The Baby Before You Died

The Baby Before You Died

Author: Katrina Villegas

Publisher: Katrina Villegas

Published: 2020-07-04

Total Pages: 51

ISBN-13:

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A book for children of all ages who have a sibling that died before they were born- specifically for families that went through termination for medical reasons. When William was born, his parents started teaching him about the baby that came before him. The baby that died. They had made the agonizing choice to induce the pregnancy early (terminate for medical reasons) when they found out that their unborn baby had a fatal condition. They learned quickly how to talk to their older daughter, Caroline, about death and what was happening, but it was uncharted territory for them and was a learning curve. They talked with child life specialists and read books. They learned the correct language to use around children when talking about death. This book tells the story to the rainbow baby. This children's book series "Loss of a Sibling Due to Termination For Medical Reasons" is written specifically for families going through a loss due to termination for medical reasons. Katrina felt that the termination community deserved a set of books written just for them, as it is a unique grief journey for adults and children. This series uses the correct language and walks children through what to expect during specific moments in their journey. Books in this series Our Baby is Going to Die. This book walks you through how to tell your child, in an effective way, of the impending loss of their baby sibling. It discusses many of the questions that might be running through your child’s mind. Our Baby Died. There are 2 versions of this book. One is written for the parents that underwent a surgical termination, and the other is for parents going through termination via labor and delivery. The books walk your child through what to expect in their grief during these specific moments. Remembering Our Baby. This book is for after your baby has died. It walks you and your child through dealing with your grief after the fact, and ways to remember and honor your baby. ★★(This book)★★The Baby Before You Died. This book is for your rainbow baby- the baby born after a loss. It explains to your child that there was a baby before them that died, and helps them to better understand what happened, while also honoring their potential grief as well. Religion This book is kept neutral with regards to any religious beliefs, so that you can decide how to address your specific beliefs as you are compelled to do so. Why this children's series is special Written by a mom herself that has been through a termination for medical reasons, this book series is exactly what any family going through this journey needs to read and have on hand. The books answer many of the questions that might be going through your child's mind, in effective ways. Highly recommended by a child life specialist, you can rest assured that this book series uses the correct language to help your child in their grief and to better understand what is going on. Together, the books in this series are a complete look at what to expect before, during and after the death of a sibling. ★ Grab a copy of the books in this series at this special pricing, and... ★ Get one to donate to your hospital, genetic counselor, etc. They can pay it forward to another family in need of these books. Connect with the author, Katrina, at TerminationsRemembered.com


Our Baby Died

Our Baby Died

Author: Katrina Villegas

Publisher: Katrina Villegas

Published: 2020-07-04

Total Pages: 43

ISBN-13:

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A book for children of all ages experiencing the loss of a sibling- specifically for families going through termination for medical reasons. When Caroline was 2.5 years old, she learned that her baby sister wasn't going to live. Her parents, Joe and Katrina Villegas (author), had to find a way to tell her that the baby was going to die and wouldn't be coming home. They made the agonizing choice to induce the pregnancy early (terminate for medical reasons) when they found out that their unborn baby had a fatal condition. They learned quickly how to talk to their daughter, Caroline, about death and what was happening, but it was uncharted territory for them and was a learning curve. They talked with child life specialists and read books. They learned the correct language to use around children when talking about death. This children's book series "Loss of a Sibling Due to Termination For Medical Reasons" is written specifically for families going through a loss due to termination for medical reasons. Katrina felt that the termination community deserved a set of books written just for them, as it is a unique grief journey for adults and children. This series uses the correct language and walks children through what to expect during specific moments in their journey. Books in this series Our Baby is Going to Die. This book walks you through how to tell your child, in an effective way, of the impending loss of their baby sibling. It discusses many of the questions that might be running through your child’s mind. ★★(This book-surgical termination)★★Our Baby Died. There are 2 versions of this book. One is written for the parents that underwent a surgical termination, and the other is for parents going through termination via labor and delivery. The books walk your child through what to expect in their grief during these specific moments. Remembering Our Baby. This book is for after your baby has died. It walks you and your child through dealing with your grief after the fact, and ways to remember and honor your baby. The Baby Before You Died. This book is for your rainbow baby- the baby born after a loss. It explains to your child that there was a baby before them that died, and helps them to better understand what happened, while also honoring their potential grief as well. Religion This book is kept neutral with regards to any religious beliefs, so that you can decide how to address your specific beliefs as you are compelled to do so. Why this children's series is special Written by a mom herself that has been through a termination for medical reasons, this book series is exactly what any family going through this journey needs to read and have on hand. The books answer many of the questions that might be going through your child's mind, in effective ways. Highly recommended by a child life specialist, you can rest assured that this book series uses the correct language to help your child in their grief and to better understand what is going on. Together, the books in this series are a complete look at what to expect before, during and after the death of a sibling. ★ Grab a copy of the books in this series at this special pricing, and... ★ Get one to donate to your hospital, genetic counselor, etc. They can pay it forward to another family in need of these books. Connect with the author, Katrina, at TerminationsRemembered.com


Empty Cradle, Broken Heart

Empty Cradle, Broken Heart

Author: Deborah L. Davis

Publisher: Fulcrum Publishing

Published: 1996

Total Pages: 292

ISBN-13: 9781555913021

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Reassurance for parents who struggle with anger, guilt, and despair after a miscarriage, stillbirth, infant death.


I'll Hold You in Heaven

I'll Hold You in Heaven

Author: Jack W. Hayford

Publisher: ReadHowYouWant.com

Published: 2011-08

Total Pages: 102

ISBN-13: 145962548X

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For those who have lost a child to death, Jack Hayford provides compassionate answers to troubling questions such as, What happened to my baby after it died? Will I ever see my baby again - and will I recognize him? what happens if I've had an abortion? Does God have a reason for letting my child die? God's Word shines with hope in the dark night of human pain. God showed his tenderness when David lost the child he had with Bathsheba shortly after its birth. In his pain and grief, David spoke the word of revelation - reassuring word of God's truth - saying, ''I will go to (my child) but he will not return to me'' (2 Samuel 12:19 - 23). The freeing truth of the Word of God promises that, like David, you will hold your child again in heaven.


Modern Loss

Modern Loss

Author: Rebecca Soffer

Publisher: HarperCollins

Published: 2018-01-23

Total Pages: 313

ISBN-13: 006249922X

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Inspired by the website that the New York Times hailed as "redefining mourning," this book is a fresh and irreverent examination into navigating grief and resilience in the age of social media, offering comfort and community for coping with the mess of loss through candid original essays from a variety of voices, accompanied by gorgeous two-color illustrations and wry infographics. At a time when we mourn public figures and national tragedies with hashtags, where intimate posts about loss go viral and we receive automated birthday reminders for dead friends, it’s clear we are navigating new terrain without a road map. Let’s face it: most of us have always had a difficult time talking about death and sharing our grief. We’re awkward and uncertain; we avoid, ignore, or even deny feelings of sadness; we offer platitudes; we send sympathy bouquets whittled out of fruit. Enter Rebecca Soffer and Gabrielle Birkner, who can help us do better. Each having lost parents as young adults, they co-founded Modern Loss, responding to a need to change the dialogue around the messy experience of grief. Now, in this wise and often funny book, they offer the insights of the Modern Loss community to help us cry, laugh, grieve, identify, and—above all—empathize. Soffer and Birkner, along with forty guest contributors including Lucy Kalanithi, singer Amanda Palmer, and CNN’s Brian Stelter, reveal their own stories on a wide range of topics including triggers, sex, secrets, and inheritance. Accompanied by beautiful hand-drawn illustrations and witty "how to" cartoons, each contribution provides a unique perspective on loss as well as a remarkable life-affirming message. Brutally honest and inspiring, Modern Loss invites us to talk intimately and humorously about grief, helping us confront the humanity (and mortality) we all share. Beginners welcome.


I Miss You

I Miss You

Author: Pat Thomas

Publisher: B.E.S. Publishing

Published: 2001

Total Pages: 29

ISBN-13: 9780764117640

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Explains why people die and what death means, the purpose of funerals, and how people react when loved ones die.


Someone Came Before You

Someone Came Before You

Author: Pat Schwiebert

Publisher:

Published: 2007-09-15

Total Pages: 26

ISBN-13: 9780972424158

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There are books for children to help them when the baby they are waiting for dies. And now there is a book for the child who comes after the one who died. It's a perfect gift just for them. It explains in a gentle way the parents' desire for a child and the sadness that comes over them when that baby dies. It then shares how the parents, with the help of the baby, get to the point of wanting another child to come into their lives. The illustrator has an extraordinary gift of capturing feelings in his drawings that tell the story beyond words. Includes suggestions about keeping your baby's memory alive.


After the Death of a Child

After the Death of a Child

Author: Ann K. Finkbeiner

Publisher:

Published: 1996

Total Pages: 296

ISBN-13:

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For a parent, losing a child is the most devastating event that can occur. Most books on the subject focus on grieving and recovery, but as most parents agree, there is no recovery from such a loss. This book examines the continued love parents feel for their child and the many poignant and ingenious ways they devise to preserve the bond. Through detailed profiles of parents, Ann Finkbeiner shows how new activities and changed relationships with their spouse, friends, and other children can all help parents preserve a bond with the lost child. Refusing to fall back on pop jargon about "recovery" or to offer easy suggestions or standardized timelines, Finkbeiner's is a genuine and moving search to come to terms with loss. Her complex profiles of parents resonate with the honesty and authenticity of uncomfortable emotions expressed and, most importantly, shared with others experiencing a similar loss. Finally, each profile exemplifies the many heroic ways parents learn to live with their pain, and by so doing, honor the lives their children should have lived.


Once More We Saw Stars

Once More We Saw Stars

Author: Jayson Greene

Publisher: Vintage

Published: 2019-05-14

Total Pages: 258

ISBN-13: 1524733547

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“A gripping and beautiful book about the power of love in the face of unimaginable loss.” --Cheryl Strayed For readers of The Bright Hour and When Breath Becomes Air, a moving, transcendent memoir of loss and a stunning exploration of marriage in the wake of unimaginable grief. As the book opens: two-year-old Greta Greene is sitting with her grandmother on a park bench on the Upper West Side of Manhattan. A brick crumbles from a windowsill overhead, striking her unconscious, and she is immediately rushed to the hospital. But although it begins with this event and with the anguish Jayson and his wife, Stacy, confront in the wake of their daughter's trauma and the hours leading up to her death, Once More We Saw Stars quickly becomes a narrative that is as much about hope and healing as it is about grief and loss. Jayson recognizes, even in the midst of his ordeal, that there will be a life for him beyond it--that if only he can continue moving forward, from one moment to the next, he will survive what seems unsurvivable. With raw honesty, deep emotion, and exquisite tenderness, he captures both the fragility of life and absoluteness of death, and most important of all, the unconquerable power of love. This is an unforgettable memoir of courage and transformation--and a book that will change the way you look at the world.


The Grace Year

The Grace Year

Author: Kim Liggett

Publisher: Wednesday Books

Published: 2019-10-08

Total Pages: 362

ISBN-13: 1250145465

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The Instant New York Times Bestseller! Kim Liggett's The Grace Year is a speculative thriller in the vein of The Handmaid’s Tale and The Power. Survive the year. No one speaks of the grace year. It’s forbidden. In Garner County, girls are told they have the power to lure grown men from their beds, to drive women mad with jealousy. They believe their very skin emits a powerful aphrodisiac, the potent essence of youth, of a girl on the edge of womanhood. That’s why they’re banished for their sixteenth year, to release their magic into the wild so they can return purified and ready for marriage. But not all of them will make it home alive. Sixteen-year-old Tierney James dreams of a better life—a society that doesn’t pit friend against friend or woman against woman, but as her own grace year draws near, she quickly realizes that it’s not just the brutal elements they must fear. It’s not even the poachers in the woods, men who are waiting for a chance to grab one of the girls in order to make a fortune on the black market. Their greatest threat may very well be each other. With sharp prose and gritty realism, The Grace Year examines the complex and sometimes twisted relationships between girls, the women they eventually become, and the difficult decisions they make in-between. “A visceral, darkly haunting fever dream of a novel and an absolute page-turner.” – Libba Bray, New York Times bestselling author