The Compassionate Caregiver: Navigating the Journey of Caring for Aging Parents
The Compassionate Caregiver: Navigating the Journey of Caring for Aging Parents

Author: Charles Nehme

Publisher: Charles Nehme

Published:

Total Pages: 31

ISBN-13:

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As I stand at the threshold of this book, I am acutely aware of the delicate yet profound journey we are about to embark on together. The journey of caring for aging parents is one that many of us will inevitably face, yet it remains a topic often shrouded in uncertainty and apprehension. In writing this book, my aim is not only to provide practical guidance and support but also to offer a beacon of light amidst the sometimes tumultuous waters of caregiving. Drawing upon my own experiences, as well as insights gleaned from caregivers and professionals alike, I hope to illuminate the path ahead and instill a sense of reassurance and empowerment within you, the reader. Within these pages, you will find a roadmap for navigating the complexities of aging, from understanding the physical and emotional nuances of growing older to making difficult decisions about medical care and end-of-life preferences. You will discover strategies for fostering open communication, building a support network, and maintaining your own well-being amidst the demands of caregiving. Above all, I invite you to approach this journey with an open heart and a willingness to embrace the challenges and joys that lie ahead. For in caring for our aging parents, we not only honor the love and sacrifices they have bestowed upon us but also embark on a profound journey of growth, compassion, and resilience. May this book serve as a guiding light, illuminating your path and offering solace and wisdom along the way.

The Compassionate Caregiver
The Compassionate Caregiver

Author: Charles Nehme

Publisher: Independently Published

Published: 2024-03-14

Total Pages: 0

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As I stand at the threshold of this book, I am acutely aware of the delicate yet profound journey we are about to embark on together. The journey of caring for aging parents is one that many of us will inevitably face, yet it remains a topic often shrouded in uncertainty and apprehension. In writing this book, my aim is not only to provide practical guidance and support but also to offer a beacon of light amidst the sometimes tumultuous waters of caregiving. Drawing upon my own experiences, as well as insights gleaned from caregivers and professionals alike, I hope to illuminate the path ahead and instill a sense of reassurance and empowerment within you, the reader. Within these pages, you will find a roadmap for navigating the complexities of aging, from understanding the physical and emotional nuances of growing older to making difficult decisions about medical care and end-of-life preferences. You will discover strategies for fostering open communication, building a support network, and maintaining your own well-being amidst the demands of caregiving. Above all, I invite you to approach this journey with an open heart and a willingness to embrace the challenges and joys that lie ahead. For in caring for our aging parents, we not only honor the love and sacrifices they have bestowed upon us but also embark on a profound journey of growth, compassion, and resilience. May this book serve as a guiding light, illuminating your path and offering solace and wisdom along the way.

The Caregiving Season
The Caregiving Season

Author: Jane Daly

Publisher: NavPress

Published: 2016-09-01

Total Pages: 209

ISBN-13: 1624057675

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Caring for elderly parents is challenging. It’s a season of life that requires grace and strength that can only come from God. In The Caregiving Season, Jane Daly shares personal caregiving stories, offering practical advice to help you honor your aging parents well and deepen your personal relationship with Christ along the journey.

A Bittersweet Season
A Bittersweet Season

Author: Jane Gross

Publisher: Knopf

Published: 2011-04-26

Total Pages: 370

ISBN-13: 0307596680

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Just a few of the vitally important lessons in caring for your aging parent—and yourself—from Jane Gross in A Bittersweet Season As painful as the role reversal between parent and child may be for you, assume it is worse for your mother or father, so take care not to demean or humiliate them. Avoid hospitals and emergency rooms, as well as multiple relocations from home to assisted living facility to nursing home, since all can cause dramatic declines in physical and cognitive well-being among the aged. Do not accept the canard that no decent child sends a parent to a nursing home. Good nursing home care, which supports the entire family, can be vastly superior to the pretty trappings but thin staffing of assisted living or the solitude of being at home, even with round-the-clock help. Important Facts Every state has its own laws, eligibility standards, and licensing requirements for financial, legal, residential, and other matters that affect the elderly, including qualification for Medicare. Assume anything you understand in the state where your parents once lived no longer applies if they move. Many doctors will not accept new Medicare patients, nor are they legally required to do so, especially significant if a parent is moving a long distance to be near family in old age. An adult child with power of attorney can use a parent’s money for legitimate expenses and thus hasten the spend-down to Medicaid eligibility. In other words, you are doing your parent no favor—assuming he or she is likely to exhaust personal financial resources—by paying rent, stocking the refrigerator, buying clothes, or taking him or her to the hairdresser or barber.

Families Caring for an Aging America
Families Caring for an Aging America

Author: National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine

Publisher: National Academies Press

Published: 2016-11-08

Total Pages: 367

ISBN-13: 0309448093

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Family caregiving affects millions of Americans every day, in all walks of life. At least 17.7 million individuals in the United States are caregivers of an older adult with a health or functional limitation. The nation's family caregivers provide the lion's share of long-term care for our older adult population. They are also central to older adults' access to and receipt of health care and community-based social services. Yet the need to recognize and support caregivers is among the least appreciated challenges facing the aging U.S. population. Families Caring for an Aging America examines the prevalence and nature of family caregiving of older adults and the available evidence on the effectiveness of programs, supports, and other interventions designed to support family caregivers. This report also assesses and recommends policies to address the needs of family caregivers and to minimize the barriers that they encounter in trying to meet the needs of older adults.

Navigating the Journey of Aging Parents
Navigating the Journey of Aging Parents

Author: Cheryl A. Kuba

Publisher: Routledge

Published: 2013-05-13

Total Pages: 193

ISBN-13: 1135441197

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Navigating the Journey of Aging Parents proposes an entirely unique approach to the field of gerontology, giving dependent care receivers a voice. Caregivers will be made aware of what care receivers truly want during life's final chapters. Exploring issues of housing, spirituality, personal care and death, Cheryl Kuba has created a testament to the dependent elderly. This book draws on numerous interviews with aging people and discusses common caregiver mistakes and interpretations, what a caregiver should expect when an aging parent moves in, and how to care for an aging parent from afar. Kuba also delves into such phenomena as guilt, role reversal, changing family dynamics, financial stress, and caring for oneself while caring for another. The 22.4 million elderly people being cared for in the United States comprises the fastest growing segment of the population, making this reference on the opinions and concerns of care receivers invaluable.

The Thoughtful Caregiver:
The Thoughtful Caregiver:

Author: Rebecca Hecking

Publisher:

Published: 2016-11-01

Total Pages: 264

ISBN-13: 9781539611387

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In the summer of 2009, Rebecca James Hecking's elderly father suffered a catastrophic fall that turned his life upside down and launched her into nearly six years of active caregiving for both her parents. The experience was emotionally challenging, heart opening and ultimately life changing. Written to provide emotional support and practical advice for you, the adult child caregiver, it will help you navigate the many challenges you may encounter as you care for your elderly parent. Part practical advice, part spiritual guide, The Thoughtful Caregiver is your companion on the caregiving journey. Although there are many excellent books on eldercare available, few focus primarily on the needs and experience of the adult child caregiver directly. The Thoughtful Caregiver was written to fill that gap. The Thoughtful Caregiver covers a wide range of topics including: * Handling the unique stresses of caregiving* Finding balance between caregiving and the rest of your life* Negotiating the parent/adult child relationship* Surviving the emotional nightmare of a parent with dementia* Navigating a major move * Coping with sudden, unexpected crises* Decision making at the end of life * Balancing expectations and reality* Handling the holidays and the unique challenges they pose to caregiving* Sorting out the intersection of grief and dementia* Developing creative coping rituals unique to you* Sorting out the emotional baggage of your relationship with your parent* Growing into greater compassion * Integrating your caregiving years into the bigger picture of your lifeEach chapter is labeled with several word tags such as anger, crisis, self-care, or family dynamics that are indexed in the back of the book to help you find exactly the support you need when you need it. There are also several questions at the end of each chapter that are suitable for journaling or reflection to help you gain perspective on your own unique situation. Throughout the book, Rebecca shares her own story, and offers a mix of practical physical advice and mindful reflection. The Thoughtful Caregiver is like having a conversation over a cup of tea with a friend who has walked the caregiving path a little bit ahead of you.

The Conscious Caregiver
The Conscious Caregiver

Author: Linda Abbit

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2017-09-05

Total Pages: 256

ISBN-13: 1440597731

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Linda Abbit, founder of Tender Loving Eldercare and a veteran of the caregiving industry, shares her advice on taking care of an older parent or loved one and how to handle everything that goes along with this dramatic life change. Being a caregiver can be a difficult role. It requires patience, tenderness, selflessness, and hard work. Providing care for someone, whether it’s a parent, a loved one, or as a professional requires a high level of self-love and self-care. But while it may be a rewarding experience to care for a loved one, the emotional and physical stress of caregiving can lead to burnout and exhaustion—causing caregivers to put themselves and their own well-being in the background. How can you fulfill your role as a caregiver without losing yourself? Conscious Caregiver teaches you how to navigate caring for your loved one, whether it’s full-time in-house caregiving or hiring support from outside services. With information on how to talk to your loved ones about the situation, handle the emotional stress, stay financially secure, and take the time to care for yourself, this guide can help you care for your loved one and yourself at the same time.

Take Good Care
Take Good Care

Author: Cynthia Orange

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2017-03-07

Total Pages: 256

ISBN-13: 1616496738

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"In a time when tens of millions of people provide care for family members, older adults, and people with special needs, we should all be experts at it. Instead, we often struggle with caring for others while taking care of ourselves. In Take Good Care, author Cynthia Orange brings together compelling testimonies from a wide range of caregivers, advice from leading experts in the field, and her own hard-won wisdom to capture the subtle differences between caretaking and caregiving. With a foreword by Susan Allen Toth, the critically acclaimed author of No Saints around Here: A Caregiver's Days, this book shows us how and why caring for each other can be a mutually rewarding experience. It's easy to become overinvolved in another person's life and needs when giving care. Feeling burdened with expectations and resentments in a codependent relationship hinders a sense of joy, purpose, and engagement. Relationships require empathy and boundaries; with them, a codependent caretaker can transform into an intentional, self-aware, and compassionate caregiver"--

The Gift of Caring
The Gift of Caring

Author: Marcy Cottrell Houle

Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield

Published: 2015-07-01

Total Pages: 321

ISBN-13: 1630760986

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The desire to help our elders navigate health issues is clear and universal—how to assure proper care and a good ending is not. Combining adroit storytelling skills with expert advice, The Gift of Caring: Saving Our Parents from the Perils of Modern Healthcare brings the reader into all-too-familiar scenarios facing our aging parents and offers answers to questions we may not know to ask until it’s too late. Author and biologist Marcy Houle shares her personal journey of caring for her father, a surgeon, who developed Alzheimer’s, and later her mother, who succumbed to other medical conditions. Like many children of aging parents, Marcy often felt powerless traveling this sad trajectory—watching them fall through the cracks of a fragmented and confusing healthcare system, where professionals often wrote off their symptoms as “just old age.” Not having the understanding of the changes that come with aging, she was led to believe there was nothing she could do to help. The tragic secret? According to coauthor and geriatrics physician Elizabeth Eckstrom, these symptoms frequently are not “just old age.” Rather, the problem is that the current healthcare delivery model for older people is ill-equipped to provide the comprehensive, person-centered care seniors need. Today, thousands of aging people face unnecessary suffering, hospitalizations, nursing home stays, and even death due to complications that could have been prevented or treated. Even more troubling, many healthcare professionals have had little or no training in the care of older adults. The Gift of Caring reveals these pitfalls and provides families with tools they can use to avoid them. Interspersed with every few chapters of Marcy’s riveting story, Dr. Eckstrom shares professional medical insights, compiled from the latest research, into what Marcy could have done to safeguard her parents. She shows us how to navigate the system, how we can become our loved one’s best advocate, and what we need to know to achieve healthy aging and meaningful, compassionate final years. Honest, at times humorous, and ultimately uplifting, The Gift of Caring sheds new light on aging from twin perspectives: a story of a daughter desperately seeking help for the parents she loves, and a geriatrician who gives us the knowledge we need to insist upon a better way.