of unlearning what I was taught, what we are all taught, will bring our lives meaning. I am a pleasure seeker now. I live intentionally as a solosexual man. I am a proponent for sensual living. Everything starts and ends at your skin. We are pleasure receptors.Sometime in the Spring of 2016, I became my own lover. I committed myself to exploring whether I alone could take care of all the needs - emotional, sexual, physical - that I had relied on others to fulfil. Could I offer myself the intimacy, support and loving surprises that people say are the hallmarks of a strong relationship? I entered into several years of intensely thinking about what it might mean to become my own lover. It was my great experiment in love and it had an unexpected result. Our world is obsessed with partnering. Classic, pair-bonded heteromimicry. To be a solosexual is a somewhat scary proposition. To eschew relationships begs at solosexuality's shadow. What am I to make then of loneliness? Does solosexuality preclude intimacy with others? My experiment's great discovery was that relationships are not what we are taught. Relationships take a great many forms. If you place a relationship with yourself as paramount, then you forge your own path. You redefine relationships that suit you and not society's accepted definition. You may wonder what it is like to be my own lover. To grow myself and drink from my own nectar. Forthwith in these pages I evoke for you my life surrendered to masturbation. These pages will flit, just as memory does, to and fro through time. One sensual remembrance may lead to another, or to an idea, or to belief. All the while these remembrances fuse into form. The tree of my identity has grown strong, but it began as a sapling. As I write this I see in my mind's eye the place where this sapling was nourished. A place where purity reigned and nothing can buffet, penetrate or yet destroy what I am nurturing within."Author:Timothy is the author of books and essays on masturbation. His work covers subjects from solosexuality, edging, gooning to handsfree ejaculation. Dedicated to masturbation and body pride, he has been called a Guru of Technique and an Evangelist of Self Love. He masturbates everyday.
Would you like to discover more about your sexual potential? Do you want to learn how to maximize your orgasmic pleasure? Are you ready to embark on a sexual self-discovery journey? Learn about the numerous benefits of masturbation at any age including the effect on stress, pain, vaginal health, self-esteem and sexual confidence. Become empowered through understanding the arousal process as well as the anatomy behind sexual pleasure beyond the clitoris and G-spot. Explore your preferences of stimulation and the types of orgasms including vaginal, clitoral and multiple. This book will guide you as you discover how to increase your sexual pleasure, sensuality and erotic self-awareness and self-acceptance. You'll also learn how you can incorporate masturbation into sex with a partner to deepen the relationship and improve your sex life as well as how to overcome psychological challenges holding you back from embracing your sexuality with ease. The author, Maree Stachel-Williamson, wrote this book with the aim of opening readers' minds to new possibilities for sexual joy through masturbation. After listening to readers feedback, this new and vastly expanded edition delves deeper into the practical side of masturbation with almost 100 additional exercises, added in-depth sections and over 160 new pages of information. This edition also includes more internal and external self-pleasure techniques for sexual exploration using hands and toys - ranging from regular vibrators and dildos to clitoral pulsing toys and electric fun among others. You'll also get to play with fantasies, mindfulness and other mental techniques in order to help you spark your flame.
